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"A few cock pics are fine amongst other pics. It's when there are no pics except cock ones, that's when it gets boring and repetitive I've never seen a profile where it's only pussy pics..." | |||
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"People put up the pics they want to put up. If other people like them or don't like them then that's their prerogative. Men and women like different things but then not all men like the same things and not all women like the same things. Just put up the pics you like best " yeah and i agree with you... but what am asking is why do women complain when us men do it? | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? " What puts women off are nothing but endless cock pics and nothing else. I have to say that equally, if I could see nothing but the pussy then it would do nothing for me and tell me nothing about whether I am attracted to the person it belongs to! | |||
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"People put up the pics they want to put up. If other people like them or don't like them then that's their prerogative. Men and women like different things but then not all men like the same things and not all women like the same things. Just put up the pics you like best yeah and i agree with you... but what am asking is why do women complain when us men do it? " | |||
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"People put up the pics they want to put up. If other people like them or don't like them then that's their prerogative. Men and women like different things but then not all men like the same things and not all women like the same things. Just put up the pics you like best yeah and i agree with you... but what am asking is why do women complain when us men do it? " some women complain, others don't | |||
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"Come back when most of the women's profiles are ones with no pictures, or 5-6 pictures of only their vagina close-up, then it'd be similar " Quite! And when most women have blank profiles or profiles saying some variation of "I am looking for women for fun". Often followed by 127 lines of Sydney University warnings. | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? What puts women off are nothing but endless cock pics and nothing else. I have to say that equally, if I could see nothing but the pussy then it would do nothing for me and tell me nothing about whether I am attracted to the person it belongs to!" i understand what you are saying mate and i totally agree. but they not just referring to men with all cock pics on their profile... they also meant men who has normal face pics etc on their profile but having a cock pic up on desplay | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? What puts women off are nothing but endless cock pics and nothing else. I have to say that equally, if I could see nothing but the pussy then it would do nothing for me and tell me nothing about whether I am attracted to the person it belongs to!" i understand what you are saying mate and i totally agree. but they not just referring to men with all cock pics on their profile... they also meant men who has normal face pics etc on their profile but having a cock pic up on display | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? What puts women off are nothing but endless cock pics and nothing else. I have to say that equally, if I could see nothing but the pussy then it would do nothing for me and tell me nothing about whether I am attracted to the person it belongs to! i understand what you are saying mate and i totally agree. but they not just referring to men with all cock pics on their profile... they also meant men who has normal face pics etc on their profile but having a cock pic up on desplay" In general they aren't although some women just don't like cock photos. They see it as a stranger waving his cock in their face, (personally I detest close-up cock avatars for that reason). But most women wouldn't complain if guys had just one or two as part of a selection. How many male profiles do you look at? Do you know how many guys have numerous cock pics and nothing else? It's just too much. | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? " | |||
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"because they are women! lol (stirring the pot.....im ready!) Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? " Yes, and we like arty and aesthetically beautiful things. Which most cocks aren't. We know you love them and are very proud of them but most are just not appealing to look at. (Stirring back in the other direction) | |||
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"This again? Why do you assume men and women think the same way and like the same things? Men tend to be turned on by photos. Many like graphic photos and pussy shots. Not all, admittedly, but some. Most women are not turned on by graphic photos. Some of us want to see one or two cock pics mixed in with others. Not lots of cock photos or nothing but cock photos. The aim is to appeal to the people we want to attract. Women put up the photos that attract the men they want. Why on Earth can men not just listen to us when we say what we like and what we don't, and do the bloody same?! You can moan we *should* like cock photos, (even though most on here are very, very poor and some are actually revolting), that the mere image if the little chap you are so proud of *should* have us wet and salivating but, in general, it doesn't work like that. Consider this. Men tend to like photos of men in stockings and suspenders. For many women, (not all), seeing photos of a man in stockings and suspenders would be a turn-off. Is that double standards? Women and men tend to be turned on by different things! WHY is this so hard to understand? And even if it were double standards, which it isn't, surely the sensible thing to do, still, is to listen to what women tell you they like and don't like and be guided by it. I mean, "I get turned on by graphic photos of naked women so it's not fair (which is what double standards are) if they aren't turned on by graphic photos of me." Really? REALLY?!" Well said that lady | |||
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"Ooops just noticed my typo above. Men tend to like photos of men in stockings and suspenders. should read Men tend to like photos of women in stockings and suspenders." I think it was right the first time. | |||
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"This again? Why do you assume men and women think the same way and like the same things? Men tend to be turned on by photos. Many like graphic photos and pussy shots. Not all, admittedly, but some. Most women are not turned on by graphic photos. Some of us want to see one or two cock pics mixed in with others. Not lots of cock photos or nothing but cock photos. The aim is to appeal to the people we want to attract. Women put up the photos that attract the men they want. Why on Earth can men not just listen to us when we say what we like and what we don't, and do the bloody same?! You can moan we *should* like cock photos, (even though most on here are very, very poor and some are actually revolting), that the mere image if the little chap you are so proud of *should* have us wet and salivating but, in general, it doesn't work like that. Consider this. Men tend to like photos of men in stockings and suspenders. For many women, (not all), seeing photos of a man in stockings and suspenders would be a turn-off. Is that double standards? Women and men tend to be turned on by different things! WHY is this so hard to understand? And even if it were double standards, which it isn't, surely the sensible thing to do, still, is to listen to what women tell you they like and don't like and be guided by it. I mean, "I get turned on by graphic photos of naked women so it's not fair (which is what double standards are) if they aren't turned on by graphic photos of me." Really? REALLY?! Well said that lady " If I sound slightly exasperated it's because I am! I don't understand why this is so hard to grasp. | |||
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"Ooops just noticed my typo above. Men tend to like photos of men in stockings and suspenders. should read Men tend to like photos of women in stockings and suspenders. I think it was right the first time. " Possibly It wasn't what I meant though. | |||
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"People put up the pics they want to put up. If other people like them or don't like them then that's their prerogative. Men and women like different things but then not all men like the same things and not all women like the same things. Just put up the pics you like best " | |||
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"I don't have mine on display. I think each to their own though. Your profile. Your choice when it comes to photos. Yet again it's another thing people spend so long thinking about on other profiles.. Mind your own and use this site for what YOU want. It makes it far more enjoyable " Same here. I haven't even got my bare boobs on show. | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? " True mate! Bloody split arses! Snakes with tits mate i tell you.... | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? True mate! Bloody split arses! Snakes with tits mate i tell you.... " That's us. Dreadful, every one of us! | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? What puts women off are nothing but endless cock pics and nothing else. I have to say that equally, if I could see nothing but the pussy then it would do nothing for me and tell me nothing about whether I am attracted to the person it belongs to! i understand what you are saying mate and i totally agree. but they not just referring to men with all cock pics on their profile... they also meant men who has normal face pics etc on their profile but having a cock pic up on display" you don't walk into a pub/club and slap your penis on the table and say hey look at that, is anyone interested do you? no so why do it on fab, yes its a swingers site but i detest cock pics it's certainly not classy especially when there is a tv remote beside it | |||
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"This again? Why do you assume men and women think the same way and like the same things? Men tend to be turned on by photos. Many like graphic photos and pussy shots. Not all, admittedly, but some. Most women are not turned on by graphic photos. Some of us want to see one or two cock pics mixed in with others. Not lots of cock photos or nothing but cock photos. The aim is to appeal to the people we want to attract. Women put up the photos that attract the men they want. Why on Earth can men not just listen to us when we say what we like and what we don't, and do the bloody same?! You can moan we *should* like cock photos, (even though most on here are very, very poor and some are actually revolting), that the mere image if the little chap you are so proud of *should* have us wet and salivating but, in general, it doesn't work like that. Consider this. Men tend to like photos of men in stockings and suspenders. For many women, (not all), seeing photos of a man in stockings and suspenders would be a turn-off. Is that double standards? Women and men tend to be turned on by different things! WHY is this so hard to understand? And even if it were double standards, which it isn't, surely the sensible thing to do, still, is to listen to what women tell you they like and don't like and be guided by it. I mean, "I get turned on by graphic photos of naked women so it's not fair (which is what double standards are) if they aren't turned on by graphic photos of me." Really? REALLY?! Well said that lady If I sound slightly exasperated it's because I am! I don't understand why this is so hard to grasp." You're saying it like it is | |||
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"Because women have historically objectified by guys and their bodies perceived as sex objects. Therefore it's often subconsciously considered that women's bodies are public property and should be shown publicly, while men's aren't. Basically, you're feeling the negative effects of patriarchy. Would you like to work with feminists around the world to try and change these double standards?" You often say 'historically' - in what time period are we talking here? Definitely not Roman - it was the phallic symbol graffitied over Pompeii, not Venus. | |||
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"Because women have historically objectified by guys and their bodies perceived as sex objects. Therefore it's often subconsciously considered that women's bodies are public property and should be shown publicly, while men's aren't. Basically, you're feeling the negative effects of patriarchy. Would you like to work with feminists around the world to try and change these double standards? You often say 'historically' - in what time period are we talking here? Definitely not Roman - it was the phallic symbol graffitied over Pompeii, not Venus. " The focus changed from male bodies to female bodies in the artistic canon over about the last 200 years or so IIRC (art historian, but the history of the Salon is not my area). However women's bodies have been public property in a non-art context for much longer than that. | |||
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"This again? Why do you assume men and women think the same way and like the same things? Men tend to be turned on by photos. Many like graphic photos and pussy shots. Not all, admittedly, but some. Most women are not turned on by graphic photos. Some of us want to see one or two cock pics mixed in with others. Not lots of cock photos or nothing but cock photos. The aim is to appeal to the people we want to attract. Women put up the photos that attract the men they want. Why on Earth can men not just listen to us when we say what we like and what we don't, and do the bloody same?! You can moan we *should* like cock photos, (even though most on here are very, very poor and some are actually revolting), that the mere image if the little chap you are so proud of *should* have us wet and salivating but, in general, it doesn't work like that. Consider this. Men tend to like photos of men in stockings and suspenders. For many women, (not all), seeing photos of a man in stockings and suspenders would be a turn-off. Is that double standards? Women and men tend to be turned on by different things! WHY is this so hard to understand? And even if it were double standards, which it isn't, surely the sensible thing to do, still, is to listen to what women tell you they like and don't like and be guided by it. I mean, "I get turned on by graphic photos of naked women so it's not fair (which is what double standards are) if they aren't turned on by graphic photos of me." Really? REALLY?!" HUH!!! where in my post did i said women should love cock pics? did you actually read what i said? read it again maam... take your time this time. I was just asking is it fair for someone to complain about something but at the same time they are doing that same thing | |||
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"This again? Why do you assume men and women think the same way and like the same things? Men tend to be turned on by photos. Many like graphic photos and pussy shots. Not all, admittedly, but some. Most women are not turned on by graphic photos. Some of us want to see one or two cock pics mixed in with others. Not lots of cock photos or nothing but cock photos. The aim is to appeal to the people we want to attract. Women put up the photos that attract the men they want. Why on Earth can men not just listen to us when we say what we like and what we don't, and do the bloody same?! You can moan we *should* like cock photos, (even though most on here are very, very poor and some are actually revolting), that the mere image if the little chap you are so proud of *should* have us wet and salivating but, in general, it doesn't work like that. Consider this. Men tend to like photos of men in stockings and suspenders. For many women, (not all), seeing photos of a man in stockings and suspenders would be a turn-off. Is that double standards? Women and men tend to be turned on by different things! WHY is this so hard to understand? And even if it were double standards, which it isn't, surely the sensible thing to do, still, is to listen to what women tell you they like and don't like and be guided by it. I mean, "I get turned on by graphic photos of naked women so it's not fair (which is what double standards are) if they aren't turned on by graphic photos of me." Really? REALLY?! HUH!!! where in my post did i said women should love cock pics? did you actually read what i said? read it again maam... take your time this time. I was just asking is it fair for someone to complain about something but at the same time they are doing that same thing " Yes I read it. You're asking why (some) women complain about cock pics when some of us show fanny photos. Answer because they don't like cock pics, (or don't like just cock pics or loads of them. Or revolting ones). You apparently don't realise this, or understand it or you wouldn't need to ask. I've explained to you why it's not a double standard. I don't know how to be clearer. Women and men tend to like different things. Some women (not me, for one), are doing something men tend to like (or at least don't mind). A lot of men are doing something women do not like. They aren't the same thing. Women don't like numerous cock pics and nothing else. If women tended to have numerous fanny pics and nothing else, and men didn't like fanny pics and complained about them AND the women with the fanny pics complained about cock pics, then they'd be being hypocrites. It ain't like that. Not even close. And I didn't say you said women should love cock pics. Maybe you are the one that needs to read more carefully. Would it make you happier if all the women removed their fanny pics? Do you actually dislike them? Have you seen a female profile, never mind hundreds of them, with numerous cock photos and nothing else? | |||
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" I was just asking is it fair for someone to complain about something but at the same time they are doing that same thing " Short answer. Yes it's fair since they are complaining about something they don't like, whereas what they are doing is something the people intended to see it generally do like it. They're doing the same thing in terms of action but the effect is different. (Most) women aren't doing something a lot of men complain about. (Some) men are doing something a lot of women do dislike. They're not remotely the same. | |||
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" I was just asking is it fair for someone to complain about something but at the same time they are doing that same thing Short answer. Yes it's fair since they are complaining about something they don't like, whereas what they are doing is something the people intended to see it generally do like it. They're doing the same thing in terms of action but the effect is different. (Most) women aren't doing something a lot of men complain about. (Some) men are doing something a lot of women do dislike. They're not remotely the same." I cant win against you enit? | |||
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"You know what women are like,they love something to moan about. Don't take any notice and do what you want to do " I moan a LOT in bed!! | |||
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"You know what women are like,they love something to moan about. Don't take any notice and do what you want to do I moan a LOT in bed!! " Don't I know it | |||
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" I was just asking is it fair for someone to complain about something but at the same time they are doing that same thing Short answer. Yes it's fair since they are complaining about something they don't like, whereas what they are doing is something the people intended to see it generally do like it. They're doing the same thing in terms of action but the effect is different. (Most) women aren't doing something a lot of men complain about. (Some) men are doing something a lot of women do dislike. They're not remotely the same. I cant win against you enit? " It's not about winning. You asked for an explanation. I gave one. You've not explained why my explanation doesn't make sense or how the two things are the same, given the differences I pointed out. Why do you care so much that a lot of women don't like cock pics? Are you that desperate to show it? Two options - Show it. It's your profile. Accept it will put some women off and lessen your chances of a meet. Consider whether those that are put off are the people you'd be wanting to meet anyway. Listen to what women say they like and don't like and use it as a guide to make your profile as attractive as possible to the people you're interested in. You're effectively selling yourself here. When companies sell stuff they do market research to find out what consumers want and how to advertise the product most effectively. That seems like a sensible approach here too. But it's your profile. | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? " . Yep double standards, profile with tons of pics of road kill, but complain at male profiles with just lampposts. | |||
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" I cant win against you enit? It's not about winning. You asked for an explanation. I gave one. " | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? " Who the hell ever suggested that life was fair? | |||
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"This again? Why do you assume men and women think the same way and like the same things? Men tend to be turned on by photos. Many like graphic photos and pussy shots. Not all, admittedly, but some. Most women are not turned on by graphic photos. Some of us want to see one or two cock pics mixed in with others. Not lots of cock photos or nothing but cock photos. The aim is to appeal to the people we want to attract. Women put up the photos that attract the men they want. Why on Earth can men not just listen to us when we say what we like and what we don't, and do the bloody same?! You can moan we *should* like cock photos, (even though most on here are very, very poor and some are actually revolting), that the mere image if the little chap you are so proud of *should* have us wet and salivating but, in general, it doesn't work like that. Consider this. Men tend to like photos of men in stockings and suspenders. For many women, (not all), seeing photos of a man in stockings and suspenders would be a turn-off. Is that double standards? Women and men tend to be turned on by different things! WHY is this so hard to understand? And even if it were double standards, which it isn't, surely the sensible thing to do, still, is to listen to what women tell you they like and don't like and be guided by it. I mean, "I get turned on by graphic photos of naked women so it's not fair (which is what double standards are) if they aren't turned on by graphic photos of me." Really? REALLY?! HUH!!! where in my post did i said women should love cock pics? did you actually read what i said? read it again maam... take your time this time. I was just asking is it fair for someone to complain about something but at the same time they are doing that same thing " It's hypocrisy. I don't looking at a man's profile and seeing most of his pics are of a woman and his cock or hand,but I have pics on my profile of me and a friend where his cock and lower body is showing,and just my hands and a bit of boob. What I like differs to what someone else likes. | |||
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"Has the same woman who complains about cock pics got a load of fanny pics on her profile or is this just a generalisation? I don't have any on mine not even in private, and I'm also not a fan on being sent 10 cock pics in a 1st message from a guy - hi and here are 10 pics of my mighty cock from different angles " I haven't even got bare boob photos on mine, despite being asked for them frequently but apparently all women have fanny photos and we all complain about all cock photos, even when it's just one or two mixed in with others. | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? . Yep double standards, profile with tons of pics of road kill, but complain at male profiles with just lampposts." pmsl... lol | |||
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"This again? Why do you assume men and women think the same way and like the same things? Men tend to be turned on by photos. Many like graphic photos and pussy shots. Not all, admittedly, but some. Most women are not turned on by graphic photos. Some of us want to see one or two cock pics mixed in with others. Not lots of cock photos or nothing but cock photos. The aim is to appeal to the people we want to attract. Women put up the photos that attract the men they want. Why on Earth can men not just listen to us when we say what we like and what we don't, and do the bloody same?! You can moan we *should* like cock photos, (even though most on here are very, very poor and some are actually revolting), that the mere image if the little chap you are so proud of *should* have us wet and salivating but, in general, it doesn't work like that. Consider this. Men tend to like photos of men in stockings and suspenders. For many women, (not all), seeing photos of a man in stockings and suspenders would be a turn-off. Is that double standards? Women and men tend to be turned on by different things! WHY is this so hard to understand? And even if it were double standards, which it isn't, surely the sensible thing to do, still, is to listen to what women tell you they like and don't like and be guided by it. I mean, "I get turned on by graphic photos of naked women so it's not fair (which is what double standards are) if they aren't turned on by graphic photos of me." Really? REALLY?! HUH!!! where in my post did i said women should love cock pics? did you actually read what i said? read it again maam... take your time this time. I was just asking is it fair for someone to complain about something but at the same time they are doing that same thing It's hypocrisy. I don't looking at a man's profile and seeing most of his pics are of a woman and his cock or hand,but I have pics on my profile of me and a friend where his cock and lower body is showing,and just my hands and a bit of boob. What I like differs to what someone else likes. " Fair enough. We can agree to disagree. I think the two things are very different. I rarely see men complain about fanny photos, and even then it's usually only the ones that show tonsils. Fanny photos are popular, just check out the hot photos section. Men fab them. Yet women frequently complain about men having nothing but a load of cock photos. One thing liked by the target audience, one thing not liked by the target audience. Different things. Polar opposites actually. | |||
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"Has the same woman who complains about cock pics got a load of fanny pics on her profile or is this just a generalisation? I don't have any on mine not even in private, and I'm also not a fan on being sent 10 cock pics in a 1st message from a guy - hi and here are 10 pics of my mighty cock from different angles " yes she had her fanny there right in everyone's face.... which i didn't had a prob with at all | |||
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"Has the same woman who complains about cock pics got a load of fanny pics on her profile or is this just a generalisation? I don't have any on mine not even in private, and I'm also not a fan on being sent 10 cock pics in a 1st message from a guy - hi and here are 10 pics of my mighty cock from different angles yes she had her fanny there right in everyone's face.... which i didn't had a prob with at all " Precisely my point. Why should her doing something you don't mind make you feel you have a right to do something she does mind? And complain it's "unfair" when she tells you she doesn't like it. She's done nothing you don't like. | |||
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"Has the same woman who complains about cock pics got a load of fanny pics on her profile or is this just a generalisation? I don't have any on mine not even in private, and I'm also not a fan on being sent 10 cock pics in a 1st message from a guy - hi and here are 10 pics of my mighty cock from different angles yes she had her fanny there right in everyone's face.... which i didn't had a prob with at all " So she has clearly marketed her profile for her target audience and doesn't wish to see cock pics. Can't see the problem myself. | |||
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"Has the same woman who complains about cock pics got a load of fanny pics on her profile or is this just a generalisation? I don't have any on mine not even in private, and I'm also not a fan on being sent 10 cock pics in a 1st message from a guy - hi and here are 10 pics of my mighty cock from different angles yes she had her fanny there right in everyone's face.... which i didn't had a prob with at all Precisely my point. Why should her doing something you don't mind make you feel you have a right to do something she does mind? And complain it's "unfair" when she tells you she doesn't like it. She's done nothing you don't like." just because me personally dont mind a woman having her fanny up doesn't mean all men in general dont mind. I'm sure there are some men on here that are equally offended by a woman having her fanny in their face just as you said some women are having men willy waving in their face | |||
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"Has the same woman who complains about cock pics got a load of fanny pics on her profile or is this just a generalisation? I don't have any on mine not even in private, and I'm also not a fan on being sent 10 cock pics in a 1st message from a guy - hi and here are 10 pics of my mighty cock from different angles yes she had her fanny there right in everyone's face.... which i didn't had a prob with at all Precisely my point. Why should her doing something you don't mind make you feel you have a right to do something she does mind? And complain it's "unfair" when she tells you she doesn't like it. She's done nothing you don't like. just because me personally dont mind a woman having her fanny up doesn't mean all men in general dont mind. I'm sure there are some men on here that are equally offended by a woman having her fanny in their face just as you said some women are having men willy waving in their face " Possibly but why does it bother you? | |||
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"A few cock pics are fine amongst other pics. It's when there are no pics except cock ones, that's when it gets boring and repetitive I've never seen a profile where it's only pussy pics..." Plenty of nothing but cleavage shots though.. | |||
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"People put up the pics they want to put up. If other people like them or don't like them then that's their prerogative. Men and women like different things but then not all men like the same things and not all women like the same things. Just put up the pics you like best yeah and i agree with you... but what am asking is why do women complain when us men do it? " Women don't upload solely pussy pics, they upload body pics too, whereas men tend to solely upload just cock pics and thats what the complaint is. Theres more to a mans body to show than just his cock | |||
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"I want to know where these bloody statistics come from, 80% of women don't like cock pictures on display? What what! Absurd, I'm a champion of encouraging men to display their proud public penis pictures. Cock, face, full body. If you have those pics on your public profile you're ticking the boxes. " Its the magic 80% again. Whenever a stat is needed but no one can be arsed to check its always 80%.. | |||
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"Has the same woman who complains about cock pics got a load of fanny pics on her profile or is this just a generalisation? I don't have any on mine not even in private, and I'm also not a fan on being sent 10 cock pics in a 1st message from a guy - hi and here are 10 pics of my mighty cock from different angles yes she had her fanny there right in everyone's face.... which i didn't had a prob with at all Precisely my point. Why should her doing something you don't mind make you feel you have a right to do something she does mind? And complain it's "unfair" when she tells you she doesn't like it. She's done nothing you don't like. just because me personally dont mind a woman having her fanny up doesn't mean all men in general dont mind. I'm sure there are some men on here that are equally offended by a woman having her fanny in their face just as you said some women are having men willy waving in their face Possibly but why does it bother you?" who said it bothered me? i didn't said that. I'm totally fine. i was just asking a question. i think a lot of ppl on this thread dont read the original post before commenting. i suggest you do | |||
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"Has the same woman who complains about cock pics got a load of fanny pics on her profile or is this just a generalisation? I don't have any on mine not even in private, and I'm also not a fan on being sent 10 cock pics in a 1st message from a guy - hi and here are 10 pics of my mighty cock from different angles yes she had her fanny there right in everyone's face.... which i didn't had a prob with at all Precisely my point. Why should her doing something you don't mind make you feel you have a right to do something she does mind? And complain it's "unfair" when she tells you she doesn't like it. She's done nothing you don't like. just because me personally dont mind a woman having her fanny up doesn't mean all men in general dont mind. I'm sure there are some men on here that are equally offended by a woman having her fanny in their face just as you said some women are having men willy waving in their face Possibly but why does it bother you? who said it bothered me? i didn't said that. I'm totally fine. i was just asking a question. i think a lot of ppl on this thread dont read the original post before commenting. i suggest you do " I have hun, it might be somewhat hypocritical but people can do what they like on here as long as its within the site rules. You've stated you like pussy pics but then state some men might be offended by it, who cares if the actions of others offend other complete strangers, it has no bearing on how you go about your business on here. | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? " Do what you like its your choice if it means you get fuck all meets then there is more for me. | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? Do what you like its your choice if it means you get fuck all meets then there is more for me." | |||
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"A few cock pics are fine amongst other pics. It's when there are no pics except cock ones, that's when it gets boring and repetitive I've never seen a profile where it's only pussy pics... Plenty of nothing but cleavage shots though.." Not really the same as a cock though is it? I've not heard women complaining about bare chested men. Of course, if the men would rather all women took down all their photos showing boobs, bums, fannies and all... But I suspect that wouldn't suit either. | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? " 80%... I don't think that's right... Interesting statistic 98% of Manchester United fans have never been to old Trafford. | |||
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"Has the same woman who complains about cock pics got a load of fanny pics on her profile or is this just a generalisation? I don't have any on mine not even in private, and I'm also not a fan on being sent 10 cock pics in a 1st message from a guy - hi and here are 10 pics of my mighty cock from different angles yes she had her fanny there right in everyone's face.... which i didn't had a prob with at all Precisely my point. Why should her doing something you don't mind make you feel you have a right to do something she does mind? And complain it's "unfair" when she tells you she doesn't like it. She's done nothing you don't like. just because me personally dont mind a woman having her fanny up doesn't mean all men in general dont mind. I'm sure there are some men on here that are equally offended by a woman having her fanny in their face just as you said some women are having men willy waving in their face " So you're objecting and considering it fair to do something she doesn't like because she may possibly have done something some other man doesn't like. Even though she's probably never complained to him about cock photos. Makes absolutely sense and sounds totally fair. Most cock avs are ugly. But if you want to drive women away before you even start, when it's difficult enough for men to get meets here as it is, have at it! | |||
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"Has the same woman who complains about cock pics got a load of fanny pics on her profile or is this just a generalisation? I don't have any on mine not even in private, and I'm also not a fan on being sent 10 cock pics in a 1st message from a guy - hi and here are 10 pics of my mighty cock from different angles yes she had her fanny there right in everyone's face.... which i didn't had a prob with at all Precisely my point. Why should her doing something you don't mind make you feel you have a right to do something she does mind? And complain it's "unfair" when she tells you she doesn't like it. She's done nothing you don't like. just because me personally dont mind a woman having her fanny up doesn't mean all men in general dont mind. I'm sure there are some men on here that are equally offended by a woman having her fanny in their face just as you said some women are having men willy waving in their face Possibly but why does it bother you?" Because how dare we not think their cocks are gorgeous? They like our fannies so they're doing their part. What the fuck is wrong with women? We're not playing fair! *sound of stamping feet* | |||
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"A few cock pics are fine amongst other pics. It's when there are no pics except cock ones, that's when it gets boring and repetitive I've never seen a profile where it's only pussy pics..." I can think of at least 3 without even trying, but I am not naming and shaming anyone... | |||
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"On a lighter note neither shrivelled up sausages or oven ready turkeys do it for me ....rather see a nice torso or face." We couldn't agree more! | |||
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"Lets be honest here - this is primarily a sex dating/meeting site and with that comes an understanding - spoken ir not - that everyone here wants sex, so in that context they show off their own bodies, to try and attract others - now that's not for everyone that's fr sure, but as they say, "if you don't like what you see you don't have to buy it" - do you ?? " well said mate | |||
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"Ooops just noticed my typo above. Men tend to like photos of men in stockings and suspenders. should read Men tend to like photos of women in stockings and suspenders." Suits us! With but one tiny caveat - the guy doesn't look like Barbara from the league of gentlemen. | |||
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"A few cock pics are fine amongst other pics. It's when there are no pics except cock ones, that's when it gets boring and repetitive I've never seen a profile where it's only pussy pics..." I think you should go to specsavers | |||
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"This again? Why do you assume men and women think the same way and like the same things? Men tend to be turned on by photos. Many like graphic photos and pussy shots. Not all, admittedly, but some. Most women are not turned on by graphic photos. Some of us want to see one or two cock pics mixed in with others. Not lots of cock photos or nothing but cock photos. The aim is to appeal to the people we want to attract. Women put up the photos that attract the men they want. Why on Earth can men not just listen to us when we say what we like and what we don't, and do the bloody same?! You can moan we *should* like cock photos, (even though most on here are very, very poor and some are actually revolting), that the mere image if the little chap you are so proud of *should* have us wet and salivating but, in general, it doesn't work like that. Consider this. Men tend to like photos of men in stockings and suspenders. For many women, (not all), seeing photos of a man in stockings and suspenders would be a turn-off. Is that double standards? Women and men tend to be turned on by different things! WHY is this so hard to understand? And even if it were double standards, which it isn't, surely the sensible thing to do, still, is to listen to what women tell you they like and don't like and be guided by it. I mean, "I get turned on by graphic photos of naked women so it's not fair (which is what double standards are) if they aren't turned on by graphic photos of me." Really? REALLY?! HUH!!! where in my post did i said women should love cock pics? did you actually read what i said? read it again maam... take your time this time. I was just asking is it fair for someone to complain about something but at the same time they are doing that same thing It's hypocrisy. I don't looking at a man's profile and seeing most of his pics are of a woman and his cock or hand,but I have pics on my profile of me and a friend where his cock and lower body is showing,and just my hands and a bit of boob. What I like differs to what someone else likes. " I guess seeing it as hypocritical depends on whether you base your judgement on the ethics of the action or the consequences. On the action it would be hypocritical on the consequences it wouldn't. | |||
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"Some men will never cease to astound me. Damaging your chances on a site that's difficult enough for most men anyway, just to prove a point and ensure things are "fair". I await the thread about how it's not fair that nobody will meet." You are on a roll at the moment | |||
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"That and the fact women moan about everything " Haha least ur honest | |||
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"Here's a thought. If everyone had nothing but cock pics, what would the ladies do?" Ask them for some different photos? Or leave! | |||
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"Here's a thought. If everyone had nothing but cock pics, what would the ladies do?" Block every fucking one of them and start meeting women again. | |||
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"Here's a thought. If everyone had nothing but cock pics, what would the ladies do? Ask them for some different photos? Or leave!" well said | |||
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"Ok lads, cocks out! " N why not eh? Lol | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? " outraged!,,,id write to ones local mp | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? " In what way is it "unfair"? It's unfair of women to display their sexual organs (without being criticised)? But you've said that you think it's nice. So you think it's unfair that we don't like to see dick-pics? You actually want to change the biological mindset of 50% of the world's population, to make us visually attracted to dicks? I'm all for equality in education and the workplace etc, but when it comes to sexual attraction, you really can't expect women to think like men think. | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? In what way is it "unfair"? It's unfair of women to display their sexual organs (without being criticised)? But you've said that you think it's nice. So you think it's unfair that we don't like to see dick-pics? You actually want to change the biological mindset of 50% of the world's population, to make us visually attracted to dicks? I'm all for equality in education and the workplace etc, but when it comes to sexual attraction, you really can't expect women to think like men think." FWIW, I don't think that finding penis pictures attractive is anything to do with biology. | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? In what way is it "unfair"? It's unfair of women to display their sexual organs (without being criticised)? But you've said that you think it's nice. So you think it's unfair that we don't like to see dick-pics? You actually want to change the biological mindset of 50% of the world's population, to make us visually attracted to dicks? I'm all for equality in education and the workplace etc, but when it comes to sexual attraction, you really can't expect women to think like men think. FWIW, I don't think that finding penis pictures attractive is anything to do with biology." yea, | |||
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"plenty women seem to like a cock pic its a myth they dont" A cock pic, yes. I've not heard anyone get excited about profiles with 20 and no other photos. | |||
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"I understand what the ladies above are saying. Think of the diet adverts "Diet Coke break" with the topless man in them..." They need their lawns mowing? | |||
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"plenty women seem to like a cock pic its a myth they dont" its more like a myth they do, lovely torso and beautiful face does it for me not a cock,the face is the deal breaker here not ones genitals | |||
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"No pussy pics on my profile, some things for both men and women i like to leave some things to the imagination..." well said some things are for when you play with someone, not pussy and cock pics everywhere, a little mystery is far better and ive seen some truly horrendous pussy pics like road kill yuk | |||
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"Here's a thought. If everyone had nothing but cock pics, what would the ladies do? Block every fucking one of them and start meeting women again. " ...wouldn't blame them bless | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? " Not a lover of either. But I'm with you if she's showing her pussy she can't call you for showing your cock. | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to have their pussy up on their profile but moans and complain about men who has their cock up on their profile? am talking about a good 80% of the women on here. most of you ladies have your fanny on display and i think its nice... but why is it so bad for us men to have our dick on display? I think thats a bit double standard dont you think? " women rule here when you understand that you will have success | |||
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