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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on here twice now and I always seem to be getting nowhere is it something to do with my profile or am I going about this the wrong way? Or is it my age? Any help would be much appriciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age is probably a factor...

and the feet pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahh okay thanks for replying the feet pic is just because I didn't have any other picture to use as my profile picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest answer

I think your age is against you, not many people on here are after 19 year olds, some are though so finding a meet isnt a write off it will just take longer

Plus the bit on your profile where your telling people to reply to your message as its rude not to comes over as a bit stroppy and the last thing you need is to be seen as a stroppy 19 year old

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You do say you won't message first, that could hold you up a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's a fair point thank you for the honesty haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"That's a fair point thank you for the honesty haha"

I'm not a young single man obviously but from what I read it can be difficult to get started. Why not stick around, message, chat and keep your options open while you're getting on with life, what have you got to lose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's something really odd going on. Another profile has asked exactly the same question in this forum. Not merely the same topic as that seems to crop up often. It's exactly the same question word for word. Spooky huh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...or a bot/fake profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been here 2 weeks, profile Pics

you need to ask?

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"I've been on here twice now and I always seem to be getting nowhere is it something to do with my profile or am I going about this the wrong way? Or is it my age? Any help would be much appriciated "

I started at 25 and to be honest I didn't look much older than 19, however things were a little different I was married to woman 9yrs older than me for a start.

Though after our marriage ended, I continued to play/swing using MSN chat rooms & forums on sex. I made myself socially available, built up a rapport with with people/couples I spoke to. Swinging is not a quick fix lol it's an investment, you only get back what you put in & sometimes you might not even get that. Even the hottest couples on here have had fakes, let downs & time wasters,

So don't be disheartened, brighten up your profile picture, add a couple more, from different angles, keep a couple of private ones of your face, so if you do get talking & they enquire then you can show them.

Good luck

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"There's something really odd going on. Another profile has asked exactly the same question in this forum. Not merely the same topic as that seems to crop up often. It's exactly the same question word for word. Spooky huh! "

Yes, I've noticed this. There is a thread called '???' With exactly the same word for word question.

One of the OP's: either from this thread or the other has copied the other persons forum question. I wonder why? Couldn't they think of their own question? It casts doubts on both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on here twice now and I always seem to be getting nowhere is it something to do with my profile or am I going about this the wrong way? Or is it my age? Any help would be much appriciated "

The feet picture

No face picture untill you are going through with it.....? Sounds like you are being forced into something

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

You won't send a face pic until you "know you're going through with it"?

You expect women to commit to meet you with no idea what you look like?

Oh and the warning at the bottom of the profile is redundant and pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh okay thanks for replying the feet pic is just because I didn't have any other picture to use as my profile picture "

You own a device with access to all the knowledge that's ever been discovered in the history of the human race AND a camera and you don't have any pictures other than your feet for a sex site?

You could, you know, take some?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you get to a local social as that will get you known? If you have the right attitude - you'll do fine, it just may take a while. Stick with it though.

Sarah

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