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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One thing that you find is the most attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big boobs V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love nice arms, can't beat a good pair of biceps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A smile , good personalty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a thing for collarbones.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The ass...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheeky grin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lower back dimples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

EYES.....I'm a sucker for eyes ...and lips.....boobs......bums.....oh who cares,anything goes!!!!!

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By *ub_liminalTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast

Intelligence... ,big buns, And a dominant streak. . Xx.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Plump curvy hips (the love handles) flowing down and then around a peachy arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Teeth & Eyes

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By *oungladMan
over a year ago

Burnham

I think smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big boobs V "

Boo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eyes

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By *oungladMan
over a year ago

Burnham

Hard to pinpoint what it is that makes me fall at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Busters and eyes. That said, if their busters are really big they could look like Marty Feldman for all I care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big boobs V

Boo"

Ooooooooooo very nice, they are nice, perfect size x.

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By *oungladMan
over a year ago

Burnham


"Big boobs V

Boo"

Why boo? You've got them fantastic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big Chest to lie against. A big leg and a firm bum it's all in the power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big boobs V

Boo

Why boo? You've got them fantastic!"

Haha thank you. I mean boo as in I'm here not boo as in bad

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By *oungladMan
over a year ago

Burnham


"Big boobs V

Boo

Why boo? You've got them fantastic!

Haha thank you. I mean boo as in I'm here not boo as in bad "

Hard to imagine a surprise from you would result in anything near a scare. And nearly always excitement

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By *ohn 77Man
over a year ago

Newport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing that you find is the most attractive? "

Fit, and available for a couple of hours on a Saturday night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality

Eyes

Smile

Sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big boobs V

Boo

Why boo? You've got them fantastic!

Haha thank you. I mean boo as in I'm here not boo as in bad

Hard to imagine a surprise from you would result in anything near a scare. And nearly always excitement "

Hahaha thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initial interest for me is visual - on here it's normally complicated underwear, well-taken photos or just something clever or unusual in the photos.

After that initial interest, it's face - particularly eyes and the amazing things that a mouth can do.

But attraction doesn't build until we've chatted. And then it's all about the personality, the intelligent kink, and that mysterious something that just gives you an fuck-off instant horn

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"Personality

Eyes

Smile

Sense of humour

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All of the above. Oh and a pulse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Initial interest for me is visual - on here it's normally complicated underwear, well-taken photos or just something clever or unusual in the photos.

After that initial interest, it's face - particularly eyes and the amazing things that a mouth can do.

But attraction doesn't build until we've chatted. And then it's all about the personality, the intelligent kink, and that mysterious something that just gives you an fuck-off instant horn "

Wow you've added new photos and mmmmm might have to add you to hit list to keep up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A big Chest to lie against. A big leg and a firm bum it's all in the power "

I've got two legs bububu. Is that a positive or negative given that me bum's quite firm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big boobs V

Boo"

This actually made me laugh out loud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Initial interest for me is visual - on here it's normally complicated underwear, well-taken photos or just something clever or unusual in the photos.

After that initial interest, it's face - particularly eyes and the amazing things that a mouth can do.

But attraction doesn't build until we've chatted. And then it's all about the personality, the intelligent kink, and that mysterious something that just gives you an fuck-off instant horn

Wow you've added new photos and mmmmm might have to add you to hit list to keep up "

He is on mine amazing pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes ....can make some people look like a mass murderer.

People who don't take themselves seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes

And torso grrrrr

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"One thing that you find is the most attractive?

"

Brain lol xx

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

Yes and legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing that you find is the most attractive?

Brain lol xx"

Ppffffftt picky picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing that you find is the most attractive?

Brain lol xx

Ppffffftt picky picky "

Yea that's just a bonus

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Personality, if I can't get on with them, they won't be coming inside me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cheeky but fun personality. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eyes and smile

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"One thing that you find is the most attractive?

Brain lol xx"

That's my second favourite organ!

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

A smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personality

Eyes

Smile

Sense of humour

All of the above. Oh and a pulse. "

Pulse is optional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penis followed by a handsome face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soul and rhythm..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do like to look into peoples eyes -

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Slim body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to have a nice teeth,ie not brown or black ones, lovely eyes & a tight bum I can grab hold of. Mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beautiful legs. Can't resist them.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

The ability to banter, shows me they have a sense of humour and they understand you....

Need more men able to laugh me into bed!! Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon I could achieve that just by dropping my pants.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Well the reply made me laugh... Ha ha

You could be onto something there....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yay, I'm in.

No really, I am in. I can feel it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pulse usually does the trick for me

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"Yay, I'm in.

No really, I am in. I can feel it. "

Only feeling it? Lol

Was hoping you'd cop a feel of them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, given you asked so nicely, it would be more than a feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Initial interest for me is visual - on here it's normally complicated underwear, well-taken photos or just something clever or unusual in the photos.

After that initial interest, it's face - particularly eyes and the amazing things that a mouth can do.

But attraction doesn't build until we've chatted. And then it's all about the personality, the intelligent kink, and that mysterious something that just gives you an fuck-off instant horn

Wow you've added new photos and mmmmm might have to add you to hit list to keep up

He is on mine amazing pictures"

V here. Me too.

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By *llebWoman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde

Chest, strong arms.....and a really good rear.

That's the initial turn on, but a dense personality is a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ability to converse intelligently. And similar interests when it comes to kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically....their smile

Mentally....intelligence and the ability to hold a convo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definatly a confident, naughty personality

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

Social intelligence.

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By *ohn 77Man
over a year ago

Newport

Still I'm looking too many fake people around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligent cheeky wit and a matching cheeky face does it for me every time

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By *eedsbig9inMan
over a year ago

leeds

Very big boobs and thighs that are very curvy

Also love a big ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her legs and butt

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It varies and there needs to be a certain, indefinable combination of things, but I always look for full, kissable lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lower back dimples "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her desire to perform and her bum xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile and eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing that you find is the most attractive?

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Great Personality very rare these days!

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By *y_1Man
over a year ago

Here n there

Personality always tufns me on but there are a lot of shy people out there where thrir personality is hidden behind the shyness or nervousness but i would say 1:personality 2 eyes 3 smile

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By *rRetourMan
over a year ago

T.Wells

A naughty personality...and eyes that swallow my own...

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By *ullen2013Couple
over a year ago

gillingham


"EYES.....I'm a sucker for eyes ...and lips.....boobs......bums.....oh who cares,anything goes!!!!! "

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By *ullen2013Couple
over a year ago

gillingham

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pulse ..

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"One thing that you find is the most attractive?

"

It's the unknown element that 'just is' it can not be quantified, you can't put your finger on it, can not be described, it is what it is..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His attitude towards other living things. And his teeth,I like crooked teeth and smiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Her desire to perform and her bum xx"

I love getting up on stage in my tap shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour oh n face,,oh n fit,,oh n they must like my dog

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

How big his heart is firstly.

He would need to be a passionate Dominant guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality is a deal maker/deal breaker for me. If we connect, think on the same wavelength and 'get' each other's humour then the rest is easy.

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Personal quality wise I'd say 'honesty' because without that you can't trust that anything else is real. Physically it's all in the kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A decent attitude to start with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a ladies eyes that I look for first.

A guy, 2 things. Is he ok looking and does he have a big cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eyes ....can make some people look like a mass murderer.

People who don't take themselves seriously "

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By *ySweetLadyWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *ySweetLadyWoman
over a year ago

London

Physically....their smile

Mentally....intelligence and the ability to hold a convo

Oh, and their eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lovely smile and beautiful eyes! If they're nice the rest will be. The lovelier the smile and the sparklier the eyes, I've found, the more interesting and exciting the personality and the more adventurous, energetic and sensual the sex! I've found it to be true for every woman I've ever shagged!

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By *hristine and MarieCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Somewhere north of Spalding

Left leaning political opinions (and if they love star trek so much the better but that's 2 things obviously)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a nice bulging suited packet mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction for me comes from kindness compassionate understanding and passion

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By *ohnyorkMan
over a year ago

york

Pretty eyes gets me every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice eyes, nice smile, and a great sense of humour, not neccessarily in that order though

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By *tillwaterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Eyes"

This definitely... boobs and bums are great but a girl with sexy eyes has me wrapped around her finger

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By *tillwaterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"EYES.....I'm a sucker for eyes ...and lips.....boobs......bums.....oh who cares,anything goes!!!!! "

Didn't know eyes were so popular thought I was the only one haha

This quote is perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good manners, great legs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice eyes

witty personality

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By *londie bearWoman
over a year ago

Bexley-ish

Honesty and a great sense of humour x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's:

Face

Honesty

Body

I even toyed with putting honesty first. Major turnoff when the person you chat with is leading you on just for the attention with no interest in meeting etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice smile / personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone interesting but I have a weakness for a peachy ass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes, smile, attitude and class.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Someone that can string together a sentence & actually say more than "Yeah" "I know" after you'd sent them a nicely written message..Might give up & just say "Wanna fck?" probs have more success :D x H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone that can string together a sentence & actually say more than "Yeah" "I know" after you'd sent them a nicely written message..Might give up & just say "Wanna fck?" probs have more success :D

x

H"

Don't turn into a FaF'er fight the corner for people who actually engage in conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy voice

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Someone that can string together a sentence & actually say more than "Yeah" "I know" after you'd sent them a nicely written message..Might give up & just say "Wanna fck?" probs have more success :D

x

H

Don't turn into a FaF'er fight the corner for people who actually engage in conversation "

Yeah ok.

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By *rchie_pMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Boring one but they have to be funny and have sexy eyes .... And don't answer messages with "k" thats annoying haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feet.. The final hurdle.. I really need cute sexy well cared for feet..

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By *rchie_pMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Feet.. The final hurdle.. I really need cute sexy well cared for feet.."

No feet!!!

they are my kryptonite lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As cliché as it sounds, personality. I would never be able to compromise on this. Looks wise it's eyes and bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have a good looking sister.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy eyes mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being certifiably insane is a nice bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who likes high heels... No idea why didn't mention that earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice eyes. Teeth and feet are essential amongst the obvious

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By *ilvercharmCouple
over a year ago

Our gate

Hubs was just driving me to work, I said oooo look at her hair. It was beautiful long, blonde with kinks looked lovely, I looks down ummmm look at her ass lol that was fitting to, would have liked a pinch of it

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