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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tried looking on this site for a real cougar/milf but so far not no avail. Maybe I've watched too much porn haha but my definition of a milf isn't someone who's just had a kid. They have to be of a certain age (maybe 12-15+ years) and have to have that insatiable appetite for a younger blood - whilst still coming across pristine, classy and seductive. Maybe I have watched too much porn and my perception is just skewered haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tried looking on this site for a real cougar/milf but so far not no avail. Maybe I've watched too much porn haha but my definition of a milf isn't someone who's just had a kid. They have to be of a certain age (maybe 12-15+ years) and have to have that insatiable appetite for a younger blood - whilst still coming across pristine, classy and seductive. Maybe I have watched too much porn and my perception is just skewered haha.

"

I think you might have done

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

I guess people don't promote how old their children are... But I am certain their are miles all over the place on here

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Milfs... Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kids are 10, 12 and 24!

I can discuss politics, literature, theology, theatre, current affairs etc etc.

I like good food, good wine and good conversation!

When it comes to intercourse I'm broad minded, kinky and insatiable!

That do you op?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My kids are 10, 12 and 24!

I can discuss politics, literature, theology, theatre, current affairs etc etc.

I like good food, good wine and good conversation!

When it comes to intercourse I'm broad minded, kinky and insatiable!

That do you op? "

Definitely ticks all the boxes I think to qualify as a milf haha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had a private message saying most women find it offensive at being called a milf/cougar. I think it is a real compliment to be called either!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess people don't promote how old their children are... But I am certain their are miles all over the place on here "

Where are they?! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think milf porn is the most searched type of porn - at least I'm not alone ??

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Had a private message saying most women find it offensive at being called a milf/cougar. I think it is a real compliment to be called either!"

Not offensive just cringeworthy..

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"Tried looking on this site for a real cougar/milf but so far not no avail. Maybe I've watched too much porn haha but my definition of a milf isn't someone who's just had a kid. They have to be of a certain age (maybe 12-15+ years) and have to have that insatiable appetite for a younger blood - whilst still coming across pristine, classy and seductive. Maybe I have watched too much porn and my perception is just skewered haha.

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I'd say Milfs vary from a point point of view. A hot mature woman to me could be a Milf to you. I mean honestly I know some really hot women that are Grandma's so technically they are Gilf's but they are hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tried looking on this site for a real cougar/milf but so far not no avail. Maybe I've watched too much porn haha but my definition of a milf isn't someone who's just had a kid. They have to be of a certain age (maybe 12-15+ years) and have to have that insatiable appetite for a younger blood - whilst still coming across pristine, classy and seductive. Maybe I have watched too much porn and my perception is just skewered haha.

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as MILF is an acronym of Mommy Id Like to Fuck,(and also an Americanism that's made its way over here via porn sites) then the prime requisite to be one is to have a kid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a private message saying most women find it offensive at being called a milf/cougar. I think it is a real compliment to be called either!"

in what way a compliment? and surely if youve been told women dont appreciate being called that you would stop using those terms

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Had a private message saying most women find it offensive at being called a milf/cougar. I think it is a real compliment to be called either!"

To be fair it's unlikely that you will ever be called either.

The problem you have is that the women you describe will be unlikely to relish being labelled in such a way although there are some that don't mind.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I have a 15 year old..

I can do prim and proper

I fall down on the younger man element.

I'm more partial to a DILF

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe what I vision in my head as a milf/cougar leads me to believe that being called one can only be a compliment.

Obviously if you take the term literally, mother I'd like to fuck, then yes having a kid does make you a milf. Personally though, and I feel like many guys my age would agree, there is much more to milfs than that - including the need for an age gap i.e. I wouldn't class a 20 year old with a kid a milf, they need that experience over a certain period of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe what I vision in my head as a milf/cougar leads me to believe that being called one can only be a compliment.

Obviously if you take the term literally, mother I'd like to fuck, then yes having a kid does make you a milf. Personally though, and I feel like many guys my age would agree, there is much more to milfs than that - including the need for an age gap i.e. I wouldn't class a 20 year old with a kid a milf, they need that experience over a certain period of time."

then its a cougar you are looking for, and not a milf as milfs are ..well milfs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe what I vision in my head as a milf/cougar leads me to believe that being called one can only be a compliment.

Obviously if you take the term literally, mother I'd like to fuck, then yes having a kid does make you a milf. Personally though, and I feel like many guys my age would agree, there is much more to milfs than that - including the need for an age gap i.e. I wouldn't class a 20 year old with a kid a milf, they need that experience over a certain period of time."

so not actually a milf then...and despite being told a lot of women dont like the term,you'll still carry on using it...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Maybe what I vision in my head as a milf/cougar leads me to believe that being called one can only be a compliment.

Obviously if you take the term literally, mother I'd like to fuck, then yes having a kid does make you a milf. Personally though, and I feel like many guys my age would agree, there is much more to milfs than that - including the need for an age gap i.e. I wouldn't class a 20 year old with a kid a milf, they need that experience over a certain period of time."

The thing about compliments is that the person on the receiving end should perceive it as such orbit loses its effect

I agree that in general an age gap is required I always assumed it meant "same age as my mother I'd like to fuck" but I could be wrong.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

*or It not orbit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe what I vision in my head as a milf/cougar leads me to believe that being called one can only be a compliment.

Obviously if you take the term literally, mother I'd like to fuck, then yes having a kid does make you a milf. Personally though, and I feel like many guys my age would agree, there is much more to milfs than that - including the need for an age gap i.e. I wouldn't class a 20 year old with a kid a milf, they need that experience over a certain period of time.

You may be right to be fair

then its a cougar you are looking for, and not a milf as milfs are ..well milfs "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There must be others. I pretty much only meet younger men. Some muuuuuch younger indeed! It's great fun. If you were in my area OP you'd be a definite possible. That's assuming you'd be interested in me in the first place of course!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I genuinely think it is a compliment and so women that don't like it are maybe ignorant over their age instead of embracing it?

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I genuinely think it is a compliment and so women that don't like it are maybe ignorant over their age instead of embracing it?"

Wow good luck with that comment!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I genuinely think it is a compliment and so women that don't like it are maybe ignorant over their age instead of embracing it?"

yes you're absolutely right it's ignorance on my part that makes me object to being labelled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stiflers Mom comes to mind.

Personally I dislike being called a cougar / milf or yummy mummy, it's all a bit cringe.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I genuinely think it is a compliment and so women that don't like it are maybe ignorant over their age instead of embracing it?

Wow good luck with that comment!!"

you have to laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely think it is a compliment and so women that don't like it are maybe ignorant over their age instead of embracing it?"

maybe you should find a MILF worshippers website where you can all embrace it together

as you can tell most women on here dislike the reference yet you insist on trying to explain it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely think it is a compliment and so women that don't like it are maybe ignorant over their age instead of embracing it?"

you have had it clearly stated to you that a lot of women dont see it as a compliment...therefore it is not a compliment....what exactly do you mean by 'ignorant over their age'? could you explain that please as its very confusing...though of course that may just be my atrophying brain...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman who knows what she wants is what it's all about, and if it comes with a bit of class then jackpot

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I genuinely think it is a compliment and so women that don't like it are maybe ignorant over their age instead of embracing it?

Wow good luck with that comment!!

you have to laugh "

Ha ha it's priceless!

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

I dislike most Americanisms. I also think the labels like milf and cougar are demeaning and imply that women have no intelligence or feelings

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

another moron

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally id give up looking. Not many "ladies" like being labelled as one. Just get to know some one more of age. Spend the time talking if they open up happen to be parents there you go. Shes a mother of age who you find attractive just dont label her. but i doubt they will accept being called a milf or open up to milf hunter as such. But good look in the search

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really not meaning to cAuse any offence and i apologise if I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do you have a lust for young men? :P

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Really not meaning to cAuse any offence and i apologise if I have "

You're alright .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really not meaning to cAuse any offence and i apologise if I have "

could still explain what you meant by 'ignorant over their age'....and you may not have meant to cause offence, however you clearly didnt care when you were told you were!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally id give up looking. Not many "ladies" like being labelled as one. Just get to know some one more of age. Spend the time talking if they open up happen to be parents there you go. Shes a mother of age who you find attractive just dont label her. but i doubt they will accept being called a milf or open up to milf hunter as such. But good look in the search "

Cheers bud

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Really not meaning to cAuse any offence and i apologise if I have "

Its cool..good luck with your search

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

Mmm, there we have it!! That's why I don't go for younger guys!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely think it is a compliment and so women that don't like it are maybe ignorant over their age instead of embracing it?"

I'm not ignorant over my age im very awear of my age which is why I realise I'm to old to meet young men

Maybe if I was ignorant over my age I wouldn't mind being with guys half my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont even understand the phrase'ignorant over their age' its nonsensical...and i like meeting younger men..just ones with something between their ears! in my experience there are plenty of young men around with brains and some maturity...met older men who have neither as well!

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Don't mean to be controversial but the term milf would not offend me.... But I get why some may find it not very nice... I try to think it may be a compliment that you remain attractive and appealing after children.... After three kids and feeling knackered all the time compliments can make a girl smile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont even understand the phrase'ignorant over their age' its nonsensical...and i like meeting younger men..just ones with something between their ears! in my experience there are plenty of young men around with brains and some maturity...met older men who have neither as well!"

I think he means they don't want to accept they are getting old so dislike phrase's like cougar as it reminds them they are clocking up the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont even understand the phrase'ignorant over their age' its nonsensical...and i like meeting younger men..just ones with something between their ears! in my experience there are plenty of young men around with brains and some maturity...met older men who have neither as well!

I think he means they don't want to accept they are getting old so dislike phrase's like cougar as it reminds them they are clocking up the years "

possibly youre right! i dont think he has a clue what he means,but if thats it,that in itself is pretty insulting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tried looking on this site for a real cougar/milf but so far not no avail. Maybe I've watched too much porn haha but my definition of a milf isn't someone who's just had a kid. They have to be of a certain age (maybe 12-15+ years) and have to have that insatiable appetite for a younger blood - whilst still coming across pristine, classy and seductive. Maybe I have watched too much porn and my perception is just skewered haha."

During most of their lives, cougars are solitary creatures. They interact only to mate, which can happen at any time of year.... They raise the young while the males return to their solitary lifestyles.

It's easy to see the attraction.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"i dont even understand the phrase'ignorant over their age' its nonsensical...and i like meeting younger men..just ones with something between their ears! in my experience there are plenty of young men around with brains and some maturity...met older men who have neither as well!

I think he means they don't want to accept they are getting old so dislike phrase's like cougar as it reminds them they are clocking up the years

possibly youre right! i dont think he has a clue what he means,but if thats it,that in itself is pretty insulting!"

"You are old so I'd like to fuck you" is insulting on many levels. Also Cougar is the definition of a predatory female that goes out hunting for younger men - so, I'm afraid, they go looking for you, OP, not vice versa - though I'm not sure that your lack of tact will make you a likely victim

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