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"Which of the couples on your verification list are you implying that the woman fell madly in love with you and the guy is jealous?" You know damn well that it would be inappropriate for me to say...and I was not suggesting for one moment that anyone 'fell madly in love'...just that perhaps the level of intimacy made the husband, in this instance, somewhat uncomfortable or wary of inviting me back....I am only surmising anyhow...and you are just taking the micky  | |||
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"Maybe they just want to experience other single guys and once was enough for them both." Indeed, that could certainly be the case. I guess I'm more interested in the general point about whether sex with a third person ever becomes 'too intimate', resulting in one of the couple becoming uncomfortable. I realize that this may not even have been the case in the situation I have described.. | |||
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"Which of the couples on your verification list are you implying that the woman fell madly in love with you and the guy is jealous? You know damn well that it would be inappropriate for me to say...and I was not suggesting for one moment that anyone 'fell madly in love'...just that perhaps the level of intimacy made the husband, in this instance, somewhat uncomfortable or wary of inviting me back....I am only surmising anyhow...and you are just taking the micky " x
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"Maybe they just want to experience other single guys and once was enough for them both. Indeed, that could certainly be the case. I guess I'm more interested in the general point about whether sex with a third person ever becomes 'too intimate', resulting in one of the couple becoming uncomfortable. I realize that this may not even have been the case in the situation I have described.." Well it was the case if they haven't been in touch. I'm sure swinging can be a minefield for couples,it's so much easier being single and having no-one else's emotions to consider  | |||
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"Maybe they just want to experience other single guys and once was enough for them both. Indeed, that could certainly be the case. I guess I'm more interested in the general point about whether sex with a third person ever becomes 'too intimate', resulting in one of the couple becoming uncomfortable. I realize that this may not even have been the case in the situation I have described.. Well it was the case if they haven't been in touch. I'm sure swinging can be a minefield for couples,it's so much easier being single and having no-one else's emotions to consider "Indeed...we do have it relatively easy don't we?  | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really..." Oh "yes" | |||
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"I don't like that whenever a couple does something someone doesn't like or understand it is inferred that the reason is jealousy or an unstable relationship or whatever else. Maybe you're right OP and that is the reason. Or maybe not. Maybe it is something else entirely. We've met single guys we liked a lot but didn't meet again just because something gets in the way. I hope those guys don't think it's because either I or Marc we uncomfortable with how well things went. -Courtney " Thanks Courtney...I still have a really good relationship with the couple I mentioned and regularly exchange brief messages with the husband, so, I may indeed be completely wrong. I was just using my meeting with them as an example of a situation where there has been a high degree of intimacy in the sex between myself and the woman of a couple and begging the question as to whether this can lead to one or other getting uncomfortable. Just interesting debate really... | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really..." As you're still in regular contact perhaps the couple would answer the question for you if you put it to them directly. Presumably hubby was aware of the extended snogging outside...if not he will be now if they read the forums | |||
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"You must be amazing in bed, and totally scared the man off. Do you find that in a club, all of the women see you and flock towards you, then the men all get jealous that their wives have left their sides? You're probably just amazing! Hahahahahaha!" And you mate just strike me as yet another cock...  | |||
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"I don't like that whenever a couple does something someone doesn't like or understand it is inferred that the reason is jealousy or an unstable relationship or whatever else. Maybe you're right OP and that is the reason. Or maybe not. Maybe it is something else entirely. We've met single guys we liked a lot but didn't meet again just because something gets in the way. I hope those guys don't think it's because either I or Marc we uncomfortable with how well things went. -Courtney Thanks Courtney...I still have a really good relationship with the couple I mentioned and regularly exchange brief messages with the husband, so, I may indeed be completely wrong. I was just using my meeting with them as an example of a situation where there has been a high degree of intimacy in the sex between myself and the woman of a couple and begging the question as to whether this can lead to one or other getting uncomfortable. Just interesting debate really..." I get where you are coming from. But that is my point really....the thread is about how good sex with a couple can lead to problems with that couple because of too high a level of intimacy, perhaps. But I feel like this follows a pattern of many discussions about couples. ..namely that they are insecure in some way that leads them to have problems while swinging. I just get a tad bit annoyed that this is the go-to answer when something involving a couple comes up. I know there are real issues for couples who swing, but there are plenty of couples who don't have these issues. Maybe lots of these perceived insecurities are actually something else entirely. -Courtney | |||
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"You must be amazing in bed, and totally scared the man off. Do you find that in a club, all of the women see you and flock towards you, then the men all get jealous that their wives have left their sides? You're probably just amazing! Hahahahahaha! And you mate just strike me as yet another cock... "Haha! Well, I don't want to stand out too much, that's all! I like to blend in with the rest of the men on the site! | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really... As you're still in regular contact perhaps the couple would answer the question for you if you put it to them directly. Presumably hubby was aware of the extended snogging outside...if not he will be now if they read the forums "I'm pretty sure he was aware of it and had certainly been in full view of it for most of the evening together, so no, I don't foresee a problem there. Again, I am not too concerned about whether this was the case in the meet I have mentioned (and certainly wouldn't feel comfortable enquiring), I am more interested in just the general question relating to intimacy as a pitfall to couples when meeting others.. | |||
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"You must be amazing in bed, and totally scared the man off. Do you find that in a club, all of the women see you and flock towards you, then the men all get jealous that their wives have left their sides? You're probably just amazing! Hahahahahaha! And you mate just strike me as yet another cock...
Haha! Well, I don't want to stand out too much, that's all! I like to blend in with the rest of the men on the site! "In that case carry on as you are...you are achieving your goal admirably  | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really..." I have once met a couple with a highly sexually aggressive female half! I ended up slapping her a couple of times round the face, once was a bit hard, the whole thing stopped, he looked at her, she looked at him, I looked at them both (when wooooooooohhhhhhuuuuhhhh! Comedy style! Kidding!!)... Then she kissed me deeply and fucking aggressively and it just went nuts from there... But it was one of those "too far moments!". | |||
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"You must be amazing in bed, and totally scared the man off. Do you find that in a club, all of the women see you and flock towards you, then the men all get jealous that their wives have left their sides? You're probably just amazing! Hahahahahaha! And you mate just strike me as yet another cock...
Haha! Well, I don't want to stand out too much, that's all! I like to blend in with the rest of the men on the site!
In that case carry on as you are...you are achieving your goal admirably "You won't blow my cover though, will you? | |||
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"Why not just message them and ask . We've only your side of thinks so really can't give you a decent answer ." Damn, as I keep saying, I was only using that particular meet of mine as an example....its the general question I'm interested in. Do people read the posts on a particular thread before contributing? | |||
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"Yes I did and it seems you could be over thinking your meets " I'll take that on board... | |||
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"Maybe they just want to experience other single guys and once was enough for them both. Indeed, that could certainly be the case. I guess I'm more interested in the general point about whether sex with a third person ever becomes 'too intimate', resulting in one of the couple becoming uncomfortable. I realize that this may not even have been the case in the situation I have described.." It's a very interesting question . There may well be some truth in the suggestion that further meets may be out of the question due to the level of intimacy and attraction . It would be worthwhile seeing if the couple like repeat meets generally first though . For ourselves , we prefer the level of attraction and genuine passion you speak of . That would make us want a repeat rather than not . | |||
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"I don't meet cpls for this very reason. I met a gorgeous cpl when I first joined fab a few years back, but the level of intimacy me and the lady had really effected the husband, her and me, so I only meet single people now x" The intimacy would make it more fun for us, providing no one is left out | |||
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"Maybe they just want to experience other single guys and once was enough for them both." | |||
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"Maybe they just want to experience other single guys and once was enough for them both. Indeed, that could certainly be the case. I guess I'm more interested in the general point about whether sex with a third person ever becomes 'too intimate', resulting in one of the couple becoming uncomfortable. I realize that this may not even have been the case in the situation I have described.." Not a problem for us. The only thing that annoyed me once was a guy from a couple was messaging Mrs Mixed trying to get her to meet 1 on 1. Idiot - as if she wouldn't tell me! We do play long term with other couples and we do promise each other that if either of us ever develop emotional attachment (beyond friendship) to someone else then we must stop seeing them. But a long snog! - fill yer boots | |||
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"Fortunately, most guys understand that a threesome with a couple is about a fantasy porn scene, not a chapter out of a Mills & Boon novel. Guys who need a woman to fall a little bit in love with them should get a girlfriend "Haha...actually I totally agree | |||
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"Yes I did and it seems you could be over thinking your meets I'll take that on board..." You should take my first comment onboard too! It could be correct! Hahahaha! | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really..." Perhaps the naivety of a newbie, but is there a fine line between having this connection/chemistry, as you said it made for amazing sex, and not enough chemistry so it becomes mechanical amd dull? Which is better and is the risk worth it? | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really... Perhaps the naivety of a newbie, but is there a fine line between having this connection/chemistry, as you said it made for amazing sex, and not enough chemistry so it becomes mechanical amd dull? Which is better and is the risk worth it? " It is indeed a fine line...as a single man, I do not really feel that things can ever get 'too intimate' for me, however, I do not have to look at it from the perspective of the other man in a couple.... | |||
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"From my perspective as a female in a couple:- We've had a couple of meets where it's been great sex, great snogging, lots of chemistry, very sensual, my partner loves to see me like this with another guy and I love to play the part to turn him on as it's a big part of ur fantasies together, however afterwards we sometimes get a sense that the single guy sees it as more than it was, keeps messaging, goes over the top about me, talks about next time, etc etc, and it makes me uncomfortable. we still stay friends, have the odd chat, but I probably wouldn't meet again. No matter now good the chemistry on a meet, I am very much in love with my partner, and what we do, we do for each other. I feel sometimes single men don't get the whole swinging in a couple thing and the dynamics of a threeway meet "I think that is a very fair comment | |||
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"From my perspective as a female in a couple:- We've had a couple of meets where it's been great sex, great snogging, lots of chemistry, very sensual, my partner loves to see me like this with another guy and I love to play the part to turn him on as it's a big part of ur fantasies together, however afterwards we sometimes get a sense that the single guy sees it as more than it was, keeps messaging, goes over the top about me, talks about next time, etc etc, and it makes me uncomfortable. we still stay friends, have the odd chat, but I probably wouldn't meet again. No matter now good the chemistry on a meet, I am very much in love with my partner, and what we do, we do for each other. I feel sometimes single men don't get the whole swinging in a couple thing and the dynamics of a threeway meet "I've had this once before, actually. So I can totally understand your point. And we didn't meet him again either. -Courtney | |||
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"Interestingly all the comments have so far related to single men...it was actually a general question about intimacy when singles (male or female) are invited to join couples. Presumably there are times when the female in a couple gets uncomfortable with just how intimate things get between her partner and another woman...." I'm sure there are, but if you talk, establish boundaries first, and most important, stick to them, then it's generally fine, at least in our experience. It's about trust, if you have it, it'll be fine, if you don't, you probably shouldn't be swinging anyway lol | |||
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"Interestingly all the comments have so far related to single men...it was actually a general question about intimacy when singles (male or female) are invited to join couples. Presumably there are times when the female in a couple gets uncomfortable with just how intimate things get between her partner and another woman.... I'm sure there are, but if you talk, establish boundaries first, and most important, stick to them, then it's generally fine, at least in our experience. It's about trust, if you have it, it'll be fine, if you don't, you probably shouldn't be swinging anyway lol" Another very good point  | |||
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"Can I turn it round and ask how you as a single male feel when meeting a couple ? " How I feel in what respect? | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really..." exactly that the old green eyed monster reared its inevitable head | |||
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"Can I turn it round and ask how you as a single male feel when meeting a couple ? How I feel in what respect?" As in do you sometimes feel jealous? Or after a bit of a come down | |||
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"Maybe you were caught up in the moment and she's like that with all the men she sleeps with,you could of read the signs wrong "Totally agree...again...was just siting this one time as an example of something which might occur... | |||
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"I don't like that whenever a couple does something someone doesn't like or understand it is inferred that the reason is jealousy or an unstable relationship or whatever else. Maybe you're right OP and that is the reason. Or maybe not. Maybe it is something else entirely. We've met single guys we liked a lot but didn't meet again just because something gets in the way. I hope those guys don't think it's because either I or Marc we uncomfortable with how well things went. -Courtney Thanks Courtney...I still have a really good relationship with the couple I mentioned and regularly exchange brief messages with the husband, so, I may indeed be completely wrong. I was just using my meeting with them as an example of a situation where there has been a high degree of intimacy in the sex between myself and the woman of a couple and begging the question as to whether this can lead to one or other getting uncomfortable. Just interesting debate really... I get where you are coming from. But that is my point really....the thread is about how good sex with a couple can lead to problems with that couple because of too high a level of intimacy, perhaps. But I feel like this follows a pattern of many discussions about couples. ..namely that they are insecure in some way that leads them to have problems while swinging. I just get a tad bit annoyed that this is the go-to answer when something involving a couple comes up. I know there are real issues for couples who swing, but there are plenty of couples who don't have these issues. Maybe lots of these perceived insecurities are actually something else entirely. -Courtney "
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really..." Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind" FFS...I have met loads of couples and have expressly avoided any reference to which particular couple I am referring to in this thread!! | |||
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"Interestingly all the comments have so far related to single men...it was actually a general question about intimacy when singles (male or female) are invited to join couples. Presumably there are times when the female in a couple gets uncomfortable with just how intimate things get between her partner and another woman...." The couples I spoke to when I first joined all wanted me for the woman for soft sex. The man was just going to watch. I'm very intimate with men I meet,but I can happily forget after a couple of days,how good I felt. I would feel the same about a man in a couple. | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind" discretion has been used as no names were given and its a very general comment | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind discretion has been used as no names were given and its a very general comment" Thank you ...I'm glad you see it like that too | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind discretion has been used as no names were given and its a very general comment Thank you ...I'm glad you see it like that too "If the couple in question did see the post then it would not be hard to work out...a blow by blow account | |||
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"I don't like that whenever a couple does something someone doesn't like or understand it is inferred that the reason is jealousy or an unstable relationship or whatever else. Maybe you're right OP and that is the reason. Or maybe not. Maybe it is something else entirely. We've met single guys we liked a lot but didn't meet again just because something gets in the way. I hope those guys don't think it's because either I or Marc we uncomfortable with how well things went. -Courtney Thanks Courtney...I still have a really good relationship with the couple I mentioned and regularly exchange brief messages with the husband, so, I may indeed be completely wrong. I was just using my meeting with them as an example of a situation where there has been a high degree of intimacy in the sex between myself and the woman of a couple and begging the question as to whether this can lead to one or other getting uncomfortable. Just interesting debate really... I get where you are coming from. But that is my point really....the thread is about how good sex with a couple can lead to problems with that couple because of too high a level of intimacy, perhaps. But I feel like this follows a pattern of many discussions about couples. ..namely that they are insecure in some way that leads them to have problems while swinging. I just get a tad bit annoyed that this is the go-to answer when something involving a couple comes up. I know there are real issues for couples who swing, but there are plenty of couples who don't have these issues. Maybe lots of these perceived insecurities are actually something else entirely. -Courtney
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind discretion has been used as no names were given and its a very general comment Thank you ...I'm glad you see it like that too If the couple in question did see the post then it would not be hard to work out...a blow by blow account"By the same token, perhaps you would advise that on a discussion forum we all refrain from ever referring to our experiences with others just in case those 'others' might read a forum thread and deduce that it is about them? What is important is that other people are not able to deduce who is being sited in any given discussion is it not?? Perhaps I am being naïve..... | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind discretion has been used as no names were given and its a very general comment Thank you ...I'm glad you see it like that too If the couple in question did see the post then it would not be hard to work out...a blow by blow account
By the same token, perhaps you would advise that on a discussion forum we all refrain from ever referring to our experiences with others just in case those 'others' might read a forum thread and deduce that it is about them?
What is important is that other people are not able to deduce who is being sited in any given discussion is it not??
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind discretion has been used as no names were given and its a very general comment Thank you ...I'm glad you see it like that too If the couple in question did see the post then it would not be hard to work out...a blow by blow account
By the same token, perhaps you would advise that on a discussion forum we all refrain from ever referring to our experiences with others just in case those 'others' might read a forum thread and deduce that it is about them?
What is important is that other people are not able to deduce who is being sited in any given discussion is it not??
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind discretion has been used as no names were given and its a very general comment Thank you ...I'm glad you see it like that too If the couple in question did see the post then it would not be hard to work out...a blow by blow account
By the same token, perhaps you would advise that on a discussion forum we all refrain from ever referring to our experiences with others just in case those 'others' might read a forum thread and deduce that it is about them?
What is important is that other people are not able to deduce who is being sited in any given discussion is it not??
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"Not sure this is a potential problem purely for couples! Most, if not all, of my meets have an amount of affection and intimacy along with the full-on hardcore sex! Some of the meets evolved into more boyfriend/girlfriend sex than 'pornstar' sex! Ie a massive amount of intimacy. Some people can cope with this and enjoy the moment - some can't and find it unsettling- worrying that they'll become attached! Hence you don't see them again! Swinging is what is is! The trick is just to keep looking for emotionally strong people with the same idea of what constitutes a great meet! Works for me! "Spot on | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left "Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses, | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left "Oh FFS!
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses, "Most know he likes to blow hes own trumpet. Wants to be carefull he dont swollow it he does it that much | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses, "You just seem to have some personal bug bear with me...what you say could not be further from the truth. I raised an interesting point for discussion that is all. With the exception of yourself and one or two others who have followed your lead, this is exactly how it was taken! | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses,
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Should someone stunt their feelings of ardour to please others,in that situation? Shouldn't everyone be able to enjoy themselves without others saying hey,you're liking that a bit too much for my liking? Isn't swinging about enjoyment without attachment or jealousy? "nobody stopped it - her hubby looked embarassed and looking back at the whole evening we wouldnt have carried on because of her actions throughout the whole meet and his some of the time too - no jealously involved at all - just inexperience on our behalf to stand up for ourselves | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses,
You just seem to have some personal bug bear with me...what you say could not be further from the truth. I raised an interesting point for discussion that is all. With the exception of yourself and one or two others who have followed your lead, this is exactly how it was taken!"S through your posts describing yourself indiscreetly with others this has not caused others to leave fab as they have came across your posts describing them...or is the other lad talking shit now? | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses,
You just seem to have some personal bug bear with me...what you say could not be further from the truth. I raised an interesting point for discussion that is all. With the exception of yourself and one or two others who have followed your lead, this is exactly how it was taken!S through your posts describing yourself indiscreetly with others this has not caused others to leave fab as they have came across your posts describing them...or is the other lad talking shit now?"I am simply saying that nothing I have posted today has been indiscreet, nor has it drawn attention to anyone in particular. I feel that your suggesting that this particular thread was indiscreet is both wrong and serves merely to detract from a valid and general point relating to intimacy which I was raising... | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses,
You just seem to have some personal bug bear with me...what you say could not be further from the truth. I raised an interesting point for discussion that is all. With the exception of yourself and one or two others who have followed your lead, this is exactly how it was taken!S through your posts describing yourself indiscreetly with others this has not caused others to leave fab as they have came across your posts describing them...or is the other lad talking shit now?"Did anyone understand that?! | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses,
You just seem to have some personal bug bear with me...what you say could not be further from the truth. I raised an interesting point for discussion that is all. With the exception of yourself and one or two others who have followed your lead, this is exactly how it was taken!S through your posts describing yourself indiscreetly with others this has not caused others to leave fab as they have came across your posts describing them...or is the other lad talking shit now?
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses,
You just seem to have some personal bug bear with me...what you say could not be further from the truth. I raised an interesting point for discussion that is all. With the exception of yourself and one or two others who have followed your lead, this is exactly how it was taken!S through your posts describing yourself indiscreetly with others this has not caused others to leave fab as they have came across your posts describing them...or is the other lad talking shit now?
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses,
You just seem to have some personal bug bear with me...what you say could not be further from the truth. I raised an interesting point for discussion that is all. With the exception of yourself and one or two others who have followed your lead, this is exactly how it was taken!S through your posts describing yourself indiscreetly with others this has not caused others to leave fab as they have came across your posts describing them...or is the other lad talking shit now?
Did anyone understand that?!
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses,
You just seem to have some personal bug bear with me...what you say could not be further from the truth. I raised an interesting point for discussion that is all. With the exception of yourself and one or two others who have followed your lead, this is exactly how it was taken!S through your posts describing yourself indiscreetly with others this has not caused others to leave fab as they have came across your posts describing them...or is the other lad talking shit now?
Did anyone understand that?!
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"we met a couple very early on and the woman was relentless with W - she snogged him also as we were giving the goodbye pecks on cheeks and hugs - me and her hubby looked on as she grabbed him and he was a bit embarassed - looking back at the whole evening we wouldnt have carried on - we do laugh about it now but came away with wtf was that all about kind of feeling
Should someone stunt their feelings of ardour to please others,in that situation? Shouldn't everyone be able to enjoy themselves without others saying hey,you're liking that a bit too much for my liking? Isn't swinging about enjoyment without attachment or jealousy?
nobody stopped it - her hubby looked embarassed and looking back at the whole evening we wouldnt have carried on because of her actions throughout the whole meet and his some of the time too - no jealously involved at all - just inexperience on our behalf to stand up for ourselves "You didn't like how much they were enjoying themselves or they did something you hadn't agreed on? You can only learn from your experiences. | |||
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"It seemed a genuine and interesting question to us . Certainly not indiscreet , and I just hope the op doesn't incur a forum timeout defending himself ......." Thank you guys...I can't see why anything I have said would justify another ban...but then I have often received forum time outs when I cannot see any justification for the punishment.. | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses,
You just seem to have some personal bug bear with me...what you say could not be further from the truth. I raised an interesting point for discussion that is all. With the exception of yourself and one or two others who have followed your lead, this is exactly how it was taken!S through your posts describing yourself indiscreetly with others this has not caused others to leave fab as they have came across your posts describing them...or is the other lad talking shit now?
Did anyone understand that?!Well darling it was responde too so i would guess yes... "Excellent | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses,
You just seem to have some personal bug bear with me...what you say could not be further from the truth. I raised an interesting point for discussion that is all. With the exception of yourself and one or two others who have followed your lead, this is exactly how it was taken!S through your posts describing yourself indiscreetly with others this has not caused others to leave fab as they have came across your posts describing them...or is the other lad talking shit now?
Did anyone understand that?!
I did i remember your one of the op conquests "Nar he's one of mine actually | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses,
You just seem to have some personal bug bear with me...what you say could not be further from the truth. I raised an interesting point for discussion that is all. With the exception of yourself and one or two others who have followed your lead, this is exactly how it was taken!S through your posts describing yourself indiscreetly with others this has not caused others to leave fab as they have came across your posts describing them...or is the other lad talking shit now?
Did anyone understand that?!
I did i remember your one of the op conquests
Nar he's one of mine actually "Haha...excellent response!! | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses,
You just seem to have some personal bug bear with me...what you say could not be further from the truth. I raised an interesting point for discussion that is all. With the exception of yourself and one or two others who have followed your lead, this is exactly how it was taken!S through your posts describing yourself indiscreetly with others this has not caused others to leave fab as they have came across your posts describing them...or is the other lad talking shit now?
Did anyone understand that?!
I did i remember your one of the op conquests Yes we just looked...you could not make it up "I just couldn't understand the fuck that was being said,call me dim . Oh what couldn't you make up,apologies I'm being dim again?! | |||
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"Maybe they just want to experience other single guys and once was enough for them both. Indeed, that could certainly be the case. I guess I'm more interested in the general point about whether sex with a third person ever becomes 'too intimate', resulting in one of the couple becoming uncomfortable. I realize that this may not even have been the case in the situation I have described.." I agree that it can.. We once had regular fun with a female and she became obsessed with simon lol and the last time we played lol I never even got a look in and she rode simon throughout. When she had gone it was actually simon who said enough is enough xx | |||
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"Maybe they just want to experience other single guys and once was enough for them both. Indeed, that could certainly be the case. I guess I'm more interested in the general point about whether sex with a third person ever becomes 'too intimate', resulting in one of the couple becoming uncomfortable. I realize that this may not even have been the case in the situation I have described.. I agree that it can.. We once had regular fun with a female and she became obsessed with simon lol and the last time we played lol I never even got a look in and she rode simon throughout. When she had gone it was actually simon who said enough is enough xx" Thanks for your input...nice to try and get this thread back on track again...up until a short while ago it was prompting some interesting discussion | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses,
You just seem to have some personal bug bear with me...what you say could not be further from the truth. I raised an interesting point for discussion that is all. With the exception of yourself and one or two others who have followed your lead, this is exactly how it was taken!S through your posts describing yourself indiscreetly with others this has not caused others to leave fab as they have came across your posts describing them...or is the other lad talking shit now?
Did anyone understand that?!
I did i remember your one of the op conquests
Nar he's one of mine actually
Haha...excellent response!! "Well I was the one that contacted you not the other way around. I see someone I like and I try my best to get them | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses,
You just seem to have some personal bug bear with me...what you say could not be further from the truth. I raised an interesting point for discussion that is all. With the exception of yourself and one or two others who have followed your lead, this is exactly how it was taken!S through your posts describing yourself indiscreetly with others this has not caused others to leave fab as they have came across your posts describing them...or is the other lad talking shit now?
Did anyone understand that?!
I did i remember your one of the op conquests
Nar he's one of mine actually
Haha...excellent response!!
Well I was the one that contacted you not the other way around. I see someone I like and I try my best to get them "Indeed you did... ...in fact quite regularly successful meets result from the woman or couple making the move in my experience | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses,
You just seem to have some personal bug bear with me...what you say could not be further from the truth. I raised an interesting point for discussion that is all. With the exception of yourself and one or two others who have followed your lead, this is exactly how it was taken!S through your posts describing yourself indiscreetly with others this has not caused others to leave fab as they have came across your posts describing them...or is the other lad talking shit now?
Did anyone understand that?!
I did i remember your one of the op conquests
Nar he's one of mine actually
Haha...excellent response!!
Well I was the one that contacted you not the other way around. I see someone I like and I try my best to get them
Indeed you did... ...in fact quite regularly successful meets result from the woman or couple making the move in my experience "As its going that way now we thought most meets from forumites were generated through the forum and acting on posts and then chasing the poster through private messages op........as most have done with us,mentioning no names..lol | |||
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"Maybe they just want to experience other single guys and once was enough for them both. Indeed, that could certainly be the case. I guess I'm more interested in the general point about whether sex with a third person ever becomes 'too intimate', resulting in one of the couple becoming uncomfortable. I realize that this may not even have been the case in the situation I have described.. I agree that it can.. We once had regular fun with a female and she became obsessed with simon lol and the last time we played lol I never even got a look in and she rode simon throughout. When she had gone it was actually simon who said enough is enough xx Thanks for your input...nice to try and get this thread back on track again...up until a short while ago it was prompting some interesting discussion "Just a general forum thread then lol xx | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left Most of this post is describing how good he is and how the woman cannot get enough of him...its purely hyping for the forum masses,
You just seem to have some personal bug bear with me...what you say could not be further from the truth. I raised an interesting point for discussion that is all. With the exception of yourself and one or two others who have followed your lead, this is exactly how it was taken!S through your posts describing yourself indiscreetly with others this has not caused others to leave fab as they have came across your posts describing them...or is the other lad talking shit now?
Did anyone understand that?!
I did i remember your one of the op conquests
Nar he's one of mine actually
Haha...excellent response!!
Well I was the one that contacted you not the other way around. I see someone I like and I try my best to get them
Indeed you did... ...in fact quite regularly successful meets result from the woman or couple making the move in my experience As its going that way now we thought most meets from forumites were generated through the forum and acting on posts and then chasing the poster through private messages op........as most have done with us,mentioning no names..lol"Well, if you were to cast an eye over my verifications you would see that the vast majority are with people who do not frequent the forums at all... | |||
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"Just to get back to the original discussion. I can see that sometimes there can be a level of intimacy, beyond the actual meet, with some couples, which may lead to some insecurities in a couples relationship. Wouldn't happen to us, as we are too close and see swinging as some fun with like-minded people. It has happened to us in a reverse situation, where the single guy was becoming a little too fond of me (fem !),and was then expecting exclusivity with us. Nipped it in the bud and explained to him why we had to call it a day. Shame, as we had some good times with him. To us it is NSA sex.!" Thanks and I can see how that can be one potential problem. I think other times it is not that any particular emotional attachment is formed or even imagined, it is just that the action between a partner and the invited playmate can sometimes be so intimate as to cause discomfort to the other member of the couple at the time.. | |||
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"Just to get back to the original discussion. I can see that sometimes there can be a level of intimacy, beyond the actual meet, with some couples, which may lead to some insecurities in a couples relationship. Wouldn't happen to us, as we are too close and see swinging as some fun with like-minded people. It has happened to us in a reverse situation, where the single guy was becoming a little too fond of me (fem !),and was then expecting exclusivity with us. Nipped it in the bud and explained to him why we had to call it a day. Shame, as we had some good times with him. To us it is NSA sex.! Thanks and I can see how that can be one potential problem. I think other times it is not that any particular emotional attachment is formed or even imagined, it is just that the action between a partner and the invited playmate can sometimes be so intimate as to cause discomfort to the other member of the couple at the time.." Yes, of course, in some cases, that can cause discomfort to the other person in the couple, but the partner should be sensitive to that feeling and be wary of not causing that discomfort to her other half. At the end of the day and with due respect, the person most important in these meetings should be your partner and always make sure you have boundaries and stick to them, hopefully then there shouldn't be too many problems  | |||
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"Just to get back to the original discussion. I can see that sometimes there can be a level of intimacy, beyond the actual meet, with some couples, which may lead to some insecurities in a couples relationship. Wouldn't happen to us, as we are too close and see swinging as some fun with like-minded people. It has happened to us in a reverse situation, where the single guy was becoming a little too fond of me (fem !),and was then expecting exclusivity with us. Nipped it in the bud and explained to him why we had to call it a day. Shame, as we had some good times with him. To us it is NSA sex.! Thanks and I can see how that can be one potential problem. I think other times it is not that any particular emotional attachment is formed or even imagined, it is just that the action between a partner and the invited playmate can sometimes be so intimate as to cause discomfort to the other member of the couple at the time.. Yes, of course, in some cases, that can cause discomfort to the other person in the couple, but the partner should be sensitive to that feeling and be wary of not causing that discomfort to her other half. At the end of the day and with due respect, the person most important in these meetings should be your partner and always make sure you have boundaries and stick to them, hopefully then there shouldn't be too many problems "^^^ good advise and very true | |||
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"Maybe they just want to experience other single guys and once was enough for them both. "Indeed, and also I know for sure that meeting single guys is far from their only desired type of encounter on here...indeed perhaps that which they least frequently indulge in. | |||
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"Just to get back to the original discussion. I can see that sometimes there can be a level of intimacy, beyond the actual meet, with some couples, which may lead to some insecurities in a couples relationship. Wouldn't happen to us, as we are too close and see swinging as some fun with like-minded people. It has happened to us in a reverse situation, where the single guy was becoming a little too fond of me (fem !),and was then expecting exclusivity with us. Nipped it in the bud and explained to him why we had to call it a day. Shame, as we had some good times with him. To us it is NSA sex.! Thanks and I can see how that can be one potential problem. I think other times it is not that any particular emotional attachment is formed or even imagined, it is just that the action between a partner and the invited playmate can sometimes be so intimate as to cause discomfort to the other member of the couple at the time.." Swinging is fun without emotional attachment .....the comments of most on these forums or the discussions leads us to believe that fab is mainly just turned into a playground for singletons and very very rarely will you come across swingers on here just singles having sex...nothing more nothing less | |||
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"Just to get back to the original discussion. I can see that sometimes there can be a level of intimacy, beyond the actual meet, with some couples, which may lead to some insecurities in a couples relationship. Wouldn't happen to us, as we are too close and see swinging as some fun with like-minded people. It has happened to us in a reverse situation, where the single guy was becoming a little too fond of me (fem !),and was then expecting exclusivity with us. Nipped it in the bud and explained to him why we had to call it a day. Shame, as we had some good times with him. To us it is NSA sex.! Thanks and I can see how that can be one potential problem. I think other times it is not that any particular emotional attachment is formed or even imagined, it is just that the action between a partner and the invited playmate can sometimes be so intimate as to cause discomfort to the other member of the couple at the time..Swinging is fun without emotional attachment .....the comments of most on these forums or the discussions leads us to believe that fab is mainly just turned into a playground for singletons and very very rarely will you come across swingers on here just singles having sex...nothing more nothing less " I would suggest that the comment above demonstrates how squewed your view of fab and its goings on actually is. I am sure that it is couples that hold the influence and power on here in terms of any pecking order, furthermore I am certain that they are the ones having the most fun and most varied kinds of meets... | |||
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"Just to get back to the original discussion. I can see that sometimes there can be a level of intimacy, beyond the actual meet, with some couples, which may lead to some insecurities in a couples relationship. Wouldn't happen to us, as we are too close and see swinging as some fun with like-minded people. It has happened to us in a reverse situation, where the single guy was becoming a little too fond of me (fem !),and was then expecting exclusivity with us. Nipped it in the bud and explained to him why we had to call it a day. Shame, as we had some good times with him. To us it is NSA sex.! Thanks and I can see how that can be one potential problem. I think other times it is not that any particular emotional attachment is formed or even imagined, it is just that the action between a partner and the invited playmate can sometimes be so intimate as to cause discomfort to the other member of the couple at the time..Swinging is fun without emotional attachment .....the comments of most on these forums or the discussions leads us to believe that fab is mainly just turned into a playground for singletons and very very rarely will you come across swingers on here just singles having sex...nothing more nothing less I would suggest that the comment above demonstrates how squewed your view of fab and its goings on actually is. I am sure that it is couples that hold the influence and power on here in terms of any pecking order, furthermore I am certain that they are the ones having the most fun and most varied kinds of meets..." You only have to look at the comments ranging from women saying they are wracked with jealousy and could not do this if they were part of a couple...for this reason we leave singles well alone | |||
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"Yes. The last white guy we met didn't get past the social, i ended up thinking if you try and kiss my wife one more time I'm going to very slowly run you over. Just interested, but, was he aware that kissing was off limits?" No. It wasn't until he started. | |||
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"Yes. The last white guy we met didn't get past the social, i ended up thinking if you try and kiss my wife one more time I'm going to very slowly run you over. Just interested, but, was he aware that kissing was off limits? No. It wasn't until he started." I guess the lesson learned is one of laying down ground rules...I ask these days as I like to kiss and have found it uncomfortable in the past when we first meet and I do not know whether the couple is happy with this or not.. | |||
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"Just to get back to the original discussion. I can see that sometimes there can be a level of intimacy, beyond the actual meet, with some couples, which may lead to some insecurities in a couples relationship. Wouldn't happen to us, as we are too close and see swinging as some fun with like-minded people. It has happened to us in a reverse situation, where the single guy was becoming a little too fond of me (fem !),and was then expecting exclusivity with us. Nipped it in the bud and explained to him why we had to call it a day. Shame, as we had some good times with him. To us it is NSA sex.! Thanks and I can see how that can be one potential problem. I think other times it is not that any particular emotional attachment is formed or even imagined, it is just that the action between a partner and the invited playmate can sometimes be so intimate as to cause discomfort to the other member of the couple at the time..Swinging is fun without emotional attachment .....the comments of most on these forums or the discussions leads us to believe that fab is mainly just turned into a playground for singletons and very very rarely will you come across swingers on here just singles having sex...nothing more nothing less I would suggest that the comment above demonstrates how squewed your view of fab and its goings on actually is. I am sure that it is couples that hold the influence and power on here in terms of any pecking order, furthermore I am certain that they are the ones having the most fun and most varied kinds of meets...You only have to look at the comments ranging from women saying they are wracked with jealousy and could not do this if they were part of a couple...for this reason we leave singles well alone" Do you not think couples have jealousy problems too? Or insecurities? | |||
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"Yes. The last white guy we met didn't get past the social, i ended up thinking if you try and kiss my wife one more time I'm going to very slowly run you over. Just interested, but, was he aware that kissing was off limits? No. It wasn't until he started. I guess the lesson learned is one of laying down ground rules...I ask these days as I like to kiss and have found it uncomfortable in the past when we first meet and I do not know whether the couple is happy with this or not.." I'm fine with most black guys, but when white guys come on to her I'm usually looking for something to throw at them. But then I'm pretty picky with them to. Much younger than me? No. Dressed up like a gangsta? No. Expecting her to travel two hours to meet you? No. Telling her you can't wait to kiss and snuggle her? Fuck the Fuck off! lol | |||
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" I'm fine with most black guys, but when white guys come on to her I'm usually looking for something to throw at them. But then I'm pretty picky with them to. Much younger than me? No. Dressed up like a gangsta? No. " Fuck there's goes my chances. I'm down like a clown brown. Thug life. | |||
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"Just to get back to the original discussion. I can see that sometimes there can be a level of intimacy, beyond the actual meet, with some couples, which may lead to some insecurities in a couples relationship. Wouldn't happen to us, as we are too close and see swinging as some fun with like-minded people. It has happened to us in a reverse situation, where the single guy was becoming a little too fond of me (fem !),and was then expecting exclusivity with us. Nipped it in the bud and explained to him why we had to call it a day. Shame, as we had some good times with him. To us it is NSA sex.! Thanks and I can see how that can be one potential problem. I think other times it is not that any particular emotional attachment is formed or even imagined, it is just that the action between a partner and the invited playmate can sometimes be so intimate as to cause discomfort to the other member of the couple at the time..Swinging is fun without emotional attachment .....the comments of most on these forums or the discussions leads us to believe that fab is mainly just turned into a playground for singletons and very very rarely will you come across swingers on here just singles having sex...nothing more nothing less I would suggest that the comment above demonstrates how squewed your view of fab and its goings on actually is. I am sure that it is couples that hold the influence and power on here in terms of any pecking order, furthermore I am certain that they are the ones having the most fun and most varied kinds of meets...You only have to look at the comments ranging from women saying they are wracked with jealousy and could not do this if they were part of a couple...for this reason we leave singles well alone Do you not think couples have jealousy problems too? Or insecurities? " not swingers no......insecurity has no part to play in this lifestyle... If you suffer from insecurity then it's never going to end well is it? | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really...Thank god we do not meet men to be discussed on a public forum...discreet springs to mind Op did the same months ago about a single lady he met being fatter then her pictures and didnt make a effort for him. It didnt take much to look at hes veris and work out who the poor lady was. Then she left "Him all over! Poor lady | |||
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"Just to get back to the original discussion. I can see that sometimes there can be a level of intimacy, beyond the actual meet, with some couples, which may lead to some insecurities in a couples relationship. Wouldn't happen to us, as we are too close and see swinging as some fun with like-minded people. It has happened to us in a reverse situation, where the single guy was becoming a little too fond of me (fem !),and was then expecting exclusivity with us. Nipped it in the bud and explained to him why we had to call it a day. Shame, as we had some good times with him. To us it is NSA sex.! Thanks and I can see how that can be one potential problem. I think other times it is not that any particular emotional attachment is formed or even imagined, it is just that the action between a partner and the invited playmate can sometimes be so intimate as to cause discomfort to the other member of the couple at the time..Swinging is fun without emotional attachment .....the comments of most on these forums or the discussions leads us to believe that fab is mainly just turned into a playground for singletons and very very rarely will you come across swingers on here just singles having sex...nothing more nothing less I would suggest that the comment above demonstrates how squewed your view of fab and its goings on actually is. I am sure that it is couples that hold the influence and power on here in terms of any pecking order, furthermore I am certain that they are the ones having the most fun and most varied kinds of meets...You only have to look at the comments ranging from women saying they are wracked with jealousy and could not do this if they were part of a couple...for this reason we leave singles well alone Do you not think couples have jealousy problems too? Or insecurities? not swingers no......insecurity has no part to play in this lifestyle... If you suffer from insecurity then it's never going to end well is it? " Couples are swingers and it doesn't always end well,unfortunately. | |||
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"Just to get back to the original discussion. I can see that sometimes there can be a level of intimacy, beyond the actual meet, with some couples, which may lead to some insecurities in a couples relationship. Wouldn't happen to us, as we are too close and see swinging as some fun with like-minded people. It has happened to us in a reverse situation, where the single guy was becoming a little too fond of me (fem !),and was then expecting exclusivity with us. Nipped it in the bud and explained to him why we had to call it a day. Shame, as we had some good times with him. To us it is NSA sex.! Thanks and I can see how that can be one potential problem. I think other times it is not that any particular emotional attachment is formed or even imagined, it is just that the action between a partner and the invited playmate can sometimes be so intimate as to cause discomfort to the other member of the couple at the time..Swinging is fun without emotional attachment .....the comments of most on these forums or the discussions leads us to believe that fab is mainly just turned into a playground for singletons and very very rarely will you come across swingers on here just singles having sex...nothing more nothing less I would suggest that the comment above demonstrates how squewed your view of fab and its goings on actually is. I am sure that it is couples that hold the influence and power on here in terms of any pecking order, furthermore I am certain that they are the ones having the most fun and most varied kinds of meets..." Haha wrong lol. Plenty of singles have it so much better then couples. This isn't just a swingers site either. Clue is in the name...FAB...Friends And Benefits. | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really..." I love those intimate meets, when you feel wildly connected and it takes your breath away....Mr6262 understands totally that my ability to trust someone fully, to become enthralled by their charisma and to fall for a guys charms is part of my personality and he loves me for it......it is still no strings attached sex....and in no way does it threaten the security of our marriage, it just enhances a very sexy time enjoyed by all three - win:win m x | |||
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"Mmmmm kissing is a very personal thing some couples don't do it for that reason......I'm a singleton I love kissing but women take it different than men......the situation I mean "Never understood that. How on earth is kissing more personal then allowing another women to suck and fuck their husband's dick? Odd! | |||
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"We have had several 'intimate' meets where the kissing, the foreplay, the sex has been slow and very very passionate, and it was great, fun, lovely etc etc The problem as I see it is not the intimacy before and during, it's the intimacy that continued afterwards, outside, with all the kissing. It's one thing to be invited to someone's home to be passionate up to and including the sex, but, I feel, pushing your luck with all the passionate snogging outside of the house. You've treated it as a kind of boyfriend/girlfriend parting of ways rather than someone who was invited for a nsa meet. It wouldn't surprise me in the least to hear that the hubby could have put a stop to you two ever meeting again. He probably, and quite rightly, got jealous by the intimacy shown. " Or she could have gone back in and told him all about it, resulting in explosive sex.... I think what a some singles don't get is that couples feed off experiences and talking about meets, and the sex between the two of them afterwards, when they relive the meet or talk about what each other has done, and usually ends in the best sex ever | |||
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Never understood that. How on earth is kissing more personal then allowing another women to suck and fuck their husband's dick? Odd! "I don't understand handbags... | |||
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"Just to get back to the original discussion. I can see that sometimes there can be a level of intimacy, beyond the actual meet, with some couples, which may lead to some insecurities in a couples relationship. Wouldn't happen to us, as we are too close and see swinging as some fun with like-minded people. It has happened to us in a reverse situation, where the single guy was becoming a little too fond of me (fem !),and was then expecting exclusivity with us. Nipped it in the bud and explained to him why we had to call it a day. Shame, as we had some good times with him. To us it is NSA sex.! Thanks and I can see how that can be one potential problem. I think other times it is not that any particular emotional attachment is formed or even imagined, it is just that the action between a partner and the invited playmate can sometimes be so intimate as to cause discomfort to the other member of the couple at the time..Swinging is fun without emotional attachment .....the comments of most on these forums or the discussions leads us to believe that fab is mainly just turned into a playground for singletons and very very rarely will you come across swingers on here just singles having sex...nothing more nothing less I would suggest that the comment above demonstrates how squewed your view of fab and its goings on actually is. I am sure that it is couples that hold the influence and power on here in terms of any pecking order, furthermore I am certain that they are the ones having the most fun and most varied kinds of meets...You only have to look at the comments ranging from women saying they are wracked with jealousy and could not do this if they were part of a couple...for this reason we leave singles well alone Do you not think couples have jealousy problems too? Or insecurities? not swingers no......insecurity has no part to play in this lifestyle... If you suffer from insecurity then it's never going to end well is it? Couples are swingers and it doesn't always end well,unfortunately." In what way,are you inferring that couples break up through the lifestyle on a more regular occurrence than non swinging couples,just your statement is rather cryptic | |||
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" I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? ." It's possible, of course it is, because 'couples' are not a single homogeneous group, but contain every possible variation of human characteristics. Times two. However, like Courtney & DaveyJane, I doubt this is the most likely scenario. Surely if this were the case, they would have broken all contact. From your description of your meet, it does sound like you behaved as if you were meeting a woman whose husband was also there, rather than a couple. Some couples like this, some couples don't. Rather than wonder if the reason you haven't been invited back is because the husband is jealous (which itself implies you don't quite 'get' swinging), perhaps you should be happy for the one you had? Also, (and we are still too new to know the average number of repeat meets) if one of your singles declines to meet you again, do you wonder what issues they might have, or is it just a 'couple' thing? Mr ddc | |||
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"we met a couple very early on and the woman was relentless with W - she snogged him also as we were giving the goodbye pecks on cheeks and hugs - me and her hubby looked on as she grabbed him and he was a bit embarassed - looking back at the whole evening we wouldnt have carried on - we do laugh about it now but came away with wtf was that all about kind of feeling
Should someone stunt their feelings of ardour to please others,in that situation? Shouldn't everyone be able to enjoy themselves without others saying hey,you're liking that a bit too much for my liking? Isn't swinging about enjoyment without attachment or jealousy?
nobody stopped it - her hubby looked embarassed and looking back at the whole evening we wouldnt have carried on because of her actions throughout the whole meet and his some of the time too - no jealously involved at all - just inexperience on our behalf to stand up for ourselves
You didn't like how much they were enjoying themselves or they did something you hadn't agreed on? You can only learn from your experiences."we are way more confident to speak up now - it wasnt anything to do with how much they were enjoying themselves - we had finished play - very late and literally saying goodbye with the polite hug and she was just over enthusiastic - it was her hubby who gave me wtf look - | |||
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"Yes. The last white guy we met didn't get past the social, i ended up thinking if you try and kiss my wife one more time I'm going to very slowly run you over. Just interested, but, was he aware that kissing was off limits? No. It wasn't until he started. I guess the lesson learned is one of laying down ground rules...I ask these days as I like to kiss and have found it uncomfortable in the past when we first meet and I do not know whether the couple is happy with this or not.. I'm fine with most black guys, but when white guys come on to her I'm usually looking for something to throw at them. But then I'm pretty picky with them to. Much younger than me? No. Dressed up like a gangsta? No. Expecting her to travel two hours to meet you? No. Telling her you can't wait to kiss and snuggle her? Fuck the Fuck off! lol"Wow! Sounds like a bit of a minefield! Glad I'm single tbh! The only couples I play with tend to be ones I know pretty well so I know they're solid as a couple and have no insecurities! Other than that I stick to playing with fellow singles! Xx | |||
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"From my perspective as a female in a couple:- We've had a couple of meets where it's been great sex, great snogging, lots of chemistry, very sensual, my partner loves to see me like this with another guy and I love to play the part to turn him on as it's a big part of ur fantasies together, however afterwards we sometimes get a sense that the single guy sees it as more than it was, keeps messaging, goes over the top about me, talks about next time, etc etc, and it makes me uncomfortable. we still stay friends, have the odd chat, but I probably wouldn't meet again. No matter now good the chemistry on a meet, I am very much in love with my partner, and what we do, we do for each other. I feel sometimes single men don't get the whole swinging in a couple thing and the dynamics of a threeway meet " That's why only some of our meets are repeats...Some guys bring a different vibe and understand what we all want and not just what they want. And variety is the spice of life | |||
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"I have had some wonderful meets with couples on here. Perhaps my most memorable was with a particular couple where not only was the woman drop dead gorgeous, but, also we were hugely into each other. Despite sharing her with her husband in a threesome, the sex was hugely sensual and very intimate, with the pair of us snogging away throughout. At the end of the meet and after a long chat whilst we all recovered, I remember the woman coming outside to see me off, while hubby remained inside, and again we ended up snogging for ages before finally saying good by. Despite us all having a fantastic night, and regularly being in touch since, I have yet to be invited to join them again. I am just wondering, is it possible that sometimes, when a couple invites a single (man or woman) to join them for fun, one or other of the couple become somewhat uncomfortable because of just how well their partner and the invited person hit it off? Or because the level of intimacy is too intense? Just thinking out loud really..." Some people only do one off meets Could be as simple as that | |||
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"Yes. The last white guy we met didn't get past the social, i ended up thinking if you try and kiss my wife one more time I'm going to very slowly run you over. Just interested, but, was he aware that kissing was off limits? No. It wasn't until he started. I guess the lesson learned is one of laying down ground rules...I ask these days as I like to kiss and have found it uncomfortable in the past when we first meet and I do not know whether the couple is happy with this or not.. I'm fine with most black guys, but when white guys come on to her I'm usually looking for something to throw at them. But then I'm pretty picky with them to. Much younger than me? No. Dressed up like a gangsta? No. Expecting her to travel two hours to meet you? No. Telling her you can't wait to kiss and snuggle her? Fuck the Fuck off! lol
Wow!
Sounds like a bit of a minefield!
Glad I'm single tbh! The only couples I play with tend to be ones I know pretty well so I know they're solid as a couple and have no insecurities!
Other than that I stick to playing with fellow singles! Xx"It is a minefield! but that's how you manage a relationship. And i dont believe they have no insecurities for one minute! | |||
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Never understood that. How on earth is kissing more personal then allowing another women to suck and fuck their husband's dick? Odd!
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"Yes. The last white guy we met didn't get past the social, i ended up thinking if you try and kiss my wife one more time I'm going to very slowly run you over. Just interested, but, was he aware that kissing was off limits? No. It wasn't until he started. I guess the lesson learned is one of laying down ground rules...I ask these days as I like to kiss and have found it uncomfortable in the past when we first meet and I do not know whether the couple is happy with this or not.. I'm fine with most black guys, but when white guys come on to her I'm usually looking for something to throw at them. But then I'm pretty picky with them to. Much younger than me? No. Dressed up like a gangsta? No. Expecting her to travel two hours to meet you? No. Telling her you can't wait to kiss and snuggle her? Fuck the Fuck off! lol
Wow!
Sounds like a bit of a minefield!
Glad I'm single tbh! The only couples I play with tend to be ones I know pretty well so I know they're solid as a couple and have no insecurities!
Other than that I stick to playing with fellow singles! Xx
It is a minefield! but that's how you manage a relationship. And i dont believe they have no insecurities for one minute! " ....experts eh | |||
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