FabSwingers.com forum: Fantasies that don't live up to expectations?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever had a fantasy finally fulfilled after thinking about it and longing for it for a long time, only for it not to live up to expectations?

Are some fantasies better left as such and never explored?

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Have you ever had a fantasy finally fulfilled after thinking about it and longing for it for a long time, only for it not to live up to expectations?

Are some fantasies better left as such and never explored?"

Yes, on occasion there are definitely fantasies that once lived out do not provide the level of sexual gratification anticipated. Sometimes this can be as a result of fantasizing about a particular thing or person for too long before hand (making it difficult to live up to in reality). Other times, it is not so much the fantasy which is a let down, but perhaps instead the people or chemistry/dynamics at the time of playing it out.

I have certainly found that some fantasies need to be explored on more than one occasion before best results are achieved...so don't throw the towel in just yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good comments

Hasn't happened to me yet! I've loved every fantasy that I've fulfilled!

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By *ngelsdevilWoman
over a year ago

Merseyside

I have a reoccurring sexual fantasy and love to watch porn involving meeting with a guy twice my age and being seduced. It stays fantasy because it would never turn out as good in reality!

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

My fantasy is to see a Labour government that dosent destroy the economy. Reality turned out to be Cameron.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Fem to fem is something I'd always wanted to do. The thought of being under the covers, entwined in a passionate embrace with another lady, exploring each others bodies was something that filled my fantasies for many many years. However, the reality I found to be well below my expectations and after several attempts I'm completely not bothered if I never do it again. My OH tells me that it's because all I've ever met is other bi curious ladies with as little or less experience than me but I'm insistent that I won't purposely meet for fem to fem fun again. If it happens during a couples meet than so be it, but I won't go looking for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FFM. But I think that was because it wasn't the right combination of people. Fun, but not all that.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Being married?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever had a fantasy finally fulfilled after thinking about it and longing for it for a long time, only for it not to live up to expectations?

Are some fantasies better left as such and never explored?"

They always seem to be funnier in practice than I imagine

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"My fantasy is to see a Labour government that dosent destroy the economy. Reality turned out to be Cameron."

I don't think you'll see that anytime soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as above FFM, was ok but not what I had imagined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever had a fantasy finally fulfilled after thinking about it and longing for it for a long time, only for it not to live up to expectations?

Are some fantasies better left as such and never explored?"

So far the fantasies I have explored in reality have far surpassed my expectations....and I am always dreaming up more wild fantasies! m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's not so much the fantasy so much as the timing, dynamic amonst the participants etc.

On the flip side a 'vanilla' pull was one of the best times ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever had a fantasy finally fulfilled after thinking about it and longing for it for a long time, only for it not to live up to expectations?

Are some fantasies better left as such and never explored?"

Wife fucking a work colleague / friend - awkward and complete dud. Worth a try though

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By *om girlCouple (FF)
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Fantasises are better in your head

Coz its always go to plan

And always perfect

Ours Ffm but guys never live upto expectations

All talk and not enough Staminia

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I fulfilled my mfm fantasy.Was far better than I imagined. Maybe as it wasn't preplanned and involved two good friends.Very surreal.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

The first time we had an ffm I loved the bit where our guest lay back as we both concentrated on her, then it was great exploring Mrs together, but when it came to my turn, my first thought, when one of them sat on my face was "Oh, I can't see what's happening!"

I'd never realised how, in my mind, my fantasy had always been viewed in the third person

(I still loved it though

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Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffm

For years I've had a fantasy about going with a woman.

I did but couldn't play with pussy. I regularly play with women at parties. But can only kiss and play with boobs. But I'll happily let them go down on me Which just makes me want cock more

They need a bi selfish button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was a hot fantasy but setting my Mrs up in spa with BBC that I wanted watching her enjoying so much did put me off after that hahahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately for me, I'm yet to fulfill any of my fantasies so as a result I am not qualified to comment

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

I have one fantasy that I know MissK will find deeply weird and for that reason she'll never know what it is. And to be honest I can't see it living up to expectations anyway.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"I have a reoccurring sexual fantasy and love to watch porn involving meeting with a guy twice my age and being seduced. It stays fantasy because it would never turn out as good in reality! "

Hi lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say one of my most recent experiences was when the woman spat my cum back into my mouth after I'd blown my load into hers. It really wasn't as hot as I'd imagined it so many times beforehand

Will definitely have to try it again... Just to be sure of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have loved exploring our fantasies and some of the really simple ones have been the most arousing - some off the cuff things we had never thought of have been pretty damn good too - do find though that some things whilst still horny arent as good if you repeat them -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my younger days I used to fantasise about sex in the shower. It always looked so hot on the TV. But in reality it plays havoc on the lady's natural "wetness " hardly enough room and one of u is put of the water so it's a bit chilly. Not for me thanks

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