FabSwingers.com forum: Cock pictures

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering why so many are against a cock pic?

For me it's essential to see before meeting / chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering why so many are against a cock pic?

For me it's essential to see before meeting / chatting

Totally agree with you , and have said so many times

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

So what is a happy balance ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think people are against them as such I think most who object are against their being only cock pictures and nothing else.

I don't care I know what I like to see and if it isn't on a profile it just means we aren't compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always had mine 'out'

so I never really need to send any in mails..

Part of what i like about a sex site is mine and other peoples 'rude' pics...and I always want more on my profile(or on friends/meets profiles)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"So what is a happy balance ?"

The best balance is to have what you want, if it its attracting the people you want you've got got it right

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I don't think people are against them as such I think most who object are against their being only cock pictures and nothing else.

I don't care I know what I like to see and if it isn't on a profile it just means we aren't compatible."

^^^^agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always had mine 'out'

so I never really need to send any in mails..

Part of what i like about a sex site is mine and other peoples 'rude' pics...and I always want more on my profile(or on friends/meets profiles)"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what is a happy balance ?"

I'm not sure- I don't mind them in messages normally have to ask lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my humble opinion.. I don't want to see the same cock from 24 different angles.. just one good one that could be set to private maybe so it could be sent should anyone request it. But then it is a swinging/sex site and I spose it's to be expected.. I just much prefer to see arms/shoulders and torso (and face, in time).

Some things you can't unsee.. and if anyone pops up whose pics I really don't like then I block them so I don't see them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree. Happy balance. Not everyone's cup of tea, but then for others it is.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I've always had mine 'out'

so I never really need to send any in mails..

Part of what i like about a sex site is mine and other peoples 'rude' pics...and I always want more on my profile(or on friends/meets profiles)"

Your photos are good quality and interesting, you also have a variety and they are good to look at. A lot of men just take boring selfie cock photos that make themselves look like dicks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think people are against them as such I think most who object are against their being only cock pictures and nothing else."

Exactly this its hard to work out what people look like just by seeing their genitals but would be a nive skill to have just incase Matthew Kelly brings back You Bet...

We recently got messages from a guy that only seemed interested in meeting the mrs and must of sent the same pic of his dick 4 times hes now blocked..

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

I have pics in 'action' pics in my private gallery which clearly show my dick (and allow for a scale to be deduced from the background

, however, I decline to have any pics purely of my cock. For me a pic of a cock on its own is the same as a pic of a pussy on its own...personally I don't really want or need to look at either..

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

"I've always had mine 'out'

so I never really need to send any in mails..

Part of what i like about a sex site is mine and other peoples 'rude' pics...and I always want more on my profile(or on friends/meets profiles)"

Excellent photos and given me some ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always had mine 'out'

so I never really need to send any in mails..

Part of what i like about a sex site is mine and other peoples 'rude' pics...and I always want more on my profile(or on friends/meets profiles)"

Really agree with this. Important part is seeing a cock. As it is quite an important part of the evening - I have yo like it.

One or two is all that is needed and millions from all different angles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my pictures are a bit of a compromise

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I think it's nice to see some bulges - the male equivalent to a good cleavage - giving a hint of what's to come

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I don't think people are against them as such I think most who object are against their being only cock pictures and nothing else.

I don't care I know what I like to see and if it isn't on a profile it just means we aren't compatible."

Yep, ^this.

One or two decent ones, (not taken over the toilet!), are fine.

I don't like cock avatars though. It's a bit too much like strangers shoving their dick in my face.

And 52 close up cock photos from minutely different angles and no other photos? What's that all about?

They're kind of important for sex but in general they're not pretty and relatively few people have spectacular ones. Most do look remarkably similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different horses for different courses I suppose

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

I think that some of us Gentlemen are struggling to get nice erotic photos to help us stand out from the crowd, In comparison to the female form which is so sexy in all its shapes,sizes and poses.

Once you take a face off your photos it doesn't leave much left to show off

But some men get fixated on the mentality off "look at my big hard cock, you know you want it "

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

You can currently see mine in a play picture, but then the reason for that is to show I really meet rather than as some form of display.

I have one, maybe two in my private pics, again to show you a part of me you might be interested in if we're friends. But I do have to agree less is more in the pic dept.

As a regular perusor of the new pics section, it does stagger me the proportion that are a close-up of male members - in every sense of the word.

To parahrase the film Zulu - "cock pics - thousands of em!"

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"But some men get fixated on the mentality off "look at my big hard cock, you know you want it "

I can sort of understand this.

However, look at my little soft cock, sicking out of the open fly of my jeans, along with some straggly clumps of pubic hair?

Whatever are they thinking?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But some men get fixated on the mentality off "look at my big hard cock, you know you want it "

I can sort of understand this.

However, look at my little soft cock, sicking out of the open fly of my jeans, along with some straggly clumps of pubic hair?

Whatever are they thinking?!"

I keep my cock pics private

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Suppose cock pics are good but other things to go with it putting a cock to a face is quite nice . We not great fans a close up pussy shots either as could be anyone's .

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

"Suppose cock pics are good but other things to go with it putting a cock to a face is quite nice . We not great fans a close up pussy shots either as could be anyone's . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering why so many are against a cock pic?

For me it's essential to see before meeting / chatting

Agreed. I need to see erection pics that clearly show the cock attached to the person I am going to meet.

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

Is it the consensus of the Jury that Cock pictures as profile / avatar is a no no.

But a selection of full body photos including the occasional cock coved/ uncovered and with the odd consenting woman is acceptable, that way if you don't like it you don't have to look but you can get to see the whole package that is on offer if you want

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Is it the consensus of the Jury that Cock pictures as profile / avatar is a no no.

That's my opinion, yes.

I block men with cock avatars if they message me, (my profile does warn that I will).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a lot of women don't like cock pix I don't know why I like seeing pix of women naked n shaven it's part of this site hey that's just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering why so many are against a cock pic?

For me it's essential to see before meeting / chatting

I don't actually think it's that many that actually care. They're my most fabbed pics and the forums do not speak for the masses. Never caused me many issues. Kind of hypocritical by some who happily show their own privates, more than several arse pics and tits galore. Just enjoy whatever tickles your pickle x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Just wondering why so many are against a cock pic?

For me it's essential to see before meeting / chatting

Bums and boobs are not really the same as a cock!

Your cock photos may be the most fabbed but I'd bet money that it's almost exclusively men that have fabbed them. If it's male attention you're after then cock photos are great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering why so many are against a cock pic?

For me it's essential to see before meeting / chatting

Bums and boobs are not really the same as a cock!

Your cock photos may be the most fabbed but I'd bet money that it's almost exclusively men that have fabbed them. If it's male attention you're after then cock photos are great."

In fairness it's a fair spread

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Just wondering why so many are against a cock pic?

For me it's essential to see before meeting / chatting

Bums and boobs are not really the same as a cock!

Your cock photos may be the most fabbed but I'd bet money that it's almost exclusively men that have fabbed them. If it's male attention you're after then cock photos are great.

In fairness it's a fair spread "

In fairness, your cock pics are a bit different from the norm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this and other such like sex dating/meeting/swinging sites - cock and pussy/anal pics are the norm - and its up to the person looking to "pass by" if he/she does not like those sort of pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And 52 close up cock photos from minutely different angles and no other photos? What's that all about?"

Probably of the same mindset of someone with a similar attitude to boobs in wet t-shirts I'm guessing

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over a year ago

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Except I've never seen a man complain on here about wet t-shirt pics. And I get lots of messages complimenting them. And a lot of fabs, from men.

How many messages from women saying how great their cock photos are do you suppose the guys with 57 cock photos get?

My wet t-shirt photos do what they are supposed to do. They're there not because that's what would appeal to me but because men like them.

Some (a lot of) men need to realise that, in general, women don't like the same sort of photos men do, and they need to have photos that do appeal to women.

Ranting that women darned well should like 57 minutely different cock pics is a bit pointless. Likewise using the argument that women show their boobs and bums, and some even show their fannies, is daft. Men and women tend to like different things.

We show, (or try to show), what will appeal to our target 'market'. It would make sense for guys to do the same, yet a lot don't.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but there are 6 photos of your fabulous boobs in a wet t-shirt at slightly different angles

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Yeah but there are 6 photos of your fabulous boobs in a wet t-shirt at slightly different angles

And some guys fab every one of them. Nobody has complained.

Originally I put several up to see which was favourite but they're all popular enough to leave, I think. (Besides, if I take some of them down, I may have to finally get round to taking more photos.)

Anyway, I'm failing to see the similarity between something men react positively to and something that puts a lot of women off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but there are 6 photos of your fabulous boobs in a wet t-shirt at slightly different angles

And some guys fab every one of them. Nobody has complained.

Originally I put several up to see which was favourite but they're all popular enough to leave, I think. (Besides, if I take some of them down, I may have to finally get round to taking more photos.)

Anyway, I'm failing to see the similarity between something men react positively to and something that puts a lot of women off.

I just don't agree that it puts a lot of people off. Just a opinion that the forumites have which I don't think reflects the opinion of the whole site. But your poiny about various different angles of essentially the same subject is a bit hypocritical. Still great pics but no more legitimate than if a bloke had done it x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

My most fabbed wet t-shirt pic has 962 fabs, most from men.

Show me a guy - a straight guy, looking for women - with nothing but multiple close up cock pics, with a photo fabbed even 481 times, mostly by women and I'll consider conceding that wet t-shirt pics and cock pics are similar and comparable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love and kisses xx

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Yeah but there are 6 photos of your fabulous boobs in a wet t-shirt at slightly different angles

And some guys fab every one of them. Nobody has complained.

Originally I put several up to see which was favourite but they're all popular enough to leave, I think. (Besides, if I take some of them down, I may have to finally get round to taking more photos.)

Anyway, I'm failing to see the similarity between something men react positively to and something that puts a lot of women off.

Trust me, it puts a lot of women off. I talk to women on other sites, in clubs and in other places away from this forum.

It's not hypocritical because multiple wet t-shirt pics (which are popular) and multiple cock pics (which are not popular) are very different things.

If I read that even a small number of men hated wet t-shirt pics or if I got negative comments about them, or blocked because of them, I'd make them private or take them down.

Why stick with doing something that may hamper your chance of what you want in even a small way?

I'm not actually including your cock pics in this though because, as I said, your's are not the usual close up cock pics.

I can't understand why some men are so determined that because they like a certain type of photo, that's what will appeal to women.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I agree it is nice to see the cock picture before meeting, but I would not meet anyone who had more than 2 or 3 cock pictures as I would begin to think that is all they have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't stand being sent a cock pic. Ive seen 1 or 2 in my time and being a mum I've lifted, wiped, creamed and released from a zip or too in my time. I kinda know what they look like now.

Just the same as my flaps, I would not force a pic of those on any one. (although I think mine are pretty to look at)

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