FabSwingers.com forum: Couples..please, please more men pics!

By *issusAndHubster OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

I can understand why there are more women's pics on profiles, we/I had the same struggle with ours.

But I'm finding it impossible to judge if a couple are 'for us' by just looking at the ladies pics.

Do people also find it is usually the women that message? To get a feel for a couple, where both are equally important to us, it is good to be able to speak to both on message- how do others find this?

Missus x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I can understand why there are more women's pics on profiles, we/I had the same struggle with ours.

But I'm finding it impossible to judge if a couple are 'for us' by just looking at the ladies pics.

Missus x"

We learnt long ago that if a profile or a message doesn't have what we require on it then that person or couple isn't "for us". If you immediately want to change what's on offer its not right for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, it is not hard for couples to have a pic of them 2 in the same pic lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have equal amount of both, as soon as you look at our profile you can tell if you like us or not, it makes it easier do decide if you want to message and engage in chat, or just pass us by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree OP but if couples only want to show the woman that's up to them. And it also makes it easier for me to avoid them.

The couples we met that mostly showed the woman were crap meets. Lesson learned.

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By *awkesWoman
over a year ago

Corwen

Yea... I notice that alot.lots of provocative fem pics and 1 token close up cock pic... does nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can understand why there are more women's pics on profiles, we/I had the same struggle with ours.

But I'm finding it impossible to judge if a couple are 'for us' by just looking at the ladies pics.

Missus x"

We would find it hard to decide from your pics if you were for us , so it works both ways .

And it's usually the male half on here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no cock pics of Mr

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By *issusAndHubster OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

It is up to people what they post on their profile, but as was said, you pass them by if you can't see both, which as a rough guess means that over half, if not at least 70%, are a non-starter just due to lack of male photos. As I assume we are all here to meet people, it seems a shame not to up your chances of being noticed and to have to pass on by profiles just because you can't 'see' if there may be that physical attraction.

I get the impression that many couples don't meet other couples through browsing profiles, so we will probably be focusing on clubs.

Just my musings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP 2 male pics on display! Really we could be accused of much more Fem pics in our profile but at least we have more than two!

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By *issusAndHubster OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I can understand why there are more women's pics on profiles, we/I had the same struggle with ours.

But I'm finding it impossible to judge if a couple are 'for us' by just looking at the ladies pics.

Missus x

We would find it hard to decide from your pics if you were for us , so it works both ways .

And it's usually the male half on here .

We have a lot more pics in private once we are friends with people for them to judge a bit more. The chat is very important to us, not just physical, so our pics are just a taster

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By *issusAndHubster OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"OP 2 male pics on display! Really we could be accused of much more Fem pics in our profile but at least we have more than two!

5 more in our album if we click in chat. Hubster doesn't want his pic on the open forum, I think,so,etching many men see to say is the reason they don't put more up. There are more of me, but that is also because men want to see the lady too, as well as bi-curious ladies. I take your point about how many pics, but 8 pics of the male is still way more than many we have looked at (granted, I haven't looked at every single one on fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple = 2 people, simples. So couple profiles should show an equal amount of the two of them but none do, which puts me off most. It's not rocket science gals and guys, the clue is in the title "couples"

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By *issusAndHubster OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"A couple = 2 people, simples. So couple profiles should show an equal amount of the two of them but none do, which puts me off most. It's not rocket science gals and guys, the clue is in the title "couples"

Hubster! We are getting the camera out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile is a couples profile ok most pics are of Mrs Funcouple but there is pics of mr in there and we both message people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can understand why there are more women's pics on profiles, we/I had the same struggle with ours.

But I'm finding it impossible to judge if a couple are 'for us' by just looking at the ladies pics.

Missus x

Simple isn't it? Yet too many want others to change their profiles to suit them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How people choose to run there profiles as a couple and display pics is entirely up to them, frankly. We would like to see better photos like full body shots and more info on profiles but we can't all have what we want

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By *mmaNandyCouple
over a year ago

wolvo

In a ideal world maybe , end of the day you have to tailor your profile for what you want to gain from it, we found when we had near enough equal photo's we mainly attracted bi guys and tv's which its nice to be noticed but not what we were looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to even it out, but I think the Mrs is the main attraction for viewers to out profile anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try our best but let's face it there's not much point when even couples fab her but not him lol just means the lady is the one who they wanna see

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By *issusAndHubster OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *issusAndHubster OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"We try our best but let's face it there's not much point when even couples fab her but not him lol just means the lady is the one who they wanna see

(Searching for 'like' bottom and realising spending far too much time on Facebook!)

have fabbed one of your pics Mr

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By *issusAndHubster OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"We try our best but let's face it there's not much point when even couples fab her but not him lol just means the lady is the one who they wanna see

(Searching for 'like' bottom and realising spending far too much time on Facebook!)

have fabbed one of your pics Mr

:D"

'Like' button even!!

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

I love taking pics of MissK and I love it when she uploads pics on here when I'm not there. I find it very horny when she puts new ones up without telling me.

Plus she's much nicer to look at than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We try our best but let's face it there's not much point when even couples fab her but not him lol just means the lady is the one who they wanna see

(Searching for 'like' bottom and realising spending far too much time on Facebook!)

have fabbed one of your pics Mr

Ahhhh that's a lovely gesture I may blush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love taking pics of MissK and I love it when she uploads pics on here when I'm not there. I find it very horny when she puts new ones up without telling me.

Plus she's much nicer to look at than me.

Oh I dunno there's certain parts of you that are very eye catching

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By *issusAndHubster OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Loving the male pics on your profiles peeps!

Can't beat a torso

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

"I love taking pics of MissK and I love it when she uploads pics on here when I'm not there. I find it very horny when she puts new ones up without telling me.

Plus she's much nicer to look at than me.

Oh I dunno there's certain parts of you that are very eye catching

Oooh you smooth talker you. Flattery will get you everywhere

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By *idseysCouple
over a year ago

redditch

We have no pics of Mr on the profile because he doesn't play, he watches, and we only meet single men for Mrs

We do have a face pic of both of us which we send privately though.

Is normally Mrs posting on the forum, but we both discuss all messages and answer them together, when we get past the initial stage on here, we both have individual conversations (texts, phone calls, kik, etc) with the other person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love taking pics of MissK and I love it when she uploads pics on here when I'm not there. I find it very horny when she puts new ones up without telling me.

Plus she's much nicer to look at than me.

Oh I dunno there's certain parts of you that are very eye catching

Oooh you smooth talker you. Flattery will get you everywhere

We bloody hope so

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

"I love taking pics of MissK and I love it when she uploads pics on here when I'm not there. I find it very horny when she puts new ones up without telling me.

Plus she's much nicer to look at than me.

Oh I dunno there's certain parts of you that are very eye catching

Oooh you smooth talker you. Flattery will get you everywhere

We bloody hope so "

Pick a date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love taking pics of MissK and I love it when she uploads pics on here when I'm not there. I find it very horny when she puts new ones up without telling me.

Plus she's much nicer to look at than me.

Oh I dunno there's certain parts of you that are very eye catching

Oooh you smooth talker you. Flattery will get you everywhere

We bloody hope so

Pick a date

Oh once this shit at work is out the way we will x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is up to people what they post on their profile, but as was said, you pass them by if you can't see both, which as a rough guess means that over half, if not at least 70%, are a non-starter just due to lack of male photos. As I assume we are all here to meet people, it seems a shame not to up your chances of being noticed and to have to pass on by profiles just because you can't 'see' if there may be that physical attraction.

I get the impression that many couples don't meet other couples through browsing profiles, so we will probably be focusing on clubs.

Just my musings

That's exactly what we do. We go to private parties and clubs, we have a network of people that know us from various parties. We don't really bother messaging couples on here.

We don't need to up our chances, we are not on sale, the lack of male pics on our public photos seems to bother others more than it does us.

I couldn't give a damn who passes us by, chances are we have never looked at their profiles anyway.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We too would love to see more, many have none at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Several off him on ours maybe why we get few meets latterly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" If you immediately want to change what's on offer its not right for you.

I really like this statement, it is spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love meeting couples and this is a common issue i've found, usually a trillion pics of the missus (gorgeous of course and I'm not at all complaining) and then only one or two of the mister (and then often only cock shots) xx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We've ended up meeting quite a few couples where the male half hasn't been on public display.

If a profile gets our attention and we think we might match, we simply ask to see pics in private. Same as people ask to see our faces.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It's really quite simple. If you don't like a profile move on - don't expect anyone to change their profile to suite you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's really quite simple. If you don't like a profile move on - don't expect anyone to change their profile to suite you. "

You can't truly decide if you can only see one half of the couple-simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we would like to see both halves of a couple and more info but we can't see the simple thing..... The two halves

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"It's really quite simple. If you don't like a profile move on - don't expect anyone to change their profile to suite you.

You can't truly decide if you can only see one half of the couple-simple."

Decide what? You really decide on the basis of a few pics that might or might not be the people they claim to be? Our profile has far more pictures of me than him - but we do very well thank you very much. We have no reason to change our profile because it doesn't suit someone that we might or might not want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we would like to see both halves of a couple and more info but we can't see the simple thing..... The two halves

As we said we'd like to see better pictures full length shots but in the end everyone runs there profile how they want to......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always assume if there are no pics of the male half he probably looks like Quasimodo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always assume if there are no pics of the male half he probably looks like Quasimodo."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's really quite simple. If you don't like a profile move on - don't expect anyone to change their profile to suite you.

You can't truly decide if you can only see one half of the couple-simple.

If there is an attraction obviously

I don't just sleep with anyone, I have to be attracted to them but I guess we are all different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We try our best but let's face it there's not much point when even couples fab her but not him lol just means the lady is the one who they wanna see

We found exactly the same 200+ fabs for her 5 or 6 for me and always men.

We now have less of me as i started to feel like it was me that was putting people off but to be fair we find that its usually the male of the couples that is messaging us hardly ever the female and usually doesn't get any futher than just a few messages.

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over a year ago

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I can understand why there are more women's pics on profiles, we/I had the same struggle with ours.

But I'm finding it impossible to judge if a couple are 'for us' by just looking at the ladies pics.

Missus x"

Even as a single guy on here, when it comes to setting up meets with couples I agree with all of the above...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree! We have more of me but also have some of my husband too x

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Totally agree! We have more of me but also have some of my husband too x"

Always quite happy for there to be more of the woman - especially in your case

Actually, I am rather suspicious of couple's profiles where there are predominantly pictures of the man and his cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only look for straight men, and funnily enough they don't seem that bothered about seeing pics of Charlie. That said, we pop in a few anyway, because we think it's nice for a potential play-friend to see who he'll be teaming up with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of our meets off fab are with single men so it doesn't really matter what I look like, any couples we have met have been in clubs or socials, I am not very photogenic and despise having my picture taken if that means people pass us by then so be it, we won't lose sleep over not meeting someone we have never even spoken to, why oh why do so many people try to tell other people how to run their profile? If you don't like what you see don't message job done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we try to keep a good balance of male and fem pix on our profile

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"The majority of our meets off fab are with single men so it doesn't really matter what I look like, any couples we have met have been in clubs or socials, I am not very photogenic and despise having my picture taken if that means people pass us by then so be it, we won't lose sleep over not meeting someone we have never even spoken to, why oh why do so many people try to tell other people how to run their profile? If you don't like what you see don't message job done"

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By *revorAndTraceyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

We try to oblige both genders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laura took a few minutes to try and get a few pics of me to add on here and I realised our lack of male photos was because I feel so awkward in front of a camera and it shows as all that is running through my head is "hurry up hurry up hurry up" its almost like a phobia of having my photo taken and to be fair cloths on or off it makes no difference.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yep, only a few of me and plenty of wiggles. Will add new pic of me soon, as she actually took one I don't hate and I look different now.

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