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Would you have joined fab 10..20..30 years ago?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, 10 years ago i would have never ever have thought to join a site like fab because the way i been brought up.

I wonder if other people on here felt the same way? And what made you to join the site later in life that you would never have joined years ago?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I joined my first online chat site in 2006 that closed and I came here. I didnt know about computers before that I am a late starter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is have loved sites like this when I was young

If there had been fab when I was 20 I'd have joined like a shot, imagine being a 20 year old single female on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I would have joined for sure.

The newspaper and magazine ads, and chatlines seem like a distant memory now!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Most definetly, if fab was around 30 years ago I wouldn't have put myself in such dangerous situations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have done this 8 months ago. But I love it

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Not 20/30 years ago....

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Ten years ago yes I would. F posting

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've been on sites like this since 1997, and would have loved to have had the opportunity when I was younger. I'm making up for it now though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been on a few sites over the years. We got into swinging back in 2004 and our first site was swing2us, ran by a couple called Dean and Matty. Anyone remember that? Not many people on it, but fewer time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not.I first met a swinger when I was in my twenties. When she told me she was in an open marriage I ran a mile.Funny how my perception has changed.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

30 years? No. I'd have been 12.

20 years? No. I wouldn't have had the time and I was in a committed monogamous relationship.

10 years? If I hadn't been in a relationship, definitely!

I'd love to have had this site around the beginning of 2000 onwards. It may have saved me from a relationship that was totally wrong for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 years ago....possibly not.

20 years ago....definitely, if it had existed. But when I started it was usually a po box number. Today it is more...instant. Just as lots of things are in society today. Are we a more impatient society?

10 years ago....read above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is have loved sites like this when I was young

If there had been fab when I was 20 I'd have joined like a shot, imagine being a 20 year old single female on here "

I'm a 22 year old single female! It's great but reading and replying to messages could genuinely become a full time job

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Yes, I would have joined for sure.

The newspaper and magazine ads, and chatlines seem like a distant memory now!"
that's interesting, your profile says 34 i really didn't realise people where still using that way of contacting people up to such a short while ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 years ago - Obviously not

20 years ago - Still a bit young and naive

10 years ago - Yes, I was traveling all over North Wales/North West and the Midlands for work it would of been ideal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'd had a different husband I would have joined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is have loved sites like this when I was young

If there had been fab when I was 20 I'd have joined like a shot, imagine being a 20 year old single female on here "

This^

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

30 years ago clearly not

20 years ago knowing what I was like back then no

10 years ago we were just starting to think about experiment, the fact it took us a further seven years to actually move from fantasy to reality suggests we were not quite ready.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I was using contact mags in my late teens so had fab been around back then yes I definitely would have! Much quicker response time on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technology certainly has made it easy for couples to commit adultery and have affairs.

With the volume of people today playing away from home. Remove the technology, i.e. p.c. and mobiles.

There would be a fucking queue a mile long outside of all public phone boxes.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Will have been here 10 yrs in August anyway.

Would have joined 25 yrs ago as I was in an open relationship with a woman and had my first meet with her via a lot of faffing about on Redezvous

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

30 years ago I was a baby, 20 years ago I was a weird little kid..

10 years ago aged 20, probably.. I had already had an experience with a group of lads, and an attempted 3some with my then girlfriend and our male friend I would have jumped at the chance to have more experiences like those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married so no I wouldn't of joined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep 10 years ago i would have loved fab! Already had dabbled in threesomes by then.

Doll x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is have loved sites like this when I was young

If there had been fab when I was 20 I'd have joined like a shot, imagine being a 20 year old single female on here "

Im 20 and its amazing some of the messages. But no 10 years ago i would have been 10 and 20 years ago i would have been 7 months x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I would of joined for sure 20 yrs ago although I'm pretty sure I would of got myself into a whole load of trouble.

I didn't know about any of these kind of sites until about 2 yrs ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 yrs ish i ve been liberated - i wish id met the right people and got involved years before - and as for the fem thing - god ive missed out in a lot of years of fun

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

If I was single or not in a monogamous relationship 10 years ago, then yep, for sure

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Only joined last year ..... would we have done this sooner ??? Definitely if I had not been ill..... so making up for lost time now , and loving every minute xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 years ago the internet was unknownto the average person. 10 or 20 years ago I was married, no way could I have swung with my ex-husband.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

30... Obviously not.

20... No, I was really insecure in my teens and would have been eaten alive.

10 years ago, we were already joined to a couple of sites.

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By *avenvalCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Hell yes 30 years ago contact mags were so time consuming and there were just as many time wasters but it took weeks to find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We first joined in 2008/9 but never met , it wasn't as easy then as lots didn't have webcams or camera phones And found it hard to out time wasters. Re joined last year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wished I had joined it three years ago this week when I was working away from home for 10 months, many lonely nights in my motorhome could have been better

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

5 years ago and more I would not have. I joined when I did because I felt I needed to take action. It was the right time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't have the confidence that I do now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[ I had friends that were involved in swining ten year's ago... I think they would have loved me to join them.. I've always been a little kinky...but wasn't that open to it.]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years - yes

20 years - possibly

30 years - think some people would have reported a 8 year old winking at anything with nipples.

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Yes indeed, feel cheated now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years ago - Nope - I was in a monogamous relationship with an arsehole!

20 years ago - Nope - I was in a monogamous relationship with a DIFFERENT arsehole!

30 years ago! Was 17 and very inexperienced - just had sex for the first time so just discovering the delights of one on one! Personally I think all young people should concentrate on 1on 1 for a few years before they think of 'mixing it up!' Like cookery - I think you need to take plenty of time learning and practicing the basics before you try out haute cuisine!

25 years ago though - HELL YES! I'd have had one hell of a time!

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

No like you my upbringing would've had a lot to do with it. I came across a sex site about 7 years ago. And used it on and off. Til a meet showed me fab in July. And I'm not going anywhere soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would of joined for sure 20 yrs ago although I'm pretty sure I would of got myself into a whole load of trouble.

I didn't know about any of these kind of sites until about 2 yrs ago "

Same here! I'd never heard of fab or swinging! Someone I met on a dating site told me about it! SOOOOOO glad they did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It never crossed my mind that anything like Planet Fab even existed until last Jan when someone enlightened me. But even if I had known ten or twenty years ago I don't think I'd have been self aware enough to handle it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ten years ago maybe..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course. 40 years ago we only had the contact magazines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, 10 years ago i would have never ever have thought to join a site like fab because the way i been brought up.

I wonder if other people on here felt the same way? And what made you to join the site later in life that you would never have joined years ago?"

I wasn't on here but on a n other site 10 years ago. It has nothing to do with how you have been brought up. It's about personal preference and sexual needs and desires x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi, 10 years ago i would have never ever have thought to join a site like fab because the way i been brought up.

I wonder if other people on here felt the same way? And what made you to join the site later in life that you would never have joined years ago?

I wasn't on here but on a n other site 10 years ago. It has nothing to do with how you have been brought up. It's about personal preference and sexual needs and desires x"

how you been brought up does play a part...if you been brought up in a different culture and taught no sex or relationship outside of marriage then yes it does play a part.

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"Hi, 10 years ago i would have never ever have thought to join a site like fab because the way i been brought up.

I wonder if other people on here felt the same way? And what made you to join the site later in life that you would never have joined years ago?"

My first swinging experience was 1995 at that point it was all Mags didn't do websites till 1997-98 with the intervention of man chat rooms lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ten...yes, twenty...illegal, thirty...impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, 10 years ago I would've been 15 and way underage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I would have joined for sure.

The newspaper and magazine ads, and chatlines seem like a distant memory now!"

Good old days, phone the number in the paper, leave a message, wait to hear from the person who left the message and on and on and on and maybe get a meet arranged and you could'nt even see the person you were contacting.

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"Hi, 10 years ago i would have never ever have thought to join a site like fab because the way i been brought up.

I wonder if other people on here felt the same way? And what made you to join the site later in life that you would never have joined years ago?

My first swinging experience was 1995 at that point it was all Mags didn't do websites till 1997-98 with the intervention of man chat rooms lol "

Haha bloody spell check that should've been the intervention of MSN chat rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on online sex sites for meeting people since I've been interested in sex. So yes, about 15 years ago I was on very similar sites looking for kink.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Being in a pedantic mood this morning, although the Internet existed the World Wide Web, the thing that we post on started 25 years ago so 30 years ago no, and being honest (and maybe it's a generational thing) I'm more of a real life person and only recently got introduced to this stuff. My social networking occurs in the pub

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

submissive land

God I so wish computers had been sround when in 80s when first married def both would have joined then

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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago

Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...!

Coincidentally, 30 years ago (1985.. well... 31 come September) was when I first swung at a house party after my ex-porn 'starlet' girlfriend of three weeks (!!) took me to one, not realising I'd not even heard the term (I was 24 ffs!!!), let alone never been to a party where I witnessed a woman having an MMMF on a sofa in the lounge within 15 mins of getting there! Lol!

I was soooo naive about all matters to do with sex then, let alone Swinging, I would have relished the ability to go on a computer, log on to a site like this and just use it as 'reference material'.

Hard to remember how 'isolated' the scene was back then. Sites like this have transformed it. In some ways for the good. In some ways maybe not.

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