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Is being bull natural

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By *rikki1967uk OP   Man
over a year ago

peterborough

Like the idea of cuckold meet but I'm not naturally dominant except in my job. Privately quite shy. How do you find boundaries without over stepping accidentally and ruinning the fun. Always been taught to respect my meets so basically telly them what to do for me doesn't come easy. Sorry for rambling.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe being a 'bull' might not be for you?

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By *rikki1967uk OP   Man
over a year ago

peterborough


"Maybe being a 'bull' might not be for you? "

Thanks for your thoughts. You may be right

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Maybe being a 'bull' might not be for you?

Thanks for your thoughts. You may be right "

I love the role of the male in a cuckold scenario..however, I hate the term 'Bull'...sounds like you are being used to 'mate' a female

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Maybe being a 'bull' might not be for you?

Thanks for your thoughts. You may be right "

In that case, be yourself and ask that the cuck is submissive and obedient then you can say 'make us a cuppa, mate, whilst I shag ya wife' and he'll go 'yes sir, milk and sugar?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like the idea of cuckold meet but I'm not naturally dominant except in my job. Privately quite shy. How do you find boundaries without over stepping accidentally and ruinning the fun. Always been taught to respect my meets so basically telly them what to do for me doesn't come easy. Sorry for rambling. "

Bull's a crap name tbh, alpha male probably better. How do you find boundaries? Communication is the key especially when cuckolding. You're joining 2 people who should already know what they want so upto you to find out. Most couples though into cuckolding are not as extreme as you might think but still would like someone who can take charge

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

There is a difference between being a Bull and Dom.

A good Bull is a guest within the Cuckolds relationship so it sounds like you will do well there.

Some Cucks like to be humiliated and these are probably not for you.

Some Cucks or bicurious and may want to suck your Cock.

Would you let a hubby orally prepare you?

Would you allow a hubby to lick his wifes pussy whilst you are inside her?

Could you ask a hubby to hold his wifes legs open?

Could you talk to the husband whilst having sex with his wife?

If you can do some of the above you probably could be a Bull.

If the answer is no then you are probably be more comfortable with a regular MFM or with a hotwife who likes to be shared with her husband

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By *rikki1967uk OP   Man
over a year ago

peterborough

Thanks guys great advice

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