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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I don't have a specific type that I am attracted to more than any other. That doesn't mean my standards are low, it means my tastes are varied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have a specific type that I am attracted to more than any other. That doesn't mean my standards are low, it means my tastes are varied. "

Same.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It varies but I do turn people down and sometimes for the most odd and 'reasonable' reasons such as untidy backgrounds in rooms in their photos. It makes me think they don't wash which I know is a dreadful snobby thing to say and not likely to be true but on occasion it's the real reason

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"It varies but I do turn people down and sometimes for the most odd and 'reasonable' reasons such as untidy backgrounds in rooms in their photos. It makes me think they don't wash which I know is a dreadful snobby thing to say and not likely to be true but on occasion it's the real reason "

I get that entirely and agree...slovenly accommodation smacks of slovenly people

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"It varies but I do turn people down and sometimes for the most odd and 'reasonable' reasons such as untidy backgrounds in rooms in their photos. It makes me think they don't wash which I know is a dreadful snobby thing to say and not likely to be true but on occasion it's the real reason "

Yeah can't be doing with mucky backgrounds

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We would not drop our standards for anyone.

Our meets have to have a pulse

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I often wonder this. The number of men that contact me who wouldn't look twice at me in the real world is crazy.

Do they do it because they feel I should be grateful and desperate to meet them so an easy target?

Do they do it because they lack some confidence?

Do they do it for novelty factor?

Or maybe just maybe because in real life I dont have my boobs out and they make all the difference.

I think the secret is to just be honest with yourself about who you like and try really hard to avoid second guessing other people.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I don't have a specific type that I am attracted to more than any other. That doesn't mean my standards are low, it means my tastes are varied.

Same. "

Same again. Well, I don't have a specific visual types anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?"

I think you may gather from previous post weve discussed, it appears you must drop yoyr standards as not to offend or intimidate anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my pussy twitches on viewing face pic.. Then we good to go

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

If they are interesting .

That's all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?

I think you may gather from previous post weve discussed, it appears you must drop yoyr standards as not to offend or intimidate anyone! "

I've read your thread and no one implied for you to lower your standards.. Just re word your profile

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

It's all about the attitude...

I like my freaks, they are rare, I look for that word out of place, that imperfection, the thing that signals wrongness is ok, weird will be embrace and the unusual is wanted.

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"It varies but I do turn people down and sometimes for the most odd and 'reasonable' reasons such as untidy backgrounds in rooms in their photos. It makes me think they don't wash which I know is a dreadful snobby thing to say and not likely to be true but on occasion it's the real reason

Yeah can't be doing with mucky backgrounds"

Your house was lovely!

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"If my pussy twitches on viewing face pic.. Then we good to go "

Haha..

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I can initially find different things attractive in different people but only after chatting for a while and finding out more about them will I consider meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?

I think you may gather from previous post weve discussed, it appears you must drop yoyr standards as not to offend or intimidate anyone!

I've read your thread and no one implied for you to lower your standards.. Just re word your profile "

Yes..by removing the words, hot, attractive, well kept, classy, exceptional etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?

I think you may gather from previous post weve discussed, it appears you must drop yoyr standards as not to offend or intimidate anyone!

I've read your thread and no one implied for you to lower your standards.. Just re word your profile

Yes..by removing the words, hot, attractive, well kept, classy, exceptional etc etc "

Exactly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wonder this. The number of men that contact me who wouldn't look twice at me in the real world is crazy.

Do they do it because they feel I should be grateful and desperate to meet them so an easy target?

Do they do it because they lack some confidence?

Do they do it for novelty factor?

Or maybe just maybe because in real life I dont have my boobs out and they make all the difference.

I think the secret is to just be honest with yourself about who you like and try really hard to avoid second guessing other people. "

I had some who after I didn't immediately reply to him after he messaged me, sent another one saying 'Ha ha ha you actually think you're better than me don't you? You're lucky I messaged you in the first place fat bitch'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?

I think you may gather from previous post weve discussed, it appears you must drop yoyr standards as not to offend or intimidate anyone!

I've read your thread and no one implied for you to lower your standards.. Just re word your profile

Yes..by removing the words, hot, attractive, well kept, classy, exceptional etc etc

Exactly... "

Ok, and replace with what... anyone, anytime and anyplace!!

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?

I think you may gather from previous post weve discussed, it appears you must drop yoyr standards as not to offend or intimidate anyone!

I've read your thread and no one implied for you to lower your standards.. Just re word your profile

Yes..by removing the words, hot, attractive, well kept, classy, exceptional etc etc

Exactly...

Ok, and replace with what... anyone, anytime and anyplace!! "

I agree...and honesty is the best policy..no point in not being honest about what kind of people we are looking for...blunt is best...its good to put off those that don't cut the mustard

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By *ood will huntingMan
over a year ago

s/west & yeovil


"I often wonder this. The number of men that contact me who wouldn't look twice at me in the real world is crazy.

Do they do it because they feel I should be grateful and desperate to meet them so an easy target?

Do they do it because they lack some confidence?

Do they do it for novelty factor?

Or maybe just maybe because in real life I dont have my boobs out and they make all the difference.

I think the secret is to just be honest with yourself about who you like and try really hard to avoid second guessing other people.

I had some who after I didn't immediately reply to him after he messaged me, sent another one saying 'Ha ha ha you actually think you're better than me don't you? You're lucky I messaged you in the first place fat bitch'"

Wow just wow!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?

I think you may gather from previous post weve discussed, it appears you must drop yoyr standards as not to offend or intimidate anyone!

I've read your thread and no one implied for you to lower your standards.. Just re word your profile

Yes..by removing the words, hot, attractive, well kept, classy, exceptional etc etc

Exactly...

Ok, and replace with what... anyone, anytime and anyplace!!

I agree...and honesty is the best policy..no point in not being honest about what kind of people we are looking for...blunt is best...its good to put off those that don't cut the mustard "

I guess we should just be brutal!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way, we are not all desperate, just cos u fuck someone on the scale 3 of 10 doesn't mean you have lowered your standards, means a good time, as it is good with variety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to find them very attractive in body, face and mind before I even consider it. If we click on here and I have a club night planned I'll invite them to come along. No guarantee of play and we will meet inside. Most will bail as they are looking for a quick cheap shag. I'm neither! Say they will come and don't turn up - note made in notes section and blocked.

If I wanted to pull a hot fella I'd do that on a vanilla night. I'm here for fantasies and get them fulfilled on club nights with sexy ladies instead.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I have a very wide range when it comes to what I find physically attractive in a woman. Women generally are almost always mesmerising to me physically. That's never the deal breaker. Only when I get to know them a little better and find out what they are like as a person would I then know if I was truly attracted to them. Personality is what matters and what ultimately attracts me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wonder this. The number of men that contact me who wouldn't look twice at me in the real world is crazy.

Do they do it because they feel I should be grateful and desperate to meet them so an easy target?

Do they do it because they lack some confidence?

Do they do it for novelty factor?

Or maybe just maybe because in real life I dont have my boobs out and they make all the difference.

I think the secret is to just be honest with yourself about who you like and try really hard to avoid second guessing other people. "

How do you know they wouldn't look at you twice in the real world? Do they tell you this?

I agree with your last sentence.

If someone thinks they are in a better league than me and that they are lowering their standards to fuck me... who is the loser? -It ain't me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?

I think you may gather from previous post weve discussed, it appears you must drop yoyr standards as not to offend or intimidate anyone!

I've read your thread and no one implied for you to lower your standards.. Just re word your profile

Yes..by removing the words, hot, attractive, well kept, classy, exceptional etc etc

Exactly...

Ok, and replace with what... anyone, anytime and anyplace!! "

I didn't imply you had to change anything did I?... I didn't even comment on thread... Was just saying that no one actually told you to lower your standards

I am also very picky.. . So I would never tell anyone to

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?

I think you may gather from previous post weve discussed, it appears you must drop yoyr standards as not to offend or intimidate anyone!

I've read your thread and no one implied for you to lower your standards.. Just re word your profile

Yes..by removing the words, hot, attractive, well kept, classy, exceptional etc etc

Exactly...

Ok, and replace with what... anyone, anytime and anyplace!! "

You're such a drama queen! Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?

I think you may gather from previous post weve discussed, it appears you must drop yoyr standards as not to offend or intimidate anyone!

I've read your thread and no one implied for you to lower your standards.. Just re word your profile

Yes..by removing the words, hot, attractive, well kept, classy, exceptional etc etc

Exactly...

Ok, and replace with what... anyone, anytime and anyplace!!

You're such a drama queen! Haha!

"

Yeo.. im know officially a fully fledged fab member, drama and all x

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?

I think you may gather from previous post weve discussed, it appears you must drop yoyr standards as not to offend or intimidate anyone!

I've read your thread and no one implied for you to lower your standards.. Just re word your profile

Yes..by removing the words, hot, attractive, well kept, classy, exceptional etc etc

Exactly...

Ok, and replace with what... anyone, anytime and anyplace!!

You're such a drama queen! Haha!

Yeo.. im know officially a fully fledged fab member, drama and all x"

Haha! That's that done then.

Next, you need to learn how to bombard women with the classic "faf" messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?

I think you may gather from previous post weve discussed, it appears you must drop yoyr standards as not to offend or intimidate anyone!

I've read your thread and no one implied for you to lower your standards.. Just re word your profile

Yes..by removing the words, hot, attractive, well kept, classy, exceptional etc etc

Exactly...

Ok, and replace with what... anyone, anytime and anyplace!!

I agree...and honesty is the best policy..no point in not being honest about what kind of people we are looking for...blunt is best...its good to put off those that don't cut the mustard

I guess we should just be brutal!! "

Why?

I meet some amazing guys and I manage to do it with the craziest profile on fab!!

It's easy enough to ask for what you'd like in a nice way - so why do it in a mean way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?

I think you may gather from previous post weve discussed, it appears you must drop yoyr standards as not to offend or intimidate anyone!

I've read your thread and no one implied for you to lower your standards.. Just re word your profile

Yes..by removing the words, hot, attractive, well kept, classy, exceptional etc etc

Exactly...

Ok, and replace with what... anyone, anytime and anyplace!!

I agree...and honesty is the best policy..no point in not being honest about what kind of people we are looking for...blunt is best...its good to put off those that don't cut the mustard

I guess we should just be brutal!!

Why?

I meet some amazing guys and I manage to do it with the craziest profile on fab!!

It's easy enough to ask for what you'd like in a nice way - so why do it in a mean way? "

Because if people are rude and unkind on their profiles it means nice people won't waste time contacting them.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?

I think you may gather from previous post weve discussed, it appears you must drop yoyr standards as not to offend or intimidate anyone!

I've read your thread and no one implied for you to lower your standards.. Just re word your profile

Yes..by removing the words, hot, attractive, well kept, classy, exceptional etc etc

Exactly...

Ok, and replace with what... anyone, anytime and anyplace!!

I agree...and honesty is the best policy..no point in not being honest about what kind of people we are looking for...blunt is best...its good to put off those that don't cut the mustard

I guess we should just be brutal!!

Why?

I meet some amazing guys and I manage to do it with the craziest profile on fab!!

It's easy enough to ask for what you'd like in a nice way - so why do it in a mean way? "

Yeah! And you can even buy Mrs Peach's profile in book format! 100 page hard backed book! Hahahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?

I think you may gather from previous post weve discussed, it appears you must drop yoyr standards as not to offend or intimidate anyone!

I've read your thread and no one implied for you to lower your standards.. Just re word your profile

Yes..by removing the words, hot, attractive, well kept, classy, exceptional etc etc

Exactly...

Ok, and replace with what... anyone, anytime and anyplace!!

I agree...and honesty is the best policy..no point in not being honest about what kind of people we are looking for...blunt is best...its good to put off those that don't cut the mustard

I guess we should just be brutal!!

Why?

I meet some amazing guys and I manage to do it with the craziest profile on fab!!

It's easy enough to ask for what you'd like in a nice way - so why do it in a mean way?

Yeah! And you can even buy Mrs Peach's profile in book format! 100 page hard backed book! Hahahaha!"

You're mocking now - but this time next year .........!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have a specific type that I am attracted to more than any other. That doesn't mean my standards are low, it means my tastes are varied. "

Same here as regards visual taste. I know what I like when I see it. But ultimately what pushes me to meet someone is feeling like I want to spend time in their company.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?

I think you may gather from previous post weve discussed, it appears you must drop yoyr standards as not to offend or intimidate anyone!

I've read your thread and no one implied for you to lower your standards.. Just re word your profile

Yes..by removing the words, hot, attractive, well kept, classy, exceptional etc etc

Exactly...

Ok, and replace with what... anyone, anytime and anyplace!!

I agree...and honesty is the best policy..no point in not being honest about what kind of people we are looking for...blunt is best...its good to put off those that don't cut the mustard

I guess we should just be brutal!!

Why?

I meet some amazing guys and I manage to do it with the craziest profile on fab!!

It's easy enough to ask for what you'd like in a nice way - so why do it in a mean way?

Yeah! And you can even buy Mrs Peach's profile in book format! 100 page hard backed book! Hahahaha!

You're mocking now - but this time next year .........! "

Hahahaha! Do you want a website Mrs Peach?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?

I think you may gather from previous post weve discussed, it appears you must drop yoyr standards as not to offend or intimidate anyone!

I've read your thread and no one implied for you to lower your standards.. Just re word your profile

Yes..by removing the words, hot, attractive, well kept, classy, exceptional etc etc

Exactly...

Ok, and replace with what... anyone, anytime and anyplace!!

I agree...and honesty is the best policy..no point in not being honest about what kind of people we are looking for...blunt is best...its good to put off those that don't cut the mustard

I guess we should just be brutal!! "

Thing is, you can't have it both ways. You can and should ask for what you like in the terms you want - but you can't then complain that other people are being put off by that. I didn't think anyone on your thread suggested they were offended. Some, like me, implied they were put off. No one actually said you should change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you decide whether you are sufficiently attracted to someone/s to go ahead with arranging to meet?

Personally, I reckon that if the person in question looks at least as attractive as someone that I would try and chat up if I were to meet them in the pub (without beer goggles on), then I'm good to go.

Do you have a system?

Also (particularly for guys), do you drop your standards on fab, just because you are desperate to lay practically anyone?

I think you may gather from previous post weve discussed, it appears you must drop yoyr standards as not to offend or intimidate anyone!

I've read your thread and no one implied for you to lower your standards.. Just re word your profile

Yes..by removing the words, hot, attractive, well kept, classy, exceptional etc etc

Exactly...

Ok, and replace with what... anyone, anytime and anyplace!!

I agree...and honesty is the best policy..no point in not being honest about what kind of people we are looking for...blunt is best...its good to put off those that don't cut the mustard

I guess we should just be brutal!!

Why?

I meet some amazing guys and I manage to do it with the craziest profile on fab!!

It's easy enough to ask for what you'd like in a nice way - so why do it in a mean way?

Yeah! And you can even buy Mrs Peach's profile in book format! 100 page hard backed book! Hahahaha!

You're mocking now - but this time next year .........!

Hahahaha! Do you want a website Mrs Peach? "

Nope - I'm old fashioned - I want to be an author when I grow up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me if i dont think they would chat me up in the real world i probably wont meet them.

Ive come close to meeting a couple of really hot guys (adonis types)but then they did something to show me they thing id be grateful if that makes sense.

Then its a case of personalities and what we have in common xx

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"It varies but I do turn people down and sometimes for the most odd and 'reasonable' reasons such as untidy backgrounds in rooms in their photos. It makes me think they don't wash which I know is a dreadful snobby thing to say and not likely to be true but on occasion it's the real reason

Yeah can't be doing with mucky backgrounds

Your house was lovely! "

Oh thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a magic formula for what i find attractive. There is normally just something about them. I don't want to meet everyone that i at first find physically attractive. Other traits can dampen that initial attraction....which is a shame as I've chatted to some seriously hot guys and have found myself thinking that the only way i could meet them is if i gagged them first! My only system is if they are capable of changing "phwoar!" into "fuck me"

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I don't have a magic formula for what i find attractive. There is normally just something about them. I don't want to meet everyone that i at first find physically attractive. Other traits can dampen that initial attraction....which is a shame as I've chatted to some seriously hot guys and have found myself thinking that the only way i could meet them is if i gagged them first! My only system is if they are capable of changing "phwoar!" into "fuck me" "

..I would love to have that effect on you Scarlett..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find many men who looks wise are attractive to me soon become ugly when they open their mouths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It varies but I do turn people down and sometimes for the most odd and 'reasonable' reasons such as untidy backgrounds in rooms in their photos. It makes me think they don't wash which I know is a dreadful snobby thing to say and not likely to be true but on occasion it's the real reason "

This is me too haha

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I find many men who looks wise are attractive to me soon become ugly when they open their mouths."

Same applies to some women...not aimed at you btw...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no specific type, everyone one I have met has been different looks & personality wise ~ they only common denominator was they all have that 'certain something' that excited & made me want to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find many men who looks wise are attractive to me soon become ugly when they open their mouths.

Same applies to some women...not aimed at you btw..."

Oh I understand completely, I can only go from my personal use of Fab which is mainly single men but I can see that it could apply to both sexes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't lower my standards because it's fab. In fact it's the opposite: my Fab time is very limited, so I only chat to and meet those people who I find attractive, interesting and exciting.

For those people with loads of time I can imagine it may get a little like a pick 'n' mix counter

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By *olarfox OP   Man
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I find many men who looks wise are attractive to me soon become ugly when they open their mouths.

Same applies to some women...not aimed at you btw...

Oh I understand completely, I can only go from my personal use of Fab which is mainly single men but I can see that it could apply to both sexes "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

choice is a wonderful thing

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