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By *anetandNick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

Instead of some inane "Hi Hun" chatup line, a single guy has actually invited us out to lunch!

Used to happen quite often on Fab, plus they used to bring flowers, lingerie etc. on dates. But alas all too rare, these days.

Janet

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Who's paying?

C...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw that's nice x we always get the "hi Hun" lol

Enjoy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always treat our meets like a nice date, we like to spoil our girls we meet with lovely dinners and fun socials amongst other things as well as just play dates.. it makes for a better ongoing experience for us.. i guess a bit of romance and chivalry doesnt go amiss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like getting gifts in return for sex.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Instead of some inane "Hi Hun" chatup line, a single guy has actually invited us out to lunch!

Used to happen quite often on Fab, plus they used to bring flowers, lingerie etc. on dates. But alas all too rare, these days.

Janet"

I went out to lunch once with a couple - it was a great way to start a meet

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Flowers and lingerie do they bring anything for the gentleman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get the

Hi Hun message too but normally followed by fancy a fuck not a great opening message lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't like getting gifts in return for sex. "

Nor I. We do go out for meals and nice socials but always, always pay our way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever bought a man a gift or paid for something for him? You sound like you think you are owed a present for letting him have sex with you. That reminds me of the couple who ask men to bring a bottle of fizzy,and they don't mean lemonade. Stupid men pander to those demands.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Someone bringing me a gift would make me feel a little uneasy on a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who's paying?

C..."

Somehow to think he will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever bought a man a gift or paid for something for him? You sound like you think you are owed a present for letting him have sex with you. That reminds me of the couple who ask men to bring a bottle of fizzy,and they don't mean lemonade. Stupid men pander to those demands. "

The OP reads like an advert.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

How about a box of chocs or a bottle of wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone bringing me a gift would make me feel a little uneasy on a first meet."

Yeah at least wait until you know her size and taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent a message to a couple saying, ''would you like to see my very large penis going in and out of your wife'' ! ''then bring a magnifying glass''

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By *hadow_15Woman
over a year ago

manchester

How very civilised! That's the way to get into someone's knickers

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Someone bringing me a gift would make me feel a little uneasy on a first meet.

Yeah at least wait until you know her size and taste

"

Exactly,bring on meet number two

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm not all that fond of sex on a full stomach .. Then there's also the issue of who had garlic

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I've had dinner with a few people but always pay my way. Except for one couple who insisted on paying for me, which was lovely of them. Not something I expect or ask for.

I think I'd feel a bit weird about someone giving me a gift though. One couple who came to our last party gave us chocolates, which was sweet of them. In that instance it's ok, but I'd feel weird about anything else

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I don't like getting gifts in return for sex. "

I don't mind, depending on the gift but no one has brought me one so far

Shame really, might have made up for the mediocre cum and go sex where I'm left thinking "Well, I'll finish myself off then shall I?" or in a couple of cases "Well, I'll start myself off shall I?"

Ah well, thankfully they aren't often

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By *elaxedsexyfunMan
over a year ago

Northants

I always take a bottle of red, a bottle of white and a bunch of flowers to my meets.

Surely its just good manners if they are kind enough to invite you round to their house?

Its gone down very well so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure how i feel about that-we dont mind receiving or giving a bottle of wine if playing at ours/their place - but never expect it and im hopeless at accepting stuff so if i was a single fem id want to pay my way

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Why the bloody hell should the guy but you stuff there's two of you and o ky one of him.

Maybe it doesn't happen so often because the guys are wising up to the fact there being took for idiots

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

I guess I'm lucky. Grey has bought me gifts and ive bought him things. Mainly stuff for us to wear/play with, I've bought him muffins too and sweets. A first for me though on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess I'm lucky. Grey has bought me gifts and ive bought him things. Mainly stuff for us to wear/play with, I've bought him muffins too and sweets. A first for me though on here "

we have bought each other stuff - but thats not the same thing at all

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I guess I'm lucky. Grey has bought me gifts and ive bought him things. Mainly stuff for us to wear/play with, I've bought him muffins too and sweets. A first for me though on here "
a couple buying each other gifts isn't a new concept

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"I always take a bottle of red, a bottle of white and a bunch of flowers to my meets.

Surely its just good manners if they are kind enough to invite you round to their house?

Its gone down very well so far."

I would find that really odd, I wouldn't expect that on a date (if I did dates), so definitely not on a meet!

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"I don't like getting gifts in return for sex. "

I do.

A Bentley would be nice.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Instead of some inane "Hi Hun" chatup line, a single guy has actually invited us out to lunch!

Used to happen quite often on Fab, plus they used to bring flowers, lingerie etc. on dates. But alas all too rare, these days.

Janet"

Amazing that anyone would expect these things, or even think they are a positive thing. I would never want to be treated like that by a stranger .... its akin to paying for sex to me. Much prefer to be on equal terms with all involved.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I always take a bottle of red, a bottle of white and a bunch of flowers to my meets.

Surely its just good manners if they are kind enough to invite you round to their house?

Its gone down very well so far."
taking something and havimg expected of you are two completly different things and for someone to take lingerie it would have to be discussed in advance for sizes.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Depends if it's just some swinging quick shag or a proper couple of days away fucking each other into a coma.

If the former, then forget gifts, but I'll buy a pizza and some rotgut red it unless you want to nip out for something afterwards,

If it's the latter, then I'll probably foot the bill, but if she wants to cough up half for dinner, or buy her own opera ticket, that's fine.

Couples; well I don't do couples anymore, but stuff it, if I do, they can buy me dinner...

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By *elaxedsexyfunMan
over a year ago

Northants


"I always take a bottle of red, a bottle of white and a bunch of flowers to my meets.

Surely its just good manners if they are kind enough to invite you round to their house?

Its gone down very well so far.

Really?

I would also take the same round to a date or even a vanilla friend.

I thought it was just good manners or am I just getting old?

I would find that really odd, I wouldn't expect that on a date (if I did dates), so definitely not on a meet!

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Instead of some inane "Hi Hun" chatup line, a single guy has actually invited us out to lunch!

Used to happen quite often on Fab, plus they used to bring flowers, lingerie etc. on dates. But alas all too rare, these days.

Janet"

I'd bring you flowers and chocolates - I often bring gifts for meets - nothing fancy but I just think it's polite.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"I always take a bottle of red, a bottle of white and a bunch of flowers to my meets.

Surely its just good manners if they are kind enough to invite you round to their house?

Its gone down very well so far.

Really?

I would also take the same round to a date or even a vanilla friend.

I thought it was just good manners or am I just getting old?

I would find that really odd, I wouldn't expect that on a date (if I did dates), so definitely not on a meet!

"

Maybe it is a generation thing (not saying you're old, just older than me ).

Someone I know went on dates from POF in his 50s and took flowers and perfume for the lady on every 1st date he had. When I used POF I thought I was doing well if the guy turned up on time and offered me a drink many didn't!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I always take a bottle of red, a bottle of white and a bunch of flowers to my meets.

Surely its just good manners if they are kind enough to invite you round to their house?

Its gone down very well so far.

Really?

I would also take the same round to a date or even a vanilla friend.

I thought it was just good manners or am I just getting old?

I would find that really odd, I wouldn't expect that on a date (if I did dates), so definitely not on a meet!

Maybe it is a generation thing (not saying you're old, just older than me ).

Someone I know went on dates from POF in his 50s and took flowers and perfume for the lady on every 1st date he had. When I used POF I thought I was doing well if the guy turned up on time and offered me a drink many didn't!"

I'm 59 and I didn't expect gifts on dates when I was 20 anymore than I do now, why should I get gifts just because I'm a woman?

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