FabSwingers.com forum: Stigma with Bi or Bi-curious

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wondering if any other couples with a bi or curious partner have had the stigma or comments about it?

It's not something you can catch lol

Went as far as one message to the effect of:

"I'll do you but leave the puff at home"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering if any other couples with a bi or curious partner have had the stigma or comments about it?

It's not something you can catch lol

Went as far as one message to the effect of:

"I'll do you but leave the puff at home""

Funny how bisexuality in women is positively de rigeur around here, yet in males it's still an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never x we will happily play straight or bi depending on what our guests would rather have x it's simple we play together if others don't like they need to get over it lol x we are bi and proud x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone makes those kind of idiotic comments methinks they doth protest too much

We know who we are, what we enjoy and what we want. Anyone doesn't like it can sod off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi and proud here too. Judgemental idiots used to bother us too. We've been swinging 10 years but it was only recently I (male half) realised I was bi. When we changed the profile it was noticeable how people's attitudes changed but we just had to move on. Their loss. If you worried about other people's opinions so much on here it would be easy to get in a right state. A post in another part of the forum got me quite wound up just now but just had to step back. The hypocrisy of the bi women and bi men thing is very frustrating. Also doesn't help that so many men, both singles and part of couples, lie about being bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bi and proud here too. Judgemental idiots used to bother us too. We've been swinging 10 years but it was only recently I (male half) realised I was bi. When we changed the profile it was noticeable how people's attitudes changed but we just had to move on. Their loss. If you worried about other people's opinions so much on here it would be easy to get in a right state. A post in another part of the forum got me quite wound up just now but just had to step back. The hypocrisy of the bi women and bi men thing is very frustrating. Also doesn't help that so many men, both singles and part of couples, lie about being bi. "

If I'm honest I see the stigma on the forums and in some profiles but never experience it as we are clear on our profile about who we are, and because we are honest we have had some very excellent fun times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering if any other couples with a bi or curious partner have had the stigma or comments about it?

It's not something you can catch lol

Went as far as one message to the effect of:

"I'll do you but leave the puff at home""

I'm more into puffs than genetic girls myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the problem is that too many bicurious men say they are straight and then make an inappropriate advance on a man who is genuinely straight. I can understand why that would be unpleasant for the latter man, although it's unfortunate we all get stereotyped like that.

I'm openly bi and happy to play straight if the women do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea why it causes such reaction if the man is bi I find it a huge turn on and so sexy when a man is so comfortable around other men X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the perception that either the bi guy is 'dirty' or is going to leap on the straight guy that i find insulting. I can play bi or straight according to the situation. I can also ignore morons as is often required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering if any other couples with a bi or curious partner have had the stigma or comments about it?

It's not something you can catch lol

Went as far as one message to the effect of:

"I'll do you but leave the puff at home""
Never any need to be rude, we dont play with bi or bi curious guys but thats our choice and just a preference, but would never be rude and always just say no thank you. Are people not taught manners nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its the perception that either the bi guy is 'dirty' or is going to leap on the straight guy that i find insulting. I can play bi or straight according to the situation. I can also ignore morons as is often required"

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over a year ago

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Very often the reason people will not play with Bi men is due to the assumption that all Bi men indulge in anal sex.

Anal sex whether the receiving party is male or female is one of the most dangerous forms of sex and so some people avoid it many of those people will also avoid couples who mention anal sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems that personal choice is now becoming an "ism".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering if any other couples with a bi or curious partner have had the stigma or comments about it?

It's not something you can catch lol

Went as far as one message to the effect of:

"I'll do you but leave the puff at home""

I have not come across that sort of stigma. Quite the opposite. We often get interest from "straight" men (as described on their profiles) and point out that we are only interested in bisexual men. You would be surprised how many suddenly become bisexual.j

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bi (man) and play straight but I don't fancy men,if a man was blind folded and a man wanked suck a bloke off would they know ? If no one told them would they like it without knowing, Do men do it different to women can they do it the same,men to men know what it feels like, women to women the same,women are more open then men give them credit for. I think men are scared that the male pride will change no !

Who would know about it only the sexual group of friends, why men won't taste there self's when it's there's, from there own body fluids asume there gay bi if they do no !

If I'm wan king suckling a bloke of does he like the way I'm doing it im I holding it right tight soft to slow too fast I assume it's same as a women doing it to a bloke, it's funny because I have one so I should know what I'm doing, my face is smooth so no beard.

In the end each to there own it's about enjoying it for me getting off feeling horny naughty a thrill my wife is bi also a thrill to most men and some women get of on two men just like men get of on two women together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bi (man) and play straight but I don't fancy men,if a man was blind folded and a man wanked suck a bloke off would they know ? "

Yes! Last time I got rimmed by a guy twas like sandpaper on his face. Even if he'd shaved properly, mens skin isn't as soft as a womans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bi (man) and play straight but I don't fancy men,if a man was blind folded and a man wanked suck a bloke off would they know ?

Yes! Last time I got rimmed by a guy twas like sandpaper on his face. Even if he'd shaved properly, mens skin isn't as soft as a womans. "

Some tgirls are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bi (man) and play straight but I don't fancy men,if a man was blind folded and a man wanked suck a bloke off would they know ?

Yes! Last time I got rimmed by a guy twas like sandpaper on his face. Even if he'd shaved properly, mens skin isn't as soft as a womans.

Some tgirls are

To be honest they are just women to me. I've only had the pleasure once, but a lot of pleasure it was!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were scared (well he was) to put that we were both bi, but then we thought Fuck it, we are on here looking for what we want and if others have a problem with us being bi (although we can restrain ourselves to play straight lol) then they aren't worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was openly bi with my ex wife but she has now left me we had lots of fun with couples and bi males and females, but I don't know how I would approach the subject if I ever found another partner it's 2016 but bi men are still a bit of put off for manywhich is a shame we just want fun the same as everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering if any other couples with a bi or curious partner have had the stigma or comments about it?

It's not something you can catch lol

Went as far as one message to the effect of:

"I'll do you but leave the puff at home""

You should have reported that. No discussion needed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bi (man) and play straight but I don't fancy men,if a man was blind folded and a man wanked suck a bloke off would they know ?

Yes! Last time I got rimmed by a guy twas like sandpaper on his face. Even if he'd shaved properly, mens skin isn't as soft as a womans.

Some tgirls are

To be honest they are just women to me. I've only had the pleasure once, but a lot of pleasure it was! "

I'm glad you enjoyed me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bi (man) and play straight but I don't fancy men,if a man was blind folded and a man wanked suck a bloke off would they know ?

Yes! Last time I got rimmed by a guy twas like sandpaper on his face. Even if he'd shaved properly, mens skin isn't as soft as a womans.

Some tgirls are

To be honest they are just women to me. I've only had the pleasure once, but a lot of pleasure it was!

I'm glad you enjoyed me

I did wonder if it was you, its hard to tell when you're looking through a glory hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bi (man) and play straight but I don't fancy men,if a man was blind folded and a man wanked suck a bloke off would they know ?

Yes! Last time I got rimmed by a guy twas like sandpaper on his face. Even if he'd shaved properly, mens skin isn't as soft as a womans.

Some tgirls are

To be honest they are just women to me. I've only had the pleasure once, but a lot of pleasure it was!

I'm glad you enjoyed me

I did wonder if it was you, its hard to tell when you're looking through a glory hole

If you met me again you'd know; my technique is unforgettable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering if any other couples with a bi or curious partner have had the stigma or comments about it?

It's not something you can catch lol

Went as far as one message to the effect of:

"I'll do you but leave the puff at home""
charming that comment, we are getting very frustrated with bi fantasists who are not bi at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering if any other couples with a bi or curious partner have had the stigma or comments about it?

It's not something you can catch lol

Went as far as one message to the effect of:

"I'll do you but leave the puff at home"

Funny how bisexuality in women is positively de rigeur around here, yet in males it's still an issue."
it certainly is an issue why oh why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bi (man) and play straight but I don't fancy men,if a man was blind folded and a man wanked suck a bloke off would they know ?

Yes! Last time I got rimmed by a guy twas like sandpaper on his face. Even if he'd shaved properly, mens skin isn't as soft as a womans.

Some tgirls are

To be honest they are just women to me. I've only had the pleasure once, but a lot of pleasure it was!

I'm glad you enjoyed me

I did wonder if it was you, its hard to tell when you're looking through a glory hole

If you met me again you'd know; my technique is unforgettable.

Which end are we talking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bi (man) and play straight but I don't fancy men,if a man was blind folded and a man wanked suck a bloke off would they know ?

Yes! Last time I got rimmed by a guy twas like sandpaper on his face. Even if he'd shaved properly, mens skin isn't as soft as a womans.

Some tgirls are

To be honest they are just women to me. I've only had the pleasure once, but a lot of pleasure it was!

I'm glad you enjoyed me

I did wonder if it was you, its hard to tell when you're looking through a glory hole

If you met me again you'd know; my technique is unforgettable.

Which end are we talking? "

Glory holes it'd be my mouth as I don't trust the giver to suit up.

But my technique with my other end is best when I'm on top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask a guy.... if he could suck himself off would he.... off course he would....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no idea why it causes such reaction if the man is bi I find it a huge turn on and so sexy when a man is so comfortable around other men X "

same have played in groups and love seeing a guy being confident around other men especially if they have a little hold or suck .

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Openly Bisexual, only trouble is I mainly seem to attract blokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Openly Bisexual, only trouble is I mainly seem to attract blokes."

Really?

Actually, so do I but plenty of couples and a generous helping of girls too. Everyone loves a slut

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