FabSwingers.com forum: why is 50 such a turn off ladies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So many ladies and cples draw the line at 50 why is age a factor this is a sex siite we are all looking for nsa sex its the sex that should matter why presume over 50 will not give you enjoyable sex im baffled by this number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be rare its often looks... I don't want to play with someone that looks older.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I've met men ver 50, it's not age it's personality that turns me on xx

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Many don't .

But if someone is choosing " not older" they are going to go for the " round number" : ie 45, 50, 55....

They are unlikely to say "49, or 52".

It's a fact of life;

On the other hand, there are lots of ladies ( of all ages) who prefer the older man...

To be honest; responses get more frequent, the older I get......

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

It's the person rather than age. I don't mind an older man but he has to tick my boxes.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"I've met men ver 50, it's not age it's personality that turns me on xx"

See? There's the answer....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the person rather than age. I don't mind an older man but he has to tick my boxes."

I'd love to tick your boxes

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

It's not

could be 30 and a right miserable twat lol that's what does it not age X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they don't want to fuck someone over 50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm coming up 50 and look like I'm in my late thirties.

I regularly have meets with ladies of 21,25 & 26 as well as ones in their forties fifties and sixties.

The young women like my youthful approach coupled with maturity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This comes across as a throwing toys out of pram post. Much like the "people discriminate because I'm black, white, Asian or other" posts. Just because a few have turned you down it only means it's personal preference not people don't want older gents

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"So many ladies and cples draw the line at 50 why is age a factor this is a sex siite we are all looking for nsa sex its the sex that should matter why presume over 50 will not give you enjoyable sex im baffled by this number

I'm going to answer this with another question. Why should nsa sex mean that anyone has to compromise on who they have sex with?

This isn't a sex site, it's a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 31, it feels like quite a lot older. You have to have a cut off somewhere. There can always be exceptions but generally I don't want to go 20 years older than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been with a couple of much older guys but my cut off age is 38 most of the time.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

It's because that's how old my parents are so I find it weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many don't .

But if someone is choosing " not older" they are going to go for the " round number" : ie 45, 50, 55....

They are unlikely to say "49, or 52".

It's a fact of life;

On the other hand, there are lots of ladies ( of all ages) who prefer the older man...

To be honest; responses get more frequent, the older I get......

I just checked and my cut off is 48. I can't remember why I decided to make it 48 though...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm 31, it feels like quite a lot older. You have to have a cut off somewhere. There can always be exceptions but generally I don't want to go 20 years older than me. "

Lol, neither do I!

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Mine says 50... I'm 40... So 10 years older is quite enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha,

We say that when younger contact us. We think it's weird to shag with people younger than our kids LOL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50 is a big number lol some guess look rough for their age at 43 but I look good for my age helps being an ethnic minority lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this is a sex siite we are all looking for nsa sex its the sex that should matter"

NSA sex doesn't mean people will fuck anything. Honestly, you would fuck anyone on this site? I doubt it and even you'll have limits.

We like to be stimulated by things that make us feel good, whether that's a bit of fun banter, respectful chat, or someone that looks attractive to us, hopefully all of this for some of us.

Women, and men, tend to need something more than genitals to be turned on.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I tend to find younger looking guys attractive. You dont get many 50 year olds who look 25-30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 31, it feels like quite a lot older. You have to have a cut off somewhere. There can always be exceptions but generally I don't want to go 20 years older than me.

Lol, neither do I!

Arguably I'm more discriminatory to the younger blokes since my lower cut off is only 3 years younger than me

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

it might not be age... it may be just you.....

anyway I never believe anyone who has 18 to 99 on their profile.... would you really have sex with a 99yr old? really?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want someone much younger.... its all preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I don't want to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it might not be age... it may be just you.....

anyway I never believe anyone who has 18 to 99 on their profile.... would you really have sex with a 99yr old? really?????"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a problem with me....prefer bi women 50-60yrs old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"50 is a big number lol some guess look rough for their age at 43 but I look good for my age helps being an ethnic minority lol

Yes I'm sure that does help also what you have between your legs helps too lol

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By *ollymoo777Couple
over a year ago

salisbury

I never thought I'd go older. But I'm seeing an older guy now. Hes gorgeous. And his personality shines through massively. So age isn't a massive issue for me anymore!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer older men so 59 is a great age

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"It's the person rather than age. I don't mind an older man but he has to tick my boxes."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to draw the line somewhere op. I dont presume sex wont be good. I do presume i wont be attracted to them. Experience tell me i dont fancy many men over 44 x

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"This comes across as a throwing toys out of pram post. Much like the "people discriminate because I'm black, white, Asian or other" posts. Just because a few have turned you down it only means it's personal preference not people don't want older gents "

No he is just asking a question?

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

it might not be age... it may be just you.....

anyway I never believe anyone who has 18 to 99 on their profile.... would you really have sex with a 99yr old? really?????"

I might when I am 100.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50 aint a turn off for me

there again i am 54

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Well I'm pretty close to that age so I need to change my upper limit I think

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

I'm 50 and still play competitive football so I'm still fit - age is but a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 50 and still play competitive football so I'm still fit - age is but a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos I wouldn't want to play with someone old enough to be my dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does this mean we have to leave this site and join saga

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some say no one over 30,some over 40,others 50.Why let it bother you,nothing you can do about your birth year.(except lie lol)

Concentrate on those that aren't bothe_ed about your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 50 and I get plenty of interest...

mind you I don't look my age and don't particularly act it either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is 55 anyway , but ! As has been said before on the forums fab ages seem to often be very different to real ages. Either that or they've had a bloody hard life!

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Mrs turned 50 last month ... And does not look it. She can turn anyone's head. Lucky me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how many people have been on here 5 years or so and haven't upped the limit ?

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By *llebWoman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde

"this is a sex siite we are all looking for nsa sex its the sex that should matter

NSA sex doesn't mean people will fuck anything. Honestly, you would fuck anyone on this site? I doubt it and even you'll have limits.

We like to be stimulated by things that make us feel good, whether that's a bit of fun banter, respectful chat, or someone that looks attractive to us, hopefully all of this for some of us.

Women, and men, tend to need something more than genitals to be turned on. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've set our upper limit to 55, since the female half is 49, but realistically, I have yet to find a male over the age of 50 here that I find even remotely attractive

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By *llebWoman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde

It's funny how - lot of the over 50 males want a supermodel or Helen Mirren on their arm, but they look like they've never even heard of a gym never mind stepped inside one

And oh.... We mature ladies aren't grateful for any attention given, we can hold our own with the younger ones anyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder how many people have been on here 5 years or so and haven't upped the limit ?"

I move mine up along with my own age.

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"It's funny how - lot of the over 50 males want a supermodel or Helen Mirren on their arm, but they look like they've never even heard of a gym never mind stepped inside one

And oh.... We mature ladies aren't grateful for any attention given, we can hold our own with the younger ones anyday "

Who needs a gym pint of lager, packet of crisp and a woodbine sorted

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"We've set our upper limit to 55, since the female half is 49, but realistically, I have yet to find a male over the age of 50 here that I find even remotely attractive

Smallville, small town?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've set our upper limit to 55, since the female half is 49, but realistically, I have yet to find a male over the age of 50 here that I find even remotely attractive

Smallville, small town?"

Genius!!

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Lie about your age, everyone else does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 55 and prefer my own age group So we are around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"does this mean we have to leave this site and join saga"

Bloody hope not as they don't insure the nice sporty type cars I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder how many people have been on here 5 years or so and haven't upped the limit ?"

it usually goes up automatically....but you obviously have to put the correct date of birth on first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't recognise the truth of the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

apparently i look younger than 50

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I have met lot's of 50yo's, I love the company of young people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder how many people have been on here 5 years or so and haven't upped the limit ?

it usually goes up automatically....but you obviously have to put the correct date of birth on first

Does it? I meant more that some body aged 40 might have been happy to meet people 18-50 ie 10 years older than themself but now they are 45 so logically should now be equally happy meeting meeting people 18-55 as it is still 10 years older

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't mind meeting older guys as long as I find them attractive of course

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By *aneSmith5TV/TS
over a year ago

away

I am now over 60, very little chance of being in anyone's age range.

However I am working, active, full head of hair (silver now), probably not as active, however mature and can hold a good conversation.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

OP, i bet you weren't that bothe_ed when you are 25. Have you suddenly become more interested in that cut off since you went the wrong side of it?

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Hehe I have enough problems at 44, wiggles is 50 soon, but I don't think it will stop guys chasing her.

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

Since turning 50 I've had some great meets with some great ladies - some younger some older - age is just a number - there's plenty of fun to be had if you try - quality over quantity everytime - but yes it can be annoying when you think you can't contact someone due to an age restriction but someone totally unsuitable who is younger could - Thems the breaks - there's plenty of gorgeous ladies on here who meet 50 yr olds

thankfully!!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I think I may want to meet a fit and in shape 50 year old. I'm not far from that age...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My slut wife is 52 and not in to 'toyboys' so our profile states age range 45-60. We have met plenty of guys over 50 with the oldest being 60 and all have given her a good time. So the women are out there who like older guys but you have to hunt around. Other tips are dress well, be very clean and smell nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with everything there are those who will and those who won't.

As someone who will hit the big 50 this week I'm just hoping there are more of those who will

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By *ippingrugbyboyMan
over a year ago

Bishop's Stortford

"I've met men ver 50, it's not age it's personality that turns me on xx"
very true me too Hun xx

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

If people are open minded enough then they will look at more than just your age...it is but a number after all.

If you have kept yourself in good nic and have photos and verifications which testify to this then there is no reason why at 50+ you can't still be a very attractive man!

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Approaching 70..........what chance have I got??!!!

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I shall be fifty this year, but there's little chance of me drying up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our low age range runs with our kids age ranges (ie OLDER THAN THEM) and our high age range is where i still see our fantasy's coming true !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as me I should imagine, I'm heading for 60!!!!

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

"I think I may want to meet a fit and in shape 50 year old. I'm not far from that age..."

Check check shame you're so far away xx

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I think I may want to meet a fit and in shape 50 year old. I'm not far from that age..."

And you are pretty damn fit and in shape yourself...as I can testify

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I think I may want to meet a fit and in shape 50 year old. I'm not far from that age...

And you are pretty damn fit and in shape yourself...as I can testify

Ooh thankyou,although my fitness has been a little lax recently,but I'm trying to be good again. The chocolate is just screaming to me from the kitchen cupboard though

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Over 50's generally are not my thing. There are a few exceptions but not many.

I'm not going into detail because it's unnecessarily rude. I tend to prefer men in their 40's or 30's.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Cos we're all fucked and over the hill, have no hair or teeth, and want to roll over and go to sleep as soon as we've shot our bolt

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I think I may want to meet a fit and in shape 50 year old. I'm not far from that age...

And you are pretty damn fit and in shape yourself...as I can testify

Ooh thankyou,although my fitness has been a little lax recently,but I'm trying to be good again. The chocolate is just screaming to me from the kitchen cupboard though

Regular and vigorous sex is a great calorie burner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ok with older men,I don't care if they don't visit the gym regularly. I don't look for them on here because they don't generally excite my mind.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Cos we're all fucked and over the hill, have no hair or teeth, and want to roll over and go to sleep as soon as we've shot our bolt

Don't forget wrinkly, saggy bits (saggy ball bags!), wild untamed eyebrows and ear and nose hair in abundance

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

At 28, 50 above is close to my parents age... too weird for my liking, not a turn on. Although there could be exceptions, but highly doubtful.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Age has nothing to do with my decision, it's all about attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your photos are beautifully shot.

According to your profile there is but a year between us but I definitely feel like the older man looking at your pics.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

maybe because they have met men who were over 50 and think it wasn't so good as meeting men who were a bit younger.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

For a long time I only met men who were younger, then I met Mr and the rest is history .... I dont meet younger anymore, they just don't do it for me ,...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id rather meet a younger looking 50yr old as opposed to and older looking 50yr old

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

"id rather meet a younger looking 50yr old as opposed to and older looking 50yr old

That's me!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Plenty of men wont meet women over 50 concentrate on the ones that you fit into the age preference off thats what i do

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

As a 51yr old sex goddess I have no problems however, I have been messeged by guys my age and when I look sometimes I think 'really'. I do have one regular of 51 he us interesting as well as darn hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to answer this with another question. Why should nsa sex mean that anyone has to compromise on who they have sex with?

This isn't a sex site, it's a swingers site."

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By *howdown1Man
over a year ago

Wellingborough

ok so its personal choice. but how would you woman feel if the blokes said. ohh i dont want to fuck anyone whos had kids. has stretch marks or saggy tits. you would be up in arms as such because you would think the bloke is up his own backside. age is no difference. im no richard gere but then most woman are not cindy crawford. be realistic and every will have happy days.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"ok so its personal choice. but how would you woman feel if the blokes said. ohh i dont want to fuck anyone whos had kids. has stretch marks or saggy tits. you would be up in arms as such because you would think the bloke is up his own backside. age is no difference. im no richard gere but then most woman are not cindy crawford. be realistic and every will have happy days. "
wtf are you on about loads of people have age preferences im out of loads of guys now only i dont bleat on about it

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I would think if a bloke said he didn't want a woman who had stretch marks or saggy tits was perfectly entitled to and at least he was being honest.

Nobody should feel they have to meet someone on here if they don't want too.

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By *irtydaddyfor youMan
over a year ago

corby

Im just so happy that many on here dont consider age, they consider experience of giving what they enjoy the most

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

Except for those who stick with the 'default' 18-99, we all have to choose an upper and a lower limit. We use previous experience to determine what those limits will be, i.e who we have found attractive and who we have had enjoyable sex with, in the past. It would be pointless to set limits that were 10 years lower or 10 years higher than our experience suggests, 'just in case' there was one exceptional person in that +/- 10 year band. This would just give false hope to people browsing profiles, and it means even more rejections/igno_ed angst for the "men we were 99% sure we didn't want to meet anyway".

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I would think if a bloke said he didn't want a woman who had stretch marks or saggy tits was perfectly entitled to and at least he was being honest.

Nobody should feel they have to meet someone on here if they don't want too."

There's being honest and there's being down right rude though do you not think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you let it be then it is a problem -- we dont and having more fun now than ever

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I would think if a bloke said he didn't want a woman who had stretch marks or saggy tits was perfectly entitled to and at least he was being honest.

Nobody should feel they have to meet someone on here if they don't want too.

There's being honest and there's being down right rude though do you not think"

Rude maybe, but at least you would know what he was like.

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I have personally found that the age thing isn't gender specific....as I also find that generally speaking, men seem to prefer younger ladies if they have the option. The problem with the Internet is that you can't really get a true sense of what someone is like . I know that I cannot compete with a young woman in her 20s in terms of her figure etc... I hope that I make up for it in other ways especially with experience. That said. ..when people do meet me (rare nowadays sadly ) they say i look a lot younger and have a 'young' body. But I still don't have the confidence I once had.

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

"I have personally found that the age thing isn't gender specific....as I also find that generally speaking, men seem to prefer younger ladies if they have the option. The problem with the Internet is that you can't really get a true sense of what someone is like . I know that I cannot compete with a young woman in her 20s in terms of her figure etc... I hope that I make up for it in other ways especially with experience. That said. ..when people do meet me (rare nowadays sadly ) they say i look a lot younger and have a 'young' body. But I still don't have the confidence I once had."

Well your photos look great no need to lack confidence X

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

We're over 50,and even we're reluctant to meet over 50s.

In fact,sometimes I'm reluctant to shag Mrs saucy due to her age,and she's hot.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Don't worry OP, you still have a few years left to go,,

When I turned 45 I noticed a drop of views and when I'm 48, 49, 50 I'm sure it will happen again and again.

We all have our desi_ed age ranges..

If you are worried just tell a fib about your age.

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

I don't consider it a cut off. But attraction is the key

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I'm 57 and get loads of messages....oh no, hang on...I've got a Flik, that'll be why.

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

"I'm 57 and get loads of messages....oh no, hang on...I've got a Flik, that'll be why.

Yes that will be why - she takes a great photo by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50 is fine

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

"It's the person rather than age. I don't mind an older man but he has to tick my boxes."

This ^

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

"It's the person rather than age. I don't mind an older man but he has to tick my boxes.

This ^"

Buuut once limits are set the boxes aren't available to tick

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"It's the person rather than age. I don't mind an older man but he has to tick my boxes.

This ^

Buuut once limits are set the boxes aren't available to tick

I'm 54, but I still prefer over 50's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the under 50's that worry us.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"It's the under 50's that worry us."

Don't let them wear you down! We know what you mean

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

"I wouldn't want someone much younger.... its all preference "

You're the first bit of good news for us old buggers.. lol

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

"Well I'm pretty close to that age so I need to change my upper limit I think

Yes.. Yes.. Yes.. More more more !!

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

"I'm 50 and I get plenty of interest...

mind you I don't look my age and don't particularly act it either

It's those magic butterflies keep you so young looking

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By *ySweetLadyWoman
over a year ago

London

The world would be inc_edibly boring if we all liked the same things/people, etc.

We all have our preferences and there is nothing wrong with that. That said those preferences, at least for me, are not set in stone but are mere guidelines. I tend to prefer more mature men to chat with as I am ti_ed, and to be honest, disappointed, with "men who are nothing but big boys" but I know that other women tend to be more attracted to younger men.

In the end it is a personal choice and there is nothing wrong with that.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Even though a percentage of mature ladies on Fab opt for younger guys there are still enough not looking for that confidence boost so things tick over pretty even.

I am way over the 50 mark but still meet on a regular basis so its your attitude to swinging & confidence rather than a age bar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not so much age that bothers me, though I keep to an age limit of ten years older...

I just have that because I personally find I don't tend to be on the same wavelength as someone a lot older than me...

Maybe if they didn't act their age it would be a different matter but as it stands ... The older guys I have met bo_ed me

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

"I'm 57 and get loads of messages....oh no, hang on...I've got a Flik, that'll be why.

Yes.. Can I borrow her? lol

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Well your photos look great no need to lack confidence X "

Thankyou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one would rather meet a sexy 40+ woman than a 20 ish girl.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Wrinkly balls and grey pubes ewwwwww

Plus I don't want anyone having a heart attack on me, I'm fairly sure it would be quite psychologically damaging to find out I had accidentally engaged in necrophilia, even if they were still warm

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By *albec26Man
over a year ago

Great Yarmouth

Agree with above the idea of playing with someone a lot younger is a bit of a turnoff for us.

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By * lick your clitMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

I prefer older as younger are too far up there arses

Just my opinion lol

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I for one would rather meet a sexy 40+ woman than a 20 ish girl. "

Oh there is hope for some of us off folk yet then!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one would rather meet a sexy 40+ woman than a 20 ish girl.

Oh there is hope for some of us off folk yet then!!

more than hope

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I confess I am 'slightly ' alarmed how much my sex life has nose dived after mid 40s...

I am fussy about who I play with and yes.....I do have a type! (It's in my profile if anyone is interested

)..... I can't help that. I like what I like!

But do I have to adjust my personal taste /standard because I am older????

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I for one would rather meet a sexy 40+ woman than a 20 ish girl.

Oh there is hope for some of us off folk yet then!!

more than hope

A girl can dream! Ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one would rather meet a sexy 40+ woman than a 20 ish girl.

Oh there is hope for some of us off folk yet then!!

more than hope

A girl can dream! Ha!

I already am,don't wake me up

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I confess I am 'slightly ' alarmed how much my sex life has nose dived after mid 40s...

I am fussy about who I play with and yes.....I do have a type! (It's in my profile if anyone is interested

)..... I can't help that. I like what I like!

But do I have to adjust my personal taste /standard because I am older???? "
of cause you dont its just having an understanding that its not going to be as easy to get. Ive gone the opposite since ive turned 50 im having the best fun ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be rare its often looks... I don't want to play with someone that looks older. "

your a wee stunner, love the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not

could be 30 and a right miserable twat lol that's what does it not age X

I can confirm that I am 30 and a miserable twat

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Plenty of men wont meet women over 50 concentrate on the ones that you fit into the age preference off thats what i do"

I do too and live an angst free existence.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm going to answer this with another question. Why should nsa sex mean that anyone has to compromise on who they have sex with?

This isn't a sex site, it's a swingers site.

Even if you see it as a sex site the argument still holds: why should you have sex with anyone you don't find sexually attractive?!!

Some people really need to get over themselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ok the op is 46 now

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I for one would rather meet a sexy 40+ woman than a 20 ish girl.

Oh there is hope for some of us off folk yet then!!

more than hope

A girl can dream! Ha!

I already am,don't wake me up

You are a girl? ???

lol!

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I confess I am 'slightly ' alarmed how much my sex life has nose dived after mid 40s...

I am fussy about who I play with and yes.....I do have a type! (It's in my profile if anyone is interested

)..... I can't help that. I like what I like!

But do I have to adjust my personal taste /standard because I am older???? of cause you dont its just having an understanding that its not going to be as easy to get. Ive gone the opposite since ive turned 50 im having the best fun ever"

But I don't want young guys I'm their 20s . For me personally. ... it doesn't do a thing for me especially if I am older enough to be their mother! That turns me off! I am set in my ways I am afraid.... age around mid to late 30s to early 50. ... sorry to anyone else!

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Firstly just because it's a swing site it doesn't mean people won't have preferences. Or do you think we should just fuck any and every random that mails no matter if there is any interest or not?

I have age ranges set as I don't want anyone whos young enough to be my kid or too much older than me. For me there has to be sha_ed life experiences and rapport . I've found that I don't get that outside of my age ranges . So it's not just sex for the sake of getting sex for alot of folks on here .

I'm also curious why you are even concerned when you haven't even hit 50 so that filter has zero affect on you ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one would rather meet a sexy 40+ woman than a 20 ish girl.

Oh there is hope for some of us off folk yet then!!

more than hope

A girl can dream! Ha!

I already am,don't wake me up

You are a girl? ???

lol!"

Haha I've been called worse

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I for one would rather meet a sexy 40+ woman than a 20 ish girl.

Oh there is hope for some of us off folk yet then!!

more than hope

A girl can dream! Ha!

I already am,don't wake me up

You are a girl? ???

lol!

Haha I've been called worse"

Ha!! Well that's an inc_edible operation if you were once a girl! All I can say is.... if you ARE girl, you might be the ONLY occasion when i would consider batting for the other side! In fact. .. I would bat for any side you are on quite honestly lol

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"I'm 57 and get loads of messages....oh no, hang on...I've got a Flik, that'll be why.

Yes that will be why - she takes a great photo by the way

She will appreciate you saying so

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"...I'm also curious why you are even concerned when you haven't even hit 50 so that filter has zero affect on you ??? "

Maybe he's done as I did on my first profile and knocked a number of years off his age to fly under the radar.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"I'm 57 and get loads of messages....oh no, hang on...I've got a Flik, that'll be why.

Yes.. Can I borrow her? lol"

I think she may have something to say about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fifty is not a turn off for me. Infact its young lol

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"...I'm also curious why you are even concerned when you haven't even hit 50 so that filter has zero affect on you ???

Maybe he's done as I did on my first profile and knocked a number of years off his age to fly under the radar."

probably . But still means he's unaffected by the filter so pointless complaining about it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one would rather meet a sexy 40+ woman than a 20 ish girl.

Oh there is hope for some of us off folk yet then!!

more than hope

A girl can dream! Ha!

I already am,don't wake me up

You are a girl? ???

lol!

Haha I've been called worse

I'm all man I promise,I have the pics to prove it.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"...I'm also curious why you are even concerned when you haven't even hit 50 so that filter has zero affect on you ???

Maybe he's done as I did on my first profile and knocked a number of years off his age to fly under the radar.

probably . But still means he's unaffected by the filter so pointless complaining about it ."

Guilt at the duplicity? Wants to be honest?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Personally I don't expect to appeal to all men. There will be men put off by my age, body etc. They don't contact me, I don't bother them.

I don't feel bitter and entitled by it. There are plenty I do appeal to.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"ok so its personal choice. but how would you woman feel if the blokes said. ohh i dont want to fuck anyone whos had kids. has stretch marks or saggy tits. you would be up in arms as such because you would think the bloke is up his own backside. age is no difference. im no richard gere but then most woman are not cindy crawford. be realistic and every will have happy days. wtf are you on about loads of people have age preferences im out of loads of guys now only i dont bleat on about it"

Because you're not entitled...unlike some.

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I for one would rather meet a sexy 40+ woman than a 20 ish girl.

Oh there is hope for some of us off folk yet then!!

more than hope

A girl can dream! Ha!

I already am,don't wake me up

You are a girl? ???

lol!

Haha I've been called worse

I'm all man I promise,I have the pics to prove it.

Oh I NEED the pictures! Just for research purposes of course!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Right, im just browsing profiles i like first two one has 45 cut off and one has 48. Now shall i start a thread or just move on to the next profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the best sex I've had was with a guy who was 50.

It's not age so much, but whether I think they look old enough to be my dad!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be brutally honest, although there are going to be exceptions, the equipment very often is failing by this point.

I assume most ladies that arrange to meet a guy don't just want a social.

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"To be brutally honest, although there are going to be exceptions, the equipment very often is failing by this point.

I assume most ladies that arrange to meet a guy don't just want a social.

Seriously? Most men? What men have you been with whose equipment is 'failing ' at 50???? Unless they have a medical complaint, that is certainly not usual ! Lol!!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"To be brutally honest, although there are going to be exceptions, the equipment very often is failing by this point.

I assume most ladies that arrange to meet a guy don't just want a social.

"
lol the reason i dont meet guys over 50 isnt because their equipment is failing lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be brutally honest, although there are going to be exceptions, the equipment very often is failing by this point.

I assume most ladies that arrange to meet a guy don't just want a social.

Seriously? Most men? What men have you been with whose equipment is 'failing ' at 50???? Unless they have a medical complaint, that is certainly not usual ! Lol!!!! "

That's what i thought!.....I've met more than 1 50+ man and they have been more than capable of giving me a Run for my money. I love a more Mature man, personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it might not be age... it may be just you.....

anyway I never believe anyone who has 18 to 99 on their profile.... would you really have sex with a 99yr old? really?????"

This age thing always makes me laugh 18 to 99, often felt like asking the question on here, " wud you meet a person in their 90's especially if you were in your 20's or 30' never dare ask don't want to accused of being ageist! Which I'm not but my preference is not to have meets & sex wiv people in 80's or 90's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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it's maybe to do with health and safety heart attacks ,responsibility that sort if thing ,heavy breathing ,teeth falling out etc

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

"I'm 57 and get loads of messages....oh no, hang on...I've got a Flik, that'll be why.

Yes.. Can I borrow her? lol

I think she may have something to say about that

Oh good ... Maybe

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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I would always regard this as a swinging site rather than a sex site and there is a very social side to swinging that isn't always necessary on a sex site. I am highlighting this point not to argue but because it's relevant to my next point and that is that the swinging scene attracts a verity of people who have a variety of agendas, fantasies, interests etc The scene allows people to explore these through socialising with like minded people and if all is well play out these fantasies. From a psychological perspective people will usually join groups that are made up of their piers and thus normally allows for a 10 year either way discrepancy; this is why you 18-30s holidays and 65+ coach trips work so well. So although there will be exceptions to this and rightly so, it will unfortunately be the more prevalent automatic choice of most.

A few years back we had 49 as our cut off due to having parents in their 50s, however Mrs O did like and would have played with a much older guy she liked the look of. As we have got older so has our age range. The important thing to remember is that it is all down to choice and personal preference. Hope that makes sense and hope everyone continues to enjoy the scene and everything it offers. Xxx

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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Ps: apologies for the spellings and type errors in my above post I was being distracted. X

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"To be brutally honest, although there are going to be exceptions, the equipment very often is failing by this point.

I assume most ladies that arrange to meet a guy don't just want a social.

Seriously? Most men? What men have you been with whose equipment is 'failing ' at 50???? Unless they have a medical complaint, that is certainly not usual ! Lol!!!!

That's what i thought!.....I've met more than 1 50+ man and they have been more than capable of giving me a Run for my money. I love a more Mature man, personally."

Me too! Paul has got more stamina than any other man I've been with...14 hours with nothing more than a break for food/drink has been the record so far, so I'm one very satisfied woman...give me an older man every time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be brutally honest, although there are going to be exceptions, the equipment very often is failing by this point.

I assume most ladies that arrange to meet a guy don't just want a social.

Seriously? Most men? What men have you been with whose equipment is 'failing ' at 50???? Unless they have a medical complaint, that is certainly not usual ! Lol!!!!

That's what i thought!.....I've met more than 1 50+ man and they have been more than capable of giving me a Run for my money. I love a more Mature man, personally.

"
14 hours Paul you devil you've been taking sanatogen again or philosan hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind if been 50 is a turn off. I'm 54 so I'm OK

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury

"I don't mind if been 50 is a turn off. I'm 54 so I'm OK

Age is just a number a number is part of time and time we must not waste my point is who cares how old some one is its about personality and how they act if they are caring and treat you well that's what I look for ,we all catch up in the end we all die so who knows what gos on on the other side just be happy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the person rather than age. I don't mind an older man but he has to tick my boxes.

I'd love to tick your boxes

If we are talking Lola then I'd love to lick her box lol!

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

"I don't mind if been 50 is a turn off. I'm 54 so I'm OK

You are one sexy man xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just stay 49 for ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't mind if been 50 is a turn off. I'm 54 so I'm OK

You look good I'd say in 40's not 50's

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

"I'm coming up 50 and look like I'm in my late thirties.

I regularly have meets with ladies of 21,25 & 26 as well as ones in their forties fifties and sixties.

The young women like my youthful approach coupled with maturity.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It's just an arbitrary round number, and plenty of people ignore it if they like what they see - I would say good pictures are important.

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By *uralRobMan
over a year ago

Ludlow

It's the opposite for men (well me anyway) I find over 50 's a huge turn on. But again age is irrelevant really it down to the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's just an arbitrary round number, and plenty of people ignore it if they like what they see - I would say good pictures are important.

This is true for us, although we have an age limit on here, mainly because 50 is nearly 20 years older than 'A' not such a big deal for me,

If 'A' likes what she sees and hears in a club, then age becomes irrelevant.

When we are nearer 50 then 50 year old will be what we'll be looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a strange one but personal tastes and looks.

I work in a office of five women including me and two guys.Two are going out with older guys one 28 f is going out with a fifty six-year old teacher the other 34f is going out with a 62 year old reti_ed police officer.

Seen both and in all honesty I would put neither over 45 it's the case now many guys and girls sensibly look after themselves gym,diet, personal grooming both these fems have been married before.

With many women and men who look after themselves most wouldn't know forty ish from a fifty ish.

In my view of he looks good yes and hubby would be the same for a female.However personal choice and I have quoted as in a partner scenario not adding scenario but they are having sex and good sex by all accounts lol

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