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Date night Nervs

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By *hatshisface OP   Man
over a year ago

ipswich

hi there guys.

I'm going on a date (vanilla) tonight and getting quite nervous about it.... The thing is, I have never got nervous about going to meet any fellow swingers? Or about walking into any parties? Maybe it's because it's a vanilla date and I'm not sure will happen lol...

Anyone get this?

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By *fricanMann2077Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"hi there guys.

I'm going on a date (vanilla) tonight and getting quite nervous about it.... The thing is, I have never got nervous about going to meet any fellow swingers? Or about walking into any parties? Maybe it's because it's a vanilla date and I'm not sure will happen lol...

Anyone get this?

"

Dont go!!!!!! You will flop if you have nerves.. Try go with someone you know and are used to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves / adrenaline are good as long as they don't consume you. It would be boring without a little buzz wouldn't it?

Even though each time I meet someone new o day I won't get nervous, I always do.. every time.

Even on normal social / work situations I'm uncomfortable meeting new people until the ice has been broken and then I tend to be fine!

Nothing to worry about OP provided the nerves don't get *too* much for you - just go and be yourself - and understand your date is probably feeling the same way!

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By *hatshisface OP   Man
over a year ago

ipswich

Ah, she's a really nice girl. I don't think anything will happen like that. We just going out for a meal then a few drinks. It's a Wednesday so don't think it will go much further then drinks to be honest.

Just been a long time not being around swingers lol! Suppose Iv got to start looking sometime...

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By *hatshisface OP   Man
over a year ago

ipswich


"Nerves / adrenaline are good as long as they don't consume you. It would be boring without a little buzz wouldn't it?

Even though each time I meet someone new o day I won't get nervous, I always do.. every time.

Even on normal social / work situations I'm uncomfortable meeting new people until the ice has been broken and then I tend to be fine!

Nothing to worry about OP provided the nerves don't get *too* much for you - just go and be yourself - and understand your date is probably feeling the same way! "

Thanks mate ??

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"hi there guys.

I'm going on a date (vanilla) tonight and getting quite nervous about it.... The thing is, I have never got nervous about going to meet any fellow swingers? Or about walking into any parties? Maybe it's because it's a vanilla date and I'm not sure will happen lol...

Anyone get this?

"
where you going on the date, just treat it as two friends going out for a good time.

If you want, hope, would like things to end in sex then your going to have to use your instinct to see if the lady wants the same.

If someone made a pass at me on a vanilla date id be mortified but that's just me.

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By *hatshisface OP   Man
over a year ago

ipswich


"Nerves / adrenaline are good as long as they don't consume you. It would be boring without a little buzz wouldn't it?

Even though each time I meet someone new o day I won't get nervous, I always do.. every time.

Even on normal social / work situations I'm uncomfortable meeting new people until the ice has been broken and then I tend to be fine!

Nothing to worry about OP provided the nerves don't get *too* much for you - just go and be yourself - and understand your date is probably feeling the same way!

Thanks mate... That's not two ?? It was suppose to be a thumbs up!!

Thanks mate ??"

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By *hatshisface OP   Man
over a year ago

ipswich

I suppose I better look up the things to look for then. I don't want sex on the first date. Would be nice but never assume it's a given....

Thanks tho

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Probably because it's important to you and not just another shag. Relax and have a great time.

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By *hatshisface OP   Man
over a year ago

ipswich

Thanks excitement needed

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

Good luck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I haven't been on a date for such a long time, I think I'd go into a flat spin and disappear .

Good luck, it'll be fine

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

So?

How did it go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drop an 'e' like you did in the title OP....helps with the nerves to..

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By *iverscuMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

What happened?

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