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Cheaper to get an escort than to swing.

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

I think it is. Anybody sees it that way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is. Anybody sees it that way?"

Wouldn't know, I've never tried using an escort. I don't find it particularly costly to swing as long as I a) plan my hotel meets within budget and b) curb my urge to spend a fortune on lingerie and club wear (I'm not great at the latter as I'm a sucker for pretty things).

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Although we meet some people in clubs, I think 50% of the time its people coming to our place, or us going to theirs, so its not really expensive at all.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Dunno.

How much is an escort?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Except for the fact that the quality meets I have had could not be bought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dunno.

How much is an escort?"

You can pick up a mark2 dirt cheap nowadays but a mark 1 would now be classified as a classic car...so might be a little more pricey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is. Anybody sees it that way?"
Dunno what an escort costs. But swinging can be an expensive sport!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've always thought it was a relatively cheap past time...

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Dunno.

How much is an escort?

You can pick up a mark2 dirt cheap nowadays but a mark 1 would now be classified as a classic car...so might be a little more pricey"

Ah

So you can get a dirt cheap escort and a classic escort.

What one were you thinking of OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never thought of swinging as a particularly

Expensive pastime.

I'd of thought the main difference is that when swinging your chosen partner would be there for the fun of it as opposed to an escort who is merely there for the money.

I know I don't exactly skip to work every morning so I wouldn't expect an escort to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to have sex with people who actually want to do it.

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By *XHNHWoman
over a year ago

Stokeish...


"I think it is. Anybody sees it that way?"

Is that actually a real comparison? If you want an hour of sex maybe ( not sure how cheap you're finding escorts) but that isn't what swinging is for me

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

So is going out to pubs, bars, nightclubs etc to meet women. So is going on dates to restaurants, theatres etc.

If all you want is sex by all means pay an escorts.

Personally I would rather have sex with someone who wants me for my personality and looks rather than my wallet. Anyway I enjoy the social aspect of both swinging clubs and regular pubs/bars.

Besides there are ethical reasons why I'd never pay for sex.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

If that's what you feel then crack on with the escorts ...not sure why what we think matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly but personally I think swinging sex is much exciting than paid sex.

It also tends to be much more adventurous. We have enjoyed experiences that it would be hard to find a professional who would be prepared to entertain.

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"If that's what you feel then crack on with the escorts ...not sure why what we think matters "

If you feel that strongly about it, then hold your peace. No gun, no pointing, no head. Ya git da drift?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

No idea if it cheaper or not. However , in my opinion, I find the comparison of female swingers as an alternative to escorts as missing the point by a long long mark.

I'd suggest you stick to escort services if that is your mind-set. (Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had best fuck ever with polish escort 60 quid recomend

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"No idea if it cheaper or not. However , in my opinion, I find the comparison of female swingers as an alternative to escorts as missing the point by a long long mark.

I'd suggest you stick to escort services if that is your mind-set. (Mr)"

You may have a point but you see, the underlying thing here is sex, believe it or not. We can argue about friendship and fun and having laughs etc but when you strip it to the bare bones, we all know what remains.

It is a bit distasteful when the comparison is suggested or even imagined but hey, I didn't say it. Somebody did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is. Anybody sees it that way?

Wouldn't know, I've never tried using an escort. I don't find it particularly costly to swing as long as I a) plan my hotel meets within budget and b) curb my urge to spend a fortune on lingerie and club wear (I'm not great at the latter as I'm a sucker for pretty things). "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dunno.

How much is an escort?

You can pick up a mark2 dirt cheap nowadays but a mark 1 would now be classified as a classic car...so might be a little more pricey"

hahahahahahaha best fucking answer by a country mile !!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dunno.

How much is an escort?

You can pick up a mark2 dirt cheap nowadays but a mark 1 would now be classified as a classic car...so might be a little more pricey"

I would bite your right arm off for a cheap Mk 2

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Dunno.

How much is an escort?

You can pick up a mark2 dirt cheap nowadays but a mark 1 would now be classified as a classic car...so might be a little more pricey

hahahahahahaha best fucking answer by a country mile !!!!!!!!! "

Easy son, I tell the jokes around here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP could have a very good point.

If you equate the time spent on here as a single guy finding someone, compared to that same time working instead, an escort would be cheaper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to mention the fact that couples/single females will often explicitly request the guy pays for hotels etc.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"No idea if it cheaper or not. However , in my opinion, I find the comparison of female swingers as an alternative to escorts as missing the point by a long long mark.

I'd suggest you stick to escort services if that is your mind-set. (Mr)

You may have a point but you see, the underlying thing here is sex, believe it or not. We can argue about friendship and fun and having laughs etc but when you strip it to the bare bones, we all know what remains.

It is a bit distasteful when the comparison is suggested or even imagined but hey, I didn't say it. Somebody did. "

Hmm, actually I do know the end point of both is sex. Swinging being for mutually pleasurable sex. An escort is providing a paid service for the pleasure of the man, regardless of her enjoyment or emotion. That's why I think the comparison is so very misguided.

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Who says, an escort does not enjoy his or her job? That is a whole pack of condoms you are opening there.

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By *heorgasmaddictMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

They're different IMO. I go to a Thai massage and get a happy ending for 40quid. It's an excellent massage, and the happy ending is incredible. Leaves you feeling orgasmic for an hour afterwards.

But swinging is about the connection, shared interest, exploration and fun.

Same destination but different route of getting there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you are probably right. Now whether you want to strip off the friendship and laughs is up to you. A lot of people value this side of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the individual, your expectations & what your definition of cheap is.

Maybe for some an escort would be cheaper than paying entrance to meet in a club / hotel ~ sex would be guaranteed too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is. Anybody sees it that way?"

maybe an hour with an escort is cheaper than a night of swinging but it depends what you want, if swinging to you is just fuck and go then yes an escort is cheaper, if you like the company and conversation and to make a night of it you won't get that cheaper from an escort

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

A half hour with an escort might be cheaper than an evening in the club or a hotel. But I know a few ladies who have worked as escorts. Generally the guys just come, fuck and go. Treating a female swinger like that will not get you anywhere.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

if anyone here equates swinging to hiring escorts i'd rather they weren't here......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't believe an escort is anywhere near as fun as meeting a swinger and can't really see the cost other than petrol to get to a meet or hotel costs if that was what was planned and as some said on here already plenty of hotels you can get cheaply that are not a complete dive!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends how you see it and if you want a guaranteed shag or spending it all on a entrance fee to a club for the atmosphere lol.

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester


"Dunno.

How much is an escort?

You can pick up a mark2 dirt cheap nowadays but a mark 1 would now be classified as a classic car...so might be a little more pricey"

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"They're different IMO. I go to a Thai massage and get a happy ending for 40quid. It's an excellent massage, and the happy ending is incredible. Leaves you feeling orgasmic for an hour afterwards.

But swinging is about the connection, shared interest, exploration and fun.

Same destination but different route of getting there!"

Happy ending? I thought it was all made up. Phew.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Most women on the swinging scene wish to be treated like human beings, not like a hole or two. You can hire an escort for several hours "girlfriend experience" or even overnight but it will cost hundreds.

Swinging is social and fun.

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Fab meets never cost us a penny

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By *igBear1979Man
over a year ago

Ealing, London

Cant see how swinging is expensive. Escorts pointless. Cant beat actually connecting and wanting to fuck than paying someone to fuck

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By *laytime 100Couple
over a year ago

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"No idea if it cheaper or not. However , in my opinion, I find the comparison of female swingers as an alternative to escorts as missing the point by a long long mark.

I'd suggest you stick to escort services if that is your mind-set. (Mr)

You may have a point but you see, the underlying thing here is sex, believe it or not. We can argue about friendship and fun and having laughs etc but when you strip it to the bare bones, we all know what remains.

It is a bit distasteful when the comparison is suggested or even imagined but hey, I didn't say it. Somebody did. "

And here is why a lot of couples are wary of single guys on here. Yes it is about sex (what you call the bare bones) but the difference with swinging is that there's flesh on the bones - two, three or more way fun, socialising (unless you are one of those guys who spend all night in a club stood alone talking to no one), and most importantly no one is paid to do what someone else wants to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most single guys here probably have to to have any meet.. other than pulling at a nightclub this site sucks for single guys..lol not speaking for ALL but most singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is. Anybody sees it that way?"

Why is it, how much are you spending on meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is. Anybody sees it that way?"

but the whole point is - Escorts might be doing it because they need the money....swingers are doing it purely because it gives them pleasure....surely that makes it a totally different experience for both parties??? You are welcome to test my amatuer blow job skills anytime and compare them to a professional!

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester


"I think it is. Anybody sees it that way?

but the whole point is - Escorts might be doing it because they need the money....swingers are doing it purely because it gives them pleasure....surely that makes it a totally different experience for both parties??? You are welcome to test my amatuer blow job skills anytime and compare them to a professional! "

But there are some people on here that also escort who swing too and know a couple who told me that they where on AW

So I had to have a look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who says, an escort does not enjoy his or her job? That is a whole pack of condoms you are opening there. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't charge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if anyone here equates swinging to hiring escorts i'd rather they weren't here......"

Big plus one.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"If that's what you feel then crack on with the escorts ...not sure why what we think matters

If you feel that strongly about it, then hold your peace. No gun, no pointing, no head. Ya git da drift?"

Capisce!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the social side is a big plus that money cannot buy?. If you attend clubs you get so much more than just a quick bang?. We do enjoy watching others as well as being watched chatting to people who have the same interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the social side is a big plus that money cannot buy?. If you attend clubs you get so much more than just a quick bang?. We do enjoy watching others as well as being watched chatting to people who have the same interests."

But guys hire escorts to go with them to clubs too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not really !?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the social side is a big plus that money cannot buy?. If you attend clubs you get so much more than just a quick bang?. We do enjoy watching others as well as being watched chatting to people who have the same interests.

But guys hire escorts to go with them to clubs too"

Really, didn't know that !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is. Anybody sees it that way?

Wouldn't know, I've never tried using an escort. I don't find it particularly costly to swing as long as I a) plan my hotel meets within budget and b) curb my urge to spend a fortune on lingerie and club wear (I'm not great at the latter as I'm a sucker for pretty things). "

It certainly shows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the social side is a big plus that money cannot buy?. If you attend clubs you get so much more than just a quick bang?. We do enjoy watching others as well as being watched chatting to people who have the same interests.

But guys hire escorts to go with them to clubs too

Really, didn't know that !"

Yep you've probbaly met a few (ever seen the fit girl with the ugly fst guys? :p)

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester


"I think it is. Anybody sees it that way?

but the whole point is - Escorts might be doing it because they need the money....swingers are doing it purely because it gives them pleasure....surely that makes it a totally different experience for both parties??? You are welcome to test my amatuer blow job skills anytime and compare them to a professional! "

Is that an open invitation!? Probably wont bother with a pro though

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I have friends who have worked as escorts, and been swinging too. Heck I took money for services once. The vibe is generally different. While I am told that some clients are lovely, take a lady to dinner and lavish attention (sexual and personal) on her....most book 30 mins or an hour, fuck and go.

With swinging it's generally far more social and you know the person is having sex because they want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

With swinging it's generally far more social and you know the person is having sex because they want to. "

Not always. On both points.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"...

With swinging it's generally far more social and you know the person is having sex because they want to.

Not always. On both points. "

Generally.

There are great escort sessions and awful swinging meets. But generally the two have a different vibe. So my friends tell me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know what OP, if the goal is sex then I think in many instances you are right.

The experience will most likely be different - the swinger is with you as they have specifically made a conscious choice to be with YOU but if it's just a sexual release which is the ultimate goal, then an escort is most likely a quicker, easier and (in some instances) possibly cheaper route to those ends.

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"Dunno.

How much is an escort?

You can pick up a mark2 dirt cheap nowadays but a mark 1 would now be classified as a classic car...so might be a little more pricey

Ah

So you can get a dirt cheap escort and a classic escort.

What one were you thinking of OP?"

Classic Escort would be an RS 2000 or a Mexico with twin webber carbs and a straight through manifold haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

With swinging it's generally far more social and you know the person is having sex because they want to.

Not always. On both points.

Generally.

There are great escort sessions and awful swinging meets. But generally the two have a different vibe. So my friends tell me. "

So your friends tell you....

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"I prefer to have sex with people who actually want to do it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know what OP, if the goal is sex then I think in many instances you are right.

The experience will most likely be different - the swinger is with you as they have specifically made a conscious choice to be with YOU but if it's just a sexual release which is the ultimate goal, then an escort is most likely a quicker, easier and (in some instances) possibly cheaper route to those ends. "

Maybe he finds it difficult to get sexy girls to choose to meet him, in which case an escort is the only answer....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheaper your obviously using the wrong escorts darling

You pay for what you get

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

Some like to play this out as a role play....wonder is that the best of both worlds!?

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By *errygTV/TS
over a year ago

denton

escorts are by the hour, local to me its 100 a hour, but with swinging at clubs your not ruled by the clock, also a few escorts and ex escorts do go to swinging clubs, as for costs club out of town 50 hotel bill, travel single man entry to club, still not guaranteed to have sex, you make your choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to have sex with people who actually want to do it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is. Anybody sees it that way?

Wouldn't know, I've never tried using an escort. I don't find it particularly costly to swing as long as I a) plan my hotel meets within budget and b) curb my urge to spend a fortune on lingerie and club wear (I'm not great at the latter as I'm a sucker for pretty things). "

Come and see us... we will spoil you rotten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are women on here that are also on AW"

Exactly. Take time choosing your escort and you can have just as much fun as a swinging meet.

Not all escorts do the job just for money, some love sex with strangers and are savvy enough to get paid for their hobby.

Go for it op

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I think it's more the attitude of the client than of the escort which makes the atmosphere different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's more the attitude of the client than of the escort which makes the atmosphere different.

"

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the social side is a big plus that money cannot buy?. If you attend clubs you get so much more than just a quick bang?. We do enjoy watching others as well as being watched chatting to people who have the same interests.

But guys hire escorts to go with them to clubs too"

And it's not unheard of for couples to use escorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell no.

Four hours with an escort your looking at at the least 400 quid.

No meet has ever cost me that!

Average for an escort is higher even than that...around 120 ph.

Full nights out including hotel and club etc cost me less.

Maybe your talking about the price of a male escort as they average much cheaper?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""There are women on here that are also on AW"

Exactly. Take time choosing your escort and you can have just as much fun as a swinging meet.

Not all escorts do the job just for money, some love sex with strangers and are savvy enough to get paid for their hobby.

Go for it op "

Some guys from here have aw accounts too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't agree with you on this one, check out autotrader, Escorts especially mk2 s have sky rocketed in price the last few years!

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

If a man is after a guaranteed shag and hires an escort for 30 minutes or even a 15 minute quicky (some offer this) then it might be cheaper than trying his luck at clubs. But probably less fun for all.

if he treats ladies who swing like that then he is on the wrong site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man is after a guaranteed shag and hires an escort for 30 minutes or even a 15 minute quicky (some offer this) then it might be cheaper than trying his luck at clubs. But probably less fun for all.

if he treats ladies who swing like that then he is on the wrong site."

15 mins is still what 40 quid at least so that equates to 160 per hour!

Cheaper in total perhaps but not if you were looking at the whole experience per hour.

If you literally just look at what an orgasm will cost then yeah its cheaper but as an experience it's way more expensive per hour than swinging will ever be.

I guess it depends on how you look at it and what your looking to achieve with your money..an experience or an orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't wrap my head around an escort being cheaper than swinging?

If your argument was, an escort is an easier and quicker way of getting sex than swinging, then I could understand!

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

you will be in a queue mate im in front hahah

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"Dunno.

How much is an escort?

You can pick up a mark2 dirt cheap nowadays but a mark 1 would now be classified as a classic car...so might be a little more pricey"
even mk2s are silly money. You would be looking at the fwd models to be able to pick up a cheapy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you just want a woman to make you cum you can get a blow job in an alley for a tenner.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

I suppose following that logic wanking is your best bet.

Guaranteed cum and completely free

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