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"I don't understand the first question at all. I partially understand the second. Yes, once or twice I've abandoned meets due to issues. Both times because the woman was crazy." So let's say you agree to a meet - most of my meets tend to be spontaneous so I've only seen a limited number of pictures and exchanged a small amount of messages with them - you turn up to the meet and the person doesn't look like their pictures/smells bad etc. (Looks wise) Or when you get chatting to the person they're crazy/boring/unappealing (personality wise). Would you still go through with the meet? | |||
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"Biggest turn off is negativity. And no, I can usually tell this when chatting so I've never had to leave a meet because of it. I have decided against people in clubs because of it, though. -Courtney " See clubs I understand! It would be a lot easier to not play with someone if you were attracted to them (looks and personality), but if you've agreed to the meet and realise the spark isn't there how do you get out of it without hurting their feelings? | |||
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"Biggest turn off is negativity. And no, I can usually tell this when chatting so I've never had to leave a meet because of it. I have decided against people in clubs because of it, though. -Courtney See clubs I understand! It would be a lot easier to not play with someone if you were attracted to them (looks and personality), but if you've agreed to the meet and realise the spark isn't there how do you get out of it without hurting their feelings?" For a single woman it's harder. For me, we've always agreed that Marc would just tell anyone we change our minds on. It hasn't happened, but it's nice knowing he'll take care of it for me. -Courtney | |||
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"I don't understand the first question at all. I partially understand the second. Yes, once or twice I've abandoned meets due to issues. Both times because the woman was crazy. So let's say you agree to a meet - most of my meets tend to be spontaneous so I've only seen a limited number of pictures and exchanged a small amount of messages with them - you turn up to the meet and the person doesn't look like their pictures/smells bad etc. (Looks wise) Or when you get chatting to the person they're crazy/boring/unappealing (personality wise). Would you still go through with the meet? " Ahhhh, no I wouldn't carry on with the meet. I've been there and done that in the past. I'm very very choosy now and chat for atleast 1 weeks before meeting up socially. I find thst chatting first roots out any problems. But to answer your question. No I woukdnt continue with the meet. X | |||
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"Biggest turn off is negativity. And no, I can usually tell this when chatting so I've never had to leave a meet because of it. I have decided against people in clubs because of it, though. -Courtney See clubs I understand! It would be a lot easier to not play with someone if you were attracted to them (looks and personality), but if you've agreed to the meet and realise the spark isn't there how do you get out of it without hurting their feelings? For a single woman it's harder. For me, we've always agreed that Marc would just tell anyone we change our minds on. It hasn't happened, but it's nice knowing he'll take care of it for me. -Courtney " Aww that is really lovely! Hahaha yeah I'm all alone and I hate upsetting people, luckily I've never had this problem so far but I'm trying to think of a game plan incase it does happen in the future! | |||
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"Donald Trump/Rupert Murdoch 3sum " Oh gosh that would be the worst. As a Liverpool fan anything associated with Rupert Murdoch's is mud to me. | |||
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"Biggest turn off is negativity. And no, I can usually tell this when chatting so I've never had to leave a meet because of it. I have decided against people in clubs because of it, though. -Courtney See clubs I understand! It would be a lot easier to not play with someone if you were attracted to them (looks and personality), but if you've agreed to the meet and realise the spark isn't there how do you get out of it without hurting their feelings? For a single woman it's harder. For me, we've always agreed that Marc would just tell anyone we change our minds on. It hasn't happened, but it's nice knowing he'll take care of it for me. -Courtney Aww that is really lovely! Hahaha yeah I'm all alone and I hate upsetting people, luckily I've never had this problem so far but I'm trying to think of a game plan incase it does happen in the future!" Basically, just tell them that you don't meet up 'off the cuff' and that you need time. That's what I say and most women seem to appreciate it. Over a week or so of chatting. Any weirdness usually shows. | |||
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"Looks and personality wise when you're meeting up with someone new? And have you ever left a meet prematurely because of these things? " I stuck out a social meet for a hour, the guy didnt look like his pic. It just got more awkward, thats all there is to say | |||
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"Looks and personality wise when you're meeting up with someone new? And have you ever left a meet prematurely because of these things? I stuck out a social meet for a hour, the guy didnt look like his pic. It just got more awkward, thats all there is to say " Oh gosh that sounds like a nightmare to me! At least it was only a social meet | |||
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"Biggest turn off is negativity. And no, I can usually tell this when chatting so I've never had to leave a meet because of it. I have decided against people in clubs because of it, though. -Courtney See clubs I understand! It would be a lot easier to not play with someone if you were attracted to them (looks and personality), but if you've agreed to the meet and realise the spark isn't there how do you get out of it without hurting their feelings? For a single woman it's harder. For me, we've always agreed that Marc would just tell anyone we change our minds on. It hasn't happened, but it's nice knowing he'll take care of it for me. -Courtney Aww that is really lovely! Hahaha yeah I'm all alone and I hate upsetting people, luckily I've never had this problem so far but I'm trying to think of a game plan incase it does happen in the future! Basically, just tell them that you don't meet up 'off the cuff' and that you need time. That's what I say and most women seem to appreciate it. Over a week or so of chatting. Any weirdness usually shows." God over a week your lucky to get people for that long ? But yes chatting is the easy way other than the social lol | |||
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"Yeah there's 100's of things that can put me off but I'm not backwards when coming forwards, if I'm not attracted to them in the flesh then I will make my excuses and leave. If they physically look ok and all that side of things is good then I'm not shy in telling skmeone to shut up or do something I want them to do. I've even gone as far as having a guy put his dick inside me but kicked him off because I didn't like his penis. I'd never go through with anything I didn't want to do. " What was wrong with his penis that you had to kick him off?! | |||
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"Looks and personality wise when you're meeting up with someone new? And have you ever left a meet prematurely because of these things? " Why would you meet someone you don't fancy/don't like?? | |||
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"Yeah there's 100's of things that can put me off but I'm not backwards when coming forwards, if I'm not attracted to them in the flesh then I will make my excuses and leave. If they physically look ok and all that side of things is good then I'm not shy in telling skmeone to shut up or do something I want them to do. I've even gone as far as having a guy put his dick inside me but kicked him off because I didn't like his penis. I'd never go through with anything I didn't want to do. What was wrong with his penis that you had to kick him off?! " Was too small, didn't hurt me enough when he first stuck it in and that's the best part for me. | |||
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"I'm turned off when I'm rimming and they fart " Aaaaarrrgh | |||
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"Yeah there's 100's of things that can put me off but I'm not backwards when coming forwards, if I'm not attracted to them in the flesh then I will make my excuses and leave. If they physically look ok and all that side of things is good then I'm not shy in telling skmeone to shut up or do something I want them to do. I've even gone as far as having a guy put his dick inside me but kicked him off because I didn't like his penis. I'd never go through with anything I didn't want to do. What was wrong with his penis that you had to kick him off?! Was too small, didn't hurt me enough when he first stuck it in and that's the best part for me. " You couldn't tell before he stuck it in that it might be too small?I presume you touched him before he stuck his dick in you? | |||
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"Yeah there's 100's of things that can put me off but I'm not backwards when coming forwards, if I'm not attracted to them in the flesh then I will make my excuses and leave. If they physically look ok and all that side of things is good then I'm not shy in telling skmeone to shut up or do something I want them to do. I've even gone as far as having a guy put his dick inside me but kicked him off because I didn't like his penis. I'd never go through with anything I didn't want to do. " WOW | |||
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"Yeah there's 100's of things that can put me off but I'm not backwards when coming forwards, if I'm not attracted to them in the flesh then I will make my excuses and leave. If they physically look ok and all that side of things is good then I'm not shy in telling skmeone to shut up or do something I want them to do. I've even gone as far as having a guy put his dick inside me but kicked him off because I didn't like his penis. I'd never go through with anything I didn't want to do. WOW " Shocking | |||
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"Biggest turn off is negativity. And no, I can usually tell this when chatting so I've never had to leave a meet because of it. I have decided against people in clubs because of it, though. -Courtney See clubs I understand! It would be a lot easier to not play with someone if you were attracted to them (looks and personality), but if you've agreed to the meet and realise the spark isn't there how do you get out of it without hurting their feelings? For a single woman it's harder. For me, we've always agreed that Marc would just tell anyone we change our minds on. It hasn't happened, but it's nice knowing he'll take care of it for me. -Courtney Aww that is really lovely! Hahaha yeah I'm all alone and I hate upsetting people, luckily I've never had this problem so far but I'm trying to think of a game plan incase it does happen in the future! Basically, just tell them that you don't meet up 'off the cuff' and that you need time. That's what I say and most women seem to appreciate it. Over a week or so of chatting. Any weirdness usually shows." Some of us can hide "the weird" until it's too late... | |||
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" What was wrong with his penis that you had to kick him off?! Was too small, didn't hurt me enough when he first stuck it in and that's the best part for me. You couldn't tell before he stuck it in that it might be too small?I presume you touched him before he stuck his dick in you? " I was trying real hard to ignore my issues with size and wanted to give this guy a chance and see if this obsession with big dicks was just in my head. I wanted to enjoy him but when it came down to it I couldn't go through with it and it actually made me feel sad for myself. | |||
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"Looks and personality wise when you're meeting up with someone new? And have you ever left a meet prematurely because of these things? " Met someone once and she looked like her pics, but her personal hygiene wasn't the best, she had dirty fingernails and looked like she had got out of bed and hadn't combed her hair. At least make some effort when meeting someone. I had a couple of drinks with her then just said don't think the chemistry is there then left. | |||
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" What was wrong with his penis that you had to kick him off?! Was too small, didn't hurt me enough when he first stuck it in and that's the best part for me. You couldn't tell before he stuck it in that it might be too small?I presume you touched him before he stuck his dick in you? I was trying real hard to ignore my issues with size and wanted to give this guy a chance and see if this obsession with big dicks was just in my head. I wanted to enjoy him but when it came down to it I couldn't go through with it and it actually made me feel sad for myself. " 3 years of therapy later, mr average dick could finally pluck up the courage to go out on another date | |||
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