FabSwingers.com forum: nasty remarks

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

why is it people leave nasty remarks and call you timewasters if you cant meet them when it suits them never mind that i do work and do have a life away from this site if i say i am gonna meet i will but cant allways be when you want has to suit both so leaving a nasty remark wont get me wanting a meet does anyone else have these problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They probably think you should be at their beck and call because you use this site

.Unfortunately there will always be idiots. That's life. The world would be boring otherwise. That said there is no need for rudeness.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I don't think I have ever had a nasty remark for not being available on a suggested day.... but if I got one I'd be quite happy about it. It just shows an underlying attitude of “I’m doing you a favour by offering” or “how can something like you afford to turn anyone down” or “I don’t get this much hassle booking a hooker”... the sooner one of these attitudes comes to the surface the better.

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

i have had a few messages like that as well, i work, have a daughter and i meet when i can but as you say some think you will just drop what you are doing and meet them. dont work like that at all for me, and if they guy dont like it then tough on him plenty others who are more understanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I answered a message yesterday that was from someone who didn't fit my preferences. I replied with "No Thank you" and got called a rude bitch for my politeness. and people wonder why most of the time messages are deleted without a reply!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carrie Ann, we all get unpleasant comments like this, and as Polo says, it's good that their nasty attitude surfaces sooner rather than later.

I suggest you just delete the message and block the user (and report them to Admin if the message was abusive). There are plenty of lovely people on this site, so don't waste any time or thoughts on the idiotic few. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy i feel i need to represent single men,therefore i am always polite and would never leave a nasty msg.I think there are some people on here who do think if they ask to meet you it should be a given you will meet.Trouble is these ppl are idiots .I personally would have nothing but kind words to say to all of you gorgeous women above me right now,and would gladly wait and walk over hot coals for the chance of a meet with any of you.Alas i know this will never happen but chin up and just ignore idiots.love you all xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooh ace another timewaster thread...I'll get the popcorn

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