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"Have noticed quite a few profiles popping up where the couples are very young early 20s and seems very young to me to be swinging. Or am I getting older. The whole idea of swinging in couples is that your secure in your relationship. Would you play with a young couple or go with experience? " It seems that way but it is probably just because we are all getting older and the age gap between you and the youngest swingers is getting bigger. | |||
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"It seems that way but it is probably just because we are all getting older and the age gap between you and the youngest swingers is getting bigger. " Is that similar to the way that Cadbury's Creme Eggs appear smaller than when I was a kid but really it's just that my hands are bigger...?!? | |||
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"Have noticed quite a few profiles popping up where the couples are very young early 20s and seems very young to me to be swinging. Or am I getting older. The whole idea of swinging in couples is that your secure in your relationship. Would you play with a young couple or go with experience? " The internet has a lot to do with it i guess in that before it was not as openly discussed and it was harder to find its an interest a lot of people have its just being able to acess it | |||
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"Have noticed quite a few profiles popping up where the couples are very young early 20s and seems very young to me to be swinging. Or am I getting older. The whole idea of swinging in couples is that your secure in your relationship. Would you play with a young couple or go with experience? " Judging by the 18-24 year olds that contact me: yes! My kids are 19, 23 and 28 so I wouldn't feel comfortable playing with men that age: the 30s is even pushing it! | |||
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"We've had a couple who describe themselves as "very secure in their marriage" They were 21f 23m! Now I don't know about everyone else but a couple of 21 and 23 have hardly got into their marriage, never mind become secure in it for our tastes. Conversely we have also had a couple of 26f, 64m contact us. Again while they may be secure in their relationship, we would not meet a girl so young, irrespective of their partners age." I had to do a double-take as I thought that said 26f 24m the first time I read it... it's still too early in the morning for me. I want to go back to bed | |||
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"Have noticed quite a few profiles popping up where the couples are very young early 20s and seems very young to me to be swinging. Or am I getting older. The whole idea of swinging in couples is that your secure in your relationship. Would you play with a young couple or go with experience? The internet has a lot to do with it i guess in that before it was not as openly discussed and it was harder to find its an interest a lot of people have its just being able to acess it " Thats what I thought but I guess nowadays god I sound old 32 lol straight/monogomus relationships are a rarerity as people are more open in there relationships. I cant knock it I cant even settle down. And I agree with the internet as it is more available. And watching the teen sex shows fascinatining they all seem to be sharing or having group sex or swapping partners that seems the norm now they no longer friends just more "buddies"but it is scary. | |||
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"i wish i had descovered this when i was 18 and before i had kids and got fat lol imagine the offers girls that age must get " Ladies age, looks or size have no bearing on the amount of offers they get, and as a middle aged guy I'm more than a bit green with envy | |||
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"It seems that way but it is probably just because we are all getting older and the age gap between you and the youngest swingers is getting bigger. Is that similar to the way that Cadbury's Creme Eggs appear smaller than when I was a kid but really it's just that my hands are bigger...?!? " lol yeah but curly wurleys really are getting smaller nothing to do with hand size lol oh and wagon wheels too | |||
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"SOME PEOPLE ON HERE ARE SO NARROW MINDED !!! Anser to your question yes you must be getting old! 24 and 23 here been together over 9 years married 2. Very secure . " did you really need to be quite that aggressive........ it is an interesting question when it comes to younger people in clubs, because our club now has an "over 25 only" policy in response to younger guys who came in and didn't really understand or behave themselves.... I think age is just a number... for example i have sarahandmat on my friends list and we chat every so often and to be honest I would never have said they were that young if I didn't know.... and we know most men never get past the mental age of 12 anyway.... it not how old people are but often how they come across as well... and that is what makes a ton of difference to people... Do I wish I had started earlier.... no... because basically I don't think I would have been in the right place mentally to deal with it all... and in a way age does give you real life experience (rightly or wrongly) but if people find something they like... cool... go with it and stick with it... | |||
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"I was at Adam & Eves on Saturday night and there were a couple in there, the female being only 19. The male seemed in his 30's. I can tell you, they certainly weren't short of attention!!!!! She was what some people may call a stereotypically 'gorgeous' babe type girl. I didn't play with them as they chose a couple to have fun with but it is not unusual in the slightest to come across girls aged 18, 19, 20, 21 there or indeed other clubs that I frequent. I have also seen girls of that age as singles aswell and can't help wonder why they don't just go out to a night club. Interesting. " I would imagine the same reason that you or indeed anyone in a swinging club doesn't just go to a nightclub. In my experience sex itself is easy to get, you or I could simply walk into any city centre nightclub on a saturday when its busy. But does a nightclub have playrooms dedicated to different kinks, the voyeuristic tendancies or group fun? It does not. Are potential sexual partners as likely to be able to have a frank discussion about things sexual or even everyday while sex is taking place in close proximity without fear of embarassment? Probably not. And the bottom line is a standard vanilla nightclub in my opinion, despite having offers of sex aplenty, just doesn't have the same degree of freedom and laidback atmosphere that a swinging club has... Thats not to say I don't go to vanilla clubs. A hell of a lot of my friends aren't swingers so I attend "normal" clubs with them, and yes I can still have a great night out, and yes I meet plenty of sexual partners in them. But a swinging club offers a completely different kind of night out, and neither of them could compete with the other at what they are best at.... | |||
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