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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Picture this ..a nice hot bath...candle light..meditation music !! Beautiful ..time to relax after a hard day at work !!

THEN Mr comes in and has a poo wtf !! Then my teenager comes in to have another one ...Really ???

Ladies are we not aLlowed some peace ?? I am now lying in a bath it's -2 because I insisted on the Window being open!! Aarrgghhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the lock on the door.

If there isnt one get one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's disgusting and so disrespectful. Why didn't you lock the door?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Use the lock on the door.

If there isnt one get one."

Errr thanks for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could have worse. Just imagine if they had poohed in the bath lol.

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

Shit happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg I would have told them to wait. Or got out and run another one later

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

"Use the lock on the door.

If there isnt one get one."

Silly! That's what a man would do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could have worse. Just imagine if they had poohed in the bath lol."

Lol every cloud !!! Well I have had my pay back...left the water in for him and may have forget to tell him I have shaved my legs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Use the lock on the door.

If there isnt one get one.

Silly! That's what a man would do!"

Ouch !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While I would have a piss in front of a partner (and apologise) but have a dump - now way.

But for your teenager to have a dump while their mother is in that bath - seriously you need to teach them some boundaries as that is seriously, seriously wrong

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

"Use the lock on the door.

If there isnt one get one.

Silly! That's what a man would do!

Ouch !!!!"

Hahahaha! Sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't know teenage kids shit in front of their parents.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I didn't know teenage kids shit in front of their parents.

-Courtney"

Oh no she was thoughtful ...she closed the shower curtain so I couldn't see !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't know teenage kids shit in front of their parents.

-Courtney

Oh no she was thoughtful ...she closed the shower curtain so I couldn't see !!!!

I know this is possibly a crazy suggestion, but did you not think to tell either of them to wait until you had finished?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shit happens

Excellent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's um.......yeah just....... Ok then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I didn't know teenage kids shit in front of their parents.

-Courtney

Oh no she was thoughtful ...she closed the shower curtain so I couldn't see !!!!

I know this is possibly a crazy suggestion, but did you not think to tell either of them to wait until you had finished?

How crazy is that ?? Thanks for your parenting advice ...I will next time and will look forward to the moaning at the door to hurry up and finish my bath !! I was sharing a story which I kind of thought oddly amusing ..yet equally disgusting !! Chill a little and see the amusing side ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find as soon as I relax in the bath it's like a signal to the family to say "come and have a poo" ~ I even ask them beforehand if they want to go!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Use the lock on the door.

If there isnt one get one.

Silly! That's what a man would do!

Ouch !!!!

Hahahaha! Sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shit happens

Excellent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find as soon as I relax in the bath it's like a signal to the family to say "come and have a poo" ~ I even ask them beforehand if they want to go!

This

I get told 'A family that pees together stays together '

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find as soon as I relax in the bath it's like a signal to the family to say "come and have a poo" ~ I even ask them beforehand if they want to go!

Lol that's kind of the point I was trying to make !! But seemingly people are more shocked at my own flesh and blood having a poo next to me and forgetting we are on a swingers site doing the most intimate things with strangers !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find as soon as I relax in the bath it's like a signal to the family to say "come and have a poo" ~ I even ask them beforehand if they want to go!

This

I get told 'A family that pees together stays together '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find as soon as I relax in the bath it's like a signal to the family to say "come and have a poo" ~ I even ask them beforehand if they want to go!

To be fair I don't poo in front of anyone. I don't think it was an odd question given your OP.

But in any case, I don't have these problems because I only live with Marc and he would be in the bath with me

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find as soon as I relax in the bath it's like a signal to the family to say "come and have a poo" ~ I even ask them beforehand if they want to go!

Tbh I can hack my little one have a number 2 but not the teenager so I get out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find as soon as I relax in the bath it's like a signal to the family to say "come and have a poo" ~ I even ask them beforehand if they want to go!

To be fair I don't poo in front of anyone. I don't think it was an odd question given your OP.

But in any case, I don't have these problems because I only live with Marc and he would be in the bath with me

-Courtney "

My favourite kind of bath !!!

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By *lectrumMan
over a year ago

south shields

Better out than in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"While I would have a piss in front of a partner (and apologise) but have a dump - now way.

But for your teenager to have a dump while their mother is in that bath - seriously you need to teach them some boundaries as that is seriously, seriously wrong"

This! That's just plain weird

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The op is just one reason the first thing we did when we moved here was install a second loo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn to breath though your mouth only that way you don't smell it and get some nice strong smelling candles xx my partner does it to me sometimes. It's a bloke thing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NOBODY disturbs me when I'm in the bath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The op is just one reason the first thing we did when we moved here was install a second loo

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Drop in and change your lady product while they're bathing. That disgusted me even typing it lol. Soon teach em.

I'd agree about the lock though. I'd go mad if it happened to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the most unsexual image all day...

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Thank goodness I have a loo downstairs.. even after 44 years together no way would either of us poo in each others company. Oh No never

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"While I would have a piss in front of a partner (and apologise) but have a dump - now way.

But for your teenager to have a dump while their mother is in that bath - seriously you need to teach them some boundaries as that is seriously, seriously wrong

This! That's just plain weird

Very !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there. Having a bath in my daughter's flat and all 3,yes 3 grandchildren had to have a poo. No shower curtain either,just a quick sorry nan! Her new flat has locks and a second toilet so no more asking if anyone needs the toilet before I get in the bath.

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Drop in and change your lady product while they're bathing. That disgusted me even typing it lol. Soon teach em.

I'd agree about the lock though. I'd go mad if it happened to me.

Lady product?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boundaries, respect!!!

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

I agree with the last one its disgusting

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos

On the upside at least they never poo'd in your bath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the upside at least they never poo'd in your bath

Very true!!

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

That's why I don't have baths...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

come to my home - 3 loos - 2 bathrooms (one with a bath and one ensuite wth a shower) and the house is tiny

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"While I would have a piss in front of a partner (and apologise) but have a dump - now way.

But for your teenager to have a dump while their mother is in that bath - seriously you need to teach them some boundaries as that is seriously, seriously wrong"

Don't talk such rubbish,it's not a blinking stranger coming into the bathroom it's her daughter and husband for heaven's sake. Some people are so uptight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bath time in our flat entails my son suddenly needing a pee, both our cats noseying and pooping(not in my bath though lol) and then mr telling me to hurry up for his poop.. I savour my half hour between finishing work, picking up our son and Mr coming home!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

There's a little product called 'Poo Pouri' on Amazon. It's epic!

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By *arvsmMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I can't see the problem in using the toilet in front of spouse and kids, can't see anything, just a smell lol,

What about naturist families? Are they wrong?

I don't believe so!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"But for your teenager to have a dump while their mother is in that bath - seriously you need to teach them some boundaries as that is seriously, seriously wrong"

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I like 3+ toilet houses.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Don't talk such rubbish,it's not a blinking stranger coming into the bathroom it's her daughter and husband for heaven's sake. Some people are so uptight!"

I agree with what he says, and it's our opinions not 'rubbish'.

No need to get uptight about differing opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy a bucket!! Tell them to go in it outside when ur having a bath. Let them empty it when ur finished.

That wld really piss me off esp when you gave them the option before your bath. X

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've got tears streaming down my face laughing.

I'm surprised the op isn't being reported for inappropriate parenting.

I thought it was perfectly normal to go to!the toilet in front of your family as far as parents and kids where concerned.

Didn't even enter my head some people would think this was wrong

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Don't talk such rubbish,it's not a blinking stranger coming into the bathroom it's her daughter and husband for heaven's sake. Some people are so uptight!

I agree with what he says, and it's our opinions not 'rubbish'.

No need to get uptight about differing opinions."

He's talking like it's some kind of crime. Having a poo infront of your own flesh and blood isn't as far as I'm aware. Opinions are all well and good,but not when you try and make someone feel bad for the way they do things.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I've got tears streaming down my face laughing.

I'm surprised the op isn't being reported for inappropriate parenting.

I thought it was perfectly normal to go to!the toilet in front of your family as far as parents and kids where concerned.

Didn't even enter my head some people would think this was wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't talk such rubbish,it's not a blinking stranger coming into the bathroom it's her daughter and husband for heaven's sake. Some people are so uptight!

I agree with what he says, and it's our opinions not 'rubbish'.

No need to get uptight about differing opinions.

How did I make it sound like a crime?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Don't talk such rubbish,it's not a blinking stranger coming into the bathroom it's her daughter and husband for heaven's sake. Some people are so uptight!

I agree with what he says, and it's our opinions not 'rubbish'.

No need to get uptight about differing opinions.

How did I make it sound like a crime?"

You said it was seriously seriously wrong.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

"While I would have a piss in front of a partner (and apologise) but have a dump - now way.

But for your teenager to have a dump while their mother is in that bath - seriously you need to teach them some boundaries as that is seriously, seriously wrong"

I would agree, doesnt seem right for a teenager to be using the bathroom whilst a parent in the bath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My teenage son would be mortified at the thought of using the toilet whilst I was in the bath and I would be too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG this is my house down to the letter. No mater what time if the day I say I'm going in the bath I can guarantee that some1 will want to use the loo. I have even had it when they have said they are going out for a few hrs the moment I get settled with my book in the bath they come home and the 1st thing they do is go to the loo!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't talk such rubbish,it's not a blinking stranger coming into the bathroom it's her daughter and husband for heaven's sake. Some people are so uptight!

I agree with what he says, and it's our opinions not 'rubbish'.

No need to get uptight about differing opinions.

How did I make it sound like a crime?

You said it was seriously seriously wrong."

Errr no I didn't. I said

But for your teenager to have a dump while their mother is in that bath - seriously you need to teach them some boundaries as that is seriously, seriously wrong"

You are taking the last 3 words totally out of context in saying I made it sound like a crime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I normally have a bath in the middle of the day when all the kids are at college or school.

as otherwise it is like ringing the toilet bell.

When I move I so want a house with more than one bathroom / toilet. As one between me, two teenage girls, a 14 year old lad and a 9 year old just isn't enough lol

I also get the cats visit if I don't shut the door completely.

Can someone please invent a shower curtain which is like a room divider.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I would hate the thought of my own two teenage girl's not feeling like they could use the toilet infront of me. When I was little my mum was forever shooing me out of her bedroom when she was getting changed and I never went in the bathroom with her. I vowed to be completely different and more open with my own children.

If some people think that's bad parenting then so be it,I'd rather be how I am to how my mum was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would hate the thought of my own two teenage girl's not feeling like they could use the toilet infront of me. When I was little my mum was forever shooing me out of her bedroom when she was getting changed and I never went in the bathroom with her. I vowed to be completely different and more open with my own children.

If some people think that's bad parenting then so be it,I'd rather be how I am to how my mum was."

What if you had teenage sons? Would you be OK getting changed in front of them or them using the toilet in front of you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think different families have different boundaries where privacy is concerned and as long as it isn't sexual we should respect that.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If some people think that's bad parenting then so be it,I'd rather be how I am to how my mum was.

What if you had teenage sons? Would you be OK getting changed in front of them or them using the toilet in front of you?"
yes, I had a teenage son, not a bloody minutes piece although he did stop!just walking in my bedroom when he was older, he was my son, I gave birth to him and brought him up he'd even come in for a dump now if he needed one we've always been very laid back. If some people want to see something wrong in that fair enough maybe I don't think it's normal not to let your kids to to!the loo if they need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If some people think that's bad parenting then so be it,I'd rather be how I am to how my mum was."

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If some people think that's bad parenting then so be it,I'd rather be how I am to how my mum was.

Do you not think there is probably a middle ground somewhere between being so uptight you can't bare the thought of your children seeing you change and 'don't mind me you just come in and sit down and have a dump'?"
but any would it even bother someone else now different families do things, as usual you take the high ground because you wouldn't do something who are you to tell someone else what boundaries they should have. It was a light hearted thread that many can relate to

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

If some people think that's bad parenting then so be it,I'd rather be how I am to how my mum was.

What if you had teenage sons? Would you be OK getting changed in front of them or them using the toilet in front of you?"

I don't have teenage boys so can't really comment. I'm sure it's very different with a child of the opposite though especially teenagers,but the op was talking about herself and her daughter as I'm talking about myself and my daughters. Thinking about it would it be different if the child has alway's been brought up this way,maybe someone else can answer that...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I think different families have different boundaries where privacy is concerned and as long as it isn't sexual we should respect that.

Agreed, and no need to knock those of us that don't find 'family poo time' a pleasant idea.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I think different families have different boundaries where privacy is concerned and as long as it isn't sexual we should respect that.

Agreed, and no need to knock those of us that don't find 'family poo time' a pleasant idea."
or tell the ones that do let there kids in that they should teach them boundaries as its seriously wrong

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

If some people think that's bad parenting then so be it,I'd rather be how I am to how my mum was.

Not for me no,I don't mind my children coming into the bathroom to have a 'dump' one bit,unless it pongs,but they're my kids got to take the bad with the good. We have a chat then they're gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son would have come in when he was younger but now he's a teenager, it's door closed and keep out! And I respect his privacy.

He does let me know when he's going "for a sh*t" (his words) as he spends bloody ages in the bathroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this hilarious!

I still live at home and when you gotta go ya gotta go regardless of who's in the bath. Our bathroom door has never been shut ever.

Besides I fell out me mams flange so it's hardly a big deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It stems from our own upbringing.

I was brought up in a very open household, talks about sex, periods etc where shared equally between my parents & I could always talk to either of them about anything.

Now I have a young child & I'm doing the same & being as open and honest s I can be.

These days we need to be more aware of our kids & have open relationships with them.

Yes it doesn't work for all, different folks have different strokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the hell?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought that was funny...they only had a dump.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't talk such rubbish,it's not a blinking stranger coming into the bathroom it's her daughter and husband for heaven's sake. Some people are so uptight!

I agree with what he says, and it's our opinions not 'rubbish'.

No need to get uptight about differing opinions.

How did I make it sound like a crime?

You said it was seriously seriously wrong.

Errr no I didn't. I said

But for your teenager to have a dump while their mother is in that bath - seriously you need to teach them some boundaries as that is seriously, seriously wrong

You are taking the last 3 words totally out of context in saying I made it sound like a crime. "

It isn't seriously wrong though is it! Seriously wrong is not feeding them, beating them, abusing them etc

Letting your nearest and dearest go to the loo when you're in the bath is not.

Your statement was over the top and intended to belittle the OP regarding her parenting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a bathroom downstairs and a shower room upstairs. Noone tends to come in as my son is quite private, he doesn't even walk out of the bathroom or shower room wrapped in towels.

However as soon as I'm in the bath I can hear him asking 'wheres mum', or he's moaning about having to walk upstairs to the loo, or he's shouting through the door asking me where things are.

I agree OP, unless everyone is out, you can't have a relaxing, non interrupted bath

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am glad most can empathise !!! We are a very open family and toilet time is chatting time !! A lot like a confessional booth ..curtain is closed and they chat away lol! ! I found it amusing that it becomes Clapham Junction the minute I relax in the bath ...I didn't for one minute expect my parenting to be questioned and be accused of it being seriously wrong

I love that my family is close and ladies it's common knowledge we all share a toilet on a night out !!!

Like I said before before we are on a swingers site doing ..offering and discussing some seriously dirty /naughty stuff ..yet My daughter having a shite next to me is questioned !!! Chill xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't talk such rubbish,it's not a blinking stranger coming into the bathroom it's her daughter and husband for heaven's sake. Some people are so uptight!

I agree with what he says, and it's our opinions not 'rubbish'.

No need to get uptight about differing opinions.

How did I make it sound like a crime?

You said it was seriously seriously wrong.

Errr no I didn't. I said

But for your teenager to have a dump while their mother is in that bath - seriously you need to teach them some boundaries as that is seriously, seriously wrong

You are taking the last 3 words totally out of context in saying I made it sound like a crime.

It isn't seriously wrong though is it! Seriously wrong is not feeding them, beating them, abusing them etc

Letting your nearest and dearest go to the loo when you're in the bath is not.

Your statement was over the top and intended to belittle the OP regarding her parenting "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It never fails to amaze me how often light hearted threads turn sour.

There's been many a time I thought I would share something funny that's happened to me that I know some others would relate to but the thought of people nit picking & turning it into something it isn't makes me think nah I'll keep it to myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It never fails to amaze me how often light hearted threads turn sour.

I have learnt my lesson !! Although nice to see the common sense out weighed the nit picking I guess !! Anyway off to get a shower...who knows what will happen ..But I won't be sharing it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We often laugh when we see those plank toilets in old houses with two or more holes for multi occupancy. Synchronised pooing is not a new thing.

It isn't a family activity in our home but just as long as it doesn't become law im happy for those families where it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We often laugh when we see those plank toilets in old houses with two or more holes for multi occupancy. Synchronised pooing is not a new thing.

It isn't a family activity in our home but just as long as it doesn't become law im happy for those families where it is

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Seriously!!

People are fascinating. Behaviour is fascinating. I wouldn't make a habit of going for a poo in front of anyone but if I had to go then I'd apologise and go.

We all have different standards, morals and opinions. We were all brought up differently, it doesn't make any of us wrong or bad parents. Unless there have been lines crossed and I'm sure we don't need those spelled out. There's really no need to turn a humourous topic into a bun fight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It never fails to amaze me how often light hearted threads turn sour.

same

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seriously!!

People are fascinating. Behaviour is fascinating. I wouldn't make a habit of going for a poo in front of anyone but if I had to go then I'd apologise and go.

Amen

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over a year ago

"I am glad most can empathise !!! We are a very open family and toilet time is chatting time !! A lot like a confessional booth ..curtain is closed and they chat away lol! ! I found it amusing that it becomes Clapham Junction the minute I relax in the bath ...I didn't for one minute expect my parenting to be questioned and be accused of it being seriously wrong

I love that my family is close and ladies it's common knowledge we all share a toilet on a night out !!!

Like I said before before we are on a swingers site doing ..offering and discussing some seriously dirty /naughty stuff ..yet My daughter having a shite next to me is questioned !!! Chill xx"

I thought it was funny... Been there with my kids.. .. If you got to go you got to go.. And it's always the minute you relax in the bath...

Some people on here juat like the drama of finding fault I have every post... Wouldn't worry... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wee when someone is in the shower is ok in our house. But a poo is door shut. Although occasionally my wife will wash her hands or get water for the iron when I'm having a clear out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think different families have different boundaries where privacy is concerned and as long as it isn't sexual we should respect that.

Agreed, and no need to knock those of us that don't find 'family poo time' a pleasant idea."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spectator sport in our house when I'm on the bath. Although I would draw the line at ANYONE sitting on the loe! NO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't this why they invented spa days for the ladies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think all homes should have two toilets, its always been a must for me when buying a home

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over a year ago

I love that my family is close and ladies it's common knowledge we all share a toilet on a night out !!!

Like I said before before we are on a swingers site doing ..offering and discussing some seriously dirty /naughty stuff ..yet My daughter having a shite next to me is questioned !!! Chill xx

I thought it was funny... Been there with my kids.. .. If you got to go you got to go.. And it's always the minute you relax in the bath...

Some people on here juat like the drama of finding fault I have every post... Wouldn't worry... X "

With **every post.. This phone!

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