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By *orthLondonGuy90 OP   Man
over a year ago

St Johns Wood

Do you search for guys on here?

Or do you wait for them to contact you?

Just wondered if that would ever happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naa i get mobbed by enough men to even bother looking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely look xx

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Do you search for guys on here?

Or do you wait for them to contact you?

Just wondered if that would ever happen!"

Yes I do search. No I don't wait for them to contact me.

I'm currently blocking messages from men so I can contact those that interest me without having to deal with the nonsense I get otherwise, (by which I mean messages from men who haven't read or have ignored my profile, those that send crude messages when they happen to feel horny and waning an instant meet, men sending me cock pics, messages from people hundreds of miles away...).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

97% of men on here just assume cos your on here youll meet um in a dash. I actually like getting to know someone so i know id get along with them and it wont be awkward x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to be honest i don't need to look...

But thinking maybe i should start doing the looking. ..

I might find what I'm looking for

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It would help me look if more men wrote profiles saying more than they're looking for "fun".

Your profile says, politely, you're not into overweight women, and gives an idea of what you like, so I'd know not to contact you. Well done OP.

I'm less likely to contact guys who are very vague about what they are looking for.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I have written to one in about the 18 months I have been here. And it was because I saw his posts on the forums

But I normally receive enough messages to choose from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look sometimes. But it usually ends up being a futile exercise, and eventually end up giving up and resort to just receiving messages and going to clubs.

-Courtney

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

No I don't look because I'm not looking for single guys

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I dont search for guys i havnt the time

i wait for guys to contact me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best/detailed message I have received was from a couple, They explained that they had a room booked in my area and was looking for 3 Men to join them, I thanked them for their message and politely declined their offer as it wasn't for me, I have probably had more messages from couples then single Women but only a few have meet my preferences, Location and finding the time to meet them are other reasons for it not happening

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

We search. Don't tend to reply to guys who message us, unless they are offering something very exceptional.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I do search, unfortunately my area is swamped by guys with lazy profiles, saying 'here for fun' (No Shit Sherlock!)

And a cock pic.....why on earth would they think they would attract anyone?

So alas, I can very rarely search for myself!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I do search, unfortunately my area is swamped by guys with lazy profiles, saying 'here for fun' (No Shit Sherlock!)

And a cock pic.....why on earth would they think they would attract anyone?

So alas, I can very rarely search for myself!"

Same in this area. Some areas seem more prone to that sort of profile.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I do search, unfortunately my area is swamped by guys with lazy profiles, saying 'here for fun' (No Shit Sherlock!)

And a cock pic.....why on earth would they think they would attract anyone?

So alas, I can very rarely search for myself!

Same in this area. Some areas seem more prone to that sort of profile."

Bloody pain in the arse though! And then my homepage is full of status updates - Do women actually meet on here?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I do search, unfortunately my area is swamped by guys with lazy profiles, saying 'here for fun' (No Shit Sherlock!)

And a cock pic.....why on earth would they think they would attract anyone?

So alas, I can very rarely search for myself!

Same in this area. Some areas seem more prone to that sort of profile.

Bloody pain in the arse though! And then my homepage is full of status updates - Do women actually meet on here? "

Along with new cock photos. Yup. Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you search for guys on here?

Or do you wait for them to contact you?

Just wondered if that would ever happen!"

We search, even when we get messages. We find it yields the best results.

But have to say we have the same issues mentioned already with lots of lazy profiles around

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I do search, unfortunately my area is swamped by guys with lazy profiles, saying 'here for fun' (No Shit Sherlock!)

And a cock pic.....why on earth would they think they would attract anyone?

So alas, I can very rarely search for myself!

Same in this area. Some areas seem more prone to that sort of profile.

Bloody pain in the arse though! And then my homepage is full of status updates - Do women actually meet on here?

Along with new cock photos. Yup. Same here."

Mine is full of cocks and shadow avatars, they just really know how to entice someone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actively look, profiles who take my notice I wink at, exceptional ones with amazing pictures get an email.. this happens rarely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to but as ive said before on these threads i stoppes mailing men because of all the guys ive ever made first contact with not a single on ever replied so i decided my time was best spent replying to guys i liked who mailed me first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do mail guys why not

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By *othcpluk1Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Do you search for guys on here?

Or do you wait for them to contact you?

Just wondered if that would ever happen!"

Yes we do and yes we do

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

I sent N on a hunt the other night and disabled filter. We were inundated for a day. Then we spoke to most of the guys that bothered with a decent message. It's down to 2 guys we still speak to now.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Do you search for guys on here?

Or do you wait for them to contact you?

Just wondered if that would ever happen!"

I always search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only guys I chat to or would consider meeting are ones I know via the forums, I never search for them.

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