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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Kangaroo pouches/mum overhang Do they put men off ? Or do men see women for who they are and the good time they can have

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By *herryhott1Man
over a year ago

Cork

Wud consider that one of the ultimate signs of a real woman

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By *litlicker77Man
over a year ago

dirty old town

Sign of a real woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im paranoid. Kinda puts me off meeting. Was soo slim, petite and toned before x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't put me off, all women's bodies can be sexy as long as they have the personality also

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Sign of a real woman "

We are all real women!!!

Except for the men pretending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im paranoid. Kinda puts me off meeting. Was soo slim, petite and toned before x"

Same here, and now opposite end of the scale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im paranoid. Kinda puts me off meeting. Was soo slim, petite and toned before x"

You should be proud of your body, its an amazing thing being able to grow a baby. If a man was shallow enough to be put of by mummy marks, then he ain't worth your time. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm! Mummy tummy's. I don't know what it is but they make me so horny. It might be some kind of primaeval instinct that sets me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's rock them tiger stripes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sign of a real woman "

So those without aren't real?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hate getting naked and wearing certain clothes now. Do you ladys that have the same problem as me wear bikinis on hols ? Im going away soon and just want to get my bikini on but iv put on weight since i last worn one and had baby dont want people staring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sign of a real woman "

Oops - lit the blue torch paper there my friend!

Last time the Mum Tum thread came up (last week) it didn't end well!

For the record, I think ALL women, mum tums or not, mothers or not, are real women! And bloody awesome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kangaroo pouches/mum overhang Do they put men off ? Or do men see women for who they are and the good time they can have "

I think most men are happy with all shapes and sizes, women tend to be the fussy ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kangaroo pouches/mum overhang Do they put men off ? Or do men see women for who they are and the good time they can have "
I personal have no issue with them at all, I like my women to look like women so a little or a lot meat here and their is perfect for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few people have perfect bodies so for me it's no problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you have a mum tum (as I do) you just have to be confident in yourself. Hasn't stopped me meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate getting naked and wearing certain clothes now. Do you ladys that have the same problem as me wear bikinis on hols ? Im going away soon and just want to get my bikini on but iv put on weight since i last worn one and had baby dont want people staring"

You'll feel more confident with a bit of a tan though chick x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kangaroo pouches/mum overhang Do they put men off ? Or do men see women for who they are and the good time they can have

I think most men are happy with all shapes and sizes, women tend to be the fussy ones "

I think that's so true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mummy tummy are all unique and lovely, It's a mark left by something exceptionally amazing in life giving birth. Women should be more proud of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate getting naked and wearing certain clothes now. Do you ladys that have the same problem as me wear bikinis on hols ? Im going away soon and just want to get my bikini on but iv put on weight since i last worn one and had baby dont want people staring"
Looking at your pics honestly I think your a little crazy, I had a FB that had a similar body idea, and though I was very supportive and expressed my want for her it was something she struggled with. I used to blame ex partners for giving women bad body ideas but sometimes like with my ex she just felt uncomfortable and though the sex was amazing it was either with the light off or she had a tshirt one.

Hope you see what everyone else does, your a stunning lady and any man would be lucky to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After having 3 c-sections, I hate my tummy with a passion! I will only wear underwear that covers it and to distract attention away from it.

But after reading the thread, I would like to whole heartedly thank any man or woman that has made a positive comment about 'mummy tummies'... it makes me feel a little less obsessed and I will try to love it a little bit instead.

A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After having 3 c-sections, I hate my tummy with a passion! I will only wear underwear that covers it and to distract attention away from it.

But after reading the thread, I would like to whole heartedly thank any man or woman that has made a positive comment about 'mummy tummies'... it makes me feel a little less obsessed and I will try to love it a little bit instead.

A x"

you will be suprised how many men understand what a c-section is and would be more worried about hurting you then how it looks

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By *uywithaSmileMan
over a year ago

Rossendale

Tbh, I think it's a non issue for most men. I think women are far more likely to be the victim of peer criticism, actual or imagined than unkind remarks from men. That's not to say that crass things aren't said, but I'm only speaking generally.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"After having 3 c-sections, I hate my tummy with a passion! I will only wear underwear that covers it and to distract attention away from it.

But after reading the thread, I would like to whole heartedly thank any man or woman that has made a positive comment about 'mummy tummies'... it makes me feel a little less obsessed and I will try to love it a little bit instead.

A x

you will be suprised how many men understand what a c-section is and would be more worried about hurting you then how it looks"

Agreed there ive met women with c section scars and stretchmarks doesnt put me off i see them as proof of how hard it is having carrying and giving birth to childrem something us men cant do or wiuld have the mental strength to cope with your all heroes to me xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a mid 40s bloke I'm in no position to nit pick women's bodies when mines changing before my eyes

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By *urvy_bi_honeyWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Sign of a real woman

We are all real women!!!

Except for the men pretending "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sign of a real woman

Oops - lit the blue torch paper there my friend!

Last time the Mum Tum thread came up (last week) it didn't end well!

For the record, I think ALL women, mum tums or not, mothers or not, are real women! And bloody awesome! "

All women are real women regardless

Imo, if you open a thread entitled mummy tummy you should expect to see a mixture of some women saying they hate their tums because of childbirth and some men reassuring them that there is no need to.

Whilst there is no doubt that there are people out there that subscribe to such nonsense, I do think usually on here it's meant as reassurance, albeit not the best choice of phrase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are what you are and personality scores big time - although i'd agree with some others I'm sure, that there is a line that can be crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate getting naked and wearing certain clothes now. Do you ladys that have the same problem as me wear bikinis on hols ? Im going away soon and just want to get my bikini on but iv put on weight since i last worn one and had baby dont want people staring"

I wear a bikini, nobody stares.

Yeah it's not great to have an unperfect body but most guys don't care.

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By *urvy_bi_honeyWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"I hate getting naked and wearing certain clothes now. Do you ladys that have the same problem as me wear bikinis on hols ? Im going away soon and just want to get my bikini on but iv put on weight since i last worn one and had baby dont want people staring"

Take it from someone who lived in Spain for 4 years and spent over half that time in a bikini - everyone around you will be worrying so much more about what they look like to notice - so get yourself out there, get your bikini on, stop worrying and enjoy yourself!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly true. I have 5 babies yet there's women out there with none that are 'podgier' and 'stretchmarkier' (for want of better phrases!) than me who've neber had a pregnancy.

Look at Marilyn Monroe! She was wobbly in all the right places. Yum yum xx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Kangaroo pouches/mum overhang Do they put men off ? Or do men see women for who they are and the good time they can have "

Some will love them, some will hate them and others will be indifferent.

I think alot of the time, we are more aware of them ourselves than others are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure why and I've always been like it . but when I see tiger stripes it drives me wild , just looks so womanly on a tummy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After having 3 c-sections, I hate my tummy with a passion! I will only wear underwear that covers it and to distract attention away from it.

But after reading the thread, I would like to whole heartedly thank any man or woman that has made a positive comment about 'mummy tummies'... it makes me feel a little less obsessed and I will try to love it a little bit instead.

A x"

Some times a bod that can tell a story has a deep attractiveness in it self , sometimes a woman's journey defines her character and when your with them if they let go enough you can almost taste it when your vibrations resignate together . It's hot as fuck !

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I have a big belly, never had kids but I do have loads of stretch marks.....I wear a bikini on the beach and I am more than happy to go naked anywhere.....no one stares at me so you will be fine.

I think a lot of the time it isn't what anyone else thinks about you but how you think about you - if you can get past that, maybe take a big deep breath and then go out and strut your stuff

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"I have a big belly, never had kids but I do have loads of stretch marks.....I wear a bikini on the beach and I am more than happy to go naked anywhere.....no one stares at me so you will be fine.

I think a lot of the time it isn't what anyone else thinks about you but how you think about you - if you can get past that, maybe take a big deep breath and then go out and strut your stuff "

Indeed too right. I helped a friend get over her body image issues with her belly etc so much so she goes to nudist beaches alot now! Again fellow nudists like me dont stare at her just accept her and her body for who she is xx

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Im toning my body ive lost weight im bordering now on a size 14. So im just going to tone up my weight loss, esp my tum. Its not fat but just needs toning

An im toning my bum, legs.thighs an since the weightloss an doing step aerobics again, im getting more an mmore flexable in the bedroom dept

Can get in better positions so it helps in the sex dept too

im loving my new body an the flexability too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real women have curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some one once told me how to get rid of my stomach stretch marks from having 2 babies and I said no thanks...I earnt them and am proud of them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a wibble wobble mummy tummy. I'm always self conscious of it. Thanks to all for the nice comments on them! X

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

I'm a mum and have no problem wearing a bikini.

Oh wait, I actually put some work in to look good instead of moaning about it

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Only if the person concerned was making a song and dance about it. It seriously wouldn't bother me but the drama, would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a mum and have no problem wearing a bikini.

Oh wait, I actually put some work in to look good instead of moaning about it "
and dosent it show! Well done you! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as I see it its yummy mummy tummy day lol

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Personally it doesn't bother me at all and I don't think ladies should worry.

It's a bit like me being a slap head - yes a full mane of hair may well be sexy as is a Jess Ennis stomach.... But for most women a slap head doesn't take anything away and nor does a mum tum. There's loads of other things guys will find really attractive about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kangaroo pouches/mum overhang Do they put men off ? Or do men see women for who they are and the good time they can have "

mummy tummys as well as stretch marks are in my opinion like medals . You women earnt them they dont put me off at all and never have

be proud of your tiger stripes ladys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a mum and have no problem wearing a bikini.

Oh wait, I actually put some work in to look good instead of moaning about it "

Well done you!

Sadly it's nigh on impossible to get rid of mine, no matter how much work. The only way for me to get a flat tummy now is surgery

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

I (MrK) love them. They are so soft to touch and feel great against my lips.

I'd prefer a lady with one to without one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol the normal rules of this site apply here. The fact of the matter is men need to say the right thing, where as women don't have too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a mum and have no problem wearing a bikini.

Oh wait, I actually put some work in to look good instead of moaning about it "

How unhelpful.

No matter how much exercise some women do, their skin will never shrink back. The only way to help them is surgery. How nice of you to smirk at their misfortune.

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By *ippingrugbyboyMan
over a year ago

Bishop's Stortford


"Im paranoid. Kinda puts me off meeting. Was soo slim, petite and toned before x"
I think if you get on then it does not matter how you look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wud consider that one of the ultimate signs of a real woman"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate my mummy tummy and it puts me off meeting as well as I don't feel comfortable getting naked

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By *entomillaMan
over a year ago

norwich

No matter what a woman looks like, if she's confident she is sexy!!

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire


"I hate my mummy tummy and it puts me off meeting as well as I don't feel comfortable getting naked "

Do try not to let it make you feel like that x

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

Don't worry,no matter how awful you look there will always be a guy on fab to tell you how stunning, amazing, goddess like you are

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West


"Lol the normal rules of this site apply here. The fact of the matter is men need to say the right thing, where as women don't have too."

Utter garbage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol the normal rules of this site apply here. The fact of the matter is men need to say the right thing, where as women don't have too.

Utter garbage."

Really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one and its pretty bad, not had problems getting meets. I do tend to show them before we meet just incase.

Also all the guys ive met have wanted to meet again so its not that much of a turn off for some. But its not for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a mum and have no problem wearing a bikini.

Oh wait, I actually put some work in to look good instead of moaning about it "

Its not always about exercise. Alot of womens tummys stretch so much they are left with extra skin that can only be removed with surgery.

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By *lectricSensationMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I kind of like a little extra on my women, more to love! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a mummy tummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry,no matter how awful you look there will always be a guy on fab to tell you how stunning, amazing, goddess like you are "

Ouch!!! Has some one annoyed you today??

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Don't worry,no matter how awful you look there will always be a guy on fab to tell you how stunning, amazing, goddess like you are "

Well it's heartwarming to see all us ladies sticking together

Well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate getting naked and wearing certain clothes now. Do you ladys that have the same problem as me wear bikinis on hols ? Im going away soon and just want to get my bikini on but iv put on weight since i last worn one and had baby dont want people staring"

Wear your bikini sweetie, 80% of others on the beach will be thinking exactly the same as you and worrying who is staring at them. Be proud of who you are xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate getting naked and wearing certain clothes now. Do you ladys that have the same problem as me wear bikinis on hols ? Im going away soon and just want to get my bikini on but iv put on weight since i last worn one and had baby dont want people staring

Wear your bikini sweetie, 80% of others on the beach will be thinking exactly the same as you and worrying who is staring at them. Be proud of who you are xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After having 3 c-sections, I hate my tummy with a passion! I will only wear underwear that covers it and to distract attention away from it.

But after reading the thread, I would like to whole heartedly thank any man or woman that has made a positive comment about 'mummy tummies'... it makes me feel a little less obsessed and I will try to love it a little bit instead.

A x"

ive also had 3 sections, i hate my stomach with a passion and it most certainly does not make me a real women as has been suggested on the thread

the top and bottom of it is though you can not have your stomach muacles cut open that many times and expect them to act normally so i just accept this is how i am now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a mum and have no problem wearing a bikini.

Oh wait, I actually put some work in to look good instead of moaning about it "

Good for you.

Whilst I'm sure your logic applies to some it won't apply to all so it's nice to see a little bit empathy....

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Said it before, confidence is better than any body shape for me. If you are confident in yourself, despite your self perceived flaws, then that's the sexiest thing in my books.

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sign of a real woman "

How ridiculous

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

Ladies come in all shapes and sizes mummy tummies are that way for natural reasons where as us blokes who have bigger bellies that is just down to poor lifestyle /diet for the majority . So to all you ladies them mummy tummies are sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mummy tummy work well with a,dad bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have to say they are part of you, if I got on with you I wouldn't mind at all. The person is more important to me than your looks.

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By *olfcartweaselCouple
over a year ago

Melrose

I'm proud of mine - only 2 weeks out and its proof I did something that was supposed to be impossible.

I'm planning on getting back into shape once I get the green light from the doctor but that's for me and I didn't exactly have a six pack pre-baby anyway - just want to lose the weight and hopefully tone up a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

after 4 kids mildred is getting a bit of a mummys tummy, we love to sunbathe naked and the all over tan certainly makes her feel more comfortable and more sexier about herself,

also at clubs getting compliments from guys makes her feel good too,

nothing wrong with them for me, its part of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate my tummy. ...

I hate looking down at it when i sit down and it sort of rests on my thighs a little

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Well I have one of those overhang stretchmarked tummies and I have never had kids. I'll ignore the implication that that makes me less of a 'real' woman and just get on with being like most people who have bits they like and bits they don't. I'm comfortable in myself regardless and if self-consciousness ever gets the better of me I'll bung on some nice lingerie or get so into what I'm doing with someone I forget all about it.

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By *romiscuous PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Valleys


"After having 3 c-sections, I hate my tummy with a passion! I will only wear underwear that covers it and to distract attention away from it.

But after reading the thread, I would like to whole heartedly thank any man or woman that has made a positive comment about 'mummy tummies'... it makes me feel a little less obsessed and I will try to love it a little bit instead.

A x"

I'll double that thank you...I've had a c section so my stomach is far from toned and always very conscious about it...but it's nice to see positive comments on this thread as it will give all is ladies who have mummy tummies a little less to worry or obsess over xxx

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By *herrygrayCouple
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"Kangaroo pouches/mum overhang Do they put men off ? Or do men see women for who they are and the good time they can have "

Men should look at a girl's eyes first and see whats inside and should never judge any single aspect. Whether or not they fancy the girl, has in my experience, got more to do with the all round person. Cherry has had 2 children but is still as sexy as she ever was. It's not what you have but how you deal with it, if I may say, G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I have one of those overhang stretchmarked tummies and I have never had kids. I'll ignore the implication that that makes me less of a 'real' woman and just get on with being like most people who have bits they like and bits they don't. I'm comfortable in myself regardless and if self-consciousness ever gets the better of me I'll bung on some nice lingerie or get so into what I'm doing with someone I forget all about it."

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"After having 3 c-sections, I hate my tummy with a passion! I will only wear underwear that covers it and to distract attention away from it.

But after reading the thread, I would like to whole heartedly thank any man or woman that has made a positive comment about 'mummy tummies'... it makes me feel a little less obsessed and I will try to love it a little bit instead.

A x

I'll double that thank you...I've had a c section so my stomach is far from toned and always very conscious about it...but it's nice to see positive comments on this thread as it will give all is ladies who have mummy tummies a little less to worry or obsess over xxx"

N had a c section in November for our little lad. I still find her as sexy as the day we met. So hold your heads high ladies. X

B

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Sign of a real woman "

So women without them are fake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another c section here, although being perfectly honest whilst it will never be flat or toned as a result, my stomach could be smaller but I love living too much. I like eating out, I like nice wine, I like treats ... I'm greedy in all aspects of life (it's why we are here lol)

Basically I've come to accept how I look, and recognise that at my age I am probably in the majority (ie wobbly bits) rather than the minority so my stomach shouldn't come as a surprise. Plus there is safety in numbers

As someone said, confidence is everything!!

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By *xnew2thisxxCouple
over a year ago

holywell

I love this post ... it's making me more confident getting my mummy tummy out I always try to hide it !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a c section and 2 natural births, my body is far from perfect, but it is a small price to pay for having 3 beautiful children.

Life is too short to worry over such things in my opinion

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm nearly 50, I'm not ever going to have Kate Moss's figure. I am aware of my belly, but when playing I do tend to forget about it because not one man has ever commented.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a c section and 2 natural births, my body is far from perfect, but it is a small price to pay for having 3 beautiful children.

Life is too short to worry over such things in my opinion "

Well said that woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry,no matter how awful you look there will always be a guy on fab to tell you how stunning, amazing, goddess like you are

Well it's heartwarming to see all us ladies sticking together

Well done "

let's hope some men go more for personality than appearance.

Not everyone has the time or support to be able to work out; some are lone parents, some work, some look after their children, some do all three. Not everyone's circumstances,situations and reasons are the same, so before belittling people and being so judgemental, look at it through the perspective of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you lovely ladies should love the body you're in, whether it's saggy, marked, toned, scared, round, flat etc... It is who we are and if we love it who gives a flying hoots what anyone else thinks. Most can see beyond what they're looking at, which is something great that we are able to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm paranoid about my mummy tummy but I'm doing g something g about it. 3 stone so far and hopefully another 3 to go. I'm sure I'll still have a bit of a tummy but I'm sure I can cope with that. Happy days

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"Exactly true. I have 5 babies yet there's women out there with none that are 'podgier' and 'stretchmarkier' (for want of better phrases!) than me who've neber had a pregnancy.

Look at Marilyn Monroe! She was wobbly in all the right places. Yum yum xx"

Couldn't resist a peak at your pics.... are you serious you've had 5 babies ..... Your in amazing shape

Anna xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a mum and have no problem wearing a bikini.

Oh wait, I actually put some work in to look good instead of moaning about it "

No number of protein shakes or hours in the gym will get rid an ugly soul

Shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A perfect woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a mum and have no problem wearing a bikini.

Oh wait, I actually put some work in to look good instead of moaning about it

No number of protein shakes or hours in the gym will get rid an ugly soul

Shame

"

To be honest a 'mummy tummy' has nothing to do with weight

You can weigh 8 stone and still have a saggy belly

Some peoples skin is just more elastic than others, also depends in the type of delivery you have

I know plenty of women who excerise but still had a saggy tummy and complain about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a mum and have no problem wearing a bikini.

Oh wait, I actually put some work in to look good instead of moaning about it

How unhelpful.

No matter how much exercise some women do, their skin will never shrink back. The only way to help them is surgery. How nice of you to smirk at their misfortune. "

totally agree ..oh to be so perfect !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine doest bother me now too much - but i think a lot of it is how you have been treated - my ex the man who gave me the kids used to say i was obese and wobbled when i walked - gave me such a complex - the guy i met after him said he wished he had given me the belly as it was part of who i was - so different

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Mummy Tummys don't put me off at all. I like to kiss them. It's a sign of mature womanhood and that is very sexy.

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By *1234Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I love them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a mum and have no problem wearing a bikini.

Oh wait, I actually put some work in to look good instead of moaning about it

How unhelpful.

No matter how much exercise some women do, their skin will never shrink back. The only way to help them is surgery. How nice of you to smirk at their misfortune.

totally agree ..oh to be so perfect ! "

Well if that's what folk call perfect I'll stay the way I am thank you lol

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By *andJCouple
over a year ago

fun town

I was big and overweight before my 3 children, but since my 3rd iv lost 3 stone and not by trying or excercise..... But have now been left with a wobbly tummy from dramatic weight loss!!

I get very paronoid so I tend to wear little dresses when we goto clubs to hide it

J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry,no matter how awful you look there will always be a guy on fab to tell you how stunning, amazing, goddess like you are "

Is this really how you feel? How do you explain porn featuring heavier women? Of course there are men who truly enjoy sex with larger women. It isn't all just a show to get laid. If I weren't lazy at the moment I would get the statistics on keyword searches on porn sites that prove that men find larger women sexual appealing.

Sometimes I wonder if thinner women feel the need to say stuff like this because they don't like the amount of appreciation shown for larger women on this site.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry,no matter how awful you look there will always be a guy on fab to tell you how stunning, amazing, goddess like you are

Is this really how you feel? How do you explain porn featuring heavier women? Of course there are men who truly enjoy sex with larger women. It isn't all just a show to get laid. If I weren't lazy at the moment I would get the statistics on keyword searches on porn sites that prove that men find larger women sexual appealing.

Sometimes I wonder if thinner women feel the need to say stuff like this because they don't like the amount of appreciation shown for larger women on this site.

-Courtney "

I thought the thread was about saggy belly's after child birth not fat women

Women of all sizes have loose skin after having kids

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Kangaroo pouches/mum overhang Do they put men off ? Or do men see women for who they are and the good time they can have "

If a women is a little bit loose around the tummy then I am fine with that. Personally, however, I am put off by significant amounts of loose skin or 'mummy tummy'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry,no matter how awful you look there will always be a guy on fab to tell you how stunning, amazing, goddess like you are

Is this really how you feel? How do you explain porn featuring heavier women? Of course there are men who truly enjoy sex with larger women. It isn't all just a show to get laid. If I weren't lazy at the moment I would get the statistics on keyword searches on porn sites that prove that men find larger women sexual appealing.

Sometimes I wonder if thinner women feel the need to say stuff like this because they don't like the amount of appreciation shown for larger women on this site.

-Courtney

I thought the thread was about saggy belly's after child birth not fat women

Women of all sizes have loose skin after having kids "

Sorry, yes you're right. I should have said women with saggy bellies, not larger women. Apologies. My point still stands, though it shold have been bether worded.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry,no matter how awful you look there will always be a guy on fab to tell you how stunning, amazing, goddess like you are "

sometimes straight and far away doesnt bother us at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally prefer them to a rock hard midrift of a young man-esque female. Theres a lot of women at my gym that have skinny waists and wear the crop tops..look all long and gangly...and for some reason they remind me of rodney trotter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And after giving birth and more often than not tearing a lot if muscle in that area its not really something that can be judged easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a mum Tum

also covered in stretch marks

It was an issue but I've overcome it my own way!

Hasn't stopped me meeting but they've al been warned ans shown it before hand and it's not stopped me

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I hate mine. No matter my weight it never seems to look any better..I'm very paranoid about it.

However someone once told me that it was beautiful. It gave life and was a very important part of who I am and a reminder of what an amazing thing i can do.

He then proceeded to kiss it. He was the first man in years not to just ignore it..He held my hands as he delicately kissed it all over. I cried. I was uncomfortable and awkward yet at the same time made to feel more special than ever.

While I always worry.I'll never forget his words or actions.

It's so much easier to believe bad stuff about yourself than to accept a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry,no matter how awful you look there will always be a guy on fab to tell you how stunning, amazing, goddess like you are

Is this really how you feel? How do you explain porn featuring heavier women? Of course there are men who truly enjoy sex with larger women. It isn't all just a show to get laid. If I weren't lazy at the moment I would get the statistics on keyword searches on porn sites that prove that men find larger women sexual appealing.

Sometimes I wonder if thinner women feel the need to say stuff like this because they don't like the amount of appreciation shown for larger women on this site.

-Courtney

I thought the thread was about saggy belly's after child birth not fat women

Women of all sizes have loose skin after having kids

Sorry, yes you're right. I should have said women with saggy bellies, not larger women. Apologies. My point still stands, though it shold have been bether worded.

-Courtney "

Why is she being attacked for her point of _iew?

Look we can't all have the same opinions.

I'm no white knight. But all the guys will say nice positive things. It's boring

But if someone disagrees with the mob... You guys get your torches and pitchforks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kangaroo pouches/mum overhang Do they put men off ? Or do men see women for who they are and the good time they can have "
There is really no need for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry,no matter how awful you look there will always be a guy on fab to tell you how stunning, amazing, goddess like you are

Is this really how you feel? How do you explain porn featuring heavier women? Of course there are men who truly enjoy sex with larger women. It isn't all just a show to get laid. If I weren't lazy at the moment I would get the statistics on keyword searches on porn sites that prove that men find larger women sexual appealing.

Sometimes I wonder if thinner women feel the need to say stuff like this because they don't like the amount of appreciation shown for larger women on this site.

-Courtney

I thought the thread was about saggy belly's after child birth not fat women

Women of all sizes have loose skin after having kids

Sorry, yes you're right. I should have said women with saggy bellies, not larger women. Apologies. My point still stands, though it shold have been bether worded.

-Courtney

Why is she being attacked for her point of _iew?

Look we can't all have the same opinions.

I'm no white knight. But all the guys will say nice positive things. It's boring

But if someone disagrees with the mob... You guys get your torches and pitchforks. "

She can disagree. I don't have a pitchfork and I didn't attack her. I think there are nicer ways of disagreeing. Plenty of people said they don't like it, but they weren't mean about it.

And I can have my opinion, too.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry,no matter how awful you look there will always be a guy on fab to tell you how stunning, amazing, goddess like you are

Is this really how you feel? How do you explain porn featuring heavier women? Of course there are men who truly enjoy sex with larger women. It isn't all just a show to get laid. If I weren't lazy at the moment I would get the statistics on keyword searches on porn sites that prove that men find larger women sexual appealing.

Sometimes I wonder if thinner women feel the need to say stuff like this because they don't like the amount of appreciation shown for larger women on this site.

-Courtney

I thought the thread was about saggy belly's after child birth not fat women

Women of all sizes have loose skin after having kids

Sorry, yes you're right. I should have said women with saggy bellies, not larger women. Apologies. My point still stands, though it shold have been bether worded.

-Courtney

Why is she being attacked for her point of _iew?

Look we can't all have the same opinions.

I'm no white knight. But all the guys will say nice positive things. It's boring

But if someone disagrees with the mob... You guys get your torches and pitchforks.

She can disagree. I don't have a pitchfork and I didn't attack her. I think there are nicer ways of disagreeing. Plenty of people said they don't like it, but they weren't mean about it.

And I can have my opinion, too.

-Courtney "

Honesty and meanness are sometimes confused.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"I hate mine. No matter my weight it never seems to look any better..I'm very paranoid about it.

However someone once told me that it was beautiful. It gave life and was a very important part of who I am and a reminder of what an amazing thing i can do.

He then proceeded to kiss it. He was the first man in years not to just ignore it..He held my hands as he delicately kissed it all over. I cried. I was uncomfortable and awkward yet at the same time made to feel more special than ever.

While I always worry.I'll never forget his words or actions.

It's so much easier to believe bad stuff about yourself than to accept a compliment.

"

He was a good man for doing so xx I do that too as part of intimacy its about acknowledging everything that makes the other person them xx We all have in our heads what makes the perfect man or woman and when our bodies dont conform to this we are hard on ourselves xx Im not perfect my biggest flaw is my bum but others say its sexy and lovely so i accept it xxx I guess we are all not used to having those areas complimented xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry,no matter how awful you look there will always be a guy on fab to tell you how stunning, amazing, goddess like you are

Is this really how you feel? How do you explain porn featuring heavier women? Of course there are men who truly enjoy sex with larger women. It isn't all just a show to get laid. If I weren't lazy at the moment I would get the statistics on keyword searches on porn sites that prove that men find larger women sexual appealing.

Sometimes I wonder if thinner women feel the need to say stuff like this because they don't like the amount of appreciation shown for larger women on this site.

-Courtney

I thought the thread was about saggy belly's after child birth not fat women

Women of all sizes have loose skin after having kids

Sorry, yes you're right. I should have said women with saggy bellies, not larger women. Apologies. My point still stands, though it shold have been bether worded.

-Courtney

Why is she being attacked for her point of _iew?

Look we can't all have the same opinions.

I'm no white knight. But all the guys will say nice positive things. It's boring

But if someone disagrees with the mob... You guys get your torches and pitchforks.

She can disagree. I don't have a pitchfork and I didn't attack her. I think there are nicer ways of disagreeing. Plenty of people said they don't like it, but they weren't mean about it.

And I can have my opinion, too.

-Courtney

Honesty and meanness are sometimes confused. "

Really? "No matter how awful you look..." is honesty and not mean? Aside from it being a matter of opinion and therefore subjective, when coupled with her other comment, I think it's just mean. You can disagree.

And as I said, people throughout the thread have said they don't like mummy tummy, just as people have said they do. So there isn't a "mob." It's just that no one said it quite like that.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Why is she being attacked for her point of _iew?

Look we can't all have the same opinions.

I'm no white knight. But all the guys will say nice positive things. It's boring

But if someone disagrees with the mob... You guys get your torches and pitchforks. "

If you look at her first comment, I think there was no need for her to say what she did. Implying that those with a "mum tum" have it because they can't be bothered to put work in to toning it and instead sit moaning.

Then implying that if a man calls you attractive on here they are probably lying if you look awful (not sure whos _iewpoint of awful). Whilst we know many men will lie, it doesn't mean all will. So if someone has confidence issues why should they be made not to feel worthy because they don't feel they are and then ignore the comments said to them, because it's just to get them in to bed. Ones definition of "awful" is not the same as another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Why is she being attacked for her point of _iew?

Look we can't all have the same opinions.

I'm no white knight. But all the guys will say nice positive things. It's boring

But if someone disagrees with the mob... You guys get your torches and pitchforks.

If you look at her first comment, I think there was no need for her to say what she did. Implying that those with a "mum tum" have it because they can't be bothered to put work in to toning it and instead sit moaning.

Then implying that if a man calls you attractive on here they are probably lying if you look awful (not sure whos _iewpoint of awful). Whilst we know many men will lie, it doesn't mean all will. So if someone has confidence issues why should they be made not to feel worthy because they don't feel they are and then ignore the comments said to them, because it's just to get them in to bed. Ones definition of "awful" is not the same as another. "

I stand corrected.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry,no matter how awful you look there will always be a guy on fab to tell you how stunning, amazing, goddess like you are

Is this really how you feel? How do you explain porn featuring heavier women? Of course there are men who truly enjoy sex with larger women. It isn't all just a show to get laid. If I weren't lazy at the moment I would get the statistics on keyword searches on porn sites that prove that men find larger women sexual appealing.

Sometimes I wonder if thinner women feel the need to say stuff like this because they don't like the amount of appreciation shown for larger women on this site.

-Courtney

I thought the thread was about saggy belly's after child birth not fat women

Women of all sizes have loose skin after having kids

Sorry, yes you're right. I should have said women with saggy bellies, not larger women. Apologies. My point still stands, though it shold have been bether worded.

-Courtney

Why is she being attacked for her point of _iew?

Look we can't all have the same opinions.

I'm no white knight. But all the guys will say nice positive things. It's boring

But if someone disagrees with the mob... You guys get your torches and pitchforks.

She can disagree. I don't have a pitchfork and I didn't attack her. I think there are nicer ways of disagreeing. Plenty of people said they don't like it, but they weren't mean about it.

And I can have my opinion, too.

-Courtney

Honesty and meanness are sometimes confused.

Really? "No matter how awful you look..." is honesty and not mean? Aside from it being a matter of opinion and therefore subjective, when coupled with her other comment, I think it's just mean. You can disagree.

And as I said, people throughout the thread have said they don't like mummy tummy, just as people have said they do. So there isn't a "mob." It's just that no one said it quite like that.

-Courtney "

Ok now I see your point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry,no matter how awful you look there will always be a guy on fab to tell you how stunning, amazing, goddess like you are

Is this really how you feel? How do you explain porn featuring heavier women? Of course there are men who truly enjoy sex with larger women. It isn't all just a show to get laid. If I weren't lazy at the moment I would get the statistics on keyword searches on porn sites that prove that men find larger women sexual appealing.

Sometimes I wonder if thinner women feel the need to say stuff like this because they don't like the amount of appreciation shown for larger women on this site.

-Courtney

I thought the thread was about saggy belly's after child birth not fat women

Women of all sizes have loose skin after having kids

Sorry, yes you're right. I should have said women with saggy bellies, not larger women. Apologies. My point still stands, though it shold have been bether worded.

-Courtney

Why is she being attacked for her point of _iew?

Look we can't all have the same opinions.

I'm no white knight. But all the guys will say nice positive things. It's boring

But if someone disagrees with the mob... You guys get your torches and pitchforks.

She can disagree. I don't have a pitchfork and I didn't attack her. I think there are nicer ways of disagreeing. Plenty of people said they don't like it, but they weren't mean about it.

And I can have my opinion, too.

-Courtney

Honesty and meanness are sometimes confused.

Really? "No matter how awful you look..." is honesty and not mean? Aside from it being a matter of opinion and therefore subjective, when coupled with her other comment, I think it's just mean. You can disagree.

And as I said, people throughout the thread have said they don't like mummy tummy, just as people have said they do. So there isn't a "mob." It's just that no one said it quite like that.

-Courtney "

You can be honest in a tactful way and honest in a I don't give a shit about your feelings way

If somebody asked me how they looked I wouldnt dream of saying who cares no matter how awful you look somebody will want you, to me that's not an answer that's ment as honest but not mean, replies like that are only ment to hurt people's feeling

But for those who don't care about others crack on no matter how mean you are somebody will still want you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Why is she being attacked for her point of _iew?

Look we can't all have the same opinions.

I'm no white knight. But all the guys will say nice positive things. It's boring

But if someone disagrees with the mob... You guys get your torches and pitchforks.

If you look at her first comment, I think there was no need for her to say what she did. Implying that those with a "mum tum" have it because they can't be bothered to put work in to toning it and instead sit moaning.

Then implying that if a man calls you attractive on here they are probably lying if you look awful (not sure whos _iewpoint of awful). Whilst we know many men will lie, it doesn't mean all will. So if someone has confidence issues why should they be made not to feel worthy because they don't feel they are and then ignore the comments said to them, because it's just to get them in to bed. Ones definition of "awful" is not the same as another. "

Said it way better then I could have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not so much about what others think. If you are not happy with yourself, no amount of comments will convince you otherwise..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that part is extremely beautiful. Sexy even.x

And have always very much preferred that kindve woman. Think other ladies are beautiful too. But this is def my fave.xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some one once told me how to get rid of my stomach stretch marks from having 2 babies and I said no thanks...I earnt them and am proud of them!! "

There's pretty much no way to get rid of them.

Acting quickly can reduce them but they're never going to go once they've scarred.

On a side note I've never met a woman with more extensive stretch marks than me :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah I see this weeks Mum Tum thread is going well I look forwards to next weeks!

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By *ixterMan
over a year ago

leeds

I think it's awful, totally puts me off

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

I'd like to apologise for my comments on this thread yesterday.

I'm very badly depressed right now, I hate myself, so I make nasty comments to reaffirm that and make other people hate me too.

I am struggling but I am going to get help, sorry if i upset anyone. it was totally uncalled for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate mine. Makes me feel so uncomfortable when I'm naked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kangaroo pouches/mum overhang Do they put men off ? Or do men see women for who they are and the good time they can have "

Certainly the sign of a real woman and I must admit quite sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to apologise for my comments on this thread yesterday.

I'm very badly depressed right now, I hate myself, so I make nasty comments to reaffirm that and make other people hate me too.

I am struggling but I am going to get help, sorry if i upset anyone. it was totally uncalled for. "

A lot of people on here suffer with depression

They don't feel the need to try and make others feel bad about themselves

I hope you aren't trying to use it as a pathetic excuse because you have realised how stupid you made yourself look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah I see this weeks Mum Tum thread is going well I look forwards to next weeks! "

I resisted the temptation this time

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin


"I'd like to apologise for my comments on this thread yesterday.

I'm very badly depressed right now, I hate myself, so I make nasty comments to reaffirm that and make other people hate me too.

I am struggling but I am going to get help, sorry if i upset anyone. it was totally uncalled for.

A lot of people on here suffer with depression

They don't feel the need to try and make others feel bad about themselves

I hope you aren't trying to use it as a pathetic excuse because you have realised how stupid you made yourself look "

It doesnt affect everybody in the same way. I held up my hand and admitted i was wrong and apologised, I cant do much more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to apologise for my comments on this thread yesterday.

I'm very badly depressed right now, I hate myself, so I make nasty comments to reaffirm that and make other people hate me too.

I am struggling but I am going to get help, sorry if i upset anyone. it was totally uncalled for.

A lot of people on here suffer with depression

They don't feel the need to try and make others feel bad about themselves

I hope you aren't trying to use it as a pathetic excuse because you have realised how stupid you made yourself look "

Everyone makes mistakes. I don't think it matters 'why', it was a nice apology. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got my baby flap as I call it. Nothing I can do about it as had 4 sections and the muscles have been cut. Ive learnt to love it. I'm body confident and I think that comes across in my pics and meets. Although I'm trying to lose one or 2 pounds after Christmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to apologise for my comments on this thread yesterday.

I'm very badly depressed right now, I hate myself, so I make nasty comments to reaffirm that and make other people hate me too.

I am struggling but I am going to get help, sorry if i upset anyone. it was totally uncalled for.

A lot of people on here suffer with depression

They don't feel the need to try and make others feel bad about themselves

I hope you aren't trying to use it as a pathetic excuse because you have realised how stupid you made yourself look

It doesnt affect everybody in the same way. I held up my hand and admitted i was wrong and apologised, I cant do much more. "

Hope you manage to sort yourself out if that is what you want to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kangaroo pouches/mum overhang Do they put men off ? Or do men see women for who they are and the good time they can have

Certainly the sign of a real woman and I must admit quite sexy"

Why is a woman without one not real? Lots of women can carry a baby full term but not show at all and therefore won't have the baby belly that some of us have, that doesn't make them any less of a woman does it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to apologise for my comments on this thread yesterday.

I'm very badly depressed right now, I hate myself, so I make nasty comments to reaffirm that and make other people hate me too.

I am struggling but I am going to get help, sorry if i upset anyone. it was totally uncalled for. "

Thankyou and good luck with your issues x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a mum and have no problem wearing a bikini.

Oh wait, I actually put some work in to look good instead of moaning about it

How unhelpful.

No matter how much exercise some women do, their skin will never shrink back. The only way to help them is surgery. How nice of you to smirk at their misfortune. "

Exactly what this lady said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like mine, to me nothing worse than wearing a figure hugging dress and a bulge out the front and am uncomfortable with being on all fours as the skin hangs down. However I do wear a bikini because I was going to Turkey and decided that nobody else would notice or care. Even walked out of the holiday complex to have breakfast at the cafe next door wearing it.

As to getting rid of it, not all of us can afford a gym membership, would rather spend my money on something far more important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to apologise for my comments on this thread yesterday.

I'm very badly depressed right now, I hate myself, so I make nasty comments to reaffirm that and make other people hate me too.

I am struggling but I am going to get help, sorry if i upset anyone. it was totally uncalled for.

Thankyou and good luck with your issues x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to apologise for my comments on this thread yesterday.

I'm very badly depressed right now, I hate myself, so I make nasty comments to reaffirm that and make other people hate me too.

I am struggling but I am going to get help, sorry if i upset anyone. it was totally uncalled for. "

Good on you. Well said. I hope that you are able to overcome your struggles. The forum community is very giving and helpful to those with depression, if you are looking for support.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to apologise for my comments on this thread yesterday.

I'm very badly depressed right now, I hate myself, so I make nasty comments to reaffirm that and make other people hate me too.

I am struggling but I am going to get help, sorry if i upset anyone. it was totally uncalled for. "

Fair play for admitting that. It's not easy.

I genuinely wish you well and you get the help you need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to apologise for my comments on this thread yesterday.

I'm very badly depressed right now, I hate myself, so I make nasty comments to reaffirm that and make other people hate me too.

I am struggling but I am going to get help, sorry if i upset anyone. it was totally uncalled for. "

No worries.

Sorry to read that you are suffering. Depression is horrible thing. Really hope you start to see an improvement soon xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to apologise for my comments on this thread yesterday.

I'm very badly depressed right now, I hate myself, so I make nasty comments to reaffirm that and make other people hate me too.

I am struggling but I am going to get help, sorry if i upset anyone. it was totally uncalled for.

Fair play for admitting that. It's not easy.

I genuinely wish you well and you get the help you need. "

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By *onesal20Couple
over a year ago

North East England

I have a bit of a mummy tummy now.....but unfortunately I am the dad!

Less eating out on company expenses needed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my partner first had her baby belly and marksto the point where her belly button is all out of shape. I admit I didnt find her attractive. But I look at myself and think what right do I have to judge.

Now I love to see that extra bit on a woman.

Some women are able to have children and go back perfectly flat tummys others are not so. I was used to seeing my mother go to the bathroom nude and saw her baby belly so it doesnt bother me.

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I was always very she of my mummy tummy but as I've met people now I'm starting to not care anymore.

Seems the only person that had a issue with it was me xxxxxx

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By *exy Man123Man
over a year ago

london

Completely agree. Had a lil look and your gorgeous. Lovely lil bum aswell. #obviouslyanAssMan

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Wish mine was the result of a mummy tummy, but it isn't. ....walked around with a football sized tumour for years, didn't realise until I was rushed into hospital in excruciating pain. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im paranoid. Kinda puts me off meeting. Was soo slim, petite and toned before x"

I found over time in swinging and talking to different people. Women need to realise that is men don't always like the super model woman. I know myself I love a real woman with curves, it's more personality than anything that gets me going. But prefer curvy than stick thin.

Be proud of your body and forget what the media says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It's so much easier to believe bad stuff about yourself than to accept a compliment.

"

I agree with that about accepting the bad comments easier than the compliments

I get a fair few good and bad but have learnt to deal with the rough and smooth

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'd like to apologise for my comments on this thread yesterday.

I'm very badly depressed right now, I hate myself, so I make nasty comments to reaffirm that and make other people hate me too.

I am struggling but I am going to get help, sorry if i upset anyone. it was totally uncalled for. "

That's a brave thing to do and shows a high level of emotional intelligence. You also have great photos *he said White knightly*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love bellies

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

No clue have two kids, wife has no such belly of either and neither did ex from first two.

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It's not just women that think this way I know a few men. My bf has a bit of a gut. I wouldn't exactly call him fat but he's big. He's also lost a little hair.

He was very self concious aswell untill he started getting a bit of attention off females at a club.

Of course being a man he know thinks yes gods gift.

From what I've seen in the swinging world so far is most people have a issue with there body's but over time relise nobody cares. It's certainly helped my self esteem a lot xxxxx

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Ironically my gut grew for each kid, so I guess I drew the short straw lol. But it's all good, belly is shrinking in gym and I'm not the one who has to look at me.

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Ironically my gut grew for each kid, so I guess I drew the short straw lol. But it's all good, belly is shrinking in gym and I'm not the one who has to look at me."

You look fab in your pictures xxxxx

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By *rRetourMan
over a year ago

T.Wells

I am a big fan of the yummy mummy....they tend to be well aware of their phyicality, mental ability to explore their erotic meanderings, and whether c-section or vaginal delivery matters not a jot!!

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

mummy tummy = yummy

Love stoking mummy tummies at local swinging spa venue - some ladies offer up their mummy tummies to be stroked (just as I offer myself to be stroked by ladies I know love furry males).

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Get stuck in. Don't you worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be proud of your mummy tummy! !! I have a fat vagina hahaha (truestory) and I love it everyone is beautiful in there own way

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Be proud of your mummy tummy! !! I have a fat vagina hahaha (truestory) and I love it everyone is beautiful in there own way "

And your gorgeous xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be proud of your mummy tummy! !! I have a fat vagina hahaha (truestory) and I love it everyone is beautiful in there own way "

love fat vaginas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be proud of your mummy tummy! !! I have a fat vagina hahaha (truestory) and I love it everyone is beautiful in there own way

And your gorgeous xxxxxx"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be proud of your mummy tummy! !! I have a fat vagina hahaha (truestory) and I love it everyone is beautiful in there own way

love fat vaginas"

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be proud of your mummy tummy! !! I have a fat vagina hahaha (truestory) and I love it everyone is beautiful in there own way

love fat vaginas

Hahaha "

add me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A real woman. A lady with a amazing body I say. Love it message me allx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im paranoid. Kinda puts me off meeting. Was soo slim, petite and toned before x"

You'll fit in well on here xxx I'd not be one bit cconcerned, curvy it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love a mummy tummy

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By *limaxinnylonCouple
over a year ago

CHESTER

I have had two kids and quite lucky in the tummy department but I never liked my legs which Jon thinks are one of the most attractive parts about me which has made me a lot more confident. I think women are so judgemental on their own bodies..... Classic example think of 3 things that you think are great on your best mate.... Then think of three for yourself. So easy to compliment someone else but you can't see it for yourself!!! The sexiest ladies are those happy in their own skin no matter what their size.... be proud of your body it's the only one you have and believe me there will be guys and girls checking you out every day you walkdown the street

Jayne xx

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over a year ago


"I have had two kids and quite lucky in the tummy department but I never liked my legs which Jon thinks are one of the most attractive parts about me which has made me a lot more confident. I think women are so judgemental on their own bodies..... Classic example think of 3 things that you think are great on your best mate.... Then think of three for yourself. So easy to compliment someone else but you can't see it for yourself!!! The sexiest ladies are those happy in their own skin no matter what their size.... be proud of your body it's the only one you have and believe me there will be guys and girls checking you out every day you walkdown the street

Jayne xx"

Yer - your hot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sign of a real woman

We are all real women!!!

Except for the men pretending "

You are definitely a real woman. A beautiful, real woman xx

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Kangaroo pouches/mum overhang Do they put men off ? Or do men see women for who they are and the good time they can have "

Yummy mummy tummies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sign of a real woman

We are all real women!!!

Except for the men pretending

You are definitely a real woman. A beautiful, real woman xx"

What women are not real women? This has always confused me. What makes one woman more real than another?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sign of a real woman

We are all real women!!!

Except for the men pretending

You are definitely a real woman. A beautiful, real woman xx

What women are not real women? This has always confused me. What makes one woman more real than another?"

I'm real.....i said so.....and so did others. They verified me and everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sign of a real woman

We are all real women!!!

Except for the men pretending

You are definitely a real woman. A beautiful, real woman xx

What women are not real women? This has always confused me. What makes one woman more real than another?"

I've commented further up on someone's thread regarding this and am still waiting for him or any man to say why they think a woman with a tummy is real as opposed to a woman who doesn't. Guess they can't answer it

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