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"I judged a guy on here for comments he made on a post.....then he posted on other subjects ..always brash and what I thought insulting I must admit I thought OMG what a twat..... Then one night he opened up which was deep and his ' voice ' for want of a better word, changed..... How many of us actually think theres more to someone than we actually see ....I've judged wrongly and told this person so .....and I think many may have done that too ......but like I did do we judge someone too quickly on a few stupid posts?" Only trust the whipping post  | |||
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"ive had my mind changed a couple of times - some people have done nothing but wind me up and then you find out something and think - yes i know where you are coming from now - " I guess in this cas I feel I got it so wrong and need to apologise just to make me feel a little better but that makes me sound really shallow which I'm not or did not think I was | |||
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"ive had my mind changed a couple of times - some people have done nothing but wind me up and then you find out something and think - yes i know where you are coming from now - I guess in this cas I feel I got it so wrong and need to apologise just to make me feel a little better but that makes me sound really shallow which I'm not or did not think I was " makes you sound anything but shallow - | |||
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"ive had my mind changed a couple of times - some people have done nothing but wind me up and then you find out something and think - yes i know where you are coming from now - I guess in this cas I feel I got it so wrong and need to apologise just to make me feel a little better but that makes me sound really shallow which I'm not or did not think I was makes you sound anything but shallow - " I can't name this person and I am definitely not on his list of the kind of meets he is looking for but I did tell him I thought he underestimated his true value and I had noticed a huuuuge change ..... | |||
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"I assume you're all cunts tbh" Thank you xxx | |||
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"I feel shallow and judgemental and thought I was above that ......" You're still making a judgement it's just different to your original one. No shame in changing your original assessment and saying so  . | |||
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"I try to come across as a total twat but if you take the time to get to know me a little you'll find I'm a different person all together. I fight with my fists but I love with my heart. "a heart is a weapon the size of your fist. keep fighting. keep loving. | |||
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"Theres one regular who i often quietly roll my eyes at. But occassionally he they sometimes post and i think wow your so right. Sometimes admittidly i surprised its from them..
"doesn't matter how different two peoples opinions are, some will overlap surely? | |||
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"Theres one regular who i often quietly roll my eyes at. But occassionally he they sometimes post and i think wow your so right. Sometimes admittidly i surprised its from them..
doesn't matter how different two peoples opinions are, some will overlap surely?"I always try not to judge but actually it made me realise i agree with him a lot he just words things in a way that irks me. Thats just his style and i respect that sometimes his works better. | |||
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"Theres one regular who i often quietly roll my eyes at. But occassionally he they sometimes post and i think wow your so right. Sometimes admittidly i surprised its from them..
doesn't matter how different two peoples opinions are, some will overlap surely?
I always try not to judge but actually it made me realise i agree with him a lot he just words things in a way that irks me. Thats just his style and i respect that sometimes his works better. "i can be fairly judgemental at times too, pretty quick to be judge jury and executioner and i probably ought not be but there we go. there are times where folk who normally annoy me say something that i can't fault...but the same happens the other way sometimes, people i like for there opinions say something that makes me think 'wtf! are you mad!' i'm sure i'm the same to others, some folk will generally like what i say, some wont, and occasionally i may suprise both groups. overlapping personalities, some overlap alot, some only a little  | |||
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"Theres one regular who i often quietly roll my eyes at. But occassionally he they sometimes post and i think wow your so right. Sometimes admittidly i surprised its from them..
doesn't matter how different two peoples opinions are, some will overlap surely?
I always try not to judge but actually it made me realise i agree with him a lot he just words things in a way that irks me. Thats just his style and i respect that sometimes his works better.
i can be fairly judgemental at times too, pretty quick to be judge jury and executioner and i probably ought not be but there we go.
there are times where folk who normally annoy me say something that i can't fault...but the same happens the other way sometimes, people i like for there opinions say something that makes me think 'wtf! are you mad!'
i'm sure i'm the same to others, some folk will generally like what i say, some wont, and occasionally i may suprise both groups. overlapping personalities, some overlap alot, some only a little "Yeah i think that sums it up for me pretty nicely  | |||
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"Not everyone is good at expressing themselves in words, I try not to judge anyone on here, Saying that some people say some very stupid things and maybe should read threads all the way through before posting, I included me in that as well "i know that one too but this was a little different alot of people got this guy wrong at first, but his latest posts are quite amazing a totally different person, which i think are actually what he is like, so this i guess is an apology from me for getting it so wrong and a lesson to me also on how sometimes you just need to take time to understand people fully | |||
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"I'm wondering if its the same person I thought was an utter twat in some of his comments last night. I'm pretty sure he'd be good craic if chatted one to one" Remote ly possible I guess | |||
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"I'm sure that there are many on the Irish forum that think that I (m) am a complete dick for expressing my opinion, but I'm not, and maybe someday their opinion will change, not that I give a bollix anyway " that's quite tame  | |||
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"Not everyone is good at expressing themselves in words, I try not to judge anyone on here, Saying that some people say some very stupid things and maybe should read threads all the way through before posting, I included me in that as well
i know that one too but this was a little different alot of people got this guy wrong at first, but his latest posts are quite amazing a totally different person, which i think are actually what he is like, so this i guess is an apology from me for getting it so wrong and a lesson to me also on how sometimes you just need to take time to understand people fully
"You don't have to apologise.
Loads of people loved to jump on his posts like a mob. They couldn't see that they were being just as bad yet calling him out for the same thing. Many were baiting him to post something that would get him a ban.
He seems a nice enough guy. | |||
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"Not everyone is good at expressing themselves in words, I try not to judge anyone on here, Saying that some people say some very stupid things and maybe should read threads all the way through before posting, I included me in that as well
i know that one too but this was a little different alot of people got this guy wrong at first, but his latest posts are quite amazing a totally different person, which i think are actually what he is like, so this i guess is an apology from me for getting it so wrong and a lesson to me also on how sometimes you just need to take time to understand people fully
You don't have to apologise.
Loads of people loved to jump on his posts like a mob. They couldn't see that they were being just as bad yet calling him out for the same thing. Many were baiting him to post something that would get him a ban.
He seems a nice enough guy. " | |||
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"My preference is a non sugar coating approach and I know that doesn't sit comfortably with some but hey, I prefer to be authentic. I like directness and I can take it back. I don't go out to offend, far from it but if people are, that sits with them. As for others, there are people I respect for their posting style, content and intelligence. I always read their contributions, others I skip over as I can guess what's coming. " Hmmm I'll have to be a little careful with you | |||
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"My preference is a non sugar coating approach and I know that doesn't sit comfortably with some but hey, I prefer to be authentic. I like directness and I can take it back. I don't go out to offend, far from it but if people are, that sits with them. As for others, there are people I respect for their posting style, content and intelligence. I always read their contributions, others I skip over as I can guess what's coming. Hmmm I'll have to be a little careful with you " | |||
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"I've been blocked by quite a few people on here for no reason so I just speak my mind if you don't like it tough shit! " there's always a reason. | |||
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