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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Something that has became more apparent to us the more we frequent the forums is how differently people use this site.

When we joined, it was to find other people to assist us in the exploration of our sexual lives and not to develop any form of emotional relationship.

In the few years that we have used fab we have noticed that lots of people get put off by pictures of genitals, sexual terms used in profiles, sexual orientation etc and are more interested in the friendship aspect. That is totally fine if you are looking for an adult version of Facebook and the great thing about fab is that it can cater for everyone. This does not mean that those of us purely looking for sexual hook ups should be treated with any form of prejudice at all.

So, our question stands, how do you use fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We mostly use it to keep up with friends. Make new ones but mostly for parties And event lists...

Also for me it's the forums. They have changed over the years and do fluctuate But I do enjoy them x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

For me I use it as a hobby for recreational sex. No ties no dramas just a good time that doesn't impact on my real life outside fab

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sex meets and using the forums for me. I am not here to forge friendships, relationships and anything else.

I want respect based NSA sex and forum posting.

all the other stuff is not for me but seems to make others happy so that is cool

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Something that has became more apparent to us the more we frequent the forums is how differently people use this site.

When we joined, it was to find other people to assist us in the exploration of our sexual lives and not to develop any form of emotional relationship.

In the few years that we have used fab we have noticed that lots of people get put off by pictures of genitals, sexual terms used in profiles, sexual orientation etc and are more interested in the friendship aspect. That is totally fine if you are looking for an adult version of Facebook and the great thing about fab is that it can cater for everyone. This does not mean that those of us purely looking for sexual hook ups should be treated with any form of prejudice at all.

So, our question stands, how do you use fab?"

Who is treating you with predujice, i was under the impression people are free to use this site however suits them best, whether that be chatting in chat rooms, yakking in the forums, going to socials, having sex, web camming, just uploading pics for compliments, just browsing for a wank.

Ive never yet seen anyone say to those that here for only sex that they cant run their profile how they see fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really use it for meets. I just use it for the forum now, it is comedy gold lol.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Like you OP I have no interest in relationships as such, however I have met people more than once and some for a number of years.

I have certainly loved meeting them all and that is what matters most, to me at least.

What goes on in the forums is banter.

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By *inkyKellyCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry

Sexual meets only, but not particularly often, every few months.

Strangely though I find myself here every day at least once, having a rummage through the forums or checking mails.

Or asking other Tgirls for tips/how they did a certain something or where they got something from :P

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By *inkyKellyCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry

Oh, and the chat rooms on the occasions that I dress up :]

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

We mainly use it to keep in touch with friends we've made in clubs or at parties. We're a very sociable couple and it's definitely not all about sex for us, though that's not to say we don't love that part of it all too haha! We occasionally go on cam, we use the forums fairly regularly, arrange the occasional random meet. Guess you could say we are pretty much all renders

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the drama, outrage and other theatrics makes for comedy gold most of the time

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

I enjoy the chat and forming friendships ... which may lead to a meet if I like them ... my block list grows each day .. im not desperate for sex ... I have standards ...I like to be spoken to respectfully...and I will recipricate ..

Yes its a sex site but .... if im approached as .....

Can I fuck you?

Do u want my cock?

Etc etc ....the answer will be NO ..

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Damn autocorrect. Rounders not renders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use it to arrange meets but have to get on socially with the people too otherwise it doesn't really do it for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a bit of both to be honest! depends on who I'm chatting to and what there looking for, I'm happy to chat on here to anybody and have some good friends, but me fav and best meets have been after a few msgs to arange a venue time

Ect

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We use it for sex, not here to find friends just people interested in NSA fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use this profile to keep in touch with people I've met, arrange meets and chat on the forums and with friends. More so the forums than anything else though

My couple profile I think I've posted on 2 forum threads thats it, we use it to try to arrange meets, go in the chatrooms and look at the hit pics

There's no right or wrong way to use fab, its an individual or couple choice

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By *xbanana2Man
over a year ago

addlestone

I have formed a lasting relationship on here.honesty is far more real here than on other sites , I believe I am not the only one.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

We'd like to use it for sexual hookups, alas, through sheer mental exhaustion and disillusion, i find i gravitate more to the forums, whereas angel gravitates more toward candy crush

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Right now, just for the forum. I have a bit of a health concern so not meeting - hence profile hidden, but come on to chat to friends and use the forum.

I normally use it to meet up with people with similar likes... and its easier than going on a night on the pull.

I also have a couples profile with MrA, where we are looking to meet as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Something that has became more apparent to us the more we frequent the forums is how differently people use this site.

When we joined, it was to find other people to assist us in the exploration of our sexual lives and not to develop any form of emotional relationship.

In the few years that we have used fab we have noticed that lots of people get put off by pictures of genitals, sexual terms used in profiles, sexual orientation etc and are more interested in the friendship aspect. That is totally fine if you are looking for an adult version of Facebook and the great thing about fab is that it can cater for everyone. This does not mean that those of us purely looking for sexual hook ups should be treated with any form of prejudice at all.

So, our question stands, how do you use fab?

Who is treating you with predujice, i was under the impression people are free to use this site however suits them best, whether that be chatting in chat rooms, yakking in the forums, going to socials, having sex, web camming, just uploading pics for compliments, just browsing for a wank.

Ive never yet seen anyone say to those that here for only sex that they cant run their profile how they see fit"

No one has treated us any different but it does come across on the forums that members looking for NSA fun are often overlooked and sometimes looked down on by others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think no matter what you are looking for someone will say its the wrong way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something that has became more apparent to us the more we frequent the forums is how differently people use this site.

When we joined, it was to find other people to assist us in the exploration of our sexual lives and not to develop any form of emotional relationship.

In the few years that we have used fab we have noticed that lots of people get put off by pictures of genitals, sexual terms used in profiles, sexual orientation etc and are more interested in the friendship aspect. That is totally fine if you are looking for an adult version of Facebook and the great thing about fab is that it can cater for everyone. This does not mean that those of us purely looking for sexual hook ups should be treated with any form of prejudice at all.

So, our question stands, how do you use fab?

Who is treating you with predujice, i was under the impression people are free to use this site however suits them best, whether that be chatting in chat rooms, yakking in the forums, going to socials, having sex, web camming, just uploading pics for compliments, just browsing for a wank.

Ive never yet seen anyone say to those that here for only sex that they cant run their profile how they see fit

No one has treated us any different but it does come across on the forums that members looking for NSA fun are often overlooked and sometimes looked down on by others "

However the forums in general only account for a very small percentage of fab members so my guess is the other, larger percentage, is just out there meeting, or using the chatrooms, or I suppose just perving over all the pics

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

As a single male, my answer is probably unsurprising - I use Fab to look for sexual partners.

But Fab has secondary uses, for me. I catch up with friends and acquaintances, and also engage in discussions on these forums, amongst people who have a similar philosophy to sex and sexuality as I do

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Entertainment from the forums, social meets for just meeting people, and for getting sex as I'm single and don't see why I should have to go without.

As a side effect of this I have made some true friends on here

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I use it (in no particular order):

To look at photos of naked ladies and men, to have sex with people, to have a chat and a drink with people, to be nosey about other people, to have a laugh and learn in the forums and to socialise via messaging with people.

I'd ultimately like to have a swinging couple as friends.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

We just use it for forums and seeing who has looked at us. Not sure about meeting others just yet, but one thing we would like to use is the webcam, so if possible, we can be cam verified. Cant do it tonight as its blocked but maybe able to use Skype account, if anyone might be willing to do so. If you know me already, I was Curvy Lady 63.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

My priority is meeting.

But hanging out with like minded people is an enjoyable bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just use it for forums and seeing who has looked at us. Not sure about meeting others just yet, but one thing we would like to use is the webcam, so if possible, we can be cam verified. Cant do it tonight as its blocked but maybe able to use Skype account, if anyone might be willing to do so. If you know me already, I was Curvy Lady 63. "

I don't have Skype but would be happy to verify you in the chatrooms over the weekend, either on my single or couple account if you'd like

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"We just use it for forums and seeing who has looked at us. Not sure about meeting others just yet, but one thing we would like to use is the webcam, so if possible, we can be cam verified. Cant do it tonight as its blocked but maybe able to use Skype account, if anyone might be willing to do so. If you know me already, I was Curvy Lady 63.

I don't have Skype but would be happy to verify you in the chatrooms over the weekend, either on my single or couple account if you'd like "

Thats really nice of you but we need to be verified as a couple and we are only together a few times a month. We are out on Saturday afternoon, so we could maybe try it then if you are willing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think no matter what you are looking for someone will say its the wrong way. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just use it for forums and seeing who has looked at us. Not sure about meeting others just yet, but one thing we would like to use is the webcam, so if possible, we can be cam verified. Cant do it tonight as its blocked but maybe able to use Skype account, if anyone might be willing to do so. If you know me already, I was Curvy Lady 63.

I don't have Skype but would be happy to verify you in the chatrooms over the weekend, either on my single or couple account if you'd like

Thats really nice of you but we need to be verified as a couple and we are only together a few times a month. We are out on Saturday afternoon, so we could maybe try it then if you are willing? "

Of course, ping me a pm when your ready im usually around

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"We just use it for forums and seeing who has looked at us. Not sure about meeting others just yet, but one thing we would like to use is the webcam, so if possible, we can be cam verified. Cant do it tonight as its blocked but maybe able to use Skype account, if anyone might be willing to do so. If you know me already, I was Curvy Lady 63.

I don't have Skype but would be happy to verify you in the chatrooms over the weekend, either on my single or couple account if you'd like

Thats really nice of you but we need to be verified as a couple and we are only together a few times a month. We are out on Saturday afternoon, so we could maybe try it then if you are willing?

Of course, ping me a pm when your ready im usually around "

Thank you

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