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Bi Fems, Do you give as well as receive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On the back of a bi curios thread. I'm asking why do I find "bi fems" only take and not give?

Sex is between 2 people and I believe in pleasure for both. I won't do "Just a blow job" for this reason.The last 3 plays I've had where a bi fem is there they have only taken not given. I'm getting fed up with it and won't do FF meets for this reason.

Do you give as well as receive? And none of that "it's better to give than receive crap."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give way more than I receive...which is annoying...givers need lovin' too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me... But everyone is different bi or straight.. I know women that won't give a blow job x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to give and receive I couldn't do it if it was all one way traffic (either way)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to give and receive I couldn't do it if it was all one way traffic (either way)"

You don't tend to find that out until you actually meet them though do you? It's pretty selfish to just take and not reciprocate...They certainly would get a second meet that's for sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

# wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely both. I'm not here just to provide pleasure. What's that all about!!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Its both for me

Although, that may not be the case with everyone; I did hear the term, bi-selfish once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know for a fact it's both for her lol

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By *irtyandfilthy2014Couple
over a year ago

under the apple tree

I like both, but prefer to give. (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to give and receive I couldn't do it if it was all one way traffic (either way)

You don't tend to find that out until you actually meet them though do you? It's pretty selfish to just take and not reciprocate...They certainly would get a second meet that's for sure!"

That is true and it doesn't make for a fun meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do both too, and for me a woman who receives only from women i wouldnt even class as fully bi just curious or bi friendly even.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Tina giveth and receiveth equally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tracy always gives. Only ever had one meet where she didn't receive.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Angel gives and receives with a woman, the same as if she were with me....basically she likes to "have" sex with a woman, not just "give" sex or "take" sex, if you know what i mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually don't like receiving oral off women, I find they aren't very good at it and it irritates me, I only give oral to women and only receive from men

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Most definitely both. I'm not here just to provide pleasure. What's that all about!!"

This definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to give than receive, that being said I think I'd be slightly disappointed if I didn't receive anything at all, it's nice to feel a woman reciprocate your touch too

Peach

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I love to give and receive I've found the women who are just doing girl on girl as a show for their partners are usually the ones who don't like to give.

Bun

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

I tend to give more than I receive

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I tend to give more than I receive "

Me too, I love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, definitely

I wouldn't meet a bi woman who didn't give and take. As others have suggested that sounds like the other woman's doing it to please their man.

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield


"Both, definitely

I wouldn't meet a bi woman who didn't give and take. As others have suggested that sounds like the other woman's doing it to please their man."
. Lol50/50 for us two then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, definitely

I wouldn't meet a bi woman who didn't give and take. As others have suggested that sounds like the other woman's doing it to please their man.. Lol50/50 for us two then "

Well, you can just give me your strap on & I'll take it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to give and receive I've found the women who are just doing girl on girl as a show for their partners are usually the ones who don't like to give.

Bun "

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I enjoy giving and receiving but do prefer giving whether the receipient is male or female.

For me giving pleasure is a huge turn on.

Can't say I've had a problem getting my favours returned so far

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I tend to give more than I receive

Me too, I love it! "

Never have guessed

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By *xpanding our horizonsCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

I am new to it, but I prefer to give than receive.

Not easy to find a nice couple with a bi fem who can play during the day...hint hint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am new to it, but I prefer to give than receive.

Not easy to find a nice couple with a bi fem who can play during the day...hint hint. "

Norfolk does seem to have a.lack of bi-fems on here lol...but not completely

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By *xpanding our horizonsCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia


"I am new to it, but I prefer to give than receive.

Not easy to find a nice couple with a bi fem who can play during the day...hint hint.

Norfolk does seem to have a.lack of bi-fems on here lol...but not completely "

I can travel!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely prefer to give more than receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am new to it, but I prefer to give than receive.

Not easy to find a nice couple with a bi fem who can play during the day...hint hint.

Norfolk does seem to have a.lack of bi-fems on here lol...but not completely

I can travel!!!! "

That is always a good benefit

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Give and receive .. Prefer to give first... Either to man or woman as really gets me in the mood x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I give oral to male and female and have received oral from male and female on meets.

Also used strap-on to female on meets. Red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have very limited experience with girl/girl but I so want to be a giver...as well as a receiver!

Hubby and I are actively seeking a bi-fem to play with so I can try my hand (tongue) at giving!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the back of a bi curios thread. I'm asking why do I find "bi fems" only take and not give?

Sex is between 2 people and I believe in pleasure for both. I won't do "Just a blow job" for this reason.The last 3 plays I've had where a bi fem is there they have only taken not given. I'm getting fed up with it and won't do FF meets for this reason.

Do you give as well as receive? And none of that "it's better to give than receive crap." "

This used to really wind me up when I was a single fem meeting couples. I used to work bloody hard and get sod all in return!

Hence I don't meet couples on my own now.

I've found at parties, if I don't initiate bi play, then I'm very happy to reciprocate if any is given me first.

Think I'd feel bad if I didn't show my appreciation back! Lol

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I tend to give more than I receive

Me too, I love it!

Never have guessed "

Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the back of a bi curios thread. I'm asking why do I find "bi fems" only take and not give?

Sex is between 2 people and I believe in pleasure for both. I won't do "Just a blow job" for this reason.The last 3 plays I've had where a bi fem is there they have only taken not given. I'm getting fed up with it and won't do FF meets for this reason.

Do you give as well as receive? And none of that "it's better to give than receive crap." "

Yes I do , and wouldn't bother if it was one way

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Hate pillow princesses. Very selfish. I like giving but love receiving too. Have gone right off couples and women due to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say i give more than receive with either sex. For me the turn on is turning the other person on listening to them moan at something your doing etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think this is probably the main reason I've never met a female from here for sex. Too many "bi" girls that are takers only and with the "I'd never lick a pussy" mentality. Have a few friends like it and they get on my nerves. What's good for the goose is good for the gander and all that jazz x

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By *uny1122Man
over a year ago

longeton

Yes I always like and want be girls ,and I can do that for hours and hours ,bi girls know how long it's take ,very long time but very good u will cum 5 to 10 time I did that many times ,that's why I always say sex is a art only art big dick small dick no problem but u must know that art and I know it

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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable

I love giving, but I'd definitely want the girl to reciprocate.... its not very fair if its all one way.....

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley


"I love to give and receive I've found the women who are just doing girl on girl as a show for their partners are usually the ones who don't like to give.

Bun "

She definitely likes both

Mrs x

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Always end up being a top. My ex was a bit of a passive princess too.

Now I like topping, it's my thing but my goodness doing ALL the work gets frustrating. Had to ditch one girl recently as she lay there like a sack of spuds

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

I prefer to give. In my experience, i've not had a giver who has done as good a job as a guy.

sooo.... i'm quite happy with a 'bi selfish' chick lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the back of a bi curios thread. I'm asking why do I find "bi fems" only take and not give?

Sex is between 2 people and I believe in pleasure for both. I won't do "Just a blow job" for this reason.The last 3 plays I've had where a bi fem is there they have only taken not given. I'm getting fed up with it and won't do FF meets for this reason.

Do you give as well as receive? And none of that "it's better to give than receive crap." "

What did they say when you asked them to give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think this is probably the main reason I've never met a female from here for sex. Too many "bi" girls that are takers only"

But by the replies in this thread 100% of bi women give and recive and most prefer giving

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I'm bi-selfish. I don't care who gives me an orgasm as long as I get one. or 5.

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I love to give and recive. Obvious getting oral is awesome but there's just something about giving I love.

Tbh when I think about being with a girl I'm always thinking about me giving her oral but I'd be pretty pissed off if she didn't return the pleasure xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to give and receive I couldn't do it if it was all one way traffic (either way)"

This for me too - I take my time giving when I play fem to fem - lots of kissing, licking, teasing, spanking, stroking, massage......love to see and feel the ladies pleasure m x

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

I like to give and receive

karen

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I love to give and receive I've found the women who are just doing girl on girl as a show for their partners are usually the ones who don't like to give.

Bun

She definitely likes both

Mrs x"

Definitely, and I know you do too I'm look forwards to giving and receiving next time

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I like to give and receive I couldn't do it if it was all one way traffic (either way)

This for me too - I take my time giving when I play fem to fem - lots of kissing, licking, teasing, spanking, stroking, massage......love to see and feel the ladies pleasure m x"

Mmm, yummy xx

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I do what I want to do at the time. If I give, it's because I want to, not in order to receive.

That said, if someone (male or female) said in advance that they only take, I wouldn't meet them.

If I'd seen them more than once and they only took, I wouldn't meet them again.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Think this is probably the main reason I've never met a female from here for sex. Too many "bi" girls that are takers only and with the "I'd never lick a pussy" mentality. Have a few friends like it and they get on my nerves. What's good for the goose is good for the gander and all that jazz x"

Would think that bi girls on here who are takers only are by far the exception, rather than the rule. It's certainly not been our experience anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A loves giving as well as receiving, and from what the girls say, A is very good at giving xxx

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I tend to give, more than I receive. I don't mind, but would be nice for it to be both ways more often.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks ladies, I've just come across the Bi selfish ones then! I must bump into a few of you from this thread. Of which there are several very nice looking ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for a lady who gives as good as she gets for an ffm threesome

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By *urvy_bi_honeyWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"I am new to it, but I prefer to give than receive.

Not easy to find a nice couple with a bi fem who can play during the day...hint hint.

Norfolk does seem to have a.lack of bi-fems on here lol...but not completely "

Waves hello.........

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By *urvy_bi_honeyWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

And to answer the original question I am happy to give as well as receive, however as a few others have said on here too, I get great pleasure and satisfaction from sexually pleasing another woman and don't automatically expect anything back in return (it's an added bonus!). Honey X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely both here too!

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By *andkCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

This girl

always gives before receiving

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Definitely love both. I wouldn't want to meet a woman who was happy to receive but not give anything back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give. I prefer giving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to give. Not met a woman that can lick my pussy good yet so I give instead of being disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think this is probably the main reason I've never met a female from here for sex. Too many "bi" girls that are takers only

But by the replies in this thread 100% of bi women give and recive and most prefer giving "

If you believed everything you read in here all men give oral too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

works both ways here

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