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By *ades OP   Couple
over a year ago

leicestershire

so you message all is going well you add as a friend and then it feels like your trying to get blood out of a stone.

anyone else experiencing similar ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get this a lot it's a rubbish part of the lifestyle sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last two couples and a woman in last 2 days....

Really annoying!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not really. Maybe it's just me. Or them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's hard work it means they aren't interested. Easier to move on and look for someone else that is.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Had two this week. All good chat, arranging to meet, fixed a date then a cold breeze....

I get that folk are scared of the likes of me in reality and is frustrating but learning to shake it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I can be like this at times, means I'm not interested.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"so you message all is going well you add as a friend and then it feels like your trying to get blood out of a stone.

anyone else experiencing similar ?"

that's just about "click".

You do the dance & some times it simply...

Dies on the vine.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

But it's not time wasting....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it's not time wasting....

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Exactly, I was about to say the same. surely you'd be on here anyway chatting to others so how have they wasted your time? Surely its only wasted if you arrange a meet, spend time getting ready, travelling etc only for them to no show with no word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its just people who want to see your private pictures . once seen they then move on to there next couple or single female,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people get complacent also. They think once 'they're in' with you they don't have to make any effort any more.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"But it's not time wasting....

Exactly, I was about to say the same. surely you'd be on here anyway chatting to others so how have they wasted your time? Surely its only wasted if you arrange a meet, spend time getting ready, travelling etc only for them to no show with no word. "

That's how I see it, plus unless anything is going to do, spending that little bit of time upfront ensures you're not going to be bored for a couple of hours.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No, I only friend if I meet. And I keep a short friends list too.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wouldnt say they were time wasters, people are entitled to change their minds or maybe life has got in the way and they cant commit as much theres all sorts of reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some people get complacent also. They think once 'they're in' with you they don't have to make any effort any more.

^^^ Yeap, I've had this as well as well then they wonder why I am no longer interested "

I'm still interested sometimes but i do wonder why they change like that and it makes me suspicious.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I think some people get complacent also. They think once 'they're in' with you they don't have to make any effort any more.

^^^ Yeap, I've had this as well as well then they wonder why I am no longer interested

I'm still interested sometimes but i do wonder why they change like that and it makes me suspicious."

Deleted because I double typed, but you captured it....oh well

I still stop responding though....as I feel I am no longer a person to them and just someone to fuck, not how I use this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some people get complacent also. They think once 'they're in' with you they don't have to make any effort any more.

^^^ Yeap, I've had this as well as well then they wonder why I am no longer interested

I'm still interested sometimes but i do wonder why they change like that and it makes me suspicious.

Deleted because I double typed, but you captured it....oh well

I still stop responding though....as I feel I am no longer a person to them and just someone to fuck, not how I use this site "

Lol, good timing then.

Yeah i stop making any effort as well. I'm not a free service.

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By *s115Man
over a year ago

Erith kent

It happens all the time

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