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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

I was thinking today about supply and demand in terms of pictures uploaded on this site.

Now when you go into newsagents the top shelf is fully stocked with glamour mags indicating there is a supply and demand from men otherwise these magazines wouldn't be published.

However there is little or no selection of similar glamour mags aimed for women, again indicating there is no demand from women for magazines full of cock shots.

So my question is, why do men in general (I'm fully aware not all men), post endless cock pics and no other pics of their bodies?

The above magazine example shows their is no demand from women to supply these pictures, so why do men seem to think that cock pics are what we want to see?

Be interested to hear in particular from men whose profiles are full of cock shots as to their reason why they believe us women want to see them.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Hmmmm not sure that there isn't a demand; just checked out the male hot pictures and 14 of the 15 pictures are cock shots.

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Hmmmm not sure that there isn't a demand; just checked out the male hot pictures and 14 of the 15 pictures are cock shots."

Question is who fabbed them to make them hot, not necessarily women fabbing

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Hmmmm not sure that there isn't a demand; just checked out the male hot pictures and 14 of the 15 pictures are cock shots.

Question is who fabbed them to make them hot, not necessarily women fabbing"

Fair point but it can't all be bi guys.

I think that there are other reasons why soft porn mags for females aren't in the shops; it probably has more to do with society (as a whole) not accepting that woman enjoy sexy as much as guys and woman feeling at ease to buy such stuff (maybe).

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Hmmmm not sure that there isn't a demand; just checked out the male hot pictures and 14 of the 15 pictures are cock shots.

Question is who fabbed them to make them hot, not necessarily women fabbing

Fair point but it can't all be bi guys.

I think that there are other reasons why soft porn mags for females aren't in the shops; it probably has more to do with society (as a whole) not accepting that woman enjoy sexy as much as guys and woman feeling at ease to buy such stuff (maybe)."

Or maybe just women not into cock shots, i know from all the women i talk to both on and off fabs, I've yet to speak to one that says they like cock shots, so far all say the same they like there imagination to be triggered by wondering what the guy had to offer, rather than see the present before its been wrapped.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I think it's more to do with the fact women can get these pics for free whereas men have to pay for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before the internet, magazines were really the only way to show the naked form. If a new 'top shelf' magazine for females came out it was publicised, usually in a negative way or as more than just a porn magazine.

While show a naked female to most men, you would solicit a reaction. Show pictures of a naked male to a female and it may be a reaction of embarrassment. Probably not so with the good ladies of fab.

Its been said many times that men are visually stimulated, while women need more than that. Perhaps men, stimulated visually, think females are too, hence all the cock shots.

Or maybe they think theirs is better than anyone else's?

Or, as it's been said many times...men think with their cock....so in fact they are trying to stimulate females with their mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys think

"I've got a cock, what more do they need "

Others, myself included think

I'm overweight,too old will I generate enough of a spark of interest

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Hmmmm not sure that there isn't a demand; just checked out the male hot pictures and 14 of the 15 pictures are cock shots.

Question is who fabbed them to make them hot, not necessarily women fabbing

Fair point but it can't all be bi guys.

I think that there are other reasons why soft porn mags for females aren't in the shops; it probably has more to do with society (as a whole) not accepting that woman enjoy sexy as much as guys and woman feeling at ease to buy such stuff (maybe).

Or maybe just women not into cock shots, i know from all the women i talk to both on and off fabs, I've yet to speak to one that says they like cock shots, so far all say the same they like there imagination to be triggered by wondering what the guy had to offer, rather than see the present before its been wrapped."

Another good point, I'm a strong believer in less is more, which is why I don't have any cock pictures on my profile.

I do remember a thread asking guys to show their cocks and there were a lot of woman getting very excited about it. But, I do get your point; I don't like profiles that are just full of pictures of the woman's boobs - just makes me think that "is this all there is to this person, just a pair of tits?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Hmmmm not sure that there isn't a demand; just checked out the male hot pictures and 14 of the 15 pictures are cock shots.

Question is who fabbed them to make them hot, not necessarily women fabbing

Fair point but it can't all be bi guys.

I think that there are other reasons why soft porn mags for females aren't in the shops; it probably has more to do with society (as a whole) not accepting that woman enjoy sexy as much as guys and woman feeling at ease to buy such stuff (maybe).

Or maybe just women not into cock shots, i know from all the women i talk to both on and off fabs, I've yet to speak to one that says they like cock shots, so far all say the same they like there imagination to be triggered by wondering what the guy had to offer, rather than see the present before its been wrapped.

Another good point, I'm a strong believer in less is more, which is why I don't have any cock pictures on my profile.

I do remember a thread asking guys to show their cocks and there were a lot of woman getting very excited about it. But, I do get your point; I don't like profiles that are just full of pictures of the woman's boobs - just makes me think that "is this all there is to this person, just a pair of tits?""

Im not saying fir one second that all women don't like cock pics, though i would say those that do are a minority

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Before the internet, magazines were really the only way to show the naked form. If a new 'top shelf' magazine for females came out it was publicised, usually in a negative way or as more than just a porn magazine.

While show a naked female to most men, you would solicit a reaction. Show pictures of a naked male to a female and it may be a reaction of embarrassment. Probably not so with the good ladies of fab.

Its been said many times that men are visually stimulated, while women need more than that. Perhaps men, stimulated visually, think females are too, hence all the cock shots.

Or maybe they think theirs is better than anyone else's?

Or, as it's been said many times...men think with their cock....so in fact they are trying to stimulate females with their mind!

"

I don't think women are embarrassed at all, i just don't think they are interested.

Like you said men need visual women don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't send them unless I'm asked. I don't really understand why a guy would send them particularly in a first message. To be honest I prefer women's pictures to be a little less explicit at times. There's something more erotic about using your imagination.

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Some guys think

"I've got a cock, what more do they need "

Others, myself included think

I'm overweight,too old will I generate enough of a spark of interest"

I know that id rather see a body pic even if a guy is out of shape than see his cock pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I'm in the minority but I've not looked at one of those mags since puberty.

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"I personally don't send them unless I'm asked. I don't really understand why a guy would send them particularly in a first message. To be honest I prefer women's pictures to be a little less explicit at times. There's something more erotic about using your imagination. "

This I fully agree with

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Maybe I'm in the minority but I've not looked at one of those mags since puberty."

The magazine was just one example, men generally still look whether it be magazine, internet or porn films

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A theory? Maybe if a guy doesn't have a muscular torso or has a beer belly and can't send a face picture then maybe it's only the cock left?

I would imagine from the messages we get that a curvy lady is quite popular. A bloke with a beer belly isn't. And I do wonder if men worry about their body shape as much or more as women. We just don't admit it!

We need to put more pictures of me on our profile and as a fat lad I'm struggling to think how they could be posed well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men love their cocks. Theirs is the most beautiful and enticing cock and by showing it in all its glory women will just fall over themselves to touch it.

There you go.

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"I think it's more to do with the fact women can get these pics for free whereas men have to pay for them "

Men get these pictures for free too all over the internet

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

plymouth

I personally dont only if asked but i wonder if its because all us men see in the majority of pics is tits and pussys/arses ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally don't send them unless I'm asked. I don't really understand why a guy would send them particularly in a first message. To be honest I prefer women's pictures to be a little less explicit at times. There's something more erotic about using your imagination. "

That's what we tried to do with the good ladies shots. We did OK considering we only used an iPad. But translating that into male shots is harder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't post cock pics... I prefer the allure of the tease. So close but not ...

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"I personally dont only if asked but i wonder if its because all us men see in the majority of pics is tits and pussys/arses ? "

Which again is why i gave the example of top shelf magazines, men must want this or they wouldn't buy the magazines, if they didn't buy there be no top shelf.

I get asked countless times a day in messages for more pics (naked ones) despite my profile saying i don't have any, so this indicates that men do like to see.

Again as my OP suggests I'm talking in generalised terms as i know not all men show cocks or are into seeing naked pics too

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"I personally don't send them unless I'm asked. I don't really understand why a guy would send them particularly in a first message. To be honest I prefer women's pictures to be a little less explicit at times. There's something more erotic about using your imagination.

That's what we tried to do with the good ladies shots. We did OK considering we only used an iPad. But translating that into male shots is harder!"

How is it harder?

Jeans shot, jeans undone showing hint of flesh, just out shower towel draped over cock, in shirt slightly undone to name a few possibilities

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"A theory? Maybe if a guy doesn't have a muscular torso or has a beer belly and can't send a face picture then maybe it's only the cock left?

I would imagine from the messages we get that a curvy lady is quite popular. A bloke with a beer belly isn't. And I do wonder if men worry about their body shape as much or more as women. We just don't admit it!

We need to put more pictures of me on our profile and as a fat lad I'm struggling to think how they could be posed well. "

How about laying on a bed, towel covering areas you are not so confident about

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"I don't post cock pics... I prefer the allure of the tease. So close but not ..."

And thats what I call perfect pictures to see on a mans profile

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Another one of those repetitive threads that don't really answer any questions.

Perhaps we should just accept that it is what it is and despite a lot of women wanting men to behave differently ie not showing lots of cock pics,it ain't gonna happen honey..

Cock pics,big/little/ugly/pretty/cut/uncut/smelly/spongy/veiny/gorgeous etc are here to stay on this SEX site

.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A theory? Maybe if a guy doesn't have a muscular torso or has a beer belly and can't send a face picture then maybe it's only the cock left?

I would imagine from the messages we get that a curvy lady is quite popular. A bloke with a beer belly isn't. And I do wonder if men worry about their body shape as much or more as women. We just don't admit it!

We need to put more pictures of me on our profile and as a fat lad I'm struggling to think how they could be posed well.

How about laying on a bed, towel covering areas you are not so confident about"

It will have to be a beach towel then!

A lot of it is down to confidence of me if I'm honest. It's easy to photograph M because I know what I like to see. But, coming back to the earlier thing about men tending to be visual, M will say she doesn't really get turned on by pictures of men (or ladies) so therefore taking the right photo is harder for her.

Opening this out a bit. What photos do bi/gay guys prefer to see?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like cock shots. I'd buy a magazine full of them to wank over. Not all women like an air of mystery around their men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles with nothing but cock shots (most of which look the same) are boring and off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was thinking today about supply and demand in terms of pictures uploaded on this site.

Now when you go into newsagents the top shelf is fully stocked with glamour mags indicating there is a supply and demand from men otherwise these magazines wouldn't be published.

However there is little or no selection of similar glamour mags aimed for women, again indicating there is no demand from women for magazines full of cock shots.

So my question is, why do men in general (I'm fully aware not all men), post endless cock pics and no other pics of their bodies?

The above magazine example shows their is no demand from women to supply these pictures, so why do men seem to think that cock pics are what we want to see?

Be interested to hear in particular from men whose profiles are full of cock shots as to their reason why they believe us women want to see them.

"
I hazard a guess at their being no thought process involved at the men's end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profiles with nothing but cock shots (most of which look the same) are boring and off putting "
Haven't got any cock shots on my profile but have a bum shot which has been fab'd quite a few times

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Another one of those repetitive threads that don't really answer any questions.

Perhaps we should just accept that it is what it is and despite a lot of women wanting men to behave differently ie not showing lots of cock pics,it ain't gonna happen honey..

Cock pics,big/little/ugly/pretty/cut/uncut/smelly/spongy/veiny/gorgeous etc are here to stay on this SEX site

."

If you find a thread repetitive, why comment, why not just ignore and move onto the next thread

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"I like cock shots. I'd buy a magazine full of them to wank over. Not all women like an air of mystery around their men. "

And as stated in the OP i did say generalization

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Profiles with nothing but cock shots (most of which look the same) are boring and off putting "

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"I was thinking today about supply and demand in terms of pictures uploaded on this site.

Now when you go into newsagents the top shelf is fully stocked with glamour mags indicating there is a supply and demand from men otherwise these magazines wouldn't be published.

However there is little or no selection of similar glamour mags aimed for women, again indicating there is no demand from women for magazines full of cock shots.

So my question is, why do men in general (I'm fully aware not all men), post endless cock pics and no other pics of their bodies?

The above magazine example shows their is no demand from women to supply these pictures, so why do men seem to think that cock pics are what we want to see?

Be interested to hear in particular from men whose profiles are full of cock shots as to their reason why they believe us women want to see them.

I hazard a guess at their being no thought process involved at the men's end "

I would hazard that your guess maybe correct lol

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Profiles with nothing but cock shots (most of which look the same) are boring and off putting Haven't got any cock shots on my profile but have a bum shot which has been fab'd quite a few times "

..and very nice it is ..You have another pic fabbed!

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Another one of those repetitive threads that don't really answer any questions.

Perhaps we should just accept that it is what it is and despite a lot of women wanting men to behave differently ie not showing lots of cock pics,it ain't gonna happen honey..

Cock pics,big/little/ugly/pretty/cut/uncut/smelly/spongy/veiny/gorgeous etc are here to stay on this SEX site

."

If you think a cock pic makes a sex site, you so far from the truth, people on here have sex without cocks being involved at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another one of those repetitive threads that don't really answer any questions.

Perhaps we should just accept that it is what it is and despite a lot of women wanting men to behave differently ie not showing lots of cock pics,it ain't gonna happen honey..

Cock pics,big/little/ugly/pretty/cut/uncut/smelly/spongy/veiny/gorgeous etc are here to stay on this SEX site

.

If you think a cock pic makes a sex site, you so far from the truth, people on here have sex without cocks being involved at all"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pic filter.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest that the reason for a lack of cock magazines is twofold, women who want to see cocks can get more than enough in reality, whereas most men don't get to see that many naked women in real life.

Also and l put this hesitantly women would be more embarrassed about buying such a magazine. I have found that quite a few women surf internet porn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men think that swingers are desperate for sex. No doubt after watching 'swinger porn' where a room full of people shag each other.

They don't understand that although some people like group sex, some don't. Or that some people also like the social side and don't want a 'fuck n go' scenario. They think that women on sites such as these are basically free prostitutes and will fuck anyone.

So they post a cock pic because that's what they think people want to see. "Gagging for sex.. NEED COCK NOW.. search for cock... ooh I'll pick that one."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the top shelf was of fitness guys with 6 packs, muscle mags lol

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Maybe some guys post cock pics for the exhibitionism of it?

As noted above in the thread women are generally less simulated by visuals than men are and as such aren't interested in seeing cock pics. Some blokes maybe haven't grasped this yet.

Also, as a side point would you (females) View a guy who has multiple cock pics on a profile as someone who is likely to think sex is all about the penetration and likely to neglect foreplay and the build up? Just curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To have sexual intercourse a man needs to use his penis. We have to see the penis that is entering her vagina,of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guys think

"I've got a cock, what more do they need "

Others, myself included think

I'm overweight,too old will I generate enough of a spark of interest

I know that id rather see a body pic even if a guy is out of shape than see his cock pic"
there is hope for us fatties yet then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Build it and they will cum...

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"I would suggest that the reason for a lack of cock magazines is twofold, women who want to see cocks can get more than enough in reality, whereas most men don't get to see that many naked women in real life.

Also and l put this hesitantly women would be more embarrassed about buying such a magazine. I have found that quite a few women surf internet porn.

"

How so?

If women can see naked men in real life, then same number of those naked men they are seeing, are seeing naked women.

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Maybe some guys post cock pics for the exhibitionism of it?

As noted above in the thread women are generally less simulated by visuals than men are and as such aren't interested in seeing cock pics. Some blokes maybe haven't grasped this yet.

Also, as a side point would you (females) View a guy who has multiple cock pics on a profile as someone who is likely to think sex is all about the penetration and likely to neglect foreplay and the build up? Just curious."

To be fair yes I would, as multiple cock pics with no other type of pics uploaded just screams at me, look at my cock, i love it, its gonna bone you, where as the more teasy pics that get your imagination working overtime tell me that guy more likely to tease, play and build you up before penetration

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"To have sexual intercourse a man needs to use his penis. We have to see the penis that is entering her vagina,of course. "

So, if, away from fabs you date a guy you meet in a bar originally for example, would you insist on seeing a pic of his cock before sleeping with him the first time

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Mine are in friends only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before the internet, magazines were really the only way to show the naked form. If a new 'top shelf' magazine for females came out it was publicised, usually in a negative way or as more than just a porn magazine.

While show a naked female to most men, you would solicit a reaction. Show pictures of a naked male to a female and it may be a reaction of embarrassment. Probably not so with the good ladies of fab.

Its been said many times that men are visually stimulated, while women need more than that. Perhaps men, stimulated visually, think females are too, hence all the cock shots.

Or maybe they think theirs is better than anyone else's?

Or, as it's been said many times...men think with their cock....so in fact they are trying to stimulate females with their mind!

I don't think women are embarrassed at all, i just don't think they are interested.

Like you said men need visual women don't"

Out of interest what photos do you like? X

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

About 15 or so years ago, the magazine industry decided to launch several top-shelf magazines aimed at women. They all closed within a year or so, as women (on the whole) just do not respond to visual stimulation in the same way as men.

I bought For Her Magazine once (just to see what all the fuss was about) and a full-page spread of Richard Fairbrass's dangling cock and balls is forever imprinted on my mind. Yuk! Although the picture was taken from behind, so doubtless the editor thought it was 'tasteful'. Not for me! And I wish more Fab men would realise that profiles full of cock-shots will just lead to very many women ignoring the profile. And moving on to someone who realises that swinging isn't all about his cock.

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Before the internet, magazines were really the only way to show the naked form. If a new 'top shelf' magazine for females came out it was publicised, usually in a negative way or as more than just a porn magazine.

While show a naked female to most men, you would solicit a reaction. Show pictures of a naked male to a female and it may be a reaction of embarrassment. Probably not so with the good ladies of fab.

Its been said many times that men are visually stimulated, while women need more than that. Perhaps men, stimulated visually, think females are too, hence all the cock shots.

Or maybe they think theirs is better than anyone else's?

Or, as it's been said many times...men think with their cock....so in fact they are trying to stimulate females with their mind!

I don't think women are embarrassed at all, i just don't think they are interested.

Like you said men need visual women don't

Out of interest what photos do you like? X"

I like teasy pics, open shirts, jeans undone showing hint flesh, naked man reading book with book covering his bits, those kind of pics

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"About 15 or so years ago, the magazine industry decided to launch several top-shelf magazines aimed at women. They all closed within a year or so, as women (on the whole) just do not respond to visual stimulation in the same way as men.

I bought For Her Magazine once (just to see what all the fuss was about) and a full-page spread of Richard Fairbrass's dangling cock and balls is forever imprinted on my mind. Yuk! Although the picture was taken from behind, so doubtless the editor thought it was 'tasteful'. Not for me! And I wish more Fab men would realise that profiles full of cock-shots will just lead to very many women ignoring the profile. And moving on to someone who realises that swinging isn't all about his cock.

"

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Dont know if this has been mentioned, but if you are commenting about guys uploading typical cock pics and women not being particularly inspired, can you explain your typical woman two pics OP? A typical tits out pic and a typical legs pic (with what seems to be a dog bone in the back ground, I'll give you that)?

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Dont know if this has been mentioned, but if you are commenting about guys uploading typical cock pics and women not being particularly inspired, can you explain your typical woman two pics OP? A typical tits out pic and a typical legs pic (with what seems to be a dog bone in the back ground, I'll give you that)?"

Read the OP post, which does use magazines as an example, men want visual, women dont

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I personally don't send them unless I'm asked. I don't really understand why a guy would send them particularly in a first message. To be honest I prefer women's pictures to be a little less explicit at times. There's something more erotic about using your imagination. "

I agree

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"A theory? Maybe if a guy doesn't have a muscular torso or has a beer belly and can't send a face picture then maybe it's only the cock left?

I would imagine from the messages we get that a curvy lady is quite popular. A bloke with a beer belly isn't. And I do wonder if men worry about their body shape as much or more as women. We just don't admit it!

We need to put more pictures of me on our profile and as a fat lad I'm struggling to think how they could be posed well. "

Plenty of 'fit' guys do it, it's nothing to do with having a body you're not 100% proud of.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Dont know if this has been mentioned, but if you are commenting about guys uploading typical cock pics and women not being particularly inspired, can you explain your typical woman two pics OP? A typical tits out pic and a typical legs pic (with what seems to be a dog bone in the back ground, I'll give you that)?"

The WHOLE point is that guys like boob etc. pics and women tend not to like cock pics. It's not a tit for tat argument

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was thinking today about supply and demand in terms of pictures uploaded on this site.

Now when you go into newsagents the top shelf is fully stocked with glamour mags indicating there is a supply and demand from men otherwise these magazines wouldn't be published.

However there is little or no selection of similar glamour mags aimed for women, again indicating there is no demand from women for magazines full of cock shots.

So my question is, why do men in general (I'm fully aware not all men), post endless cock pics and no other pics of their bodies?

The above magazine example shows their is no demand from women to supply these pictures, so why do men seem to think that cock pics are what we want to see?

Be interested to hear in particular from men whose profiles are full of cock shots as to their reason why they believe us women want to see them.

"

That's a very good point

I guess it's so the woman knows what to expect in the event of a meet, saves any disappointment on the day lol

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I was thinking today about supply and demand in terms of pictures uploaded on this site.

Now when you go into newsagents the top shelf is fully stocked with glamour mags indicating there is a supply and demand from men otherwise these magazines wouldn't be published.

However there is little or no selection of similar glamour mags aimed for women, again indicating there is no demand from women for magazines full of cock shots.

So my question is, why do men in general (I'm fully aware not all men), post endless cock pics and no other pics of their bodies?

The above magazine example shows their is no demand from women to supply these pictures, so why do men seem to think that cock pics are what we want to see?

Be interested to hear in particular from men whose profiles are full of cock shots as to their reason why they believe us women want to see them.

"

so why do sex shope sell more Phallus related sex toys than vaginal related ones?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"About 15 or so years ago, the magazine industry decided to launch several top-shelf magazines aimed at women. They all closed within a year or so, as women (on the whole) just do not respond to visual stimulation in the same way as men.

I bought For Her Magazine once (just to see what all the fuss was about) and a full-page spread of Richard Fairbrass's dangling cock and balls is forever imprinted on my mind. Yuk! Although the picture was taken from behind, so doubtless the editor thought it was 'tasteful'. Not for me! And I wish more Fab men would realise that profiles full of cock-shots will just lead to very many women ignoring the profile. And moving on to someone who realises that swinging isn't all about his cock.

"

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I guess it's so the woman knows what to expect in the event of a meet, saves any disappointment on the day lol"

That depends on the woman but, from reading the forums and spending time in chat, most women do not care about that.

I couldn't give a damn about cock size. I am not interested until I meet a guy.

Another thing I feel is that just having cock pics shows the person has no concept of what women want and thinks that's how we judge men. Again, most of us don't

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"I was thinking today about supply and demand in terms of pictures uploaded on this site.

Now when you go into newsagents the top shelf is fully stocked with glamour mags indicating there is a supply and demand from men otherwise these magazines wouldn't be published.

However there is little or no selection of similar glamour mags aimed for women, again indicating there is no demand from women for magazines full of cock shots.

So my question is, why do men in general (I'm fully aware not all men), post endless cock pics and no other pics of their bodies?

The above magazine example shows their is no demand from women to supply these pictures, so why do men seem to think that cock pics are what we want to see?

Be interested to hear in particular from men whose profiles are full of cock shots as to their reason why they believe us women want to see them.

so why do sex shope sell more Phallus related sex toys than vaginal related ones? "

Does that answer the question in the post lol

Most likely because more women use toys than men

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I was thinking today about supply and demand in terms of pictures uploaded on this site.

Now when you go into newsagents the top shelf is fully stocked with glamour mags indicating there is a supply and demand from men otherwise these magazines wouldn't be published.

However there is little or no selection of similar glamour mags aimed for women, again indicating there is no demand from women for magazines full of cock shots.

So my question is, why do men in general (I'm fully aware not all men), post endless cock pics and no other pics of their bodies?

The above magazine example shows their is no demand from women to supply these pictures, so why do men seem to think that cock pics are what we want to see?

Be interested to hear in particular from men whose profiles are full of cock shots as to their reason why they believe us women want to see them.

so why do sex shope sell more Phallus related sex toys than vaginal related ones?

Does that answer the question in the post lol

Most likely because more women use toys than men"

but would women buy them without first seeing them? surely they would need to see the product before splashing out on it? oh god would be nice to be splashed out on lol x

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By *irty Girty From No 30 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"I was thinking today about supply and demand in terms of pictures uploaded on this site.

Now when you go into newsagents the top shelf is fully stocked with glamour mags indicating there is a supply and demand from men otherwise these magazines wouldn't be published.

However there is little or no selection of similar glamour mags aimed for women, again indicating there is no demand from women for magazines full of cock shots.

So my question is, why do men in general (I'm fully aware not all men), post endless cock pics and no other pics of their bodies?

The above magazine example shows their is no demand from women to supply these pictures, so why do men seem to think that cock pics are what we want to see?

Be interested to hear in particular from men whose profiles are full of cock shots as to their reason why they believe us women want to see them.

so why do sex shope sell more Phallus related sex toys than vaginal related ones?

Does that answer the question in the post lol

Most likely because more women use toys than men

but would women buy them without first seeing them? surely they would need to see the product before splashing out on it? oh god would be nice to be splashed out on lol x"

Toys you mean, in which case yes, I've often just bought toys without looking at size or dimensions, as neither are important factors for me

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I was thinking today about supply and demand in terms of pictures uploaded on this site.

Now when you go into newsagents the top shelf is fully stocked with glamour mags indicating there is a supply and demand from men otherwise these magazines wouldn't be published.

However there is little or no selection of similar glamour mags aimed for women, again indicating there is no demand from women for magazines full of cock shots.

So my question is, why do men in general (I'm fully aware not all men), post endless cock pics and no other pics of their bodies?

The above magazine example shows their is no demand from women to supply these pictures, so why do men seem to think that cock pics are what we want to see?

Be interested to hear in particular from men whose profiles are full of cock shots as to their reason why they believe us women want to see them.

"

I am amazed by it too - even as a man, after all, if women posted nothing but pictures of their fannies I would have absolutely no idea of how to go about judging my attraction to them..

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