FabSwingers.com forum: What's the difference in the letter orders of mmf and mfm?

By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?

Can someone explain to this n00b?

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By *heorgasmaddictMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not sure there is a difference?

Nice pics BTW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never thought about it, but I suppose it's make sense that mfm would be a three some with the lady in the middle, no male on male play. With mmf a free for all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assumed mmf was for bi men to play together and with the lady, while mfm was for two straight men to pleasure the lady.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

"Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?

Can someone explain to this n00b?"

Mmf is bi male 3some

Mfm is straight male 3some

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By *heorgasmaddictMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Wow, everyday is a school day!

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?

Can someone explain to this n00b?

Mmf is bi male 3some

Mfm is straight male 3some"

So what's a MMMF? 3 No guys? If it is how's represent 3 straight guys and 1 female?

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By *oopy097Man
over a year ago

east mids

"Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?

Can someone explain to this n00b?

Mmf is bi male 3some

Mfm is straight male 3some

So what's a MMMF? 3 No guys? If it is how's represent 3 straight guys and 1 female?"

thats a que at the post office

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt something now

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yeah, I'd find a simple letter ordering way to determine something like that to be a bit.... restricting. lol. I'd probably actually just specify by "bi mmf" or "straight guys to come play".

But also, as Flirt mentioned, what if there are more than 2 guys?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't think it makes any difference, after all, any details of boundaries and ground rules can be sorted out in any pre meet discussion.

MF......M

Could mean the guy is just watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Means nothing to me how they are written. If I'm meeting someone for a mmf or mff we talk before to find who who does what. After all a bi mmf doesn't mean they kiss,penetrate,top or bottom. And a bi mff doesn't mean the women want strap on or any penetration.

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I don't think it makes any difference, after all, any details of boundaries and ground rules can be sorted out in any pre meet discussion.

MF......M

Could mean the guy is just watching

"Means nothing to me how they are written. If I'm meeting someone for a mmf or mff we talk before to find who who does what. After all a bi mmf doesn't mean they kiss,penetrate,top or bottom. And a bi mff doesn't mean the women want strap on or any penetration. "

Yeah, exactly, this is what I mean, and wanted to put in my reply too. Like, surely, requirements and sexuality preferences are just.... DISCUSSED like normal people, rather than determined by a sequence of letters? lol.

Also, Steve.... I love that. I'm going to use it from now on.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Learning something new ever day.

Does this mean that

is a single male on here who can't get a meet?

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

"Not sure there is a difference?

Nice pics BTW

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got to agree about the pics,shame i'm out of age range

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

Ive always wrote it mmf or mmmf or even mmmmmf i just thought it meant that the ratio of men were higher and since a ffm or fffm is as rare as unicorns so ive never tried working that one out .....its never crossed my mind it meant anything other than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never realised there was a difference - I always explain I am "only interested in m-f contact but comfortable in mmf scenario". I can see I need to change that to mfm!

Learn something new every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it makes any difference, after all, any details of boundaries and ground rules can be sorted out in any pre meet discussion.

MF......M

Could mean the guy is just watching

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your a geek fag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never knew this either good to find out

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By *aughty2foryouCouple
over a year ago

Devon/Cornwall

We always wrote mmf...have we been falsely advertising ourselves as a fully bi couple...so that's why that bloke tried putting his willy in Rons anus...We thought he had just slipped like he when we demanded to know why!!!!!!

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By *aughty2foryouCouple
over a year ago

Devon/Cornwall

"We always wrote mmf...have we been falsely advertising ourselves as a fully bi couple...so that's why that bloke tried putting his willy in Rons anus...We thought he had just slipped like he when we demanded to know why!!!!!!

"Like he said" that should read

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Like he said" that should read"

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None....it's just an acronym. .whatever order does it matter?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Learning something new ever day.

Does this mean that

is a single male on here who can't get a meet?"

This is a single male in the closet (M)

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I don't think it makes any difference, after all, any details of boundaries and ground rules can be sorted out in any pre meet discussion.

MF......M

Could mean the guy is just watching

your a geek fag "

Maybe I am but at least I'm still on the site, I can spell and I'm not nasty to people

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I don't think it makes any difference, after all, any details of boundaries and ground rules can be sorted out in any pre meet discussion.

MF......M

Could mean the guy is just watching

your a geek fag "

Any idea who this was?!

I've been practising saying "your a geek fag" in several accents and I think the Armie Terminator one sounds best.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?

Can someone explain to this n00b?

Mmf is bi male 3some

Mfm is straight male 3some"

This is daft. I enjoy an MMMMF with all straight guys - using your terminology how would you write this? There is absolutely no difference between MMF, MFM and FMM.

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

"Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?

Can someone explain to this n00b?

Mmf is bi male 3some

Mfm is straight male 3some

This is daft. I enjoy an MMMMF with all straight guys - using your terminology how would you write this? There is absolutely no difference between MMF, MFM and FMM."

I don't know , as a straight guy if we were looking we would only reply to mfm messages

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

No difference at all - as many have pointed out, suggesting that the order and case of the letters is significant, is full of anomalies and inconsistencies and basically unworkable.

It's just one of those myths that pop up from time to time and seized upon by the gullible.

The vast majority of people pay it no mind

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

You get some who are adamant that MMF is a bi male 3some where as a MFM is a straight male 3some.

I have never heard them explain how a straight male MMMMF is written

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel educated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never thought about it really just assumed different people wrote it differently and considering some of the guys that are straight have written it the bi way I'm confused Haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmf is 2 bi guys and 1 girl.

Mfm is 2 straight guys and 1 girl.

Anything more than 3 letters is clearly a group and sexuality is subject to further rules.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Mfm mmf are same thing in my decade and a bit on/off swinging. I have noticed some people have carried out offical background studies and apportioned definition

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'd never thought about it, but I suppose it's make sense that mfm would be a three some with the lady in the middle, no male on male play. With mmf a free for all? "

This was my understanding too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a simple formula:

M+F(TV-CD)x(?/MF)=X(to the power of 2)

Remember this and you can't go wrong

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

"There's a simple formula:

M+F(TV-CD)x(?/MF)=X(to the power of 2)

Remember this and you can't go wrong

you forgot to square root it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it makes any difference, after all, any details of boundaries and ground rules can be sorted out in any pre meet discussion.

MF......M

Could mean the guy is just watching

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Obviously, if people are going to get het up by the location of letters, then they ought to take account of the Dominant capital M or F and the submissive m or f.

Soon we will need a little booklet or app to explain EXACTLY what people want when they ask for something such as MfmF...(M)..fF /m\

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it makes any difference, after all, any details of boundaries and ground rules can be sorted out in any pre meet discussion.

MF......M

Could mean the guy is just watching

your a geek fag

Any idea who this was?!

I've been practising saying "your a geek fag" in several accents and I think the Armie Terminator one sounds best. "

A strong Glasgow accent seems ok to me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I don't think it makes any difference, after all, any details of boundaries and ground rules can be sorted out in any pre meet discussion.

MF......M

Could mean the guy is just watching

your a geek fag

Any idea who this was?!

I've been practising saying "your a geek fag" in several accents and I think the Armie Terminator one sounds best.

A strong Glasgow accent seems ok to me

The rude little runt left the site anyway. Before I had a chance to say "oooh!

How VERY dare you!"

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Lol, surprised many didn't know this. It was drilled into me (scuse the pun) almost 10 years ago.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?

Can someone explain to this n00b?

Mmf is bi male 3some

Mfm is straight male 3some

So what's a MMMF? 3 No guys? If it is how's represent 3 straight guys and 1 female?

thats a que at the post office

A big Q for the alphabet soup

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

The order of letters mean absolutely nothing, you discuss what you want to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the letters are touching so are the people :p

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By *ltravioletWoman
over a year ago

In amongst the Unicorns & fairy dust

"I don't think it makes any difference, after all, any details of boundaries and ground rules can be sorted out in any pre meet discussion.

MF......M

Could mean the guy is just watching

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I totally agree with this

I'm yet to experience a meeting with more than two people , but for me it's the same as meeting up with a couple or a single - communication is essential for me especially the build up,

Great communication = great sex - whatever gender you are or sexual orientation

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?

Can someone explain to this n00b?"

There is no difference.

Those who say there is fall down when trying to explain more than two straight men with a female etc.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?

Can someone explain to this n00b?

Mmf is bi male 3some

Mfm is straight male 3some"

I was never aware of this and have always referred to straight two men/one woman scenarios as mmf....

...however, I think lots do too, as I've never had it pointed out to me that this implies bisexual activity between the two fellas..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think it means anything, just different people have different ways of writing lol

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Is there a difference? I always just list them like mmf, but see that some people write mfm to mean something different?

Can someone explain to this n00b?

There is no difference.

Those who say there is fall down when trying to explain more than two straight men with a female etc."

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