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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What girls would let a guy buy them lingerie everytine they met up to sleep with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What girls would let a guy buy them lingerie everytine they met up to sleep with him "

Probably quite a few I would guess. But I don't think offering to buy them lingerie is going to help you get in their bed!

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos

Better asking who wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my own. I don't need anyone to randomly buy me any lingerie.

I prefer to go and pick things that I like to wear and feel sexy n comfortable in...

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

Nope I buy my own thanks.

And that's kind of like if a guy bought me lingerie for Christmas or my birthday, it would be a gift for him how selfish

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Could be seen as a payment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or a kind jester of them having sex so no girl would let a guy do it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Or a kind jester of them having sex so no girl would let a guy do it "
I wouldn't think it appropriate and your only going to attract the type of woman that wants a meal ticket.

Once in a while from someone you have been seeing regularly maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would stick to a nice bottle of wine, and maybe a nice box of chocolates. Something for both parties to enjoy!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's what I'm going for id want a regular fwb that's what I asking

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"That's what I'm going for id want a regular fwb that's what I asking "
so you'd be happy to see someone regularly knowing the only reason they are repeatedly meeting you is cause they are going to get lingerie each time

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Or a kind jester of them having sex so no girl would let a guy do it "

Its a payment, a purchase for sex

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Oh and if that really is your thing then browse profiles for the ones asking for gifts

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

Being given lingerie is nice, but definitely not for a first meet, definitely not for every meet! A girl only needs so much lingerie!

On the whole, men can't choose the right lingerie anyway. Always the wrong size, too sleazy or too uncomfortable to wear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being given lingerie is nice, but definitely not for a first meet, definitely not for every meet! A girl only needs so much lingerie!

On the whole, men can't choose the right lingerie anyway. Always the wrong size, too sleazy or too uncomfortable to wear."

That's why i would ask the lovely lady what size and what they like and show them a few or ask them to show me what they like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being given lingerie is nice, but definitely not for a first meet, definitely not for every meet! A girl only needs so much lingerie!

On the whole, men can't choose the right lingerie anyway. Always the wrong size, too sleazy or too uncomfortable to wear.

That's why i would ask the lovely lady

what size and what they like and show them a few or ask them to show me what they like "

check out the ads in Daily Sport I bet theres a few women who would let you buy them lingerie.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

It depends where you are buying it from Victoria secrets, one or two. Asda hardly any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont even let friends on here I've known years buy me any....I buy my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't generally wear lingerie,just a decent matching bra and knickers. I have worn what a man wanted to see me in,in the past,which I supplied. I also had a regular partner who bought me some. We picked it out together and he paid for it. It was no big deal,he could more than afford it and enjoyed buying it,along with toys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my own. I don't need anyone to randomly buy me any lingerie.

I prefer to go and pick things that I like to wear and feel sexy n comfortable in..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ever the good lady and I divorce, then she's your ideal woman! You'll be expected to know her exact sizes, style and have accounts at various lingerie shops. Got a thing about shoes as well? Same thing applies there!

But don't think buying the underwear will lead to a good night.....although it does buy me a few quiet hours to watch the cricket!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't think it's appropriate, it is a payment for sex and it will attract the scroungers.

I would never accept a gift.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Anyone who needs some kind gesture for sex isn't having sex with you because they want to. Get rid of the idea that most women need some incentive other than enjoyment.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I wouldn't want gifts for a no strings meet. If it was a fantasy where the guy wanted the woman in underwear he has bought for her then that's different but not just a gift

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I would never accept a gift from a meet, especially lingerie, its like payment for sex, no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smacks too much of payment for services rendered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be seen as a payment "

Yep! What if you bought her the undies but you didn't both click - or the sex wasn't great - do you return the underwear?

No thanks - and most of my bras and thongs come from primark anyway - and they seem to go down (if you'll pardon the pun!) pretty well!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or a kind jester of them having sex so no girl would let a guy do it

Its a payment, a purchase for sex"

Would it need to be declared for tax?

Only ever done this once. Someone I was seeing for the third time last summer.....she was going to the private shop in Gloucester anyway....she was buying stuff....I saw something else that matched and picked it up....she said no as she didn't have enough on her to get that as well...told me to put it back.

I could tell she liked it tho so I bought if for her....no need I just did.

She wore it later so in a way we both got fun out of it....saw her a few more times after that too....never bought any more!

Sometimes it can be just spontaneous....but should not be dependent on meeting...that's just a form of prostitution?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be seen as a payment

Yep! What if you bought her the undies but you didn't both click - or the sex wasn't great - do you return the underwear?

No thanks - and most of my bras and thongs come from primark anyway - and they seem to go down (if you'll pardon the pun!) pretty well!! "

Great pun, and yes they do go down well!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

No in fact I'd find it utterly offensive. I don't even meet guys that try to demand what out of my pics they expect me to wear

I wear what I want to and what I feel sexy, confident and comfortable in at the time and most guys are very content in my choices

Also read the site rules you can't be seen to be exchanging money or gifts for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been talking to a guy who likes to buy me things. Fortunately he's hot and charming and I would talk to him and do stuff to him without the little presents, one of which will be a matching lingerie set. We have met up and assessed chemistry and chatted for about a month and a half now... Our dynamic has been established, he enjoys this sort of thing.

Working at a lingerie store, I see men who buy women lingerie as a gift, they always go for sleazy stuff, and I would much rather look online or in store and tell him what I want, as I'm going to be wearing it.

If anyone pitched up at a first meet with a box from Ann Summers I'd probably tell them to get lost, I'd rather he spend that money on a meal or a drink so we can get to know each other better.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I've been talking to a guy who likes to buy me things. Fortunately he's hot and charming and I would talk to him and do stuff to him without the little presents, one of which will be a matching lingerie set. We have met up and assessed chemistry and chatted for about a month and a half now... Our dynamic has been established, he enjoys this sort of thing.

Working at a lingerie store, I see men who buy women lingerie as a gift, they always go for sleazy stuff, and I would much rather look online or in store and tell him what I want, as I'm going to be wearing it.

If anyone pitched up at a first meet with a box from Ann Summers I'd probably tell them to get lost, I'd rather he spend that money on a meal or a drink so we can get to know each other better. "

Or you could spend your own money on your social meal or drink while getting to know each other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be seen as a payment

Yep! What if you bought her the undies but you didn't both click - or the sex wasn't great - do you return the underwear?

No thanks - and most of my bras and thongs come from primark anyway - and they seem to go down (if you'll pardon the pun!) pretty well!!

Great pun, and yes they do go down well!"

Why thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a gift(s) bought for me by a guy who's just got back from New York. Now I feel I have to meet him...makes me feel uncomfortable and put off

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've had a gift(s) bought for me by a guy who's just got back from New York. Now I feel I have to meet him...makes me feel uncomfortable and put off "

And that is the intention behind gifts in most cases when it comes to a first fab meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We stopped meeting a guy partly because he wanted to buy me lingerie.

-Courtney

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Personally I would stick to a nice bottle of wine, and maybe a nice box of chocolates. Something for both parties to enjoy!!"

Yes a nice bottle of wine or box if chocs would be the perfect gift for a meet. Much less impersonal I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been talking to a guy who likes to buy me things. Fortunately he's hot and charming and I would talk to him and do stuff to him without the little presents, one of which will be a matching lingerie set. We have met up and assessed chemistry and chatted for about a month and a half now... Our dynamic has been established, he enjoys this sort of thing.

Working at a lingerie store, I see men who buy women lingerie as a gift, they always go for sleazy stuff, and I would much rather look online or in store and tell him what I want, as I'm going to be wearing it.

If anyone pitched up at a first meet with a box from Ann Summers I'd probably tell them to get lost, I'd rather he spend that money on a meal or a drink so we can get to know each other better.

Or you could spend your own money on your social meal or drink while getting to know each other? "

I always offer to go halves. If they don't go for it, I'm not going to force money on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What girls would let a guy buy them lingerie everytine they met up to sleep with him "

Not this one. I wouldn't want a random person buying me anything... Friends yup.. not an issue with occasional gifts but I'd never let a guy who wanted to just have sex with me buy me anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl... One guy bought me lingerie once in the past.... Ha not hubby or Jack.

Personally it wasn't to my taste & I wld sooner buy my own.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I've been talking to a guy who likes to buy me things. Fortunately he's hot and charming and I would talk to him and do stuff to him without the little presents, one of which will be a matching lingerie set. We have met up and assessed chemistry and chatted for about a month and a half now... Our dynamic has been established, he enjoys this sort of thing.

Working at a lingerie store, I see men who buy women lingerie as a gift, they always go for sleazy stuff, and I would much rather look online or in store and tell him what I want, as I'm going to be wearing it.

If anyone pitched up at a first meet with a box from Ann Summers I'd probably tell them to get lost, I'd rather he spend that money on a meal or a drink so we can get to know each other better.

Or you could spend your own money on your social meal or drink while getting to know each other?

I always offer to go halves. If they don't go for it, I'm not going to force money on them."

Fair enough then the way I read it, it implied otherwise

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"What girls would let a guy buy them lingerie everytine they met up to sleep with him "

Thank you; boxer shorts in Teal will be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been talking to a guy who likes to buy me things. Fortunately he's hot and charming and I would talk to him and do stuff to him without the little presents, one of which will be a matching lingerie set. We have met up and assessed chemistry and chatted for about a month and a half now... Our dynamic has been established, he enjoys this sort of thing.

Working at a lingerie store, I see men who buy women lingerie as a gift, they always go for sleazy stuff, and I would much rather look online or in store and tell him what I want, as I'm going to be wearing it.

If anyone pitched up at a first meet with a box from Ann Summers I'd probably tell them to get lost, I'd rather he spend that money on a meal or a drink so we can get to know each other better.

Or you could spend your own money on your social meal or drink while getting to know each other?

I always offer to go halves. If they don't go for it, I'm not going to force money on them.

Fair enough then the way I read it, it implied otherwise "

Yeah looking back on it now I see what you mean! mah bad!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I've been talking to a guy who likes to buy me things. Fortunately he's hot and charming and I would talk to him and do stuff to him without the little presents, one of which will be a matching lingerie set. We have met up and assessed chemistry and chatted for about a month and a half now... Our dynamic has been established, he enjoys this sort of thing.

Working at a lingerie store, I see men who buy women lingerie as a gift, they always go for sleazy stuff, and I would much rather look online or in store and tell him what I want, as I'm going to be wearing it.

If anyone pitched up at a first meet with a box from Ann Summers I'd probably tell them to get lost, I'd rather he spend that money on a meal or a drink so we can get to know each other better.

Or you could spend your own money on your social meal or drink while getting to know each other?

I always offer to go halves. If they don't go for it, I'm not going to force money on them.

Fair enough then the way I read it, it implied otherwise

Yeah looking back on it now I see what you mean! mah bad!"

Don't worry about it easily done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd personally be a little offended to be honest. Feel free to ask me before the meet to wear lingerie for a meet but I'm perfectly able to buy my own. I don't need someone else paying for it for me. :/

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

This young lady sent me out with sizes n all n if u don't get something nice u not getting anything . So I had to go into pennies n buy some lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This young lady sent me out with sizes n all n if u don't get something nice u not getting anything . So I had to go into pennies n buy some lol "

Should have told her to find someone else to fuck.

-Courtney

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"This young lady sent me out with sizes n all n if u don't get something nice u not getting anything . So I had to go into pennies n buy some lol

Should have told her to find someone else to fuck.

-Courtney"

Or come, Commando

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What girls would let a guy buy them lingerie everytine they met up to sleep with him

Thank you; boxer shorts in Teal will be nice "

I like teal too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my own. I don't need anyone to randomly buy me any lingerie.

I prefer to go and pick things that I like to wear and feel sexy n comfortable in..."

This xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im rubbish at accepting gifts at any time - to be given something every time i met for sex would be like a payment of sorts

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"What girls would let a guy buy them lingerie everytine they met up to sleep with him

Thank you; boxer shorts in Teal will be nice

I like teal too"

But do you like boxer shorts too? If so, we can 'time-share'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This young lady sent me out with sizes n all n if u don't get something nice u not getting anything . So I had to go into pennies n buy some lol

Should have told her to find someone else to fuck.

-Courtney"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This young lady sent me out with sizes n all n if u don't get something nice u not getting anything . So I had to go into pennies n buy some lol "

You didn't have to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What girls would let a guy buy them lingerie everytine they met up to sleep with him

Thank you; boxer shorts in Teal will be nice

I like teal too

But do you like boxer shorts too? If so, we can 'time-share' "

I do,but I'm afraid the pair that fits me will swamp you. Unless you like the extra loose fit

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By *raceytvcdTV/TS
over a year ago

mansfield

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"What girls would let a guy buy them lingerie everytine they met up to sleep with him

Thank you; boxer shorts in Teal will be nice

I like teal too

But do you like boxer shorts too? If so, we can 'time-share'

I do,but I'm afraid the pair that fits me will swamp you. Unless you like the extra loose fit "

Loose fit is just fine; also more comfortable when running to catch a bus. Ofcourse, with, outer garments on too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This young lady sent me out with sizes n all n if u don't get something nice u not getting anything . So I had to go into pennies n buy some lol

You didn't have to. "

says as much about you as it does about her - if you both happy to play it that way -fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope sorry cant be brought..with anything we do thing for fun nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What girls would let a guy buy them lingerie everytine they met up to sleep with him

Thank you; boxer shorts in Teal will be nice

I like teal too

But do you like boxer shorts too? If so, we can 'time-share'

I do,but I'm afraid the pair that fits me will swamp you. Unless you like the extra loose fit

Loose fit is just fine; also more comfortable when running to catch a bus. Ofcourse, with, outer garments on too "

If you wear skirts you'll have to hold on to the waistband of the shorts,or they'll end up down your knees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not comfortable with anyone buying me anything...I've had guys bring me chocolates and flowers on a first social meet and I find it inappropriate.

One meet turned up with a pair of white fishnet stockings and a barely-there lycra dress that I could 'wear for our next meet'. He wouldn't take it back so it was consigned to a bin on the way home. There was no 2nd meet

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"What girls would let a guy buy them lingerie everytine they met up to sleep with him

Thank you; boxer shorts in Teal will be nice

I like teal too

But do you like boxer shorts too? If so, we can 'time-share'

I do,but I'm afraid the pair that fits me will swamp you. Unless you like the extra loose fit

Loose fit is just fine; also more comfortable when running to catch a bus. Ofcourse, with, outer garments on too

If you wear skirts you'll have to hold on to the waistband of the shorts,or they'll end up down your knees "

Skirts? Whats that? Oh, like kilts

Nah, I wear proper trousers

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not comfortable with anyone buying me anything...I've had guys bring me chocolates and flowers on a first social meet and I find it inappropriate.

One meet turned up with a pair of white fishnet stockings and a barely-there lycra dress that I could 'wear for our next meet'. He wouldn't take it back so it was consigned to a bin on the way home. There was no 2nd meet "

We brought our last meet some chocolates because it was Christmas time. I personally think context matters. A gesture can be nice. I think so, anyway.

-Courtney

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By *ot so innocent nowCouple
over a year ago

Chorley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If any one wants to buy me a few pairs of CKs id be much obliged :p

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By *ot so innocent nowCouple
over a year ago

Chorley


"I'm not comfortable with anyone buying me anything...I've had guys bring me chocolates and flowers on a first social meet and I find it inappropriate.

One meet turned up with a pair of white fishnet stockings and a barely-there lycra dress that I could 'wear for our next meet'. He wouldn't take it back so it was consigned to a bin on the way home. There was no 2nd meet

We brought our last meet some chocolates because it was Christmas time. I personally think context matters. A gesture can be nice. I think so, anyway.

-Courtney"

I agree. Taken out of context anything can sound a little iffy. If you've met someone a few times and they buy you something, be it lingerie, flowers, wine, chocolates, shoes, whatever. As long as you're both happy what's the problem. I guess it all depends on the person you're with, how long you've known them, how many times you've spoken, where you're meeting etc etc. so many variables that I don't think it's easy to have a blanket yes or no answer.

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By *smfuncplCouple
over a year ago

WESTON SUPER MARE

I'd be happy my last basque cost £40 so feel free x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This young lady sent me out with sizes n all n if u don't get something nice u not getting anything . So I had to go into pennies n buy some lol "

Pennies aka Primark?

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