FabSwingers.com forum: Why the F is it so difficult on hear!

By *eddy19877 OP Man
over a year ago

sunderland

I have been on before and had allot of meets all of a sudden I'm no ones type

I'm not being rude and I'm not pushy I just seen to not get far!

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Ladies what am fucking up with? Is it the muscle I know many women don't actually like it !

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think your profile is fine and can't really see what could be preventing you getting meets. So that's no help from me at all then

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

You've had no luck in the whole week you've been back ?

Shag will be along shortly to tell you that you need patience.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

We only play in clubs so there are more people to choose from and therefore certain things will be pluses or minuses....personally don't like younger men, tattoos, muscles or facial hair....but that's just me...others will love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've had no luck in the whole week you've been back ?

Shag will be along shortly to tell you that you need patience."
You know me too good and you are right there, patience is the key lol.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Your profile text is pretty good, so that's a plus. I personally am not into the muscles or tattoos, but if you were older and I met you personally, I would certainly consider you if you came across as a nice guy. You also have a nice face. Be patient!!!!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile text is pretty good, so that's a plus. I personally am not into the muscles or tattoos, but if you were older and I met you personally, I would certainly consider you if you came across as a nice guy. You also have a nice face. Be patient!!!!...

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hey would you consider me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on before and had allot of meets all of a sudden I'm no ones type

I'm not being rude and I'm not pushy I just seen to not get far!

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Ladies what am fucking up with? Is it the muscle I know many women don't actually like it ! "

It's likely the muscles with cpls. I am very muscular, and we struggle to meet cpls and have been told by 3 separate female halves of the couple that they don't meet muscley men because the male half feels inferior to them/intimidated etc. Should be setting the place ablaze with single gals though.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

"I have been on before and had allot of meets all of a sudden I'm no ones type

I'm not being rude and I'm not pushy I just seen to not get far!

Lads help me out

Ladies what am fucking up with? Is it the muscle I know many women don't actually like it ! "

Because theres thousands more men on this site than there are women and couples

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

"I have been on before and had allot of meets all of a sudden I'm no ones type

I'm not being rude and I'm not pushy I just seen to not get far!

Lads help me out

Ladies what am fucking up with? Is it the muscle I know many women don't actually like it !

Why? I myself hate muscles and i know many single women that also hate the muscle look to.

Muscles are like tattoos, some fill love them some will hate them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on before and had allot of meets all of a sudden I'm no ones type

I'm not being rude and I'm not pushy I just seen to not get far!

Lads help me out

Ladies what am fucking up with? Is it the muscle I know many women don't actually like it !

Why? I myself hate muscles and i know many single women that also hate the muscle look to.

Muscles are like tattoos, some fill love them some will hate them"

You mean you don't even like a muscley white guy?

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

"I have been on before and had allot of meets all of a sudden I'm no ones type

I'm not being rude and I'm not pushy I just seen to not get far!

Lads help me out

Ladies what am fucking up with? Is it the muscle I know many women don't actually like it !

Why? I myself hate muscles and i know many single women that also hate the muscle look to.

Muscles are like tattoos, some fill love them some will hate them

You mean you don't even like a muscley white guy?"

I dont like muscles on any guy regardless of race

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should be doing fine, maybe it's the time of year or something. The ice will thaw and all the couples and ladies will be all up in your business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude! Who said it was easy?

You say that you have been on here before but yet to onlookers your profile is only a week old.

There are no guarantees in life. I've been on this site for 6 months and haven't had a meet yet. Its been frustrating at times yes but sometimes you have to suck it out and wait.

I've been told many times before, patience is the key.

I don't feel for you dude, it's far too early to be throwing tantrums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can see wrong with your profile is your location

(my age range isn't set in stone

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think my biceps could take your biceps out

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"You've had no luck in the whole week you've been back ?

Shag will be along shortly to tell you that you need patience.You know me too good and you are right there, patience is the key lol."

To what, Shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's difficult for most men on here.

I personally like muscle, but not as much as you have - more athletic less gym. But I'm sure there are women who will love it. Be patient.

I hope you have fun and find what you're looking for.

-Courtney

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I have been on before and had allot of meets all of a sudden I'm no ones type

I'm not being rude and I'm not pushy I just seen to not get far!

Lads help me out

Ladies what am fucking up with? Is it the muscle I know many women don't actually like it !

Why? I myself hate muscles and i know many single women that also hate the muscle look to.

Muscles are like tattoos, some fill love them some will hate them

You mean you don't even like a muscley white guy?

I dont like muscles on any guy regardless of race"

I'm not a fan of muscles either I know a hell of lot of women that aren't too

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

hey would you consider me

Do I need to answer that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on before and had allot of meets all of a sudden I'm no ones type

I'm not being rude and I'm not pushy I just seen to not get far!

Lads help me out

Ladies what am fucking up with? Is it the muscle I know many women don't actually like it !

Why? I myself hate muscles and i know many single women that also hate the muscle look to.

Muscles are like tattoos, some fill love them some will hate them

You mean you don't even like a muscley white guy?

I dont like muscles on any guy regardless of race

I'm not a fan of muscles either I know a hell of lot of women that aren't too "

Each to there own. A lot of fat lovers on here, less muscle lovers it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on before and had allot of meets all of a sudden I'm no ones type

I'm not being rude and I'm not pushy I just seen to not get far!

Lads help me out

Ladies what am fucking up with? Is it the muscle I know many women don't actually like it ! "

Patience and be kool about everything. Relax.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

A week and over the Christmas period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I like a guy to actually talk to me get to know me than meet straight away and get straight to it I like to go with the flow not be pressured into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also the small issue of many women and cpls using site as a dating site, rather than a sex site.

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By *carlett696969Couple
over a year ago

shropshire/london

2 meets in last week?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I have been on before and had allot of meets all of a sudden I'm no ones type

I'm not being rude and I'm not pushy I just seen to not get far!

Lads help me out

Ladies what am fucking up with? Is it the muscle I know many women don't actually like it !

Why? I myself hate muscles and i know many single women that also hate the muscle look to.

Muscles are like tattoos, some fill love them some will hate them

You mean you don't even like a muscley white guy?

I dont like muscles on any guy regardless of race

I'm not a fan of muscles either I know a hell of lot of women that aren't too

Each to there own. A lot of fat lovers on here, less muscle lovers it seems."

Yes fully aware I'm not your type you dont have to be a dick about it every time I or a larger lady posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on before and had allot of meets all of a sudden I'm no ones type

I'm not being rude and I'm not pushy I just seen to not get far!

Lads help me out

Ladies what am fucking up with? Is it the muscle I know many women don't actually like it !

Why? I myself hate muscles and i know many single women that also hate the muscle look to.

Muscles are like tattoos, some fill love them some will hate them

You mean you don't even like a muscley white guy?

I dont like muscles on any guy regardless of race

I'm not a fan of muscles either I know a hell of lot of women that aren't too

Each to there own. A lot of fat lovers on here, less muscle lovers it seems.

Yes fully aware I'm not your type you dont have to be a dick about it every time I or a larger lady posts "

We like curvy ladies. We like muscley men.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

"See I like a guy to actually talk to me get to know me than meet straight away and get straight to it I like to go with the flow not be pressured into it "

Yep, i like those kind of guys to

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

"I have been on before and had allot of meets all of a sudden I'm no ones type

I'm not being rude and I'm not pushy I just seen to not get far!

Lads help me out

Ladies what am fucking up with? Is it the muscle I know many women don't actually like it !

Why? I myself hate muscles and i know many single women that also hate the muscle look to.

Muscles are like tattoos, some fill love them some will hate them

You mean you don't even like a muscley white guy?

I dont like muscles on any guy regardless of race

I'm not a fan of muscles either I know a hell of lot of women that aren't too

Each to there own. A lot of fat lovers on here, less muscle lovers it seems.

Yes fully aware I'm not your type you dont have to be a dick about it every time I or a larger lady posts "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on before and had allot of meets all of a sudden I'm no ones type

I'm not being rude and I'm not pushy I just seen to not get far!

Lads help me out

Ladies what am fucking up with? Is it the muscle I know many women don't actually like it ! "

Well, only because your asking; Personally I find the hairy look & muscles intimidating. That said, equally I feel, you will appeal to many. Your profile reads well, also you have a warm & kind face

I would take note of those proffering patience x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You've been on here a week, why would you assume it's your muscles? They seem to be a focal point for you, maybe concentrate on just being a person .

Plenty like muscles, plenty dont.

I'm not naturally attracted to muscley guys but if I liked the person it wouldn't bother me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

And your really handsome when your not pulling stupid faces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my you're hot and def my type! Come to Norfolk

Mrs G

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I think you look great, but too far away for me unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like strong guys. I'm not easy to pin down so he needs to be strong.

I'm not a fan of beards though.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

So I assume the answers to the same question 23 hours ago were inadequate then?

Or is this a look at me thread?

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"And your really handsome when your not pulling stupid faces.

I hate it when guys do that..equivalent to the trout pout in women *hastily checks pics for pouting*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from being a bit younger than I normal go for you are right up my street. Just have a bit of patience, I'm sure there are plenty of other women with similar taste.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I think everything is pretty good and it is nice to see a decent photo. Shame you are too far away and you are way out of my league. I think so any way. X

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

no offence.... one week back, and this is one of your first contributions....

as others have said... time, patience and basically common sense

after 1 whole week, it doesn't really scream giving it time.... or showing a great deal of patience...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a unique look yeah, i like it though and it wouldn't put me off.

Why not try to get another meet with those you already met? You're obviously their type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on before and had allot of meets all of a sudden I'm no ones type

I'm not being rude and I'm not pushy I just seen to not get far!

Lads help me out

Ladies what am fucking up with? Is it the muscle I know many women don't actually like it ! "

So I assume last time you were on,you were getting shagged all over the place within a week then???

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban

your spelling in your profile would put me off before I even looked at the pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same haha

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By *eddy19877 OP Man
over a year ago

sunderland

Thanks for feedback guys appricate

I'm dyslexic so i find it difficult when explains stuff no one is perfect! But I will reword it

as allways their is one or to men who fancy being a prick!

And in regards to the silly faces! Can't help it its my personality

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

You look alright to me. I think I need a visit up to Sunderland!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on before and had allot of meets all of a sudden I'm no ones type

I'm not being rude and I'm not pushy I just seen to not get far!

Lads help me out

Ladies what am fucking up with? Is it the muscle I know many women don't actually like it ! "

Maybe it's the grammar, its here NOT hear, .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awkward time of year tbh.

Everyone's busy

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Thanks for feedback guys appricate

I'm dyslexic so i find it difficult when explains stuff no one is perfect! But I will reword it

as allways their is one or to men who fancy being a prick!

And in regards to the silly faces! Can't help it its my personality

Well you seem to have a few admirers on here and you do say you can travel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd meet you. And not so far away...

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

...You've been here a week...

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

You look lovely you just haven't been here very long so maybe it takes a little bit more time. If you were closer to me....

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Patience. Shag wil- owww he's done it already? Okay nevermind... carry on

Yeah he has; but he never tells what the 'key' will open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I like what I see...shame you're too far away

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"Patience. Shag wil- owww he's done it already? Okay nevermind... carry on

Yeah he has; but he never tells what the 'key' will open

I accidentally deleted my message

Shag, please tell us Sensai

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could put a little about what you bring to a meet,on your profile. You seem ok from what I've read and you look happy and full of life. Give it time and use the charm I think you may have.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

My usual sage advice...

There are countless threads offering generic profile advice and advice in general in the archives... Happy reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is a virtue young skywalker lol

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By *ommy88Man
over a year ago

bolton

"I have been on before and had allot of meets all of a sudden I'm no ones type

I'm not being rude and I'm not pushy I just seen to not get far!

Lads help me out

Ladies what am fucking up with? Is it the muscle I know many women don't actually like it !

Why? I myself hate muscles and i know many single women that also hate the muscle look to.

Muscles are like tattoos, some fill love them some will hate them

You mean you don't even like a muscley white guy?

I dont like muscles on any guy regardless of race

I'm not a fan of muscles either I know a hell of lot of women that aren't too

Each to there own. A lot of fat lovers on here, less muscle lovers it seems."

What's my excuse then? I'm built for comfort

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"I have been on before and had allot of meets all of a sudden I'm no ones type

I'm not being rude and I'm not pushy I just seen to not get far!

Lads help me out

Ladies what am fucking up with? Is it the muscle I know many women don't actually like it ! "

You know the other thread you started that said women inbox you then just p*ss about for weeks.?? How's that work according to your profile you've been here a week.

, are we telling porkies :

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"And your really handsome when your not pulling stupid faces.

I hate it when guys do that..equivalent to the trout pout in women *hastily checks pics for pouting*"

There is definitely a male equivalent to duck face, just not sure what to call it

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