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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it dam near impossible to meet single girls or couples on this site I always attach a face pic to my messages and 9 times out of 10 the message is deleted straight away or read and ignored so frustrating

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

As a single man you have to stand out. You have no public pics and your post here is about twice as long as your profile. Most women will check your profile before reading a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A one line profile and no public pics!!! What did you expect, your not exactly selling yourself are you..

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By *onesal20Couple
over a year ago

North East England

A 13 word profile, no pics to see and the fact you would fuck a 99 year old may not be the best bait to use.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't really like puting pics on public due to work

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By *aneSmith5TV/TS
over a year ago

Eastbourne area

Eastbourne is a strange place, even with a long profile and photos you get no response.

However you do need more content on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure what to put really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for the new ones that recently join, most of all, patience is the key.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I don't really like puting pics on public due to work"

Well if your not willing to change things, then you will always struggle.

But it is a pretty poor excuse as I am sure people at my work wouldn't recognise me from my pics and I have plenty of them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Eastbourne is a strange place, even with a long profile and photos you get no response.

However you do need more content on your profile.

"

You can say that again, it's very strange

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By *aneSmith5TV/TS
over a year ago

Eastbourne area

You need to sell yourself, write about yourself and you like to do.

Meet socially to get verified.

Put some photos on, need to see what you look like as this is not "Blind Date"

And as many have said patience is the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really like puting pics on public due to work"

We don't answer shadow profiles. If you have no public pics then we don't really want to talk with you.

We even filter people with no public pics from being able to message us.

So, if you ask me, that might be why you are having trouble. People need to realize that the actions they take regarding their profiles have consequences. It doesn't matter why you don't have public pics. The very fact of not having them will yield certain consequences.

Not knowing what to say about yourself on your own profile isn't very inspiring either.

I hope you find what you're looking for, though.

-Courtney

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By *aneSmith5TV/TS
over a year ago

Eastbourne area

Eastbourne is very strange, lucky only work here now and again.

Most would rather block you than meet

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Why would we be bothered to talk to someone who hasn't been bothered to make an effort with their profile?

The majority of people on here have jobs, we have jobs, but we still have pics up. What kind of job do you have if you are going to be recognised by your bum, or your back or torso etc.?

Would you honestly meet someone with your profile? If no, then dont expect others to, if yes, then you must be fairly desperate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Certainly not desperate. But I take in board what you have said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it dam near impossible to meet single girls or couples on this site I always attach a face pic to my messages and 9 times out of 10 the message is deleted straight away or read and ignored so frustrating"

No public pics

No face pics

Verification not shown

I line profile which is bland

Your profile is your advertisement page op! - would YOU buy you??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is it dam near impossible to meet single girls or couples on this site I always attach a face pic to my messages and 9 times out of 10 the message is deleted straight away or read and ignored so frustrating

No public pics

No face pics

Verification not shown

I line profile which is bland

Your profile is your advertisement page op! - would YOU buy you?? "
when you pit it like that possibly not but I would defo buy you lol

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By *aneSmith5TV/TS
over a year ago

Eastbourne area

The lady presents a very good advert for herself, I imagine spoilt for choice.

Photos needed, not of face made public, however I like to see who I may be going to bed with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never responded to a 'shadow profile' or a one line description. Such lack of effort is telling in more ways than one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eastbourne is a strange place, even with a long profile and photos you get no response.

However you do need more content on your profile.

You can say that again, it's very strange "
and full of strange people lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I don't really like puting pics on public due to work"

Of course not, the rest of us are unemployed

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