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"My hubby and i do....but it's once in a blue moon and never in a leap year" see ye next year | |||
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"We do. -Courtney" and see you this year woohoo hahaha | |||
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"My hubby and i do....but it's once in a blue moon and never in a leap year" Haha....so no meets this year then lol xxxx | |||
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"Yes we do. We're happy to meet single guys. " Would you meet young single guys? | |||
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"Yes we do. We're happy to meet single guys. Would you meet young single guys? " dude he who hesitates is lost,doors open knock and introduce yourself | |||
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"Yes we do. We're happy to meet single guys. Would you meet young single guys? dude he who hesitates is lost,doors open knock and introduce yourself " I tried but I'm out their age range haha | |||
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"We do occasionally, although the effort required to find the genuine ones that actually meet, is monumental." But marginally easier than finding a Cpl where all 4 are happy to play. | |||
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"We do occasionally, although the effort required to find the genuine ones that actually meet, is monumental." We are spoilt for choice so we keep being told. | |||
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"We only meet guys, we do prefer more than one though. " Should also have said never meet in clubs. | |||
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"Meeting a couple though is hard at the moment for me :/ Hmmm " Need to get some verifications try clubs etc | |||
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"Meeting a couple though is hard at the moment for me :/ Hmmm Need to get some verifications try clubs etc " Thank you for the advice guys | |||
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"My hubby and i do....but it's once in a blue moon and never in a leap year" The next blue moon is 21st May... | |||
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"We did but not anymore as too many let downs so club only for us. We must have just had some bad eggs" your not alone on this one, it seems bloody difficult to get a single guy who can accom, they all have excuses .....Hmmm I wonder why. ? maybe they are frightened to tell us we are pig ugly and avoiding hurting our feelings..... | |||
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"We did but not anymore as too many let downs so club only for us. We must have just had some bad eggs your not alone on this one, it seems bloody difficult to get a single guy who can accom, they all have excuses .....Hmmm I wonder why. ? maybe they are frightened to tell us we are pig ugly and avoiding hurting our feelings....." Deffo not pig ugly! | |||
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"Yes we try if they turn up" Give Jake22 a chance guys he seems like a decent lad | |||
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"Yes we try if they turn up Give Jake22 a chance guys he seems like a decent lad" Thanks buddy! | |||
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"We're willing to give a single guy a chance. Tagging is on our bucket list. " I like a challenge | |||
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"We did but not anymore as too many let downs so club only for us. We must have just had some bad eggs your not alone on this one, it seems bloody difficult to get a single guy who can accom, they all have excuses .....Hmmm I wonder why. ? maybe they are frightened to tell us we are pig ugly and avoiding hurting our feelings..... Deffo not pig ugly! " you aint seen the mug shots though, haha | |||
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"Are there many couples that meet single guys that are not in clubs? " Yes they do. I've met a fair few. | |||
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"Yes we try if they turn up Give Jake22 a chance guys he seems like a decent lad Thanks buddy! " might start a campaign haha | |||
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"We did but not anymore as too many let downs so club only for us. We must have just had some bad eggs your not alone on this one, it seems bloody difficult to get a single guy who can accom, they all have excuses .....Hmmm I wonder why. ? maybe they are frightened to tell us we are pig ugly and avoiding hurting our feelings..... Deffo not pig ugly! you aint seen the mug shots though, haha" Yeah but mug shots don't help anyone | |||
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"We do occasionally, although the effort required to find the genuine ones that actually meet, is monumental." I can't wait for our meet xx | |||
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"Are there many couples that meet single guys that are not in clubs? " We do. We haven't been to a club yet. | |||
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"I think we frightened a newbie away last week. He he sent us a message when he'd only been on the site 2 days and we answered it, asked a few questions to make sure of his expectations (we were looking for something fairly specific) arranged a social (maybe more) meet for the 16th which was the first date we could make and he went UNLOS. Another dreamer." It happens all too often and not just with newbies. Looking back on 2015 to put this is perspective we invited a total of 11 single guys to meet us. All were verified and we spoke to all on the phone. Out of 11 only 2 actually turned up. None bothered to text us to cancel and most of those are still actively looking for meets on fab - in spite of our reports to Fab That is why we took the decision to stop meeting guys outside of clubs. If genuine single guys are depressed about the difficulties of getting meets - blame both the timewasters and Fab for tolerating them. | |||
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"I think we frightened a newbie away last week. He he sent us a message when he'd only been on the site 2 days and we answered it, asked a few questions to make sure of his expectations (we were looking for something fairly specific) arranged a social (maybe more) meet for the 16th which was the first date we could make and he went UNLOS. Another dreamer. It happens all too often and not just with newbies. Looking back on 2015 to put this is perspective we invited a total of 11 single guys to meet us. All were verified and we spoke to all on the phone. Out of 11 only 2 actually turned up. None bothered to text us to cancel and most of those are still actively looking for meets on fab - in spite of our reports to Fab That is why we took the decision to stop meeting guys outside of clubs. If genuine single guys are depressed about the difficulties of getting meets - blame both the timewasters and Fab for tolerating them." May I ask how old they were .... | |||
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"My hubby and i do....but it's once in a blue moon and never in a leap year Haha....so no meets this year then lol xxxx" Sad, but true. | |||
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"Probably in the range late twenties to early forties." Thanks for that. Interesting | |||
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"Yes we do. We're happy to meet single guys. Would you meet young single guys? " To suss this out you need to look at the preferred age range on their profile then check this against their veris Hun! Occasionally people meet others above/below their age range but you'll usually find it on their veris if they do! | |||
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"I think we frightened a newbie away last week. He he sent us a message when he'd only been on the site 2 days and we answered it, asked a few questions to make sure of his expectations (we were looking for something fairly specific) arranged a social (maybe more) meet for the 16th which was the first date we could make and he went UNLOS. Another dreamer. It happens all too often and not just with newbies. Looking back on 2015 to put this is perspective we invited a total of 11 single guys to meet us. All were verified and we spoke to all on the phone. Out of 11 only 2 actually turned up. None bothered to text us to cancel and most of those are still actively looking for meets on fab - in spite of our reports to Fab That is why we took the decision to stop meeting guys outside of clubs. If genuine single guys are depressed about the difficulties of getting meets - blame both the timewasters and Fab for tolerating them." Yeah I've had a lot of 'dreamers' who never met when arranged! Bizarrely I've even found this with guys who've put meets up - they've chatted and arranged but then just cancelled or vanished! This is why I resort to roger rabbit and porn a lot! I usually just play at clubs if I see someone I like - or arrange the odd meet but limit my expectations or have a plan b to hand! | |||
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"I think we frightened a newbie away last week. He he sent us a message when he'd only been on the site 2 days and we answered it, asked a few questions to make sure of his expectations (we were looking for something fairly specific) arranged a social (maybe more) meet for the 16th which was the first date we could make and he went UNLOS. Another dreamer. It happens all too often and not just with newbies. Looking back on 2015 to put this is perspective we invited a total of 11 single guys to meet us. All were verified and we spoke to all on the phone. Out of 11 only 2 actually turned up. None bothered to text us to cancel and most of those are still actively looking for meets on fab - in spite of our reports to Fab That is why we took the decision to stop meeting guys outside of clubs. If genuine single guys are depressed about the difficulties of getting meets - blame both the timewasters and Fab for tolerating them. Yeah I've had a lot of 'dreamers' who never met when arranged! Bizarrely I've even found this with guys who've put meets up - they've chatted and arranged but then just cancelled or vanished! This is why I resort to roger rabbit and porn a lot! I usually just play at clubs if I see someone I like - or arrange the odd meet but limit my expectations or have a plan b to hand! " Ahh! The legendary keyboard wankers! There's a whole army of them on the site! | |||
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"I think we frightened a newbie away last week. He he sent us a message when he'd only been on the site 2 days and we answered it, asked a few questions to make sure of his expectations (we were looking for something fairly specific) arranged a social (maybe more) meet for the 16th which was the first date we could make and he went UNLOS. Another dreamer. It happens all too often and not just with newbies. Looking back on 2015 to put this is perspective we invited a total of 11 single guys to meet us. All were verified and we spoke to all on the phone. Out of 11 only 2 actually turned up. None bothered to text us to cancel and most of those are still actively looking for meets on fab - in spite of our reports to Fab That is why we took the decision to stop meeting guys outside of clubs. If genuine single guys are depressed about the difficulties of getting meets - blame both the timewasters and Fab for tolerating them. Yeah I've had a lot of 'dreamers' who never met when arranged! Bizarrely I've even found this with guys who've put meets up - they've chatted and arranged but then just cancelled or vanished! This is why I resort to roger rabbit and porn a lot! I usually just play at clubs if I see someone I like - or arrange the odd meet but limit my expectations or have a plan b to hand! Ahh! The legendary keyboard wankers! There's a whole army of them on the site!" To be fair I'm sure it's not just males who arrange meets and blow people out! X | |||
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"I think we frightened a newbie away last week. He he sent us a message when he'd only been on the site 2 days and we answered it, asked a few questions to make sure of his expectations (we were looking for something fairly specific) arranged a social (maybe more) meet for the 16th which was the first date we could make and he went UNLOS. Another dreamer. Can understand getting cold feet as its a bit dawnting this swingers lark but not to show is out of order.we must understand how u ladies get meet ready takes time effort and money.not on at all It happens all too often and not just with newbies. Looking back on 2015 to put this is perspective we invited a total of 11 single guys to meet us. All were verified and we spoke to all on the phone. Out of 11 only 2 actually turned up. None bothered to text us to cancel and most of those are still actively looking for meets on fab - in spite of our reports to Fab That is why we took the decision to stop meeting guys outside of clubs. If genuine single guys are depressed about the difficulties of getting meets - blame both the timewasters and Fab for tolerating them. Yeah I've had a lot of 'dreamers' who never met when arranged! Bizarrely I've even found this with guys who've put meets up - they've chatted and arranged but then just cancelled or vanished! This is why I resort to roger rabbit and porn a lot! I usually just play at clubs if I see someone I like - or arrange the odd meet but limit my expectations or have a plan b to hand! " | |||
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"Are there many couples that meet single guys that are not in clubs? " We meet single guys away from clubs,given that N.Ireland has no clubs | |||
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"TBF there's like thousands of single guys one and a few thousand fake couples and women, So i'd imagine it would be very difficult for the staff to sort through and get a decent hold on this sort of thing. Essentially fighting a loosing battle but one that needs to be fought none the less. Being based in Aberdeen, I can understand your frustration some of heard many stories from couples on meets about timewasters and general weirdos. Still often hearing that meets with people like me are what drive them to continue. If think it's mostly keeping an open being aware of what could happen and the tell tale signs of a timewaster to tell you not to bother" I appreciate your sentiments but often there are no signs or indications. If there were it would make life easy. | |||
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"I want to meet a guy with my fella, so i can get DP by them. " Good girl.never done it myself but it's on my to do list!!! | |||
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"I would like a chance to meet a couple, don't mind what type " Well if that don't make them them feel special, nothing Will! | |||
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"I would like a chance to meet a couple, don't mind what type Well if that don't make them them feel special, nothing Will!" | |||
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"I have had a few offers since being on here, Some I would of liked to meet but logistics and trying to arrange a time to suit both of us have stopped the meet happening, Any others I have turned down were due to the Woman not meeting my preference or things they would like to do on the meet, Not using condoms, Videoing the meet or meeting with 3/4 Men, I have no interest in doing either of them" Similar experience to the above to the point i no longer have that interest now. | |||
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