FabSwingers.com forum: The Do's and Dont's of Swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There is a thin line between swinging and cheating.

What are the do's and dont's

How do you know when it's going wrong ?

Is it okay to have feelings for someone when swinging ?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"There is a thin line between swinging and cheating.

What are the do's and dont's

How do you know when it's going wrong ?

Is it okay to have feelings for someone when swinging ?

OP, I think you will have a lot of morally outraged swingers who cannot see any connection between swinging and cheating. Funny how blinkered some people can be when they want to justify their behaviour. As for feelings, we met on here, so yes, I think its okay .... but feelings for others, no. When I met guys on my own, I was careful not to do many repeat meets ... and I did develop feelings for my duck buddies, as they did for me ... we became close friends and remain so. I think its difficult if one is emotionally vulnerable, then its a mine field.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cheaters in all walks of life not just swinging and we never get attached to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and theres no rules book for swinging never has been never will be.. do as you want and dont do anythin you dont want simple really

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In other words, cheaters tend to accept that they are running afoul of societal norms, and so society treats them like children who have misbehaved, but who know they have misbehaved: with leniency. Swingers do not care that they are running afoul of societal norms, so society treats them like unrepentant, willfully misbehaving children: with severity. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Swinging is not cheating. Cheating is keeping secrets, sneaking around. Swinging is open, and honest communication between partners.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

There is one do...DO respect others

There is one don't...DON'T do anything that will potentially hurt another.

The rest should follow.

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

"There is one do...DO respect others

There is one don't...DON'T do anything that will potentially hurt another.

The rest should follow."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is one do...DO respect others

There is one don't...DON'T do anything that will potentially hurt another.

The rest should follow."

That's certainly a good basis for your own personal rules!

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