FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging and social life..

By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

I tend to keep my social life and swinging life pretty much separate. I'm not really into swinging clubs and I still enjoy going down the local pub or out to regular clubs when looking primarily to just socialize (although sometimes this leads to copping off with someone too).

Over the festive period my swinging activities went very much on the back burner as I found myself increasingly occupied with a more traditional social calendar.

How about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree that's how we have been, however I'm now coming round to the idea that maybe having swinger friends to socialise and chat to is quite good as we are on the same wave length.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep.. tis the season for..uh.. not doing very much lol

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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I'd agree that's how we have been, however I'm now coming round to the idea that maybe having swinger friends to socialise and chat to is quite good as we are on the same wave length."

I love coming on here occasionally to chat to 'like minded' folk, but, don't you find that you also like to spend time socializing with the regular 'vanilla world'? I do..

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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

"yep.. tis the season for..uh.. not doing very much lol"

I've been too busy having fun to consider trying to fit swinging meets in too....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'd agree that's how we have been, however I'm now coming round to the idea that maybe having swinger friends to socialise and chat to is quite good as we are on the same wave length.

I love coming on here occasionally to chat to 'like minded' folk, but, don't you find that you also like to spend time socializing with the regular 'vanilla world'? I do.."

Agree with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm starting to realise there are very few people in my circle of friends who ive not slept with

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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I'm starting to realise there are very few people in my circle of friends who ive not slept with

Hahaha....yes, social circles can become a wee bit incestuous...lol ...that's partly why I like to keep the majority of my sexual activity separate from my socializing....its easy to get a reputation in a small town

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"I'd agree that's how we have been, however I'm now coming round to the idea that maybe having swinger friends to socialise and chat to is quite good as we are on the same wave length.

I love coming on here occasionally to chat to 'like minded' folk, but, don't you find that you also like to spend time socializing with the regular 'vanilla world'? I do.."

I sometimes find that I have a great time socialising with our vanilla friends and then thinking "wouldn't it be nice if we all got naked and started fucking now?"

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Do to me (Risky) working shifts our swinging life is our social life. That's a big part of the reason we go to clubs. We can socialise, dance and play.

If we had a private meet and it didn't go well, that's a rare night out written off.

Most of Frisky's friends are prudes, single and jealous that as the only married woman in the group she gets more attention than them...

My friends are either kept men with high flying wives so don't work or are shift workers like me. So we generally meet for coffee during the day, so we can spend our evenings off at home with the family...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don't do much socialising tbh. Everyone seems so busy all the time or too tired.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christmas is family time as far as I'm concerned. As are weekends. I keep my swinging life very separate from my family life. In fact swinging has taken a back burner for the last 6 months because of "real life" (hate the term vanilla) being too busy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christmas has been very busy here but I did manage to squeeze in a club night (TH). My best friend is also on here and we go out together often so the two do sort of overlap I guess.

I do love Christmas but I like getting back to normality too!

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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Christmas is family time as far as I'm concerned. As are weekends. I keep my swinging life very separate from my family life. In fact swinging has taken a back burner for the last 6 months because of "real life" (hate the term vanilla) being too busy. "

..yes 'real life' is a better term and how I look at it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd agree that's how we have been, however I'm now coming round to the idea that maybe having swinger friends to socialise and chat to is quite good as we are on the same wave length.

I love coming on here occasionally to chat to 'like minded' folk, but, don't you find that you also like to spend time socializing with the regular 'vanilla world'? I do..

Agree with you.

Me too.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Swinging is a little diversion, but 'real life' is more what it is about for us these days (actually always). Like chatting and messing about on the forums, like the occasional night out .... but much prefer socialising with friends and family. Considering we met on here, though, social life, real life and swinging have actually merged ....

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