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By *asker10 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

So nice and simply, what area of; or certain piece of kit really pushes your buttons like no other? Predominantly a question for kit and accessories rather that furniture.

Out for a shop today and intrigued to hear people's individual preferences. Going for an 'o' piece leather gag to switch up with a ball gag, what a lucky girl she is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be the violet wand

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By *ikeC2012Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

For me its the estim kit. The sensations are wonderful and border on pain, but such pleasurable pain.

Second? A tower of pain. They squeeze and stretch nipples at the same time

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By *asker10 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Think a studded spanking bat has just been added to the shopping list.

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By *orfun7Man
over a year ago

mold

Got a nice little collection but my favourite is the simple gaffer tape.. loads of different uses..

Blindfold,gag,restrict,choke

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

black leather collar with chain lead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So nice and simply, what area of; or certain piece of kit really pushes your buttons like no other? Predominantly a question for kit and accessories rather that furniture.

Out for a shop today and intrigued to hear people's individual preferences. Going for an 'o' piece leather gag to switch up with a ball gag, what a lucky girl she is. "

Not sure where you are gpoing today, but it;s london Alternative Market tomorrow and they always have some fantastic kit for sale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"black leather collar with chain lead"

I need this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And my favorite kit are my made to order (and not quite unique but pretty rare) pair of barbed wire floggers with nunchuka handles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My new huge dildo. Can I add that?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's difficult to choose a favourite from my extensive collection but I do love my strap-on harness and dildos.

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

ona lady.....collar and lead and handcuffs or bondage ropes......blindfold.. and some ice cubes

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"So nice and simply, what area of; or certain piece of kit really pushes your buttons like no other? Predominantly a question for kit and accessories rather that furniture.

Out for a shop today and intrigued to hear people's individual preferences. Going for an 'o' piece leather gag to switch up with a ball gag, what a lucky girl she is. "

If you are going for an O-ring gag, you may encounter some problems (depending on how you intend to use it). I had to return one as it was far too small to fit my cock through and yet, so far the women who have tried to use the one I replaced it with (which is big enough), have not been able to open their mouths wide enough to insert it...

I need to encounter some women with bigger mouths....

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"black leather collar with chain lead

I need this! "

yes you do

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By *asker10 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"So nice and simply, what area of; or certain piece of kit really pushes your buttons like no other? Predominantly a question for kit and accessories rather that furniture.

Out for a shop today and intrigued to hear people's individual preferences. Going for an 'o' piece leather gag to switch up with a ball gag, what a lucky girl she is.

Not sure where you are gpoing today, but it;s london Alternative Market tomorrow and they always have some fantastic kit for sale"

Sounds interesting, could head there tomorrow too. You been before? Any good?

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By *asker10 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"My new huge dildo. Can I add that? "

Depends how big it is!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So nice and simply, what area of; or certain piece of kit really pushes your buttons like no other? Predominantly a question for kit and accessories rather that furniture.

Out for a shop today and intrigued to hear people's individual preferences. Going for an 'o' piece leather gag to switch up with a ball gag, what a lucky girl she is.

Not sure where you are gpoing today, but it;s london Alternative Market tomorrow and they always have some fantastic kit for sale

Sounds interesting, could head there tomorrow too. You been before? Any good? "

LAM is excellent. Everything there will be far higher quality and far better value than you'll find on the high street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my horse crop,.....for the naughty ladies!!!

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By *asker10 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"So nice and simply, what area of; or certain piece of kit really pushes your buttons like no other? Predominantly a question for kit and accessories rather that furniture.

Out for a shop today and intrigued to hear people's individual preferences. Going for an 'o' piece leather gag to switch up with a ball gag, what a lucky girl she is.

If you are going for an O-ring gag, you may encounter some problems (depending on how you intend to use it). I had to return one as it was far too small to fit my cock through and yet, so far the women who have tried to use the one I replaced it with (which is big enough), have not been able to open their mouths wide enough to insert it...

I need to encounter some women with bigger mouths.... "

Ha ha. They don't make it easy. Will ask to go for a sizing once in there! Cheers for the heads up.

Straight as, but while I'm here, kudos to your training. Looking strong dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Collar lead and cage. Also love any types of nipple clamps. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And my favorite kit are my made to order (and not quite unique but pretty rare) pair of barbed wire floggers with nunchuka handles "

I assume they're complete show peices?

Barbed wire flogging would surely do some pretty massive flesh removal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving our corded cane and our heavy suede flogger at the moment - m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And my favorite kit are my made to order (and not quite unique but pretty rare) pair of barbed wire floggers with nunchuka handles

I assume they're complete show peices?

Barbed wire flogging would surely do some pretty massive flesh removal

"

Sorry, I missed the word faux from the description. If you google floffermeister you will see similar there (it is the handles that are unusual), the barbed knots are PVC, they tend to leave interesting patterns rather than remove skin

They are very showy but also completely usable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And my favorite kit are my made to order (and not quite unique but pretty rare) pair of barbed wire floggers with nunchuka handles

I assume they're complete show peices?

Barbed wire flogging would surely do some pretty massive flesh removal

Sorry, I missed the word faux from the description. If you google floffermeister you will see similar there (it is the handles that are unusual), the barbed knots are PVC, they tend to leave interesting patterns rather than remove skin

They are very showy but also completely usable"

Ahh that makes more sense.

Everyone is way to into floggers and wide paddles these days what ever happened to single tailed whips

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre

Oh so much I have already, estim and violet wand are just fab toys, impact toys got them in abundance, gags and restraints they are already to over kill.

New things I would like, hmmm I would love an inflatable latex hood as I think that would be a real mind fuck, I am also a little facinated by large deep enemas at the moment. As as furniture I would just love to have the space for a vintage dentist chair, I could see much fun with that.

I would back up the previous poster on recomending LAM in London and the BBB (3rd Sunday of the month) in Birmingham as great events to buy toys I used to do LAM quite often.

I shouldn't leave out LFF (london fetish fair) second Sunday in the month and SWAMP in Bristol but I haven't been to either in years.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Love my pin wheel but Santa brought me a spreader bar for Christmas so this is my latest favourite

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

My favourite bit of kit are my ankle and wrist stocks - but I fashioned them myself at home. Even had a few people on fab ask if I can make a pair for them

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre


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Everyone is way to into floggers and wide paddles these days what ever happened to single tailed whips"

Because single tails take a great deal of skill and practice to use well without doing significant physical harm and with the massive influx of people who see BDSM as something trendy they can't be arsed to take the time and to practice how to use them in a safe sane way. I don't know if they still meet up on Clifton Downs in Bristol to teach how to use single tails but I went a couple of times and it was a great crack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So nice and simply, what area of; or certain piece of kit really pushes your buttons like no other? Predominantly a question for kit and accessories rather that furniture.

Out for a shop today and intrigued to hear people's individual preferences. Going for an 'o' piece leather gag to switch up with a ball gag, what a lucky girl she is.

Not sure where you are gpoing today, but it;s london Alternative Market tomorrow and they always have some fantastic kit for sale

Sounds interesting, could head there tomorrow too. You been before? Any good?

LAM is excellent. Everything there will be far higher quality and far better value than you'll find on the high street"

Second the vote for LAM, all this stall holders will talk you through how best to use your kit pieces as well! My fave bits I got from there, and they were an animal tail butt plug (which has been lost in the great yonder, which is a shame because it was purple) and my paddle, and flogger. I also have some cool nails that slide over the top of my fingers which make for good sensation play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And my favorite kit are my made to order (and not quite unique but pretty rare) pair of barbed wire floggers with nunchuka handles

I assume they're complete show peices?

Barbed wire flogging would surely do some pretty massive flesh removal

Sorry, I missed the word faux from the description. If you google floffermeister you will see similar there (it is the handles that are unusual), the barbed knots are PVC, they tend to leave interesting patterns rather than remove skin

They are very showy but also completely usable

Ahh that makes more sense.

Everyone is way to into floggers and wide paddles these days what ever happened to single tailed whips"

Floggers are cheap and accesible. A decent whip isn't cheap, you need an open space to use it, someone to teach you how to use it and the potential to injure someone is far, far higher than with floggers. Non of that appeals to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Everyone is way to into floggers and wide paddles these days what ever happened to single tailed whips

Because single tails take a great deal of skill and practice to use well without doing significant physical harm and with the massive influx of people who see BDSM as something trendy they can't be arsed to take the time and to practice how to use them in a safe sane way. I don't know if they still meet up on Clifton Downs in Bristol to teach how to use single tails but I went a couple of times and it was a great crack "

The pain from them is far to disperse and "muddy/cloudy" can't focus and enjoy it like a clean single infliction

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre


" I also have some cool nails that slide over the top of my fingers which make for good sensation play. "

If they are the metal ones, try using the violet wand with a secondary contacts, then you will see sparks fly. Great fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little flogger named "the little bastard" it doesn't look much but packs a hell of a sting, I love using it but my partner now regrets wanting to buy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our noose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I also have some cool nails that slide over the top of my fingers which make for good sensation play.

If they are the metal ones, try using the violet wand with a secondary contacts, then you will see sparks fly. Great fun! "

That is just lovely

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I love the anal hook, especially if the woman has long hair that can be tied in a ponytail

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

debs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a copper tipped whip just love the feel as it cut my flesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pair of kabunza leather nunchaka floggers, love them. Followed by my handtreated rope.

I really like LAM and may be there tomorrow, but the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar knocks the spots of it. Three floors of fetish fun and a good cafe for the full English pick me up for the day after the night before, as there are a host of events the saturday night.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I love my pinwheel and anal hook - my lead is run through the loop so I am collared to it and can't move

I am thinking I need to get a violet wand because I do love the pain

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area

Bit of a novice with bdsm/sm.

What is the difference between the 2?

Thanks.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

too many to think of. I love my violet wand, estim, suede floggers and a one off designed dragon tail whip, that was specifically made for me.

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre


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I am thinking I need to get a violet wand because I do love the pain "

If your looking at pain you would be much better off going down the Estim route, the violet wand is more of a sensual toy, unless you have a low pain threshold!

Use estim combined with say a pin wheel across the nerve endings while restrained and you will have a whole new appreciation of pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B's new hand-made leather collar, recently arrived from a specialist maker in the US.

Beautifully crafted.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"

I am thinking I need to get a violet wand because I do love the pain

If your looking at pain you would be much better off going down the Estim route, the violet wand is more of a sensual toy, unless you have a low pain threshold!

Use estim combined with say a pin wheel across the nerve endings while restrained and you will have a whole new appreciation of pain "

I have a really high pain threshold so I will look into an Estim, thank you

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By *mba sweetWoman
over a year ago

suffolk.

My weeble wobbler was made specially for me.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Length of black rope is the most useful object- best when combined with a kinky mind

Half of my play kit consisted of repurposed items including clothes pegs and small latching or sprung toolbox clips, some short lengths of rope with various end mods for different stim effects, and a bunch of 18" long cable ties, secured at the block end which allow everything from a scratchy tickle to a pretty full on whipping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" If you google floffermeister "

Did you mean floggermeister?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I shouldn't leave out LFF (london fetish fair) second Sunday in the month "

They are currently struggling to find a venue so not running. Normal service in May apparently

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

Anal hook, a length of rope and a collar. Oh, and a guy with a great imagination...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I am thinking I need to get a violet wand because I do love the pain

If your looking at pain you would be much better off going down the Estim route, the violet wand is more of a sensual toy, unless you have a low pain threshold!

Use estim combined with say a pin wheel across the nerve endings while restrained and you will have a whole new appreciation of pain "

The violet wand can be very painful with the right attachments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My restraints, pinwheel, rope (always handy)

Heavy suede flogger is a great addition.

Got a heavy wood bat with silicone teeth on it....provide nice marks and a decent sting

Actually, I love it all!!

Especially my ball gag!

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD

So many to choose from.

Collar and lead.

Crop, whip and paddle.

Electrastim and pin wheel.

Gonna end up listing everything at this rate x

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By *addyandbabyCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

Daddys victor tella singletail whip would be my favourite, though the rounders bat with studs would be a close second. Ones so thuddy and the other so stingy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my Swede whip being used on me by my Dom.

When I'm in mistress mode I like to use my sounds and my horse riding crop. And cord to tie those cock and balls and my foot to kick. need to stop now making me wet

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"Daddys victor tella singletail whip would be my favourite, though the rounders bat with studs would be a close second. Ones so thuddy and the other so stingy"

OOOh you have a Daddy, I have a Daddy Dom. NO not age play before the Fab police start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flogger, nipple clamps, butt plugs, paddle yummy

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By *aid AndreaTV/TS
over a year ago

yorkshire

oral clamp is one of the few bits i have to be used on me. not painful but quite kinky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do enjoy having a flogger used on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a tough one, I have many favourites I use at demos but I guess my claw and pinwheels

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By *cbkellyCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

My fav is a lenght of blue pipe (gas pipe) leaves some lovely bruises.

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By *pforfun46Man
over a year ago

barton upon humber

My pack of cable ties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal beads. So when I'm about to cum I pull the beads out and I shit myself

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

our favourite is our custom made pink lambs hide flogger .deceptivley soft but very very thuddy mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My head collar with built in ball gag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything that produces singular sharp clean pain.

Cant stand floggers and paddles.

I know they exist because they let people deal out pain without really causing any real damage cause they spread the force out so much, but because of thag it doesnt register as proper pain just irritation.

Muddy blurred and irritating and just fristrates me.

Cleanest and most pleasurable pain is a very sharp cutting impliment but obviously thats out cause it's way too much hassle, messy, dressing wounds scaring etc.

Those thin impact canes seem decent though.

But id love to try a well wielded single strand whip see how that works.

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"My head collar with built in ball gag"

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By *addyandbabyCouple
over a year ago

Bideford


"Daddys victor tella singletail whip would be my favourite, though the rounders bat with studs would be a close second. Ones so thuddy and the other so stingy

OOOh you have a Daddy, I have a Daddy Dom. NO not age play before the Fab police start. "

My Daddy is a Daddy Dom too and no we don't do the age play bit either really

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By *addyandbabyCouple
over a year ago

Bideford


"Anything that produces singular sharp clean pain.

Cant stand floggers and paddles.

I know they exist because they let people deal out pain without really causing any real damage cause they spread the force out so much, but because of thag it doesnt register as proper pain just irritation.

Muddy blurred and irritating and just fristrates me.

Cleanest and most pleasurable pain is a very sharp cutting impliment but obviously thats out cause it's way too much hassle, messy, dressing wounds scaring etc.

Those thin impact canes seem decent though.

But id love to try a well wielded single strand whip see how that works.

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Singletails are great for the sort of stingy pain you talk about, I adore them.

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

I think I have to go with a collar and leash nothing better to see then a girl kneeling collared and leashed ready to be played with

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By *addyandbabyCouple
over a year ago

Bideford


"Think a studded spanking bat has just been added to the shopping list. "

We have one of those, Daddy made it from a heavy rounders bat and furniture studs, very thuddy!

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By *addyandbabyCouple
over a year ago

Bideford


"And my favorite kit are my made to order (and not quite unique but pretty rare) pair of barbed wire floggers with nunchuka handles

I assume they're complete show peices?

Barbed wire flogging would surely do some pretty massive flesh removal

Sorry, I missed the word faux from the description. If you google floffermeister you will see similar there (it is the handles that are unusual), the barbed knots are PVC, they tend to leave interesting patterns rather than remove skin

They are very showy but also completely usable

Ahh that makes more sense.

Everyone is way to into floggers and wide paddles these days what ever happened to single tailed whips

Floggers are cheap and accesible. A decent whip isn't cheap, you need an open space to use it, someone to teach you how to use it and the potential to injure someone is far, far higher than with floggers. Non of that appeals to me"

But when you find someone who knows how to use them they are an utter delight. We got ours from the states and its bliss

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