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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I sometimes feel like pulling my hair. Spend ages speaking to couples and just when you think it's going ok they block you for no reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

happens to us all im afraid, i have been blocked for just sending a nice message, even if the profile says they want single males etc, you just have to think its there loss and get on with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s always a reason, you just haven’t found out what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple will not block for no reason.

I do always try to say I am not interested, my exceptions are if bi guy, or non white guy messages me.. as it states in the first bit of my profile that my preference is for white straight men etc..

Sometimes I block as they suddenly update the years old photos.. Or there tone about things change..

It can be a lot of reasons.. but its never just nothing

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it can be as much as messaging them, i have been blocked after sending a message and nothing else that was it. But like i said it happens, more than likely they may have decided your not for them and found it easier just to block you.

But just forget about it and move on and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if single men understood the nasty replies we can sometimes get for DARING to say someones not for us, then they may understand why couples begin to do this..

Its most likely read message, read profile and not for them, and maybe due to nasty comments before they will just block rather than send a reply saying thanks but no thanks.

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh i understand that there is a lot of idiots on here, its just a shame all men get tared with the same brush.

Im not trying to argue just sayiing i have been blocked with no explination.

If the OP only has being blocked to worry about for the rest of his life then he should be very happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh i understand that there is a lot of idiots on here, its just a shame all men get tared with the same brush.

Im not trying to argue just sayiing i have been blocked with no explination.

If the OP only has being blocked to worry about for the rest of his life then he should be very happy."

it is.. luckily we dont tend to do that.. We have had some right idiots.. but we still take each single man on his own merits.. :D

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

which is nice to take each person as they come, dont judge a book as they say.

To be honest when i first got on here i was like yeah easy sex no problem, that soon changed and i realised i was soooo wrong, i have been here ages and only had 2 meets but i think thats good for a single male.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

2 meets how long have you been on here?

Do you get many replies to the messages you send.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it can be as much as messaging them, i have been blocked after sending a message and nothing else that was it. But like i said it happens, more than likely they may have decided your not for them and found it easier just to block you.

But just forget about it and move on and have fun."

Do you fit their preferences though? Are you too young, too far away etc. Perhaps you've sent the type of message they're not into or said something that makes them realise you're not intended for each other so they've blocked you to save contacting you later down the line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been here 9 months, well on and off i dont sit on it all day messaging people, i only really message people who jump out at me, replies to my messages, erm not alot, i have had a few then suddenly they stop talking to me or no reply at all, or sometimes a polite no thanks. It just depends on peoples tastes, im on 25 (nearly) so people at the top end of my age limit -45, sometimes wont meet young people. Like you will here alot on here dont send the same old generic email to everyone, it will get you no where, only message the people you think you would actuaully like to meet, not every tom dick and fanny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some good advice there, I hate getting the generic copy and paste - specially when they've just got my name wrong!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some good advice there, I hate getting the generic copy and paste - specially when they've just got my name wrong!!"

lol if you were going to send the same to everyone you would at least get the name right haha.

I often wondered if i sent a mail to every woman on this site saying do you want a fuck, the law of averages would mean one would say yes haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd think that would be the one thing they'd manage wouldn't you? Clearly not, as my name is neither Poppy, Katy nor, in fact, "you guys."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been on here 8 weeks, have 4 verifications despite having no moaning. Think you need to wind ya neck in and stop ya moaning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think if someone wants to block you it is there right to do so although for me a simple not interested mike would surfice,its an individuals choice and in couples you have to get double the agreement

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi never cut and paste also read message only after reading there profile and also ensure that I get there names correct. So poppy can you have look at my profile and please give me some feedback on it, if you would be so kind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not moaning was just asking if it happens to others lol and reading replies it does

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not moaning was just asking if it happens to others lol and reading replies it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

christ, i dint even look at your profile, you have 4 verifications, if one couple blocks you get over it, your obviously doing something right, cant believe i wasted time giving you advise, i could have been wasting that time sending out the same message to everybody on here and getting no replies!

(the sending msg part was a joke by the way)

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over a year ago

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