FabSwingers.com forum: Name and Shame

By *adyGarden OP Woman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

I'm a nice person and I'm all for meeting for a drink to help someone get verified. The trouble is as a single working mother my free time is very precious. I've been stood up a few times now and I totally think we need a name and shame page for no shows. Not to be used for bad meets as most will have those and that person could be a great meet for another. I just find no shows without so muh as excuse extremely disrespectful and totally not in the spirit of swinging.

Your thoughts on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many bitter people on here who cannot take a polite no thanks so would abuse this naming people who aren't timewasters just to get back at them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You didn't show up to meet me last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many bitter people on here who cannot take a polite no thanks so would abuse this naming people who aren't timewasters just to get back at them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You didn't show up to meet me last night "

Yeah sorry about that, my cat ate my car keys and the dog ran off with my phone so I couldn't text!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You didn't show up to meet me last night

Yeah sorry about that, my cat ate my car keys and the dog ran off with my phone so I couldn't text!

Oh that's okay then then I won't tell on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a nice person and I'm all for meeting for a drink to help someone get verified. The trouble is as a single working mother my free time is very precious. I've been stood up a few times now and I totally think we need a name and shame page for no shows. Not to be used for bad meets as most will have those and that person could be a great meet for another. I just find no shows without so muh as excuse extremely disrespectful and totally not in the spirit of swinging.

Your thoughts on this?"

You csn talk you've stood me up 15 times!!!

...yeah it'll never work.

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By *adyGarden OP Woman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"Too many bitter people on here who cannot take a polite no thanks so would abuse this naming people who aren't timewasters just to get back at them."

You can click that the person didn't show up and there would be a place for said person to respond. This makes it fair and stops people abusing it. Also if a person abuses the feature out of spite or bitterness they can get a ban from fab and no longer be able to use that feature.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I totally think we need a name and shame page for no shows. Not to be used for bad meets ...

Your thoughts on this?"

How would you prevent it being used for both?

How would you prevent people making false claims?

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Your thoughts on this?"

If you name and shame they would just change their username or start a new profile just block and report that's all you can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life doesn't revolve around sex for some of us so everyone is entitled to make their own minds up if it feels right for them or not to meet if their even in the mood too.

So follow your gut instinct with people.

Besides being spontaneous helps not planning days/weeks in advance I find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many bitter people on here who cannot take a polite no thanks so would abuse this naming people who aren't timewasters just to get back at them.

How can you prove it?

And it doesnt make it fair it just results in a Thread full of bitching back and forth about why they didnt meet.

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By *adyGarden OP Woman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Your thoughts on this?

You csn talk you've stood me up 15 times!!!

...yeah it'll never work.

You should be so lucky lol

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By *adyGarden OP Woman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"Life doesn't revolve around sex for some of us so everyone is entitled to make their own minds up if it feels right for them or not to meet if their even in the mood too.

So follow your gut instinct with people.

I don't meet just for sex and a first meet is just a casual thing.

Besides being spontaneous helps not planning days/weeks in advance I find."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life really is too short. Its not nice when it happens but just forget and move on. I only meet locally for a quick social at my local coffee shop where I'd be anyway so no problems if they no show.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Admin say they will never allow it. The best thing to do is report and let Admin check it out

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