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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a single male im finding it hard to get my foot in the door.so how do women like a msg to read?Basically im looking to at least get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends what messages your sending if it's fancy a fuck and the usual crass filth us ladies get then you'll be deleted and no copying and pasting messages either very boring just me original and friendly and if they delete you it means bugger off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i try not to be crass and never copy and paste.Not always deleted just been read and no reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i try not to be crass and never copy and paste.Not always deleted just been read and no reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heard you the 1st time

well I can't help you then unless they don't like the look of you that's all I can say sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single male im finding it hard to get my foot in the door.so how do women like a msg to read?Basically im looking to at least get a reply."

Personally, I would expect two things from a message:-

~ it should show me why the writer thinks we would be a good match (i.e. read my profile)

~ there should be enough information in message/profile to enable me to decide whether I think we would be a good match.

OP, your profile is short, so I would suggest that your message needs to be comprehensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree with sunnyoptimist,i try and make my messages relevant but i must be poor at it because i still get very few replys from ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single male im finding it hard to get my foot in the door.so how do women like a msg to read?Basically im looking to at least get a reply."

Try not to give the impression you have no idea how to talk to a woman you might like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single male im finding it hard to get my foot in the door.so how do women like a msg to read?Basically im looking to at least get a reply."
dont wright big letters like life story as when people wish to know about you thay will ask...and not one of them letter cut and paste people wright to everyone ....Be up front about what your looking for maybe say somthing nice about there profile if you like the look of them ..... and just be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like to be treated as an individual , so mention things from the profile and make some compliments is always a good start, we get loads of messages from single guys who seem to think they are doing you a favour, as a woman i want to feel desired for myself, so being respectful to the man of the couple whilst being complimentary to the female is good and definatley no cut n paste or mass messaging or the same message every few weeks! good luck x

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By *corpio67Man
over a year ago

hillingdon

Make them laugh!!!

You might not get a meet, but could at least end up chatting and make a new friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like to be treated as an individual , so mention things from the profile and make some compliments is always a good start, we get loads of messages from single guys who seem to think they are doing you a favour, as a woman i want to feel desired for myself, so being respectful to the man of the couple whilst being complimentary to the female is good and definatley no cut n paste or mass messaging or the same message every few weeks! good luck x"
Do you know some men send me same old cut n paste letter, had one send me 5 same thing over 4 months he should know he has ... puts me right off. Like you do wish to be treated as a individual... some will not get meet here if keep doing that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always look at the profile before opening the message if the sender falls within my age range and location.

OP, if I looked at your profile I'd delete your message without opening as there's nothing on your profile to tell me what you like, what you're looking for etc.

My play time is limited, and I don't wish to spend it playing 20 questions only to find at the end of the day there's no common ground.

Sell yourself, let people know about you - jokey profiles may work on Facebook, but for that to work here, you also need to show what'd make you a good shag!

Good luck!

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