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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what's your opinion on kissing on a meet? Ive had some nearly arranged to be told no kissing, usually couples! Just looking to see what rules people play too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us there has to be kissing - no kissing then no meet.

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

No kissing...no meet...x

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By *aster C the kinksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington

Surely kissing is the thing that gets everything else going...very important and muchly a turn on in its own right..

S..x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We like kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing, I have had similar situations when told no kissing is allowed. For me it is the biggest turn on to kiss passionately, so no kiss no play lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind but with someone random it's just feels like nothing really, i don't get any graduation out of it unless it on the basis of love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore it but will always respect people's wishes

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Love to kiss passionately.....mouth on mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely kissing is the thing that gets everything else going...very important and muchly a turn on in its own right..

S..x"

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"No kissing...no meet...x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A girl I spent a little time with said she'd "I would tell girls your a greate kisser" in your my profile, I'm unsure how to do that without sounding like a complete know.

Perhaps if I said a good kiss is better than a thousand verifications. ... girls may twig?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a massive part of the sexual chemistry xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what's your opinion on kissing on a meet? Ive had some nearly arranged to be told no kissing, usually couples! Just looking to see what rules people play too!"

I Adore kissing, love it, and if there is no magic in the kiss, there won't be any in the bedroom either!

Kissed one bloke once I met, awful wish I could name him lol

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr loves to kiss., I adore kissing .. I love him to kiss other ladies, but I am not keen on kissing other men... It doenst start me off and in many cases turns me off. However, it never seems to bother any of our meets as I will kiss but just not much. And certainly not for anything more than a minute or two x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what's your opinion on kissing on a meet? Ive had some nearly arranged to be told no kissing, usually couples! Just looking to see what rules people play too!"

Kissing is a big part of it for us.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We reserve passionate kissing for the two of us, we say this in our profile but still get messages. Everyone is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing = No passion = No point!

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick


"We reserve passionate kissing for the two of us, we say this in our profile but still get messages. Everyone is different."

Same for us and yes it costs us meets but our choice and our decision.

L2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So often see ..great kisser....sure in the heat of it all.....aren't we all

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Genuine question, not designed to aggravate.

Those of you who love kissing and say that its essential yet also say that you have experienced some rubbish kissing...what do you do in that instance, carry on even though you don't enjoy it or stop the meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kissing = No passion = No point!"

Yet I get told all the time how passionate I am and only really kiss Mr. Although to be fair passion isn't for my meets. That's pure sexual desire and need x although I guess I am passionate about sex...

But even though I do kiss just will avoid if possible, and need the lady to want to And enjoy kissing Mr, I do get a bit miffed at those that say without its cold as I can count on my fingers the amount of times guys have actually tried to kiss me during a meet x

Yet the women nearly always kiss Mr.. maybe I am a fugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must for me as it gets everything else going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing with the right person

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"No kissing = No passion = No point!

Yet I get told all the time how passionate I am and only really kiss Mr. Although to be fair passion isn't for my meets. That's pure sexual desire and need x although I guess I am passionate about sex...

But even though I do kiss just will avoid if possible, and need the lady to want to And enjoy kissing Mr, I do get a bit miffed at those that say without its cold as I can count on my fingers the amount of times guys have actually tried to kiss me during a meet x

Yet the women nearly always kiss Mr.. maybe I am a fugly "

Only one man has ever tried to kiss me, even before we mentioned it on our profile.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"No kissing = No passion = No point!

Yet I get told all the time how passionate I am and only really kiss Mr. Although to be fair passion isn't for my meets. That's pure sexual desire and need x although I guess I am passionate about sex...

But even though I do kiss just will avoid if possible, and need the lady to want to And enjoy kissing Mr, I do get a bit miffed at those that say without its cold as I can count on my fingers the amount of times guys have actually tried to kiss me during a meet x

Yet the women nearly always kiss Mr.. maybe I am a fugly

Only one man has ever tried to kiss me, even before we mentioned it on our profile."

obviously not one man ever in my whole life

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I kissing, I don't feel fully turned on without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex without kissing is like a hamburger without the burger.

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos

Can't beat a sexy snog

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By *ippingrugbyboyMan
over a year ago

Bishop's Stortford

It's part of the for play kissing

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

I love kissing but am always respectful of couples' limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what's your opinion on kissing on a meet? Ive had some nearly arranged to be told no kissing, usually couples! Just looking to see what rules people play too!"

I don't enjoy kissing, so I generally don't kiss on meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing and wouldn't meet someone if they weren't into it.

Also a bad kisser is very disappointing and horn killer

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

For me it needs to be like making love, which means kissing xxx

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Big part of it for me.

No kissing, no meet

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"For me it needs to be like making love, which means kissing xxx"

I think you've probably hit the nail on the head for lots of peoplewith that.

For me it's sex only so doesn't need that emotional and intimate connection that kissing brings.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"For me it needs to be like making love, which means kissing xxx"

I totally get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs doesn't mind kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it needs to be like making love, which means kissing xxx

I think you've probably hit the nail on the head for lots of peoplewith that.

For me it's sex only so doesn't need that emotional and intimate connection that kissing brings."

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By *endrix30Man
over a year ago

dudley

I love deep sensual kissing, it turns me on. I like to meet ladies who love to kiss.

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By *icked kittyCouple
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

There has to be kissing for us

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Mmm kissing with someone there's an attachment with is a must!!! As its amazingly sexy.

Kissing a stranger for me (Mrs) is unnecessary and a turn off to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand the no kissing thing it I'm honest, it's the ultimate aphrodisiac for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i was told no kissing then there wouldnt be a meet.....its a big turn on for me and something I'm great at

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

It's a must for me. ...no kissee no fuckee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing adds the the anticipation of what's to come for me there has to be kissing as it adds so much to a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing.. no meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree. I wouldn't meet anyone who had "Definitely NO kissing" on their profile. To me, it's a big part of playtime, plus, it really gets me going. No kissing = no meeting.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I always wonder why people feel they need to point out that they won't meet people who don't kiss. Nobody posts to say they won't meet people who say "no anal" they just assume that it's a preference that excludes them and move on to the next profile.

What is it about kissing that makes people so emphatic I wonder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not kissing while having sex is like going to a disco with out music!! So kissing is a definate yes for me.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Kissing, yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What no kissing !

Its one of the most sensual things two people can do , I adore it

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"For me it needs to be like making love, which means kissing xxx

I think you've probably hit the nail on the head for lots of peoplewith that.

For me it's sex only so doesn't need that emotional and intimate connection that kissing brings."

Bang on

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Love kissing ... but respect others preferences

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"I always wonder why people feel they need to point out that they won't meet people who don't kiss. Nobody posts to say they won't meet people who say "no anal" they just assume that it's a preference that excludes them and move on to the next profile.

What is it about kissing that makes people so emphatic I wonder?"

Again bang on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always wonder why people feel they need to point out that they won't meet people who don't kiss. Nobody posts to say they won't meet people who say "no anal" they just assume that it's a preference that excludes them and move on to the next profile.

What is it about kissing that makes people so emphatic I wonder?"

I wonder this myself. It's like if you don't enjoy it with casual strangers your some sub species. I adore kissing Mr, it makes my whole body come alive and tingle all over. It turns me on so much.. but afraid others at most make me think lets get on with it.. at worst I think God please let it be over ....

Yet for all these posts the amount of men in couples or singles who even try to kiss me are very few... And most of them is because Mr and their lady are kissing and they assume I want or need it... Or they dont want leaving out x single guys I'd say maybe two or three. ..aAnd I find sex works just fine with getting straight to it.

Kissing with a partner is amazing... With a meet It's just different

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

What always surprises me in this topic, the amount of single guys who say they wouldn't meet if they weren't kissing, pish and more pish. I'm sorry guys but if half these non kissers offered you a meet, damn sure you would not say no. Man up and stop conforming .

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"I always wonder why people feel they need to point out that they won't meet people who don't kiss. Nobody posts to say they won't meet people who say "no anal" they just assume that it's a preference that excludes them and move on to the next profile.

What is it about kissing that makes people so emphatic I wonder?

I wonder this myself. It's like if you don't enjoy it with casual strangers your some sub species. I adore kissing Mr, it makes my whole body come alive and tingle all over. It turns me on so much.. but afraid others at most make me think lets get on with it.. at worst I think God please let it be over ....

Yet for all these posts the amount of men in couples or singles who even try to kiss me are very few... And most of them is because Mr and their lady are kissing and they assume I want or need it... Or they dont want leaving out x single guys I'd say maybe two or three. ..aAnd I find sex works just fine with getting straight to it.

Kissing with a partner is amazing... With a meet It's just different "

For you that works, for others sex no kissing doesn't work.

Each their own surely

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"couples or singles who even try to kiss me are very few... And most of them is because Mr and their lady are kissing and they assume I want or need it... Or they dont want leaving out x single guys I'd say maybe two or three. ..aAnd I find sex works just fine with getting straight to it. "

Blimey, I get guys trying to kiss me on socials And one guy I met, who said he only kissed women he was in a relationship with, snogged my face off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always wonder why people feel they need to point out that they won't meet people who don't kiss. Nobody posts to say they won't meet people who say "no anal" they just assume that it's a preference that excludes them and move on to the next profile.

What is it about kissing that makes people so emphatic I wonder?

I wonder this myself. It's like if you don't enjoy it with casual strangers your some sub species. I adore kissing Mr, it makes my whole body come alive and tingle all over. It turns me on so much.. but afraid others at most make me think lets get on with it.. at worst I think God please let it be over ....

Yet for all these posts the amount of men in couples or singles who even try to kiss me are very few... And most of them is because Mr and their lady are kissing and they assume I want or need it... Or they dont want leaving out x single guys I'd say maybe two or three. ..aAnd I find sex works just fine with getting straight to it.

Kissing with a partner is amazing... With a meet It's just different

For you that works, for others sex no kissing doesn't work.

Each their own surely "

Yes but the difference is I don't tell those with Different preferences that they are odd or that they have cold impersonal sex.. or the other things that have been slung around.

And I will kiss a bit... I am just happy to admit that with people other than my partner, kissing doesn't Rock my world or turn me on..but I'm also saying I never say that I'm not keen, yet people are quite happy to give me a kiss And move on. I'm normally done and watching Mr as he is still happily kissing And touching and hasn't started on the sex bit yet x

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"I always wonder why people feel they need to point out that they won't meet people who don't kiss. Nobody posts to say they won't meet people who say "no anal" they just assume that it's a preference that excludes them and move on to the next profile.

What is it about kissing that makes people so emphatic I wonder?

I wonder this myself. It's like if you don't enjoy it with casual strangers your some sub species. I adore kissing Mr, it makes my whole body come alive and tingle all over. It turns me on so much.. but afraid others at most make me think lets get on with it.. at worst I think God please let it be over ....

Yet for all these posts the amount of men in couples or singles who even try to kiss me are very few... And most of them is because Mr and their lady are kissing and they assume I want or need it... Or they dont want leaving out x single guys I'd say maybe two or three. ..aAnd I find sex works just fine with getting straight to it.

Kissing with a partner is amazing... With a meet It's just different

For you that works, for others sex no kissing doesn't work.

Each their own surely

Yes but the difference is I don't tell those with Different preferences that they are odd or that they have cold impersonal sex.. or the other things that have been slung around.

And I will kiss a bit... I am just happy to admit that with people other than my partner, kissing doesn't Rock my world or turn me on..but I'm also saying I never say that I'm not keen, yet people are quite happy to give me a kiss And move on. I'm normally done and watching Mr as he is still happily kissing And touching and hasn't started on the sex bit yet x "

Yes and as i say what works for one wont work for another, personally for me kissing is essential so I wouldn't meet anyone that doesn't kiss, i suspect from how you talk, your partner would be the same, and not happy if the female didn't kiss.

Hey if we were all the same, swinging would become vanilla

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By *ottscpl2014Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/derby

We only kiss between ourselves. Its just one of the things that we both feel seperates sex from loving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no issue with those that kiss, don't kiss. Just can't understand this lack of treating it as a preference when it comes to it.

The grief on here the non kissers get.... And yes I admit if a woman doesn't want to kiss Mr it doesn't have the same fulfilment as the meets that they will.... But we have met and respected preferences.. It's just different... But it's the insistence so many have on the forum about kissing being a must yet in my many years experience.. even back when I didn't kiss. I have only refused a few times as simply guys were happy to have me start with oral x

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

Kissing is important for me personally.

A kiss can be a simple peck on the cheek as a hello, a lingering slow first kiss that simply blows my socks off or a full on rough passionate snog. I love kissing.

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