FabSwingers.com forum: Question about club fun

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When visiting a club with either another couple or going with someone who isn't in a relationship with you, would you expect them to be devoted to you only all night.

This is why we wouldn't normally go to a club asa group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't - unless it was agreed that we would!

Everyone's expectations are different so best to check what the people you're going with have in mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't. I wouldn't expect that if I was going with a partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't expect it either. Its quite easy to say so before you go too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's between you and the people going, how you all behave there should be discussed and decided on between yourselves, not the consensus of a group of strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, if we attend a club with a couple then we don't expect them to solely play with us.

We've gone to a club with a couple we know, split up for the night and then met up later on and gone back to theirs for a sleep over

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I would never attend a club with another person, as I have no wish to be tied to them for the evening. Happy to meet guys at the club though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If two singles are going as a couple, I think most clubs insist you stay together and don't just wander off and do your own thing...slightly different point to OP but just as relevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would discuss expectations beforehand. I've been with friends and stuck with them all night, and I've been with partners and not seen them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes agreed, It should be discussed before hand.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

I do this nearly every time I go to a club.

And I usually play it so that I will stick with the lady, but if she sees someone she likes, then I will go n do my own thing for a while, but keep my eye out for her and not wander too far.

I generally find this works, it's rare I get approached and rarely approch, I more use clubs as an amusement park for adults. Going for a look round more than anything.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Oh and we use the chewing gum rule for "I don't fancy xxxx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh and we use the chewing gum rule for "I don't fancy xxxx""

Whats the chewing gum rule lol

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

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"No I wouldn't - unless it was agreed that we would!

Everyone's expectations are different so best to check what the people you're going with have in mind!

Was going to say..them things are what you discuss before hand as it can be very uncomfortable if one wants to play with someone but the other doesn't. .way I done it was we play together or not at all but that was always the F call..so must've been doing someting right..right?

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We always play together as a couple because that's what we enjoy most, but if we went to a club with others we certainly wouldn't expect them to stay with us. If we did, why bother going to a club ? A hotel room would be better

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

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"We always play together as a couple because that's what we enjoy most, but if we went to a club with others we certainly wouldn't expect them to stay with us. If we did, why bother going to a club ? A hotel room would be better "

And that's it in a nutshell

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

"Oh and we use the chewing gum rule for "I don't fancy xxxx"

Whats the chewing gum rule lol

If one of you doesn't fancy the opposite partner, the ask if your "date" wants some chewing gum or something similar (many establishments don't allow gum).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh and we use the chewing gum rule for "I don't fancy xxxx"

Whats the chewing gum rule lol

If one of you doesn't fancy the opposite partner, the ask if your "date" wants some chewing gum or something similar (many establishments don't allow gum)."

oh i see, thats a good idea lol

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Yeah I get that and it fits your circumstances.

But I have the sexiest little Irish friend, who is desperate to experience a club.

She's been asking me for the last year and if I take her I think it's more appropriate to let her explore.

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