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"Hi guys ( and gals) Mrs is experimenting with a bit of exhibitionism, she's started to show lots of cleavage when out for drinks etc. She's willing to pop a nipple out of 1/4 cup bra if it feels right. Would she be better arranging a meet in coffee shop etc with a voyeur or perhaps just sit and wait to see if random guy try's to have a peek and then show s bit more ( accidental) " My (very unpopular) opinion is to arrange it with a consenting person. | |||
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"She's not planning on running into a coffee shop/bar with her tits flailing everywhere. Just be sitting in quiet corner with almost everything on show and if someone happens to take an interest then maybe showing more. We don't want to push this on anyone but there have been plenty of times she's not had much on show and guys have gone out of their way to try and look. Just a bit of harmless fun is all we want. " Go with the arranged meet option then. Would you consider it harmless fun for a man who noticed a woman looking at him to slip a testicle out in public? If so...go ahead. | |||
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"She's not planning on running into a coffee shop/bar with her tits flailing everywhere. Just be sitting in quiet corner with almost everything on show and if someone happens to take an interest then maybe showing more. We don't want to push this on anyone but there have been plenty of times she's not had much on show and guys have gone out of their way to try and look. Just a bit of harmless fun is all we want. Go with the arranged meet option then. Would you consider it harmless fun for a man who noticed a woman looking at him to slip a testicle out in public? If so...go ahead." | |||
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"She's not planning on running into a coffee shop/bar with her tits flailing everywhere. Just be sitting in quiet corner with almost everything on show and if someone happens to take an interest then maybe showing more. We don't want to push this on anyone but there have been plenty of times she's not had much on show and guys have gone out of their way to try and look. Nipples are nicer than testicle's lol Just a bit of harmless fun is all we want. Go with the arranged meet option then. Would you consider it harmless fun for a man who noticed a woman looking at him to slip a testicle out in public? If so...go ahead." | |||
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"She's not planning on running into a coffee shop/bar with her tits flailing everywhere. Just be sitting in quiet corner with almost everything on show and if someone happens to take an interest then maybe showing more. We don't want to push this on anyone but there have been plenty of times she's not had much on show and guys have gone out of their way to try and look. Just a bit of harmless fun is all we want. Go with the arranged meet option then. Would you consider it harmless fun for a man who noticed a woman looking at him to slip a testicle out in public? If so...go ahead." Sorry but I didn't think genitals and breasts are the same , so bit of a ridiculous comparison really | |||
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"There would be trouble if a guy or,girl on another table noticed and,they were off duty police officers. If,I was there with young children I'd also have something to say. " So if your in a public place and a woman has a bit of cleavage on show you would feel the need to say something?? Good luck with that , you must be telling people off all day long. | |||
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"She's not planning on running into a coffee shop/bar with her tits flailing everywhere. Just be sitting in quiet corner with almost everything on show and if someone happens to take an interest then maybe showing more. We don't want to push this on anyone but there have been plenty of times she's not had much on show and guys have gone out of their way to try and look. Just a bit of harmless fun is all we want. Go with the arranged meet option then. Would you consider it harmless fun for a man who noticed a woman looking at him to slip a testicle out in public? If so...go ahead. Sorry but I didn't think genitals and breasts are the same , so bit of a ridiculous comparison really " Your call. Like I said you have the option of doing it consensually. | |||
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"So a teenage boy of 12/13 happens to see do u really think that's appropriate? As said above if a man flashed it would be out of order. " Cleavage and male genitals are not the same, as for teenage boys seeing it's called being aware and sensible. We would never subject a minor to anything like that. | |||
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"So a teenage boy of 12/13 happens to see do u really think that's appropriate? As said above if a man flashed it would be out of order. Cleavage and male genitals are not the same, as for teenage boys seeing it's called being aware and sensible. We would never subject a minor to anything like that." In your op you said she would slip a nipple out of a quarter cup bra. That's not cleavage. | |||
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"She's not planning on running into a coffee shop/bar with her tits flailing everywhere. Just be sitting in quiet corner with almost everything on show and if someone happens to take an interest then maybe showing more. We don't want to push this on anyone but there have been plenty of times she's not had much on show and guys have gone out of their way to try and look. Just a bit of harmless fun is all we want. Go with the arranged meet option then. Would you consider it harmless fun for a man who noticed a woman looking at him to slip a testicle out in public? If so...go ahead. Sorry but I didn't think genitals and breasts are the same , so bit of a ridiculous comparison really " It's all public nudity and, as an ex restaurant owner, I'd have something to say as well. | |||
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"So a teenage boy of 12/13 happens to see do u really think that's appropriate? As said above if a man flashed it would be out of order. Cleavage and male genitals are not the same, as for teenage boys seeing it's called being aware and sensible. We would never subject a minor to anything like that. In your op you said she would slip a nipple out of a quarter cup bra. That's not cleavage." Still not the same as a bloke popping out a nut, we are just asking for honest opinions so please don't judge or come up with unrelated scenarios | |||
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"Still not the same as a bloke popping out a nut, we are just asking for honest opinions so please don't judge or come up with unrelated scenarios" You've had honest opinions - it's not a good idea. But you don't like those opinions and are arguing back. Getting a female nipple out in a public cafe is just as bad as getting a male plum out. But you think differently, so go for it and I hope you get caught | |||
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"And as stated you said nipples not cleavage. " Actually if you must not pick I said "nipple" Have you never seen a woman bend over on a train and show her hole breast? I have, perhaps I should've made a citizens arrest, that could've been an accident ... Or not. I've seen posts on here where women have flashed Lordy drivers on the motorway , surely that's more serious? | |||
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"So a teenage boy of 12/13 happens to see do u really think that's appropriate? As said above if a man flashed it would be out of order. Cleavage and male genitals are not the same, as for teenage boys seeing it's called being aware and sensible. We would never subject a minor to anything like that. In your op you said she would slip a nipple out of a quarter cup bra. That's not cleavage. Still not the same as a bloke popping out a nut, we are just asking for honest opinions so please don't judge or come up with unrelated scenarios" I haven't come up with an unrelated scenario I have made a comparison which you claim is ridiculous. I haven't judged, I've given you my opinion which based on my firm belief that any sexual activity should be consensual, is that you arrange something with someone who is in on it. | |||
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"Still not the same as a bloke popping out a nut, we are just asking for honest opinions so please don't judge or come up with unrelated scenarios You've had honest opinions - it's not a good idea. But you don't like those opinions and are arguing back. Getting a female nipple out in a public cafe is just as bad as getting a male plum out. But you think differently, so go for it and I hope you get caught " So I'm not allowed to answer any comments that you make .. Sorry judge judy | |||
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"And as stated you said nipples not cleavage. Actually if you must not pick I said "nipple" Have you never seen a woman bend over on a train and show her hole breast? I have, perhaps I should've made a citizens arrest, that could've been an accident ... Or not. I've seen posts on here where women have flashed Lordy drivers on the motorway , surely that's more serious?" I'm not sure why you feel you need to justify yourself to me. I hold a different opinion to you which I've expressed (I hope respectfully). Accidentally revealing a breast is not the same as "accidentally on purpose" revealing oneself for sexual pleasure...in my opinion. I don't agree with women flashing lorry drivers either. As I said it's your call...go for it. What's your back up plan if a man assumes your wife is up for sex? | |||
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"I don't understand. It's acceptable for men to obviously look down a woman's top but if the woman goes along with it then she's in the wrong? Really" Is it? | |||
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"Personally I would stick to a bar or pub. You know that there is almost no chance of a child seeing anything and it will be full of guys. Knowing men you wouldn't even have to show a nipped, just a large amount of cleavage will do the trick..." This sounds like good advice Thank you She is not planning on running round with nipples out but in a 1/4 cup bra sometimes her nipples pop out, glad you had something constructive to say. | |||
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"Personally I would stick to a bar or pub. You know that there is almost no chance of a child seeing anything and it will be full of guys. Knowing men you wouldn't even have to show a nipped, just a large amount of cleavage will do the trick... This sounds like good advice Thank you She is not planning on running round with nipples out but in a 1/4 cup bra sometimes her nipples pop out, glad you had something constructive to say. " Doesn't she wear anything over the bra? | |||
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"I don't understand. It's acceptable for men to obviously look down a woman's top but if the woman goes along with it then she's in the wrong? Really" Since when has it ever been 'acceptable' for a bloke to look down a woman's top??!! Do you live in the 1960s?? | |||
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"Since when has it ever been 'acceptable' for a bloke to look down a woman's top??!! Do you live in the 1960s?? " Exactly | |||
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"I don't understand. It's acceptable for men to obviously look down a woman's top but if the woman goes along with it then she's in the wrong? Really Since when has it ever been 'acceptable' for a bloke to look down a woman's top??!! Do you live in the 1960s?? " EXACTLY | |||
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"Since when has it ever been 'acceptable' for a bloke to look down a woman's top??!! Do you live in the 1960s?? Exactly " Just because it's not acceptable doesn't mean it doesn't happen. | |||
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"Yes she wears a blouse , at the right angle you can see her bra. So if everyone's so up in arms about a bit of breast on show why aren't we locking up celebs who show side boob and nipples on a regular basis? This has been blown well out of proportion, so once again... Thanks for your input . " Fab rule 2075 - NEVER ask for opinions if you won't like them | |||
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"Since when has it ever been 'acceptable' for a bloke to look down a woman's top??!! Do you live in the 1960s?? Exactly Just because it's not acceptable doesn't mean it doesn't happen. " You said it was | |||
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"Yes she wears a blouse , at the right angle you can see her bra. So if everyone's so up in arms about a bit of breast on show why aren't we locking up celebs who show side boob and nipples on a regular basis? This has been blown well out of proportion, so once again... Thanks for your input . Fab rule 2075 - NEVER ask for opinions if you won't like them " Opinions are like arseholes... We asked for advice, not to be compared with men that flash kids. | |||
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"Since when has it ever been 'acceptable' for a bloke to look down a woman's top??!! Do you live in the 1960s?? Exactly Just because it's not acceptable doesn't mean it doesn't happen. You said it was" I never said I agree with it , I said why is it accepted? | |||
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"Opinions are like arseholes... We asked for advice, not to be compared with men that flash kids." You want her to flash in a cafe. It's the same thing to the rest of us. Not to you though. But like I said before go for it and I hope you're arrested | |||
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"Yes she wears a blouse , at the right angle you can see her bra. So if everyone's so up in arms about a bit of breast on show why aren't we locking up celebs who show side boob and nipples on a regular basis? This has been blown well out of proportion, so once again... Thanks for your input . Fab rule 2075 - NEVER ask for opinions if you won't like them Opinions are like arseholes... We asked for advice, not to be compared with men that flash kids." YOU are the ones who mentioned flashing some unsuspecting random in a coffee house.... | |||
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"Opinions are like arseholes... We asked for advice, not to be compared with men that flash kids. You want her to flash in a cafe. It's the same thing to the rest of us. Not to you though. But like I said before go for it and I hope you're arrested " And like I said , we will have a re think. Thanks for your input | |||
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"Yes she wears a blouse , at the right angle you can see her bra. So if everyone's so up in arms about a bit of breast on show why aren't we locking up celebs who show side boob and nipples on a regular basis? This has been blown well out of proportion, so once again... Thanks for your input . Fab rule 2075 - NEVER ask for opinions if you won't like them Opinions are like arseholes... We asked for advice, not to be compared with men that flash kids. YOU are the ones who mentioned flashing some unsuspecting random in a coffee house...." Actually if you bother to read the question I asked if she should arrange a meet in a coffee shop. We are new to this and stupidly thought we could ask questions to more experienced people. You obviously just want to argue ! Crack on | |||
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"Yes she wears a blouse , at the right angle you can see her bra. So if everyone's so up in arms about a bit of breast on show why aren't we locking up celebs who show side boob and nipples on a regular basis? This has been blown well out of proportion, so once again... Thanks for your input . Fab rule 2075 - NEVER ask for opinions if you won't like them Opinions are like arseholes... We asked for advice, not to be compared with men that flash kids. YOU are the ones who mentioned flashing some unsuspecting random in a coffee house.... Actually if you bother to read the question I asked if she should arrange a meet in a coffee shop. We are new to this and stupidly thought we could ask questions to more experienced people. You obviously just want to argue ! Crack on " And to continue your OP - 'or perhaps just sit and wait to see if random guy try's to have a peek and then show s bit more ( accidental)' | |||
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"Yes she wears a blouse , at the right angle you can see her bra. So if everyone's so up in arms about a bit of breast on show why aren't we locking up celebs who show side boob and nipples on a regular basis? This has been blown well out of proportion, so once again... Thanks for your input . Fab rule 2075 - NEVER ask for opinions if you won't like them Opinions are like arseholes... We asked for advice, not to be compared with men that flash kids. YOU are the ones who mentioned flashing some unsuspecting random in a coffee house.... Actually if you bother to read the question I asked if she should arrange a meet in a coffee shop. We are new to this and stupidly thought we could ask questions to more experienced people. You obviously just want to argue ! Crack on And to continue your OP - 'or perhaps just sit and wait to see if random guy try's to have a peek and then show s bit more ( accidental)'" This was the question ... What's your point ??? We asked a question | |||
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"One Sunday afternoon Frisky went out wearing a sheerish blouse and a nice bra underneath. She had a fair amount of cleavage on show but nothing too outrageous, we were on our way to my parents for dinner. We had to pop into B&Q to get some paint for my mum. Well guys started crashing their trollies into things and a couple got a slap off their wives... We had to get the paint mixed, so needed assistance. The guy took the order from Frisky's cleavage. Once he got the paint mixer up and running, he just sat on the counter staring directly at Frisky's boobs. He was totally blatant... It goes to prove that it doesn't take a lot to get guys attention... " I find a bacon sandwich does the trick | |||
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"We are not sex pests , and for the picky ones it says "coffee shop ETC" could be a bar also." Could be a coffee shop too. | |||
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""Would she be better arranging a meet in coffee shop etc with a voyeur or perhaps just sit and wait to see if random guy try's to have a peek and then show s bit more ( accidental) " We asked this simple question! We are not sex pests , and for the picky ones it says "coffee shop ETC" could be a bar also. We have never ventured onto the forum before and will probably not do so again. " Well that would be a shame. It has been suggested to me on the forums that because we don't kiss our meets we are similar to prostitutes, because I don't shave all my pubic hair off I am similar to an ape, that because I ask questions I can't have any friends and many other things...it can be cut and thrust but it's all only words on a screen that you can choose to ignore or take to heart. Welcome, hope you hang around and you still didn't say if you've been to Eurekas or not. | |||
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""Would she be better arranging a meet in coffee shop etc with a voyeur or perhaps just sit and wait to see if random guy try's to have a peek and then show s bit more ( accidental) " We asked this simple question! We are not sex pests , and for the picky ones it says "coffee shop ETC" could be a bar also. We have never ventured onto the forum before and will probably not do so again. Well that would be a shame. It has been suggested to me on the forums that because we don't kiss our meets we are similar to prostitutes, because I don't shave all my pubic hair off I am similar to an ape, that because I ask questions I can't have any friends and many other things...it can be cut and thrust but it's all only words on a screen that you can choose to ignore or take to heart. Welcome, hope you hang around and you still didn't say if you've been to Eurekas or not." No we haven't , we are new to this and just wanted some advice | |||
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"You live in Crewe No shit Sherlock " And your saying "too posh" Haha | |||
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""Would she be better arranging a meet in coffee shop etc with a voyeur or perhaps just sit and wait to see if random guy try's to have a peek and then show s bit more ( accidental) " We asked this simple question! We are not sex pests , and for the picky ones it says "coffee shop ETC" could be a bar also. We have never ventured onto the forum before and will probably not do so again. Well that would be a shame. It has been suggested to me on the forums that because we don't kiss our meets we are similar to prostitutes, because I don't shave all my pubic hair off I am similar to an ape, that because I ask questions I can't have any friends and many other things...it can be cut and thrust but it's all only words on a screen that you can choose to ignore or take to heart. Welcome, hope you hang around and you still didn't say if you've been to Eurekas or not. No we haven't , we are new to this and just wanted some advice" Can I suggest a visit. There is a wooded area in which you could practice exhibitionism in a safe, consensual environment and I guarantee there would be plenty of willing participants. We wanted to try being watched while having sex outdoors and tried it there only to discover I didn't enjoy it as much as I thought I would. | |||
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"You live in Crewe No shit Sherlock And your saying "too posh" Haha" Meant a bistro was for getting your tits out | |||
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""Would she be better arranging a meet in coffee shop etc with a voyeur or perhaps just sit and wait to see if random guy try's to have a peek and then show s bit more ( accidental) " We asked this simple question! We are not sex pests , and for the picky ones it says "coffee shop ETC" could be a bar also. We have never ventured onto the forum before and will probably not do so again. Well that would be a shame. It has been suggested to me on the forums that because we don't kiss our meets we are similar to prostitutes, because I don't shave all my pubic hair off I am similar to an ape, that because I ask questions I can't have any friends and many other things...it can be cut and thrust but it's all only words on a screen that you can choose to ignore or take to heart. Welcome, hope you hang around and you still didn't say if you've been to Eurekas or not. No we haven't , we are new to this and just wanted some advice Can I suggest a visit. There is a wooded area in which you could practice exhibitionism in a safe, consensual environment and I guarantee there would be plenty of willing participants. We wanted to try being watched while having sex outdoors and tried it there only to discover I didn't enjoy it as much as I thought I would. " That might be an option, thanks | |||
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"You live in Crewe No shit Sherlock And your saying "too posh" Haha Meant a bistro was for getting your tits out" They do warm the spoons before popping them back in for you. | |||
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"You live in Crewe No shit Sherlock And your saying "too posh" Haha Meant a bistro was for getting your tits out They do warm the spoons before popping them back in for you. " Really? | |||
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"You live in Crewe No shit Sherlock And your saying "too posh" Haha Meant a bistro was for getting your tits out They do warm the spoons before popping them back in for you. Really? " Well! You clearly don't mix with the upper crust | |||
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"You live in Crewe No shit Sherlock And your saying "too posh" Haha Meant a bistro was for getting your tits out They do warm the spoons before popping them back in for you. Really? Well! You clearly don't mix with the upper crust " Unfortunately only the lower crust and greasy spoons | |||
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"I like to accidentally flash " Yes but you're American that doesn't count, its expected | |||
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"You live in Crewe No shit Sherlock And your saying "too posh" Haha Meant a bistro was for getting your tits out They do warm the spoons before popping them back in for you. Really? Well! You clearly don't mix with the upper crust Unfortunately only the lower crust and greasy spoons " Lower crust gets all the gravy | |||
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"You live in Crewe No shit Sherlock And your saying "too posh" Haha Meant a bistro was for getting your tits out They do warm the spoons before popping them back in for you. Really? Well! You clearly don't mix with the upper crust Unfortunately only the lower crust and greasy spoons Lower crust gets all the gravy " Oh ye, and I do like to dip me bread | |||
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"I like to accidentally flash " There'd be no feckin point in me flashing! No-one looks that far down!! | |||
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"One Sunday afternoon Frisky went out wearing a sheerish blouse and a nice bra underneath. She had a fair amount of cleavage on show but nothing too outrageous, we were on our way to my parents for dinner. We had to pop into B&Q to get some paint for my mum. Well guys started crashing their trollies into things and a couple got a slap off their wives... We had to get the paint mixed, so needed assistance. The guy took the order from Frisky's cleavage. Once he got the paint mixer up and running, he just sat on the counter staring directly at Frisky's boobs. He was totally blatant... It goes to prove that it doesn't take a lot to get guys attention... I find a bacon sandwich does the trick " Gets my vote... | |||
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