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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

come with the other female, either if your meeting another couple or a single female, or do you let him do absolutely everything else, but when he needs to come, do you insist he only does that with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I played with my partner I was happy for him to do what he wanted I was allowed to cum with another man or woman so he was ok to cum with another woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont mind where mine comes to be honest. He does find it difficult to come wearing a condom though, but the positive side of that is that he can go for ages. He either whips the condom off and the other lady will suck him and he can come that way, or he whips the condom off and comes to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

but I have spoken to a few ladies who have the rule of their guy not coming with another woman. And I guess if the guy comes only once then who does he make the choice to come with.

We just go with the flow, whatever feels right at the time , we wouldnt want to be in the position of stopping and starting

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

When we met couples he could absolutely come with the other woman

I would'nt have dreamt of saying its ok you can fuck her but you must only come with me

And how must that make the other woman feel? ok for a fuck but he's only allowed to finish himself off with the wife?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met couples in the past and been told that there man can't come with me,it as put me off playing I love to make a man cum it turns me on

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

i think thats abit daft really to say that what is the point?

i take alot to come so im yet to have anyone make me cum,been very close with one man but if they can make me or my husband cum then thats great lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must admit the fun part of playing is just letting go and enjoying yourself. Lots of rules would make me feel uptight and worried i was doing something wrong and therefore causing domestics!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt mind.. my problem is sharing cum full stop.. lol not just my partners.. its partly why I play with single guys rather than couples.. lol

As to sharing Masters cum.. not really had the chance, but I would so love to see a lady take a nice mouthful then us kiss and share it back that way.. :D

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never heard that one before, it seems just another form of insecurity on the woman's part.

We guess the partner of these "No cum males" is at liberty to come with who ever and where ever she wishes though?

If I suggested such a thing to Trace, I reckon she'd have me certified.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We think if you're going to swap you shouldn't hold anything back; kissing, cumming or whatever. Swinging is all about maximising sexual pleasure, why deny yourself any pleasure for any reason?

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Blimey, can you imagine the frustration if you're about to reach the point of no return and you're pulling a vinegar face... only to have to stop.

What an anticlimax it'd be - quite literally!

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Now get this its really odd. We play a lot at party's, Katee cums and cums with multiple partners. I don't! its like a mental block, seems that something stops me cumming and going limp in front of everyone yet afterwards when we are alone, no problem.

BUT if we are playing with just 1 couple I don't have a problem. I cum, go limp and get hard again for round 2!

In fact Katee thinks I am daft for not cumming in the group situation, its hard to explain this mental block.

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By *pecial bbCouple
over a year ago

london

Special loves my cum so much she doesn't like me to share it too often unless she bird splats lol.. but it can be hard to stop in the heat of the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what kind of person would moan about their partner cumming while having sex....i mean isnt that the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my man has learnt to seperate cumming and ejaculation, this means he gets the pleasure of cumming wherever and with whoever he likes but can place his spunk wherever he chooses ..mostly on me!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"come with the other female, either if your meeting another couple or a single female, or do you let him do absolutely everything else, but when he needs to come, do you insist he only does that with you

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No, i am a swinger,ffs this scene gets madder everyday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"come with the other female, either if your meeting another couple or a single female, or do you let him do absolutely everything else, but when he needs to come, do you insist he only does that with you

No, i am a swinger,ffs this scene gets madder everyday!"

yeah a rule like that seems crazy to me but whatever works for them i guess!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"come with the other female, either if your meeting another couple or a single female, or do you let him do absolutely everything else, but when he needs to come, do you insist he only does that with you

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What an extremely odd thing to conceder! To even contemplate having to pull out to come with your partner is bizarre to the extreme. Maybe a trip to your local swingers club and viewing what occurs would answer your question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the notion of denying a man coming whilst swinging is ridiculous , indeed if i was meeting a couple and the fem said she would insist the man only ejaculate and orgasm in her, id be getting my coat and leaving , insecurity red alert, and whilst everyones boundaries are different, I think this is very selfish and why bother allow him the experience...if it is only half the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jeeezzzzz its only spunk ,youd think it was gold dust ,who wanna scoop that up n run off with it pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont think it has anything to do with it being like gold dust, its all to do with power. After all having sex is gorgeous and everything, but some people would say that they only want their partner to completely let go and enjoy the exquisiteness of an orgasm with their partner and not a stranger.

the lady who messaged me was very clear about her rules, she in fact stated this right from the off, that her man was only allowed to come with her. Whilst that isnt in my rules and I agree with the majority here, if I wanted to play with this couple I would respect any rules they have. After all it doesnt matter how ridiculous, we make our own rules and stick with them.

We didnt meet them, they exchanged a few messages and that was it, but I would have worried about doing something that he wasnt allowed to experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what kind of person would moan about their partner cumming while having sex....i mean isnt that the point?"

An insecure one........or a bloody selfish one at least!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what kind of person would moan about their partner cumming while having sex....i mean isnt that the point?"
..... Erm.... Isn't that the point ? no it's about have naughty fun cummings is the end result

* creeps round graveyard *

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"jeeezzzzz its only spunk ,youd think it was gold dust ,who wanna scoop that up n run off with it pmsl "

Post of the day !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would of course not question Master on where he cums.. but he knows what a cum hungry little madame I can be..

I struggle to share cum full stop, let alone Masters..

I would just hope the girl whos mouth he filled would kiss me some back. I would be okay then.. :D Thats the only problem with one man two women.. never enough cum to go around in one go. :D

Then again 6 men one woman and still not enough..

Its the one thing you just can not have enough of..

Katie. xx

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

If someone had this as one of their 'rules' I'd jog on. I can't expect him to deny himself like that and worry about cumming in the wrong place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone had this as one of their 'rules' I'd jog on. I can't expect him to deny himself like that and worry about cumming in the wrong place!"

I had a woman give me really bad looks and I avoided her for the rest of the night in chams once as her hubby came in my mouth.. Apparently he was meant to have stopped.. lol

Oppssss...

Katie. x

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

The only restrictions we have are, we don't do any of the “Ps”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a strange idea that some woman would "allow" her man to do everything except cum with another woman.

Certainly if I read that on a profile I'd move along quickly.

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