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By *ungBlackTop OP   Man
over a year ago

salford

Kissing? huge turn on for fabbers or a big no no?

I find it horny to set the mood of what's to come (no pun intended). nice teeth and minty breath a must though. Find most fabbers are not into it, especially bi guys. why's that?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not for us thanks but we absolutely respect those who enjoy it and their right not to meet us.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Yes it's a must have. We love kissing each other

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Kissing is a must for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing? huge turn on for fabbers or a big no no?

I find it horny to set the mood of what's to come (no pun intended). nice teeth and minty breath a must though. Find most fabbers are not into it, especially bi guys. why's that?"

I've only been with one person who didn't kiss. It wS in France. He was so hot that I put up with it - put it did make the sex feel clinical and I wouldn't do it again! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't meet couples who don't kiss, much sexier with kissing

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

I love to kiss, feels clinical without x

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By *ungBlackTop OP   Man
over a year ago

salford

agreed. it just feels clinical that's the word. Feels very detached from the good, horny session it should be. Glad i'm not the only one that feels that...so I am normal ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not kissing = not playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing? huge turn on for fabbers or a big no no?

I find it horny to set the mood of what's to come (no pun intended). nice teeth and minty breath a must though. Find most fabbers are not into it, especially bi guys. why's that?"
no kissing no me its a prelude to all great sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not kissing = not playing "

totaly agree ...no point lol

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

Got to kiss

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Kissing is a huge turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kiss no play...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kiss no play... "

Same for us !

How can anyone that enjoys oral or fucking their playmate say kissing is too personal. ??

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet anyone who doesn't kiss but can you force someone to? I like a lot of kissing and I'd be put off if it wasn't reciprocated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing for me....big part of the sensuality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to kiss it tells me a lot about a man it's a big turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is so sexy but only when done well....nothing worse than a bad kisser....major turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't meet anyone who doesn't kiss but can you force someone to? I like a lot of kissing and I'd be put off if it wasn't reciprocated. "

No you can't force.. I just won't meet to begin with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kiss no play...

Same for us !

How can anyone that enjoys oral or fucking their playmate say kissing is too personal. ??

Xx"

Something I've never quite understood either x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love to kiss its a part of forplay,it gets me so hard mmm

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Kissing? huge turn on for fabbers or a big no no?

I find it horny to set the mood of what's to come (no pun intended). nice teeth and minty breath a must though. Find most fabbers are not into it, especially bi guys. why's that?

I've only been with one person who didn't kiss. It wS in France. He was so hot that I put up with it - put it did make the sex feel clinical and I wouldn't do it again! X"

Snap although not in France. Stupendously hot guy but no kissing spoilt it completely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is so sexy but only when done well....nothing worse than a bad kisser....major turn off "

Was going to say this.. Leave the hard probing tongue for other tasks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't meet anyone who doesn't kiss but can you force someone to? I like a lot of kissing and I'd be put off if it wasn't reciprocated.

No you can't force.. I just won't meet to begin with "

A man may say he loves kissing but doesn't kiss much when you meet. I don't want to feel like I'm forcing myself on someone.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We've never met any non kissers...It's all part of the foreplay leading up to kissing/licking everything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't meet anyone who doesn't kiss but can you force someone to? I like a lot of kissing and I'd be put off if it wasn't reciprocated.

No you can't force.. I just won't meet to begin with "
yes but they are not always going to tell you they don't kiss but I suspect when faced with you they would ,who could resist sorry having a little dream their carry on

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Kissing;

Simply the sexiest and most sensual thing you can do.

It is so expressive , you can communicate so much in a kiss.

If you don't kiss, there is no point in having sex.

Just my opinion .

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

A must have

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By *orkizCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

With its a real turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is so sexy but only when done well....nothing worse than a bad kisser....major turn off

Was going to say this.. Leave the hard probing tongue for other tasks "

Exactly. ...slow gentle kissing is much sexier !

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

kissings an absolute must for us

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Not kissing = not playing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't meet anyone who doesn't kiss but can you force someone to? I like a lot of kissing and I'd be put off if it wasn't reciprocated.

No you can't force.. I just won't meet to begin with yes but they are not always going to tell you they don't kiss but I suspect when faced with you they would ,who could resist sorry having a little dream their carry on "

It all starts with a kiss.. Or it doesn't start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely adore kissing. Slow and sensual to get into the mood, and then hard wet when you're both in the throws. mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't meet anyone who doesn't kiss but can you force someone to? I like a lot of kissing and I'd be put off if it wasn't reciprocated.

No you can't force.. I just won't meet to begin with

A man may say he loves kissing but doesn't kiss much when you meet. I don't want to feel like I'm forcing myself on someone. "

I don't get undressed until the kiss has made me want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is so sexy but only when done well....nothing worse than a bad kisser....major turn off

Was going to say this.. Leave the hard probing tongue for other tasks

Exactly. ...slow gentle kissing is much sexier ! "

And guaranteed to get my kit off

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

If I was meeting as a single woman then yes - I'd want to kiss. But we only play with single bi guys so kissing isn't high on our list of priorities.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"No kiss no play...

Same for us !

How can anyone that enjoys oral or fucking their playmate say kissing is too personal. ??

Xx

Something I've never quite understood either x"

It depends how you feel about kissing. If you feel it's an expression of your feelings for someone then you will only want to kiss passionately with someone you feel deeply for.

I don't understand why people insist on kissing because in my opinion it indicates that they are looking for a deeper connection than just sex.

Before I get flamed that is just how I feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kiss no play...

Same for us !

How can anyone that enjoys oral or fucking their playmate say kissing is too personal. ??

Xx

Something I've never quite understood either x

It depends how you feel about kissing. If you feel it's an expression of your feelings for someone then you will only want to kiss passionately with someone you feel deeply for.

I don't understand why people insist on kissing because in my opinion it indicates that they are looking for a deeper connection than just sex.

Before I get flamed that is just how I feel."

Absolutely bang on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't sleep with someone without kissing them first. How do you initiate sex if you can't kiss? Ive never met a person that wouldn't kiss and if they said no i couldn't go further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kiss no play...

Same for us !

How can anyone that enjoys oral or fucking their playmate say kissing is too personal. ??

Xx

Something I've never quite understood either x

It depends how you feel about kissing. If you feel it's an expression of your feelings for someone then you will only want to kiss passionately with someone you feel deeply for.

I don't understand why people insist on kissing because in my opinion it indicates that they are looking for a deeper connection than just sex.

Before I get flamed that is just how I feel."

Nope not looking for anything more than sex... Everybody is different.. Just personally can't get in the mood with out a sexy kiss.. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't sleep with someone without kissing them first. How do you initiate sex if you can't kiss? Ive never met a person that wouldn't kiss and if they said no i couldn't go further."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't sleep with someone without kissing them first. How do you initiate sex if you can't kiss? Ive never met a person that wouldn't kiss and if they said no i couldn't go further."

Many, many people do initiate sex without kissing - all of our meets for instance.

Strangely, many of the couples we know that DO kiss their meets - have had less veris, less repeat meets than us - yet according to some of them they needed to kiss, as it would make for better sex...a better connection...unlock the key to exploration and stretching boundaries...but they never saw them again? What happened to the kissing connecting them I wonder...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't sleep with someone without kissing them first. How do you initiate sex if you can't kiss? Ive never met a person that wouldn't kiss and if they said no i couldn't go further.

Many, many people do initiate sex without kissing - all of our meets for instance.

Strangely, many of the couples we know that DO kiss their meets - have had less veris, less repeat meets than us - yet according to some of them they needed to kiss, as it would make for better sex...a better connection...unlock the key to exploration and stretching boundaries...but they never saw them again? What happened to the kissing connecting them I wonder...

"

It's personal preference.just like everything else x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

M'Wah,m'wah,,,xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *evon DelightCouple
over a year ago

A town in Devon

Loooooove kissing. It is an important part for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't sleep with someone without kissing them first. How do you initiate sex if you can't kiss? Ive never met a person that wouldn't kiss and if they said no i couldn't go further.

Many, many people do initiate sex without kissing - all of our meets for instance.

Strangely, many of the couples we know that DO kiss their meets - have had less veris, less repeat meets than us - yet according to some of them they needed to kiss, as it would make for better sex...a better connection...unlock the key to exploration and stretching boundaries...but they never saw them again? What happened to the kissing connecting them I wonder...

It's personal preference.just like everything else x"

It is.

There's no right or wrong way to initiate sex.

kissing isn't the ignition key for everybody.

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By *ungBlackTop OP   Man
over a year ago

salford

It must be just a man thing then. I find gay or bi who are more gay and women tend to be ok with kissing but the DL bi men don't. Shame, kissing I agree is so sexy, it really sets the mood. how u can perform oral sex on someone and find kissing too personal is a conundrum to me also.

I must start to insist or no meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing, ( unless it's a gangbang ).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It must be just a man thing then. I find gay or bi who are more gay and women tend to be ok with kissing but the DL bi men don't. Shame, kissing I agree is so sexy, it really sets the mood. how u can perform oral sex on someone and find kissing too personal is a conundrum to me also.

I must start to insist or no meets. "

Haven't had the pleasure of a bi man yet.. Probably why

But everyone different bi/straight or gay so who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't sleep with someone without kissing them first. How do you initiate sex if you can't kiss? Ive never met a person that wouldn't kiss and if they said no i couldn't go further.

Many, many people do initiate sex without kissing - all of our meets for instance.

Strangely, many of the couples we know that DO kiss their meets - have had less veris, less repeat meets than us - yet according to some of them they needed to kiss, as it would make for better sex...a better connection...unlock the key to exploration and stretching boundaries...but they never saw them again? What happened to the kissing connecting them I wonder...

It's personal preference.just like everything else x

It is.

There's no right or wrong way to initiate sex.

kissing isn't the ignition key for everybody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kiss no play...

Same for us !

How can anyone that enjoys oral or fucking their playmate say kissing is too personal. ??

Xx

Something I've never quite understood either x

It depends how you feel about kissing. If you feel it's an expression of your feelings for someone then you will only want to kiss passionately with someone you feel deeply for.

I don't understand why people insist on kissing because in my opinion it indicates that they are looking for a deeper connection than just sex.

Before I get flamed that is just how I feel."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It must be just a man thing then. I find gay or bi who are more gay and women tend to be ok with kissing but the DL bi men don't. Shame, kissing I agree is so sexy, it really sets the mood. how u can perform oral sex on someone and find kissing too personal is a conundrum to me also.

I must start to insist or no meets. "

It's a conundrum to lots of people but if you aren't going to meet people who don't kiss why worry about it?

I don't like to exchange body fluids with anyone other than Mr N. that's part of why it's too personal for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kiss no play...

Same for us !

How can anyone that enjoys oral or fucking their playmate say kissing is too personal. ??

Xx

Something I've never quite understood either x

It depends how you feel about kissing. If you feel it's an expression of your feelings for someone then you will only want to kiss passionately with someone you feel deeply for.

I don't understand why people insist on kissing because in my opinion it indicates that they are looking for a deeper connection than just sex.

Before I get flamed that is just how I feel."
I personally am looking for a deeper connection than just sex and I think many here are

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By *ungBlackTop OP   Man
over a year ago

salford

Ahh sexy Gillette, you may think you haven't met a bi man yet off here but trust me you probably have met a DL (down low) one

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"No kiss no play...

Same for us !

How can anyone that enjoys oral or fucking their playmate say kissing is too personal. ??

Xx

Something I've never quite understood either x

It depends how you feel about kissing. If you feel it's an expression of your feelings for someone then you will only want to kiss passionately with someone you feel deeply for.

I don't understand why people insist on kissing because in my opinion it indicates that they are looking for a deeper connection than just sex.

Before I get flamed that is just how I feel. I personally am looking for a deeper connection than just sex and I think many here are "

Yes, you're right many people are, nothing wrong with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kiss no play...

Same for us !

How can anyone that enjoys oral or fucking their playmate say kissing is too personal. ??

Xx

Something I've never quite understood either x

It depends how you feel about kissing. If you feel it's an expression of your feelings for someone then you will only want to kiss passionately with someone you feel deeply for.

I don't understand why people insist on kissing because in my opinion it indicates that they are looking for a deeper connection than just sex.

Before I get flamed that is just how I feel. I personally am looking for a deeper connection than just sex and I think many here are "

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By *ungBlackTop OP   Man
over a year ago

salford

oh god I agree, everyone's different. I don't like many things so try and state my preferences before I meet someone. likeminded for likeminded. It was just a query really as I thought it must be me who thinks it's a bit cold (clinical) without kissing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"oh god I agree, everyone's different. I don't like many things so try and state my preferences before I meet someone. likeminded for likeminded. It was just a query really as I thought it must be me who thinks it's a bit cold (clinical) without kissing."

But you equate oral sex with kissing so if you indulged in that it wouldn't be cold and clinical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh god I agree, everyone's different. I don't like many things so try and state my preferences before I meet someone. likeminded for likeminded. It was just a query really as I thought it must be me who thinks it's a bit cold (clinical) without kissing."

I agree .. Others don't.. I've never had sex without kissing so can't comment on how it feels without.. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd settle for a kiss lol as a meet comes very very very rare on fab....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh god I agree, everyone's different. I don't like many things so try and state my preferences before I meet someone. likeminded for likeminded. It was just a query really as I thought it must be me who thinks it's a bit cold (clinical) without kissing.

But you equate oral sex with kissing so if you indulged in that it wouldn't be cold and clinical. "

Good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it's a must have. We love kissing each other "

We love to kiss too, each other and our fab swinging partners - have played without kissing at other person's request but they had to remind us a few times! wasn't disrespecting their boundaries ion purpose it just feels so natural to kiss whilst caressing ...in the end the best solution we found was for to prolong the oral play, that way our mouths were too busy to kiss!!!!m x

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By *ungBlackTop OP   Man
over a year ago

salford

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Don't mind either way, doing what comes naturally in the moment always feels right for me.

Mrs

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Yes it's a must have. We love kissing each other

We love to kiss too, each other and our fab swinging partners - have played without kissing at other person's request but they had to remind us a few times! wasn't disrespecting their boundaries ion purpose it just feels so natural to kiss whilst caressing ...in the end the best solution we found was for to prolong the oral play, that way our mouths were too busy to kiss!!!!m x"

We haven't actually met anyone yet, so not sure what boundaries would be set exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to kiss to set the mood.

There's nothing more of a turn on than a really good kiss. It can tell you a lot about what's to come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love seeing dawn kissing another guy and I enjoy kissing female in cpl's

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