FabSwingers.com forum: Married ladies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wonder what other peoples views are on this....

I prefer to meet married ladies.

I find that they know what they want.

They are more confident.

I have found that the ones I have met usually ( not always but a lot of the time ) have husbands who know exactly where they are and what they are up to...which means the lady feels safer which can only be a good thing. ...too many idiots out there for both sexes......

And also that even if there is a connection and you sleep together, a married lady isnt gonna be texting you and ringing you again and again because she has her husband to go back to.....

What are other peoples thoughts on this ?

We all know its not a dating site

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Being married doesn't mean all the above automatically follows and it doesn't mean that people won't fall in love with you or even become infatuated with you. It isn't a protective layer.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi nicecouple.

I was just saying what I have found to be MOSTLY true in my experience. .....

Not that there are any hard and fast rules or facts....

It is not a statement or a conclusion by myself.....just my experiences .

Hope that clears up any misunderstanding.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Forgot to say...and yes I certainly agree with you on your points..it is by no means a protective layer

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see being married as a massive string so wouldn't entertain the idea of meeting someone attached but obviously cannot comment about married women as I've never met one for fun! As for being more confident, there are plenty of confident single ladies on here like me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"And also that even if there is a connection and you sleep together, a married lady isnt gonna be texting you and ringing you again and again because she has her husband to go back to.....

Not in my case! Had the female half a couple text me loads after our second meet.

I just prefer the naughtiness of a married woman!

sometimes theres stuff that can't be tried in the marital bed!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think I may have not worded my post very well.....I used the word confident in context with the lady feeling safe within her surroundings. ..possibly because her husband knew where she was.....not confident because she was a confident lady naturally. .......bloody hell I have made a right mess of this lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Being married doesn't mean all the above automatically follows and it doesn't mean that people won't fall in love with you or even become infatuated with you. It isn't a protective layer."

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is a state of mind and not dependent on being married or single. What is the problem with a woman, whatever, her marital status being assertive in who they want and what they want from them?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I think I may have not worded my post very well.....I used the word confident in context with the lady feeling safe within her surroundings. ..possibly because her husband knew where she was.....not confident because she was a confident lady naturally. .......bloody hell I have made a right mess of this lol "

no you haven't, you've posted on a forum and as such can expect differing points of view.

Married people playing alone with their partners full knowledge and blessing is one thing and a woman might well feel secure in what she's doing however I would suggest (and its my opinion only) that doing it without a partners knowledge implies that the person is looking for something that's missing and the danger is that an attachment will form to anyone who supplies the missing element.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im very open minded...and actually agree with all comments so far...because they are comments about opinions or experiences from those people on this thread......

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread