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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies, can I ask you to take a quick look at my profile and tell me what I am doing wrong?

I know men are ten a penny around here, but I rarely get replies from women.

Just looking for some honest feedback in my profile.

Thank you.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Are you attached? Bareback photo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many cock pics and cant accomodate so probably married. Thats what Id think if you had messaged us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be put off by the bareback pic and the amount of cock pics too, and also the cannot accommodate with no explanation.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Too many cock pics and cant accomodate so probably married. Thats what Id think if you had messaged us."

....this plus...you appear open to anything so this can read as desperate plus from a personal perspective I can't stand hair and you aren't changing that so it would be a no from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Advice from a guy? Your name won't help. That and your pics implies that you are obsessed with your own cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too many cock pics but first thing that put me off was bare back pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's not happening through the forums / this site then start going to clubs. There are a few that do daytimes (eg Kestrels) if evenings are problematic for you. It is definitely the easiest way to start meeting people and interacting with people physically. Once you have those contacts, and all goes well, it becomes easier to arrange meets etc. The clubs can also be a lot of fun so there's plenty of upside to going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, can I ask you to take a quick look at my profile and tell me what I am doing wrong?

I know men are ten a penny around here, but I rarely get replies from women.

Just looking for some honest feedback in my profile.

Thank you. "

Your profile reads well so kudos for that. However you don't accommodate and a lot of women don't appreciate seeing dick pics on public display. We like to be surprised or if we want to see it, we'll ask! You also have too much of a bush going on. Smooth or trimmed right back is preferred. I personally don't want to have to push back a bush of pubes just to get to the full length without the risk of choking on pubes! . I also don't like see pics of the guy inside a woman on his profile. Yes I'm sure you're fabulous in bed but I'd like to see it for myself not have to see a pussy when I'm checking out a guy. All just my opinion though. Have a great day!

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"Advice from a guy? Your name won't help. That and your pics implies that you are obsessed with your own cock."

Yep: silly name;

Too much cock:

Cock obsession doesn't do it with most women.

Most don't give a toss how big your cock is.

Try implying that you have a big personality, instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"too many cock pics but first thing that put me off was bare back pic"

Agreed! A lot of guys like to try and say oh but that's my ex partner though . Right that old chestnut! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow - thank you guys, really appreciate the feedback!

Can I change my posting name? I've tried to do it for a while now as I thought the same thing as you - didn't take this place too seriously at first but now I enjoy the usage and the people.

Thank you all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Advice from a guy? Your name won't help. That and your pics implies that you are obsessed with your own cock."

Yeah - I shot porn in the UK for three months. The industry was only obsessed with a.) how big you are and b.) your stamina. I think a bit of that carried over to here!

Thank you for the advice sir.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Ladies, can I ask you to take a quick look at my profile and tell me what I am doing wrong?

I know men are ten a penny around here, but I rarely get replies from women.

Just looking for some honest feedback in my profile.

Thank you. "

More pics needed and I don't think the size of your cock is necessary information. Good luck with this thread

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Wow - thank you guys, really appreciate the feedback!

Can I change my posting name? I've tried to do it for a while now as I thought the same thing as you - didn't take this place too seriously at first but now I enjoy the usage and the people.

Thank you all. "

You would need to pay to upgrade to being a site supporter in order to change your name. Or the free way is to delete your account completely and start over fresh

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton


"[Removed by poster at 28/12/15 10:54:01]"

Become a site supporter and you will be able to change your name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't even bother reading your profile as my filters would stop at your user name

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

At least you have taken cock pics down, so that's good IMO. Profile text not too bad, so good luck. Clubs or socials maybe the way to go, as has been mentioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, can I ask you to take a quick look at my profile and tell me what I am doing wrong?

I know men are ten a penny around here, but I rarely get replies from women.

Just looking for some honest feedback in my profile.

Thank you. "

The two pics could be better, decent lighting cleaner backgrounds etc.

The text is however utterly pointless its just clichés and trying to be everything to everyone.

Theres no need to tell people you're clean etc as its expected if having had a shower is a selling point you need to sort things out.

Your straight and into the "fairer sex x followed by a "but"... so "bi if it gets me sex"

Your dominant but your submissive

Basicaly it says nothing and could be summed up into "I'll say whatever i have to to get a sniff of fanny".

Be honest say what your target meets are what you actually like and dislike. Put some kind of lersonality into it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Believe it or not, for the right person I can be anything I need to be. This is all about experiences, so yeah, I'm mostly Dom, but for the right person? I can sub. I'm experimental, and also find various things sexy. So I'm not ticking boxes, I'm just being me. But thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And thanks again to the newer posts - all appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Believe it or not, for the right person I can be anything I need to be. This is all about experiences, so yeah, I'm mostly Dom, but for the right person? I can sub. I'm experimental, and also find various things sexy. So I'm not ticking boxes, I'm just being me. But thank you. "

Great. But in text it screems "desperate"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And name changed too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not happening for me either but you wont finding me moaning about, just chill out about it and youre more likely to get what youre after.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Believe it or not, for the right person I can be anything I need to be. This is all about experiences, so yeah, I'm mostly Dom, but for the right person? I can sub. I'm experimental, and also find various things sexy. So I'm not ticking boxes, I'm just being me. But thank you. "

Maybe explain that In your profile. I can play switch to but Im clear I prefer to be submissive, to give people better insight into my preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need new pictures. Says you have a thick 9 inch penis but I can't see it? Take new pictures, take the clothes off the back of the chairs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need new pictures. Says you have a thick 9 inch penis but I can't see it? "

Stop getting ideas :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need new pictures. Says you have a thick 9 inch penis but I can't see it?

Stop getting ideas :p"

The man needs help, he can't go putting statements like that on his profile without the photographic evidence!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Need new pictures. Says you have a thick 9 inch penis but I can't see it?

Stop getting ideas :p

The man needs help, he can't go putting statements like that on his profile without the photographic evidence! "

You have mail.

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