FabSwingers.com forum: meets then blocks

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No doubt this has been on before but its really frustrating when you explain to people that we are married with kids and lives and we only do this for a bit of extra fun and to spice up our sex lives .we always say to them we will keep you in mind but the amount of men that call you timewasters is incredible have many others encountered the same attitude xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"No doubt this has been on before but its really frustrating when you explain to people that we are married with kids and lives and we only do this for a bit of extra fun and to spice up our sex lives .we always say to them we will keep you in mind but the amount of men that call you timewasters is incredible have many others encountered the same attitude xxxx"

If that is their attitude - then you are better off not meeting them.

The ones that are prepared to wait are the better option IMHO - like mee

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

We have a few that have messaged lately after meets. When we explained in our first few messages that we have just have a child and therefore won't be playing until we are happy and have care sorted, they blocked and deleted. No problem it helps us sort out those who aren't suitable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It totally depends on whether or not the couples who get called timewasters are actually wasting people's time .

It could be said that those looking to meet either of the couples on this thread must be aware that there isn't much to show that they meet frequently . So what do they expect ?

If either of the couples are engaging in chat with the offer of a meet , but when it actually comes to when that meet may occur , they dither or put it off - then yes the couples could be deemed timewasters .

If however , right from the start they make it clear it may take a while to arrange a meet , then it's the other person wasting their own time . Not the couple .

We are a coupe with a youngster , and since we have regular babysitters we trust , I guess we are lucky . It's not that difficult to sort though is it ?

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Yeah ours is a newborn so our babysitter network is still pre setup

we have to take time to work out who we can and can't trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may not want to wait around for someone to be ready or meet with people who have to rely on babysitters. I they aren't interested in meeting you it's best they block you

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By *om girlCouple (FF)
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Their just rude and ignorant people..people should respect your wishes and read your profile...some people msg without taking time to look what your situation are

Now we put in subject field you got to put V&S then delete all msg without reading if they not put it...

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