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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Does anyone else get fed up with unsolicited friend invites from people you have never spoken to, that dont meet your prefences at all (so obviously didn't read your profile), are on the other side of the country, who either have no pics at all or at least none to view?

Or is it just me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not long accepted my first without having spoken, I'm curious as to how long it takes him to speak ,let's call it my experiment

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I just delete without even looking at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why get fed up, its just a button to press to decline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why anyone would accept random friend invites. I expect the person sending the invite wants a sneaky peek at your private pics. Personally, unless I was expecting to meet, I wouldn't request or accept friend invites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just let them mount up, once they've sent it unless you respond, they can't send it again

I know .......... I'm a bitch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else get fed up with unsolicited friend invites from people you have never spoken to, that dont meet your prefences at all (so obviously didn't read your profile), are on the other side of the country, who either have no pics at all or at least none to view?

Or is it just me? "
they're wanting to look at pics so I make my friends pics private and accept then see if they message if they don't I delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure why anyone would accept random friend invites. I expect the person sending the invite wants a sneaky peek at your private pics. Personally, unless I was expecting to meet, I wouldn't request or accept friend invites. "

There's no face pics to see ,as there set to private,it's not hurting at the mo,so it's no hassle to me. I've given him a week to get in touch too long ?

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I've not long accepted my first without having spoken, I'm curious as to how long it takes him to speak ,let's call it my experiment "

I did this 3 months ago still waiting for a message and they look at my profile 3/4 times a week.

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By *unkydesignCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Get it all the time... We usually give them a week to chat then delete them if they don't. We don't have naked photos in our private pics, just faces and wearing clothes.

To be honest we're not into friend collecting on here like it's some competition to see who gets the most. Even if we chat to somebody, if we don't intend to play we eventually delete. Not quite sure why anybody would want to be "friends" on here if there was no play. For us at least it's the only reason we are on Fab. No offence intended to anybody who just come here for chat

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

We get a few. Just wait until they're offline, accept it and take a sneaky look at their friends pics then un-friend.

But then we're nosey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have no friend pics they get blocked.

we may accept off people who have met people we know

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"I just let them mount up, once they've sent it unless you respond, they can't send it again

I know .......... I'm a bitch! "

Me too same with winks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just add people to friends if i wanna be friends with them, don't even look in the requests any more.

It's on my profile that i don't add anyone except friends.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Just had my first unsolicited friend invite, it's a real shame that it's a "straight" male that wants to friend my straight male profile.

C...

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Yes, quite a few, always from " straight" blokes, or new " couples" that obviously are not couples....

Ignore/ delete/block .

I only send freind invites if invited to, or after messaging someone for awhile, in which case I ask them first.

Seems that's the " way it is intended to work"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else get fed up with unsolicited friend invites from people you have never spoken to, that dont meet your prefences at all (so obviously didn't read your profile), are on the other side of the country, who either have no pics at all or at least none to view?

Or is it just me? "

yes bores me stupid,,i ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else get fed up with unsolicited friend invites from people you have never spoken to, that dont meet your prefences at all (so obviously didn't read your profile), are on the other side of the country, who either have no pics at all or at least none to view?

Or is it just me? "
block and delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only have a few on freinds list,people ive met or talk to a lot....other than that i take no notice of requests or winks,just delete them all every couple of weeks..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not long accepted my first without having spoken, I'm curious as to how long it takes him to speak ,let's call it my experiment "

Leave it there if he doesn't as he can't click to friend again unless you delete

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I always message back and forth a few times then always ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not long accepted my first without having spoken, I'm curious as to how long it takes him to speak ,let's call it my experiment "

I like your thinking, I am going to do this next time I get one from someone I have never spoken to, just in the name of research!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get them very often!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"I don't get them very often! "

Think I might send you a friend request at a random time in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We still get them proves to us that they have not read the profile

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I just let them mount up, once they've sent it unless you respond, they can't send it again

I know .......... I'm a bitch! "

I do this too. But I'm not a bitch

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By *aneSmith5TV/TS
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Getting friends invites I find flattering, however trying to chat to them they just delete messages or block you after seeing your friend photos.

WHY ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even funnier when I get winks or invites from gay/bi men the other end of nowhere....when my profile clearly says straight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else get fed up with unsolicited friend invites from people you have never spoken to, that dont meet your prefences at all (so obviously didn't read your profile), are on the other side of the country, who either have no pics at all or at least none to view?

Or is it just me? "

No not just you I got fed up getting them not had any since I made all my pics public

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral


"I just delete without even looking at them"

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By *eescpl69Couple
over a year ago

cleveland

its usually from people hoping they gonna see face pic in private photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 routes in dealing with random friend invites

Ignore & delete

Accept, check private pics, then block

Simples x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'm happy to receive and accept friend requests my profile says as such.. there's nothing to see in my private pictures they couldn't see in my public gallery...

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