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By *mm_n_Zed OP   Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

On Christmas Eve I (Emm) went to the cemetery to visit my son's grave. There were a lot of fallen leaves and I tripped over a concrete grave edging because it was obscured and pitched face-first into an old marble headstone.

I have several nasty lacerations, grazes and a fractured eye socket - it all looks very unsightly. We were planning to go to Abfabs bi night this Monday coming - I don't expect to play and I'll be avoiding the pool and hot tubs but Zed might get the chance to do all that so here's my question... what would you do? Would you still go along even if you looked like you'd done 10 rounds with Mike Tyson? Should I go along and risk people doing a double take in horror? Or should I stay away so I don't shock people?

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By *keg funCouple
over a year ago

SKEGNESS

go and have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd still go. No idea what the theme is for that night but maybe get a masquerade mask and wear something glamourous.

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By *mm_n_Zed OP   Couple
over a year ago

Fareham


"I'd still go. No idea what the theme is for that night but maybe get a masquerade mask and wear something glamourous. "

It's a bi night so no theme - maybe I'll go and just wear something really tame and unobtrusive so I blend into the background lol

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By *anie1000Woman
over a year ago

Staffs

Ouch! Nasty bit of bad luck.

Apart from applying ice packs to your swollen face I would start taking arnica which will reduce pain and swelling. I hope you go out and have fun anyway. Just tell them you cut yourself shaving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear about that, sounds very nasty, but for me id not go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get some arnica from boots. It will bring the bruising out quicker and will fade quicker.

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I'd go....

To your local council and lodge a complaint and inform them that your taking legal advise...

Then I'd go to the social meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tell your playmates to be gentle - and hope you heal soon xx

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

If I was your partners I would opt for a cosy night in and look after you... There is plenty of other party nights and I would not want to go if my lady couldn't play or join in the fun because she felt fragile or uncomfortable

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'd skip it, personally

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I'd wait and see how it looked on Monday and then make a decision. Tbh if you're feeling selfconscious being there then you probably won't enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a good chance if it looks bad now that t it will look even worse then. See what it looks like and if it is bothering you don't go

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By *argaryen starkCouple
over a year ago

pinxton


"If I was your partners I would opt for a cosy night in and look after you... There is plenty of other party nights and I would not want to go if my lady couldn't play or join in the fun because she felt fragile or uncomfortable "
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On Christmas Eve I (Emm) went to the cemetery to visit my son's grave. There were a lot of fallen leaves and I tripped over a concrete grave edging because it was obscured and pitched face-first into an old marble headstone.

I have several nasty lacerations, grazes and a fractured eye socket - it all looks very unsightly. We were planning to go to Abfabs bi night this Monday coming - I don't expect to play and I'll be avoiding the pool and hot tubs but Zed might get the chance to do all that so here's my question... what would you do? Would you still go along even if you looked like you'd done 10 rounds with Mike Tyson? Should I go along and risk people doing a double take in horror? Or should I stay away so I don't shock people?"
get better first ,surely you can't be that much in need ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was your partners I would opt for a cosy night in and look after you... There is plenty of other party nights and I would not want to go if my lady couldn't play or join in the fun because she felt fragile or uncomfortable this"

Get well soon OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

look where ur going next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definately wouldn't go .

As you say it will shock people , and the story behind it will hardly be one to help people who ask have a good night will it ?

Sorry this happened to you , there will be plenty more nights in the new year ahead . Get better soon . And the arnica will certainly help .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a grave decision you have to make,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id probbaly not go tbh

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By *mm_n_Zed OP   Couple
over a year ago

Fareham


"On Christmas Eve I (Emm) went to the cemetery to visit my son's grave. There were a lot of fallen leaves and I tripped over a concrete grave edging because it was obscured and pitched face-first into an old marble headstone.

I have several nasty lacerations, grazes and a fractured eye socket - it all looks very unsightly. We were planning to go to Abfabs bi night this Monday coming - I don't expect to play and I'll be avoiding the pool and hot tubs but Zed might get the chance to do all that so here's my question... what would you do? Would you still go along even if you looked like you'd done 10 rounds with Mike Tyson? Should I go along and risk people doing a double take in horror? Or should I stay away so I don't shock people? get better first ,surely you can't be that much in need ? "

No - I'm not in 'need' at all. I rarely play when I go to a club but like the atmosphere. We can rarely make it to a bi night and were looking forward to it (I love seeing Z play with another guy). But I'll take all the comments on board and think it over Thanks everyone.

Emm x

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By *mm_n_Zed OP   Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

Having discussed the situation, we've decided to give this bi night a miss - there will be other opportunities.

Thanks for all your points of view - they were very helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your happy with going dont worry what other ppl think.

But if your not comfy with it dont go you qont enjoy ur night if your to worried what others think

Hope you have a great night either way xx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Hope you recover quickly, sounds like an awful thing to happen.

It all depends on how you feel. If you feel up for it then go. If not don't.

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Having discussed the situation, we've decided to give this bi night a miss - there will be other opportunities.

Thanks for all your points of view - they were very helpful "

I hope you recover quickly x

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By *eteinhantsMan
over a year ago

Southsea

Definitely reccommend Arnica for the bruising, and hope the fracture mends quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy a mask. See to the fun.

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