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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was wondering the school of thought on this here.

I'm going to say it depends.

Now guys being made to eat for the humiliation factor aren't gay even if they love being humiliated this way. But if eating guys cum is a huge turn on for you for the sake of love of cum even if its your own You Must be at least bi

. I know this is a subject people feel

strongly about so dont hold back

Id also like to know what you think is wrong with everyone elses cum.

Are you a cum snob?

Is our cum inferior?

Help me out here in understanding your self cum exclusivity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im bi so this post doesnt really concern me but you are saying that a straight guy swallowing some of his own come must be bi

does eating a carrott mean you are a rabbit?

i think not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im bi so this post doesnt really concern me but you are saying that a straight guy swallowing some of his own come must be bi

does eating a carrott mean you are a rabbit?

i think not "

No but a regular diet of carrots would increase the odd of you being a rabbit. Anyway This has nothing to do with rabbits and carrots it is to do with taking cum and if it affects your sexuality. After all strait men are assumed not to have a cum fetish and the need or desire to indulge in eating cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im straight but dont mind my own..

seems petty if a lady just took your load and you go all eeewwwwwww..

dont mind passing it back either...

so no not gay...

can see how cleaning up another mans is very sub and cuckold though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

therefore if a bi or gay lad doesnt like to eat come, which many dont, does that he must really be straight? no it doesnt does it?

i refer to your profile second paragraph first line which says you are 'non judgemental' so therefore you shouldnt really question other peoples fetishes and certainly not there sexuality,people are what they are and like what they like my friend x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that last post of mine was in reply to the OP by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got it was not aimed at me!

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

I don't see the 2 as being mutually exclusive - there will be straight guyswho do it, similarly there'll be gay or bi guys who don't do it.

Whatever floats your boat really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"therefore if a bi or gay lad doesnt like to eat come, which many dont, does that he must really be straight? no it doesnt does it?

i refer to your profile second paragraph first line which says you are 'non judgemental' so therefore you shouldnt really question other peoples fetishes and certainly not there sexuality,people are what they are and like what they like my friend x"

*Nods in agreement*

Well said!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

And silly little me thought that being gay or bi meant you had feelings, sexual or otherwise, that you acted upon for the same sex.

Nothing to do with what tastes you like going down the back of your throat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think every man as tasted his own cum just to know what it tastes likes,plus when a man as cum into my mouth hes kissed me,so again tasting his own cum,nothing to do with being bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if a woman is playing with her pussy and she licks her fingers, does that make her a lesbian?

I really dont think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your own, I wouldnt bat an eyelid, although someone elses - I'd wonder what 'label' that even came under.

Que the "I hate labels" replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no...I'm a lesbian I'm a lesbian.....jeez

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Hahahaha! This thread made me giggle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP must be trolling, right, noone really thinks like that? Do they?

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By *andsomgeorgeMan
over a year ago

Rugby


"I think every man as tasted his own cum just to know what it tastes likes,plus when a man as cum into my mouth hes kissed me,so again tasting his own cum,nothing to do with being bi"

I love to kiss after receiving a blow job and passing my cum between us. I find it very erotic. I wouldn't expect a woman to do something I wasn't prepared to accept myself - the same goes for anal play. Still not bi though. Just believe in reciprocity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would certainly make you very adventurous but GAY?

That’s like saying men who play with themselves must be GAY or BISEXUAL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP must be trolling, right, noone really thinks like that? Do they?"

In the dark ages maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be bi...I touch my pee pee when I have a tinkle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its your own, no

If its somebody elses, gay or bi if you have sex with women.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I must be bi...I touch my pee pee when I have a tinkle "

Sicko...

...what on earth did you think the bog brush was for???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its your own, no

If its somebody elses, gay or bi if you have sex with women."

I’m sure sexuality is based on more than what we all eat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be bi...I touch my pee pee when I have a tinkle

Sicko...

...what on earth did you think the bog brush was for??? "

I feel like such a fool...it's obvious now!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"If its your own, no

If its somebody elses, gay or bi if you have sex with women.

I’m sure sexuality is based on more than what we all eat "

What on earth gave you that idea?! I bet it was in the same book as the one about not getting preggers if you have sex standing up!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"If its your own, no

If its somebody elses, gay or bi if you have sex with women.

I’m sure sexuality is based on more than what we all eat

What on earth gave you that idea?! I bet it was in the same book as the one about not getting preggers if you have sex standing up! "

I've got that one, its by Papal Press.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think all men should know what there cum taste like ....... thay love us woman to drink it ..... why not them too ... at times if i am playing kinky games with a man i make them cum in a glass and drink it sorts the men from the boys. lol

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I think all men should know what there cum taste like ....... thay love us woman to drink it ..... why not them too ... at times if i am playing kinky games with a man i make them cum in a glass and drink it sorts the men from the boys. lol"

I'm a boy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that long ago a woman asked me to cum all over her clit and pussy after having sex with her and then lick her clean. I did and she had 2 very powerful orgasms, she said the feeling of it just drove her wild. I`ve tasted my own cum many times but it was exceptionally good tasting it like that I also love to kiss a woman if she has my cum in her mouth after giving me a blowjob. However I would draw the line at doing the same things with another guys cum instead of my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a lateral thinker ... I just looked at the OP's town location and gathered from that he's making a statement about his own already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive licked my wifes pussy after cumin on/in her.... does that mean im bi/gay errrrr NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby likes snowballing with me only ... can defo say he's not Bi in anyway.

* sits on coffin *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a variant of this called the Star Trek transporter accident.

Back story, the transporters in ST effectively make a copy of you at the destination and destroy the "original".

If you could meet your original before been destroyed and no one would know, would you have sex with yourself? Technically it would be gay sex.

Thoughts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a variant of this called the Star Trek transporter accident.

Back story, the transporters in ST effectively make a copy of you at the destination and destroy the "original".

If you could meet your original before been destroyed and no one would know, would you have sex with yourself? Technically it would be gay sex.

Thoughts..."

Fancy a shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a variant of this called the Star Trek transporter accident.

Back story, the transporters in ST effectively make a copy of you at the destination and destroy the "original".

If you could meet your original before been destroyed and no one would know, would you have sex with yourself? Technically it would be gay sex.

Thoughts...

Fancy a shag?"

Me or the mythical copy of yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a variant of this called the Star Trek transporter accident.

Back story, the transporters in ST effectively make a copy of you at the destination and destroy the "original".

If you could meet your original before been destroyed and no one would know, would you have sex with yourself? Technically it would be gay sex.

Thoughts...

Fancy a shag?

Me or the mythical copy of yourself?

"

Which answer would get me laid?

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By *hatsthisMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By *hatsthisMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Dont think you would need an answer to get laid x

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"I think every man as tasted his own cum just to know what it tastes likes,plus when a man as cum into my mouth hes kissed me,so again tasting his own cum,nothing to do with being bi"

I've not knowingly done so

Although I have kissed after having a blow job so I must have had some in my mouth. But I guess I was so engrossed in everything else that was going on that I didn't even notice the taste.

I find the smell of cum pretty off putting, and I don't generally like the taste of things I don't like the smell of... although, paradoxically, I don't like the taste of coffee yet I love the smell of it.

I honestly wouldn't say that I am homophobic, and I'm not repressed sexually - I just don't find the idea of intentionally sampling my own cum appealing.

Are any other males like this, or am I alone in not wanting to drink my own semen?

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

its come from ur own body so no u cant be gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this thread has made me chuckle no end!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like snowballing and alot of women love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its come from ur own body so no u cant be gay"
lolol yes its cun from there body thay should drink it up put hairs on there chests. lol We keep getting told its good for us and our skin , lol

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

lol the things the say to try and get us to eat it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once did a snowball. was wierd but very a bloody horny experience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I reckon" if a man wants to cum in his partners mouth he must be able to take it in his own mouth in return. Most women do not like it and i would think that most straight men would not like it. But why put your partner through it if you are not prepared to go through with it. When a man cums in his partners mouth and she cant swallow where is she supposed to put it if your on top of her. Spit it on the sheets, the floor?, or better still back into tyour gob. Afterall its your spunk and youve just had the kick of cumming in her mouth so i think its only fair for the bloke to take it back in his mouth, be you straight, bi, or gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once cum in my ex-partners mouth wothout telling her i was going to cum. This was ok though as we were together for quite a while. She was giving me a BJ in my car and she went to spit it on the floor, I yelled Nnoooo! She couldnt open the door as she had nothing on but a short skirt so was completely topless with her knickers around her ankles and if she opened the door the inside light would come on. So she grabbed me and spat it back in my mouth. I hated it but struggled to drive short distance home for laughing. We continued to swap if i wanted to cum in her mouth (on condition i didnt tell her when i was about to cum haha) - made me appreciate though how difficult it is for some women to take spunk in their mouth. Even if you spit it out almost straight away the taste and texture still sticks to your throat for a little while afterwards.

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By *vor Bigun 69!Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Im 100% str8 but I love 2 lick a pussy after a guy spunked up it, dead sexy 4 me. Any1 fancy it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol as i said in previous post, i dont mind my own on or in pussy but no other mans eeewwwww no offence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its come from ur own body so no u cant be gay lolol yes its cun from there body thay should drink it up put hairs on there chests. lol We keep getting told its good for us and our skin , lol"

I don't have a problem with lapping it from a woman's soft skin, indeed I do it all the time and find the act incredibly intimate and horny.

But to think it may put extra hairs on my chest doesn't float my boat at all, I make sure I'm smooth as a Galaxy Ripple on my body, just to have more hair appear in its place than before? I wish someone had told me about this side effect....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"therefore if a bi or gay lad doesnt like to eat come, which many dont, does that he must really be straight? no it doesnt does it?

i refer to your profile second paragraph first line which says you are 'non judgemental' so therefore you shouldnt really question other peoples fetishes and certainly not there sexuality,people are what they are and like what they like my friend x"

No you have me totally wrong there I am not judgemental just inquisitive to other peoples point of view on this subject. I am quite happy for everyone to do as they wish. After all swinging as all about giving and receiving pleasure. I am just exploring some of the many different avenues that can be taken in a sexual trip of exploration.

What I am trying to ascertain is at what stage does ones sexuality make a change. Are there stages of bi-ness. Is heterosexuality all or nothing. I have had to look long and hard at my sexuality and my viewpoint changes on a regular basis. it is always informative to get others viewpoints on things.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

I have been known to partake in my own spunk on occasion but for purely practical and pragmatic reasons.

I LOVE it when a girl swallows mine or take it in the mouth - if she's reluctant I'll cum on her tits and lick it off to show its no big deal - after all if I have an aversion to my own I can hardly expect someone to swallow someone elses now can I?

or sometimes if I'm feeling particularly filthy I'll cum in her mouth and then snog her before she swallows it

too much information perhaps?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Im 100% str8 but I love 2 lick a pussy after a guy spunked up it, dead sexy 4 me. Any1 fancy it?"

But you are ONE HUNDRED PER CENT straight.

Right?

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"

But you are ONE HUNDRED PER CENT straight.

Right?"

I think you need to get your head around cuckolding - that is a major aspect of it for some people - its filled with seeming contradictions and dichotomies but once you have tried it and understand it it makes sense.

For example a lot of so-called "sissy hubbies" are in real life strong alpha males, but they enjoy the requisition of their power and authority in sexual fantasy scenarios - in just the same way that powerful and assertive career women like to be submissive in the bedroom.

it has nothing to do with silly last century labels like gay, straight or bi, and everything to do with imagination, power, and control

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"

But you are ONE HUNDRED PER CENT straight.

Right?

I think you need to get your head around cuckolding - that is a major aspect of it for some people - its filled with seeming contradictions and dichotomies but once you have tried it and understand it it makes sense.

For example a lot of so-called "sissy hubbies" are in real life strong alpha males, but they enjoy the requisition of their power and authority in sexual fantasy scenarios - in just the same way that powerful and assertive career women like to be submissive in the bedroom.

it has nothing to do with silly last century labels like gay, straight or bi, and everything to do with imagination, power, and control

"

I know.

The point I was making was a different, more obtuse, one.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"

I know.

The point I was making was a different, more obtuse, one."

ah ok - obtuse is my middle name

(my parents were cruel)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But you are ONE HUNDRED PER CENT straight.

Right?

I think you need to get your head around cuckolding - that is a major aspect of it for some people - its filled with seeming contradictions and dichotomies but once you have tried it and understand it it makes sense.

For example a lot of so-called "sissy hubbies" are in real life strong alpha males, but they enjoy the requisition of their power and authority in sexual fantasy scenarios - in just the same way that powerful and assertive career women like to be submissive in the bedroom.

it has nothing to do with silly last century labels like gay, straight or bi, and everything to do with imagination, power, and control

"

I think you are a little confused as to what an alpha male is. Your thinking about men who have jobs that involve wielding a large amount of control and power. A classic example would be someone like Bill Gates. As a man he wields an incredible amount of power but he would openly smirk if you referred to him as an alpha male.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

getting back on topic tho....

I think I get the OP's point.

There seems to be a percepion that a guy who isn't completely terrified and repuled by either his own, or someone eles baby batter must somehow be bisexual.

Which is complete bollocks.

I'm going to be a contrarian bastard and say that if you are afraid on yours or any other blokes jizz, then you shouldn't be a member of this site.

In my time I've had my own or someone else's man milk hit my cheek, on my hands, on pretty much any body part you would care to mention - and on one occasion - during a couples first experience of a DP - had a bloke accidently cum on my bollocks (it was their fist time and he got carried away and apologised afterwards so thats ok). Now while this isnt something I'd wish for, as a single swingle male, its as much of an occupational hazard as a bit of accidental sword crossing, or the fact that you will have to catch a look at another naked bloke with a hard-on. If you cant handle the thought - le alone the reality - of that guys .... and if you really think that the possibility of (pardon the pun) coming across that type of situtation is too much for you.....

......... then DatingDirect.com is that way

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

But surely there's a difference between having cum inadvertently land on a part of your body and willingly swallowing it?

I don't think many people here would freak out if they got someone else's cum on their skin, but I'd be inclined to believe that not every male will drink another man's semen - although clearly some will, as demonstrated by this thread.

Thoughts...?

ps - the Leslie Nielsen joke is there ready for the taking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But surely there's a difference between having cum inadvertently land on a part of your body and willingly swallowing it?

I don't think many people here would freak out if they got someone else's cum on their skin, but I'd be inclined to believe that not every male will drink another man's semen - although clearly some will, as demonstrated by this thread.

Thoughts...?

ps - the Leslie Nielsen joke is there ready for the taking."

If they started selling cum tomorrow as a dressing, would any male who ate it be bi or gay?

I'll even go as far as assuming if all men could suck there own cock that they'd all be doing it, and no it still wouldn't make them gay.

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