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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why is it when somebody messages you at the last minute asking for a meet but say you have to be there in about 10 minutes so you politely decline as you couldnt possibly get there in that time do they insist on messaging you later telling how good a time they had with somebody else i have had that 3 times this week does anybody else get the same type of messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is it when somebody messages you at the last minute asking for a meet but say you have to be there in about 10 minutes so you politely decline as you couldnt possibly get there in that time do they insist on messaging you later telling how good a time they had with somebody else i have had that 3 times this week does anybody else get the same type of messages?"

They're horny !! Take it as a compliment !

No good having to wait an hour when they want it now.

I've only ever had one kind of 'statement' for declining in that way and then we did meet and it was great !

The site is abused too though ...

If someone really wants to meet they will make sure they can.

Live n learn ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"why is it when somebody messages you at the last minute asking for a meet but say you have to be there in about 10 minutes so you politely decline as you couldnt possibly get there in that time do they insist on messaging you later telling how good a time they had with somebody else i have had that 3 times this week does anybody else get the same type of messages?

They're horny !! Take it as a compliment !

No good having to wait an hour when they want it now.

I've only ever had one kind of 'statement' for declining in that way and then we did meet and it was great !

The site is abused too though ...

If someone really wants to meet they will make sure they can.

Live n learn ..."

oh dont get me wrong im not complaining i just find it a strange thing to do as i did actually want these meets but such short notice i would have needed a helicopter to get there and after i declined it was understood why but sending messages teliing me what i missed reminds of bullseye and jim bowan saying "look at what you could have had"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clap Clap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one message like that after i had diclined, i just sent a message back saying glad you had fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had one message like that after i had diclined, i just sent a message back saying glad you had fun "

thats exactly the reply i gave x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully, no.

If I ever come across such an infantile individual he'd be blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so was he lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Thankfully, no.

If I ever come across such an infantile individual he'd be blocked! "

[hides behind curtain...]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have people mailing saying passing you on the way to a job 10 mins can i call in ........ I like to look my best on meet shower .. bath and hair nails make-up smell lovely and if i am just coming back from horses not easy in 10 mins , lol i like 1/ 2 hours x

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"why is it when somebody messages you at the last minute asking for a meet but say you have to be there in about 10 minutes so you politely decline as you couldnt possibly get there in that time do they insist on messaging you later telling how good a time they had with somebody else i have had that 3 times this week does anybody else get the same type of messages?"

Behaviour like that takes immaturity to a new level

I bet they were really sat on their arses bored all night

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"i have had that 3 times this week does"

Considering the amount of threads from single guys complaining no meets / no replies to messages etc., etc., you obviously have something they don't have

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"i have had that 3 times this week does

Considering the amount of threads from single guys complaining no meets / no replies to messages etc., etc., you obviously have something they don't have "

Like an inbox that works

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"i have had that 3 times this week does

Considering the amount of threads from single guys complaining no meets / no replies to messages etc., etc., you obviously have something they don't have

Like an inbox that works "

I'd like one of them... I have 15 messages waiting for me and I can't get in!! Grrrrrrrrrrrr!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i have had that 3 times this week does

Considering the amount of threads from single guys complaining no meets / no replies to messages etc., etc., you obviously have something they don't have "

i guess i must have maybe its manners and my respect for other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is it when somebody messages you at the last minute asking for a meet but say you have to be there in about 10 minutes so you politely decline as you couldnt possibly get there in that time do they insist on messaging you later telling how good a time they had with somebody else i have had that 3 times this week does anybody else get the same type of messages?"

Thats always assuming it really happened for them. I think its very unreasonable to ask someone to meet you in ten minutes time. Were you being tested somehow? Seems unnecessarily arsey of them to me. Nobody needs to hear about others sexual encounters in this way its a bit ner ner ner ner ner. I'd give you a full 15 mins to get here...... LOL

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow


"i have had that 3 times this week does

Considering the amount of threads from single guys complaining no meets / no replies to messages etc., etc., you obviously have something they don't have

i guess i must have maybe its manners and my respect for other people "

Just to clarify, were the replies from males or females?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had a couple message me on two occasions wanting a meet that minute.

second time they sent a 'last chance' message.

sometimes you cannot just drop everything and meet on a minutes notice.

think they blocked me now like i give a shit anyway.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"i have had that 3 times this week does

Considering the amount of threads from single guys complaining no meets / no replies to messages etc., etc., you obviously have something they don't have "

A full collection of Belouis Some hit singles?

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

yes had many of them,its hard enough having a few wks notice to get a meet with us coz of sitters!Lol

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"A full collection of Belouis Some hit singles?"

Ha - you're really showing your age now, Mr SDM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i had six people asking for meets so hard to arrange them all , had to say no and just get my dvd's out instead , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have people mailing saying passing you on the way to a job 10 mins can i call in ........ I like to look my best on meet shower .. bath and hair nails make-up smell lovely and if i am just coming back from horses not easy in 10 mins , lol i like 1/ 2 hours x"

i am in winchester , it will take me 4 hours to you is that enough time if i leave now miss , xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have people mailing saying passing you on the way to a job 10 mins can i call in ........ I like to look my best on meet shower .. bath and hair nails make-up smell lovely and if i am just coming back from horses not easy in 10 mins , lol i like 1/ 2 hours x

i am in winchester , it will take me 4 hours to you is that enough time if i leave now miss , xx "
lol yes i could be ready x

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore


"yes had many of them,its hard enough having a few wks notice to get a meet with us coz of sitters!Lol"

yep and even at that in that time kids can get sick,fall of bike/wall/chair break a bone,or worst of all just wont settle for the sitter,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to short notice is just as bad as the ones who keep you waiting for a meet and fobbing you off with excuses.

blocked and blocked.

wasters.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to short notice is just as bad as the ones who keep you waiting for a meet and fobbing you off with excuses.

blocked and blocked.

wasters."

We have to plan ahead as we only get to "play" at weekends and then not all of those. The number of times I'm on here and people send a message saying D'ya fance coming round, even though our profile clearly states that we can only get out weekend evenings. Sometimes we have to ask single guys to wait but we're not fobbing them off just have more contacts than time unfortunately.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"A full collection of Belouis Some hit singles?

Ha - you're really showing your age now, Mr SDM "

Trying to be subtle....

(it won't last)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find it really annoying when people message me sayin "are you free now" sometimes they sound really nice etc but i cant just drop everything at the drop of a hat

if I have the available for a meet icon, yes by all means do it but other wise nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i find it really annoying when people message me sayin "are you free now" sometimes they sound really nice etc but i cant just drop everything at the drop of a hat

if I have the available for a meet icon, yes by all means do it but other wise nope"

Oooooh...where have you been hiding? Your avatar always makes me smile!

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